₦airaland Forum

Kindered:
everyday, 247, I'll always prefer Davido to this stingy noun.

Focus on your life and leave successful people alone.

Peace✌️

Just before you give up (2), by Gabriel agbo


Some of the bitter experiences you will have at the verge of your breakthrough are betrayal, envy, injustice and abandonment. And if indeed you have a great destiny, you must go through all these and more before your miracle. True. You cannot escape it. And the worst is that most of them will come from unexpected quarters. But if you can stand your ground, remain focused and wriggle out of them successfully, then you will surely have your testimony. 

Please, mark my choice of words here – stand your ground (unbreakable), remain focused (not be distracted), wriggle out (manage to escape). As I said, there is no great destiny that will not pass through these ‘checks’. 

Look at Joseph, God had shown him that he would be a very great man. Yes, he heard God clearly. And his father and brothers also knew that something big was coming through him, but nobody (not even God) told the young boy that he would go through ‘hell’ before seeing the realisation of those dreams. And I am sure that if they had, he would have to get involved in refusing the project. 

Have you realised that God, most times, does not give out all the details of an assignment, especially the pain, the trial and the challenges that must come with it? 

He may tell you the glamorous and glorious, but not the very dark, extremely dangerous and discouraging paths. Yes, I believe if he does, most people will refuse the assignment. Are you following? Now, this explains why most people, including very great men of God (and even Jesus) would come to a point where they would be tempted to abandon the vision. Do you feel abandoned now?

Nobody told Joseph that his beautiful divine dreams, gifts, his coat of many colours, the love from his father and his total commitment to righteousness would land him in a pit without water, in Potiphar’s house as a slave and later in an underground dark prison – dungeon. 

Nobody!  He was going to find that out by himself. The envy of his brother threw him into the pit, the false accusations of his boss and the wife landed his in the jail where the betrayal of the palace cup bearer prolonged and abandoned for many years. But God was still secretly, meticulously, consistently manipulating and manoeuvring all these events to bring his vision to pass. Yes, you cannot destroy a man of dreams! 

The most touching to me was his words to the cup-bearer before he left: “And please remember me and do me a favour when things go well for you. Mention me to Pharaoh, so he might let me out of this place.  For I was kidnapped from my homeland, the land of the Hebrews, and now I’m here in prison, but I did nothing to deserve it.’… Pharaoh’s chief cup-bearer, however, forgot all about Joseph, never giving him another thought.” Genesis 40:14-5, 23. 

Those that trust in men will always live in regrets. Maybe like Joseph, those that you helped in the past have also forgotten you or are currently repaying you with evil. Please relax; it is part of your promotion package.     

Jews

The Jews (old, young, women, and children) in Susa had already given up when heaven initiated one of the most complex deliverances ever conducted on earth. They were condemned to death and a date – March 7 was fixed for their execution and confiscation of all their properties. 


But the whole council of heaven went to work – from personal messages to the queen, to organising a special royal party, to implicating and hanging the enemy and to completely annulling the death decree and enacting a favourable one for the Jews. Certain death was transmuted into life. Yes, I believe some of these records still inspire the current secret, dreaded and invincible defenders of Israel, especially the Mossad activities. Please, don’t give up. Your deliverance is coming. The plan is already on.

Jesus nearly threw in the towel on the cross when he asked if the sufferings, pains, accusations, shame, betrayal, abandonment could be taken away from him. In fact, at that point he was already extremely tired, heavily wounded, profusely bleeding and completely abandoned. 

The only people – Mary and John, that came a bit close, stayed far away to watch him groan in crushing pain. Yes, hanging on the cross that day was the eve, the verge of the miracle of saving the whole world and any mistake would have messed up the whole salvation project. He was hanging between heaven and earth, God and man, judgment and mercy, past and present, life and death, failure and breakthrough. He quickly remembered all that had been put into the project and decided to hang on. 

Get my books/audiobooks The Power of Midnight Prayer: Unlocking spiritual forces for divine intervention and Power of Sacrifice on Amazon and other platforms to read more on this. And after all, Jesus became victorious and won the eternal crown of the King of kings and Lord of lords! The bible said that those that endure till the end will wear the crown. What are you going through now? You are just at the verge of your breakthrough. Just hang on. Don’t give up! There is a crown waiting for you! Success come to those who persist. Be a persistent person and ride through the odds no matter how tough it might be. With continuous faith we will surmount any obstacles on our path to greatness and we will win our desired prize.
I admonished us to be focused, persistent, workhard and keep believing on our dreams then the grace of God will back us up to achieve our great destiny IJN amen 🙏 .

Have a blessed day and fruitful week as we go out to chase and engage in our various endeavours that will shift us to our glorious destiny🙏🙏.

Hope to see you at the top👍👍.

Cum4me:
Anytime the first son is ready. Don't pressure first son they're passing through a lot.

You're really funny o. So the whole family should be waiting until the first son is ready before they can share their father's inheritance?

Let me make it clear for you. It's their father's inheritance not the first son's inheritance, and nobody will be waiting for him to decide that at his own convenience. Every other siblings has pressing needs to attend to. So the younger siblings can call for the meeting so they can do that, the time is very right.

The inheritance belongs to our daddy not the first son.

bmd1010:
they leaving the planet bit by bit age is our greatest enemy

No, age is our greatest blessing from God (psalm 90:12 ). Learn to use it wisely to fulfill your God-given purpose on earth before your time comes.

Samantha125:
Some women are just too nice and innocent... If it was me, I'd neither confront the husband, the side chick, or post it online... But I'd instead sit down and play a game of chess and by the time I say checkmate, I'd make sure that he's getting admitted into psychiatric hospital while I play the role of a concerned wife... He'd think his village people are after him...

Are you a daughter of jezebel?

Bahamas95:
Another issue with these greedy landlords is that they also ask tenants to pay caution fee.

The annoying thing is that they don't ever refund your money when you're moving outta the apartment and you didn't damage anything. They must look for one senseless excuse to make you part with the caution fee.

You're right on that. I think we need a strong law enforcement that will organise the business and curb the excesses of those landlords.

isyourboy:
Before this started, I didn’t ask him to do this for me. He was the one that promised he will be sending something to me every month when my sister told him I was unemployed that time.

And even some months you have to message him before he sends this money. How wicked can that be?

I don't get angry with people that fail to fulfil their promise to me, I shift focus to another alternative and move on. Infact when i see them next time i greet them like nothing ever happened.

That's the best way to live and avoid hating and insulting people.

SisterAnn:
Well, I'm a woman and I have an opinion on this.


My only regret is putting all my cards on the table from the beginning. Nobody should put all their cards on the table no matter the relationship.

What do you really mean when you talk about putting your card in one table??

Caaz:
Stop spinning the narratives...the question here is....you dey owe abii you nor dey owe?


Maybe we should liken this same narrative with that girl that collected 40k from emmanuel,and failed to show up,prompting emmanuel to seek for legal redress
And she ending up paying 400k to emmanuel.

If you do this kind of thing to me I'll just tell you to remove your 4k only.

JoeRizzla:
Trust me, the girl is a smoker, and probably takes other hard substance too

Well when she's done hœing and smoking around with different niggaz she's gonna humble herself, find a church nearby, act godly so that she find a innocent man to lock down after being wrecked. They know what they are doing lol

Time will tell

Exactly, time will tell.

Small girl trying to feel among by destroying her life all in the name of money.

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

Am not surprised when burnaboy criticise the idea of getting married to a Nigerian woman. The load and entitlement mentality that comes with it is really alarming. No wonder most men die quick.

If you need money go and work, nobody owe you anything.

Bahamas95:
All states in Nigeria should do same, the wickedness in the land is too much.



I know of a landlord that collects agent fee, even if na you use your two left legs find house go he compound he go still collect agent fee and one bottle of Campari.

He's nicknamed Mr. Campari in the street.

That's thesame issue we face here in kano . Here the major problem is the landlords, they collect commission and tell the agent to go and meet the person that collected the house to settle them.

I've quarrelled with so many landlords because of this and I don't rent their houses to my clients.

Samantha125:
There are different strokes for different folks... I've also only preferred men from certain tribes compared to the others... In fact, I've never dated men from my tribe before.

I have no issues with them and Lord knows that I love and appreciate my Pedi brothers all the time, but I've only always found myself being attracted to these other tribes.

I think that's your choice, and there's no problem with that.

I think thesame way too.

oluwaseyi0:
Keep deceiving yourself

Top 5 out of 10 richest pastor are Nigerians
Before death the GO ensure his kids are groomed to take over the 'vanity billion naira' church from him

If you understand mattew 6:33 you won't be saying all this things.

This men served their way into prosperity 🙌

hatchy:
Throwback pictures of Yoruba pastors....
Where is Uma Upkai, Bishop Okonkwo etc.
Una tribalism stink to the sky.

President of the West side have made it worse. OTP!

Don't ban me and delete my post. I am here to speak the truth that most of you run away from.

This are ministers of God appointed and called by himself, not your regular APC and PDP politicians that are voted and elected on the basis of tribe and religion.

Mabuggi88:
Ya from the post he's Oyedepo, but from close look the person being pointed at looks more like him now

He's the one pointing the fingers 👉

Therock5555:
Well it's called, eating your cake and having to get it back ...

Unfortunately you can't get it back.

akaahs:
Did the late buhari serve nigeria for free that he giving a national burial honour?
U ll be domy if u think they arent serve d country in the same capacity

Sometimes I wonder how people reason.

Somebody will just sit down and support irresponsibility from government.

Some people are really heartless oh

johnmartus:
Taribo should stop talking nonsense none of you play for Nigeria for free and you forget the opportunity it was created for you in outside Nigeria?

Don't be ingrate many of your mates were disappointed when you were narrowly picked to play for Nigeria.

How do you reason for God sake?

Is that a justifiable reason why Nigeria government will not honour their late heroes or tender help to them when they're in need?? Somebody is speaking 🔊 truth to power and you said he should stop talking nonsense.

Most of the promises been made by govt during their time where not fulfilled, like match bonus, house and cash gift etc. Stephen keshi period suffered this issue. And after all this years of faithful service they'll not honour them but ignore them in their dying time of need.

You really lack empathy o.

And what do you mean when you said they played for Nigeria for free?

Therock5555:
Dude imagine you're walking through a chocolate factory, you're free to taste any and everyone without anybody stopping you. You might wanna search for the best chocolate but greed no go allow you see road, you go wan taste taste up and down, next moment your belly wan burst and you never see the right chocolate wey you fancy, not because others weren't sweet but because your choice is almost bottomless (until your belly wan blow).


I'm sure you know this story ain't about chocolates😁😁😁

I understand the example clearly. But is foolishness and greediness that will make someone think she can taste every chocolate before getting the right one, knowing fully well the effects of each tasted chocolate to the body system.

The point is, If we are concerned about the consequences of our actions we won't be making anyhow choices or decisions.

DoctorStanley:
She tried severally to do it privately but his mumu response was that he didn't know her. A woman you've never met will suddenly be saying she has your baby - and the baby looks suspiciously like you!

Google it, she needn't come to Nigeria to do DNA. What if she comes and he uses connections to kpai her??

It's well o.

They should just look for a better way to sort the issue instead of this online embarrassment.

Therock5555:
Even the most ugliest women have atleast 2 toasters per day... And you say women are going through a lot.

As how, all they have to do is make a choice and stick by it but No...


They have alhaji for steady billings.


Tunde for steady clubbing and outings


Francis takes them shopping


James flies them all over the world for vacation


Mathew is ready to put a ring on her finger



Lemme not talk too much.... Most of them eat their cakes and hope to have it later on.....

Exactly 💯....... most women go through a lot because they choose to go through a lot, and because of their big eye for material things from different men. Always making decisions haphazardly because they hardly think before making decisions, and when it fails they look for someone to blame.

post=136524475:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2025/08/20/veteran-nollywood-actor-fabian-adibe-dies-at-82/

I can remember him for his calm nature and slow speaking.

Rest in peace legend 🙏

Life is measured in time.

DoctorStanley:
Plenty he did wrong. Said all sorts of things, even said he didn't know the woman. DNA test can be done anywhere. This is a matter money could have nipped in the bud - and he says money na water!

You have still not answer my question o.

Do you want him to agree to somebody he doesn't know? You are not their friend so you can't say he's lying.

Secondly you said DNA can be done anywhere, fine he said come to Nigeria let's do the test she refused. Or is Nigeria not a place?

Abi na the money na water wey him talk na him dey vex you?

I don't support unruly behaviour, if you want to get a man's attention you think is by insulting him online and telling the whole world how he slept with you?

That lady has no shame with the kind of things she has been saying lately.

alphonsojaybaz:
https://eyesoflagos.com/lagos-government-responds-to-pellers-%e2%82%a636m-tax-complaint-all-income-earners-must-pay/

So govt also tax content creators/ online influences too

Am just realising it o

MistyDense:
You don't judge people by your own standards na. You do it doesn't mean others do same.

Your post shows you must have gotten close contact with a man's semen.

It's simple logic.

DoctorStanley:
And no responsible babydaddy will behave like the fat guy

What did he do wrong that you're faulting him? He told her to come over to Nigeria for DNA test but she refused, only to go online and rain insults on him.

What exactly do you want him to do again after all this?

Chujor1634:
My kid sis got married on the 16th of August in Eleme LGA of Rivers State.

I still look at the decor and I’m so amazed at the work of art displayed.

Rate it guys

It looks beautiful.

But the most important thing is for the couples to stay glued to the principles of marriage. Congratulations to them 👏

Alexrobinson:
Bros dey reason another mater,country hard
Abi e no reach ur side😁😁😁

Hahahahahhaahaha

SmartPolician:
Congratulations to the ladies. I don't understand why sane people would criticise such gestures. They have made the country proud and should be rewarded.

If you don't reward them, politicians who don't add any value will still loot the money anyways. Now, which is better?

Am telling you. They've made us proud 👏 so they deserve to be rewarded handsomely.

[quote author=Prec1ous post=136316428][/quote]What a fireful🔥 word of motivation. Only those that are on their way to success and those that have achieved success will really cherish and understand this words.

Kudos to the writer 👏