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Family / Re: A Frustrated Woman by Acheron: 7:03am On Oct 26, 2016
Ujoan:


What if it's a girl and looks like her mother? ? undecided
Madam, gender doesn't matter.
Health / Re: How I Finally Cured My Premature expulsion & Weak Attention Embrassment by Acheron: 11:36am On Oct 25, 2016
If you cannot tell us how here or name your product, then don't disturb us.
Family / Re: A Frustrated Woman by Acheron: 9:56am On Oct 25, 2016
Maaamaaa,

The guy will come to his senses when that baby is finally born, trust me. For now, just stay healthy and try your best possible to be a good woman and wife to him.

I can bet it with anything that things will return to normalcy when the baby is here. That baby will draw you both together especially if the baby turns out to be a boy and a replica of him. I've seen this happen before.

That baby needs you to be strong right now. This shall pass.

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Family / Re: We Created This App (Teseem) To Teach Kids English,hausa,yoruba And Igbo Words by Acheron: 9:39pm On Oct 24, 2016
Nice one Lizzies.
Family / Re: Please Help, I'm About To Be Homeless! by Acheron: 11:54am On Oct 20, 2016
Dyt:


You are stingy
angry angry
There's recession baby
Family / Re: Please Help, I'm About To Be Homeless! by Acheron: 9:33am On Oct 20, 2016
Dyt:


Acheron
Abeg gimme the $50 on top
She would do for $700 for you


Lol you're too money conscious dyt. That's over 20k just like that o
Family / Re: Please Help, I'm About To Be Homeless! by Acheron: 9:31am On Oct 20, 2016
ifyalways:

What I do?
3 months KK is $1000 pere for my side. Not ready to speak plenty grammar when awon hustlers disappear on arriving Dubai though the usual cost is $700 but will they come back?

Dyt, no more stories from London? cheesy Mention me when e shele sha. cheesy
The guy involved is a bit desperate. What he want is a working visa but I promised I can help him get 3months. Personally, I do just two weeks.

I believe he should be able to get a job and extend his stay legally though. $700, game?
Family / Re: Please Help, I'm About To Be Homeless! by Acheron: 9:40pm On Oct 19, 2016
Dyt:


For now
I have put a hold on my long term visas
Different stories about Dubai and Nigerians
Make I no go collect money no get am

Ifyalways

Eh yah. I already replied your PM before seeing this. I know it's tough too now sha. No problem.
Family / Re: Please Help, I'm About To Be Homeless! by Acheron: 9:30pm On Oct 19, 2016
Dyt:


Right away
Fian
*sends pm*
You said 750dollz na shey?
Family / Re: Please Help, I'm About To Be Homeless! by Acheron: 9:26pm On Oct 19, 2016
Dyt:


Hahahaha
How person wan take wash am an him go remain

cheesy
I got business for you. Holla
Romance / Re: . by Acheron: 6:37pm On Oct 19, 2016
HIScraziness:



You gat to wear a tongue cover if you ever wonna eat up a naija girl
Don't generalize bro. There are girls with fresh, clean-shaven and nice smelling jajaina in 9jeria.
Romance / Re: . by Acheron: 6:32pm On Oct 19, 2016
Size don't matter.

Moreover, he's got fingers and tongue to complement that tiny wily-wily. grin. If he knows how to use his fingers and tongue well, he'd take any woman to "fantasyland".
Family / Re: What Will You Like To Try In Your Next Life by Acheron: 11:01pm On Oct 16, 2016
Mindfulness:


You are VERY welcome! smiley

Keep me updated, pls. wink
I will

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Family / Re: What Will You Like To Try In Your Next Life by Acheron: 10:52pm On Oct 16, 2016
Mindfulness:


I feel that you will but you have to know that you don't achieve it like a college degree that you get to keep after your final exams. On some days you lose it and then you reach for it and find it again. It's just that with meditation you will feel more secure at maintaining it because you will know how.
Thank you, Mindy.

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Family / Re: What Will You Like To Try In Your Next Life by Acheron: 10:40pm On Oct 16, 2016
Mindfulness:


I have always been what people call a positive and optimistic person until I lost a loved one in tragic circumstances and completely unexpected. From then on, life took a turn for the worse. I wasn't feeling suicidal but I wasn't eager to stay alive either. My whole world was breaking apart. This is where my spiritual journey started. I was reading huge piles of books from around the world and I discovered that all books that resonated with me mentioned meditation. I tried it but didn't take it very seriously at the beginning. I meditated every now and then until I discovered that I shouldn't meditate to accomplish something but to enjoy the silence, the calmness, and at times contentment that comes with it. Then I decided to do it every day, to make time out for it, 15-20 minutes. And with time I noticed the changes. I became more peaceful, more mindful, more focused, stronger and happier. I also noticed that it helps me choose the direction of my thoughts from negative thinking to a more positive outlook. I stopped worrying about things that are beyond my control and learned to relax faster after stressful days. Today I consider myself to be one of the happiest people in the world. Not because I never have problems to solve but because I have more power and energy to cope with life's challenges. I feel deeply connected to the stream of life and what people call soul, the spirit that you can feel when you focus on your breathing and that you encounter beyond the obsessive stream of thought. I am not religious as I used to be but I am on a spiritual journey and it is a beautiful experience.
I hope to achieve all that too.. and soon.
Family / Re: What Will You Like To Try In Your Next Life by Acheron: 10:16pm On Oct 16, 2016
Mindfulness:


I agree with your cousin wholeheartedly.



Meditation is a very simple but effective way to achieve it.
What led you into meditation and personally, how has it helped you?
Family / Re: What Will You Like To Try In Your Next Life by Acheron: 10:03pm On Oct 16, 2016
Mindfulness:


OK. I hope you will let me know. smiley

Why are you interested at all?
I once caught my cousin in the act. I asked him what he was doing and why he does it, I can't remember what he said verbatim but I remember him saying meditation has helped him become more peaceful, attentive, appreciative and understanding the power of his own mind. I never asked him "how he does it".

Why am I interested? I want Peace of mind.

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Family / Re: What Will You Like To Try In Your Next Life by Acheron: 9:46pm On Oct 16, 2016
Mindfulness:


Your goal is to quiet your mind, to stop the (obsessive) stream of thoughts. It's only possible for a few seconds at the beginning stages.
So sit down in a quiet place where you won't be disturbed. Wear comfortable clothes, set the alarm for 15 minutes and close your eyes. It's important that you feel comfortable. Breath in and out. Try to let go off your thoughts by focusing on your breathing. Your mind will wander off again and again. It's ok. The moment you notice it, focus on your breathing again. Then your mind will wander off again. Don't beat up on yourself, just be happy that you caught yourself thinking again and focus on your breathing. It will repeat itself until your alarm rings. Very normal. It's not possible not to think for 15minutes but it will get better with time. The thought free moments will become longer and longer and you will learn to control the direction of your thoughts, concentrate better and re-energize. You will feel more relaxed and stronger. It's best to do it every day because through meditation you connect with a deeper level of your soul. There is a lot of power in silence.

Enjoy! Don't make hard work out of it. Play with it and enjoy. smiley

I will give it a try tomorrow and see how it goes. Thanks
Family / Re: What Will You Like To Try In Your Next Life by Acheron: 9:13pm On Oct 16, 2016
Mindfulness:


I wanted to tell you to meditate initially but most people don't listen to me so I have given up on telling them to. undecided
Sit comfortably in an armchair or on your sofa and make sure nobody disturbs you. You can also do it outside in nature where it's quiet but considering this time of the year, it would be too cold when it has to be cosy and comfy. Set your alarm clock for 15 minutes, close your eyes and quiet your mind. It will wander off and that's normal. The moment you catch your mind thinking, you concentrate on your breathing again. You will feel refreshed afterwards and more peaceful. It's re-energizing. I do it every day. It has changed my life in a beautiful way.

Option 2:

Make a one-day plan. Decide on the minimum of what you want to get done. Anything else is an extra. Start small small. Huge amounts of worrk are overwhelming and dismotivating. But once you decide on the minimum and the time when you will start, you just start without allowing yourself to think of whether to start or not. You tell yourself. It's just a little I have to do and you do it. Once you get the flow going, it will be easier.

Create a nice atmosphere in the room you work. Get a nice cup of tea. Also remember what inspired you to do those things. Remembering the inspiration will help. kiss
Teach me the bolded. Do you mean I should not allow my mind to wander? How can I tell that I'm doing it right?

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Romance / Re: Would This Be A Wrong Move To Let Her Go? by Acheron: 11:41am On Oct 14, 2016
Who believes this cöck and bull story. How would you deflower a girl without you knowing? You think say na easy job? So you just "shook" and it went in just like that and you think you deflowered her? Smh. Guy, she was probably menstruating.

Don't be naive. You didn't "disvirgin" her.

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Education / Re: Are You A University or Polytechnic student? Exchange your old notes for CASH by Acheron: 10:07am On Oct 14, 2016
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Education / Re: Osun State University (UNIOSUN ) 2016/2017 Post UTME /admission Thread by Acheron: 9:33am On Oct 13, 2016
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Education / Re: 2016/2017 Obafemi Awolowo University Aspirant by Acheron: 9:32am On Oct 13, 2016
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Education / Re: 2016/2017 Uniben Admission Thread Guide. by Acheron: 9:31am On Oct 13, 2016
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Education / Re: Are You A University or Polytechnic student? Exchange your old notes for CASH by Acheron: 3:05pm On Oct 11, 2016
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Education / Re: 2016/2017 Uniben Admission Thread Guide. by Acheron: 9:18am On Oct 11, 2016
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Education / Re: Are You A University or Polytechnic student? Exchange your old notes for CASH by Acheron: 3:25pm On Oct 10, 2016
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Education / Re: Are You A University or Polytechnic student? Exchange your old notes for CASH by Acheron: 12:12pm On Oct 10, 2016
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