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No 3 is a big no no for me.

Prayers should not take more than 5 minutes. And it should be done in a matured and respectable way.
No need repeating yourself over and over all in the name of praying long and hard.

You go India go post for keke.
But when you come back I hope u go post for naija keke.

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kastonkastrol:
snapping a picture with some APCs doesn't translate into anything.. Show us a single personnel carrier that is been use in fighting boko haram in the north east. You people can only deceive gullible folks like yourselves.

My friend
Those APCS are real and have saved a lots of our solders life's including my own. Yes we are using them and yes they are made in Nigeria by innoson motors.. not many people know this but most of our battle gears are made in Nigeria.

Pls stop undermining this great country of ours. We are stronger and advanced than you think...

Stop underestimating and insulting our nation just because you have and issues with the present government...

Pray for us.
We need your support as we end boko haram

Some people can be foliish o.

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stepo707:
@op where are you located now...i might know how to help you

Calabar

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softysparky:
She is old and fragile and you still want to end it all, who will then take care of her

End it all by becoming emotionally dead.

Op respect yourself o.

Why are you breaking the brothers code?

Why are you woman wrappering?

Why expose our secrets hey?

Lady's pls don't mind the op. He is high on solution

Nne I ruff yooo are ruffing me back?

Used to finger the girls beside me during class hours...

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Neplusultra:
Omg!! Is dis forreal?!?!

Yes

When I was Younger, I used no1 to my advantage so much

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CHM11:
Best post I've read here on nairaland in a long time.
I didn't condemn the entire igbo race brother. Just saying what I've noticed with the lot of them that I have lived with in the past.
Thanks for your mature story and take my depest sympathy for your loss. May God give you the grace and energy to continue in the line of duty safely.
Regards.

Remain Blessed

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CHM11:
Dear OP, please leave igbos alone if you are not igbo. Let them keep marrying themselves, its better for them.

I just pity peeps who date igbos!!,..especially igbos who live or have lived in the east...how do you cope with them??

Had to live amongst some east-based igbo guys and ladies during my NYSC..... Worst experience of my life....
Its worse that when they are told they are hard to understand, they all fall back to insulting in their local dialect.. You will hear things like ewu, anuofia etc...proving my point again....

igbo ndị karịsịa ndị na-dabeere nọ n'ebe ọwụwa anyanwụ dị
nnọọ na-akpa ọchị ndị mmadụ. Ha anaghị akpa àgwà ka
nkịtị mmadụ. Ndị njem dị anya ma obosara ịmụta na-akpa
àgwà dị mma ma ndị na-ahụ n'ebe ọwụwa anyanwụ bụ nanị
larịị na ụmụ anụmanụ. Onye ọ bụla na-anaghị amasị nwere
ike iji kacha nso eriri ka kpọgidere ya onwe ya. na-akpa ọchị
ndị mmadụ.

Plenty tongue out!!!!

So because of bad experience in the hands of 5,or more igbos you are condemning the whole tribe?

Let me tell you a story
In the jos 2002 crisis, I took my younger brothers and my girlfriend at that time to my BEST FRIEND place for protection and so on. As I go about looking for a way to get a transport for my mother and sisters.

When I went back for them, danladi my best friend for 10 years together with his father and some other people have killed my younger brothers and my ugomma I leave to tell this story because by the special grace of God. He intervened few minutes before the killed me..

Even after what happened, I don't see an Hausa person as a bad person until he gives me reasons too.

Danladi choose to kill my loved once. It was his choice. An individual choice. And not an Hausa thing. Even now in battlefield in borno my partner in our division is an Hausa guy and I trust him with my life.

Having bad experience in the hands of few igbo men or women is not a good reason to condem an entire tribe.

I am an igbo guy.

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sleekangel85:
My cousin dated this anambra Guy for 6 yrs,she dated d guy wen he had nothing,yet she was still with him only for this guy to get money he told my cousin dat "my mother said I shud marry from my tribe".meanwhile he claimed he loved her.y didn't he define d relationship from d onset instead of wasting her time. Come to think of it y will a Man not be able to make his own choice nd decisions for a life partner,I believe he knows nd understands her better than his mother does to know if she'll make a good life partner.it's high time grown up men not boys or babies speak for themselves.Any man who does this kind of thing will face God's punishment for life.

A Yoruba guy dated my blood sister for 15 years only for him to wake up one morning and remember that he promised his late father to marry from there tribe. My sister was 35 years old then but did we see it as a Yoruba thing? The answer is NO. It was an individual thing.

As God is my witness 6 of my cousins married outside our tribes and it was not a big deal. My elder brother married from edo and it is still not a big deal. If the flesh of my flesh is an Hausa girl I will marry her...

As I said earlier it is an individual thing

Am from anambra state.

When a Yoruba or hausa person marries within their tribe it is a normal thing.

But when an igbo person does the same, it becomes a national issues

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bigfrancis21:
Igbo bashing has become quite a common thing in Nigeria such that it has become normal to bash Igbo on every single thing, even on things that are meaningless.

You created this thread to ask why Igbo prefer to marry from their tribe. Are you really serious? This is a question you opened this thread for looking for 'answers'? Would you have opened this very thread in the first place had a Yoruba or Hausa guy been the one who preferred to marry from their tribe? Yes or No? Why would a Yoruba parent reject a non-yoruba suitor, and that will not be an issue. In fact, such action is justified. A Hausa parent will do the same and no dust will be raised about it. But when an Igbo parent does the same, then its a big deal. It is a serious issue that calls for serious attention and criticism, then you begin to get tags like ''Igbos are 'tribalistic'', 'they are 'selfish'', it is an 'Igbo problem' e.t.c. Minor issues that aren't issues when done by other tribes become a serious issue when Igbo is involved.

I look around me, majority Ibibios marry within the Ibibio tribe, majority Hausas marry within Hausa, Yoruba within Yoruba, why should the Igbo marrying within themselves even be a question in the first place? Despite the level of inter marriage between whites and blacks here in the US, majority whites marry within whites, chinese within chinese, blacks within blacks, and you're going to sit there and tell me that it is a problem when Igbos prefer to marry Igbos?? Like seriously??

I get your point about love being the most important factor between 2 people from different tribes and there are marriages between Igbo men and non-Igbo women however majority Igbos don't need to look outside for love when they can find it within themselves. The same love you mentioned as important, Igbo men get it from within the tribe. Why look outside? What about culture preservation and values? Why should Igbo preferring to marry from within even be an issue in the first place when other tribes are doing the same? Is the creation of this thread even justified in the first place?

Tomorrow you're going to open another thread asking 'Why do Igbo people speak Igbo?' Like seriously??

May you live longer and prosperous than your forefathers.

Op if no1 is true then a lot of people including me and you are in a very big trouble

We on the battlefield salute u.

Your death and that of our fallen brothers shall not be in vain..

If she is my wife and pregnant then nothing is wrong with it.

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sweetcocoa:
Then you know little about the kind of women an alpha male is attracted to.

I suggest you read more on what it
means for someone to be irresistible.

Or wait o, you think an alpha male dates just any woman? You have to have something he admires and respects alot, you have to be challenging to be able to hold his attention. Dude, you still dey learn o.

Yes you must have an exceptional quality for an alpha male to come for you. But on less he is in love with you,, your qualities are nothing to him but a standard of dating

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sweetcocoa:
Duh! I don't know you dude,I have been with one and I currently am with 1.

I have something that the men find irresistible, it attracts them.

Irresistible.? In your dreams
If so then he is not an alpha male. An alpha male don't find anyone irresistible, it is the opposite way round.

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sweetcocoa:
Take a guess.

I was the experience?

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sweetcocoa:
Someone.

Btw,I meant alpha males are my kinda guys, not you specifically.

Have u met an alpha male before?

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sweetcocoa:
My kind of guys.

Na who be this?

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Crixina:
really?

Tell me more

Sorry can't

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Penboy:
EH... Animal what??
Abeg, I no do again oo.
Thank you very much.

As I said u can't understand.
When a woman says a man is an animal in a sensual way. Ask her what she means.

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Rajjah:
U av much s*xual urge or u re too handsome?

Both and more.
There's this thing about me that makes a woman want to reap off my clothes and go crazy

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Penboy:
Please oo.. Tell me jare.
I gat to move my ministry too o

Guy it is an animalistic thing that only an alpha male possess.

Op if this is your pickup lines then you are still a learner

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Penboy:
Hahahaha.. See this bobo o!
Who are you??
Dangote's son?
C.ronaldo's younger brother?


Funny bros

If only you know.

Op I don't do any of those things. But 90% of the girls I meet believed I will cheat on them...

they take one look at me and conclude that one woman can not have me for herself

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Samyj247:
no worry, I go do am next week, but make u do as if u no no wetin de sup o

Ok