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TravelRe: Things My Eyes Saw In Dubai (part 1 by achimendy(m): 5:05pm On Apr 29, 2025
InDiscov500:
Things My Eyes Saw In Dubai (Part One)

If any of your sister tell you she is going to Dubai ensure to vet her thoroughly, also; if a lady or any friend of her who lives there and is flashing luxury is the one taking her to Dubai just know your sister is going to suffer there and i will explain;

Most of these vvomen that are already in Dubai get paid by rich arab men to traffik girls to Dubai for them, most times through their personal assistants and the vvoman or girl will fly down to Nigeria to look for who to deceive claiming she wants to help her leave Nigeria and the jakpa syndrome is killing many especially our youths and anyone that gets the opportunity of being taken out of Nigeria doesn't think twice about the offer and jumps on it without thinking or asking questions, believe indiscov;

When she succeeds in taking her to Dubai next is to link her up with the Arab man's personal assistant who will now expose her to luxury and then state their demands and if she refuses they will threaten her to pay back all they spent, Dubai is not like Nigeria and if she gets put in closed doors it's the end of road for her; she will be made a segx slave; before i dive into the full details, pay attention.

Most Nigerian girls and other African vvomen living in Dubai are doing slavery, majority of them are trafficked to that country, 95% of Nigerian girls in Dubai are doing prvstittvtion and worse is the horrible things they do to earn crumbs.

Most arab rich men are perverts, most them have dirty fantasies and i will explain,

The personal assistant to the rich Arab will spend lavishly on her by taking her out, she will shop anything she likes and at the end of the day she'll return and prepare herself for the arab man,

Most times she will be meeting one arab man whole sometimes she will meet up to 5 arab men and they will all take turns on her, some of the arabs will insert different objects into her kpekus, flog her, tie her up, gag her, all of them will ejaaaculate into her mouth, some will pipe her without rubbers, they mostly pooop 💩 into her mouth and force her to eat it and ofcourse what do you expect after they have spent 5,000 to 20,000 dollars on you to afford you all those expensive clothes and luxuries.

Some of the arab men will bring out their dog or lion and ask her to have segx with it, some of them will just film her and sell the video to dark webs where other rich men having fun will buy the video and watch it, the girl will be piped by the dog,

She will sus-ck the dog's preeq and do anything they asked with the dog and whenever they're done having fun they will leave and ask their assistants to see her then clean the mess, don't doubt indiscov this is fact, i have witnessed one myself through one of my friend who is from Dubai the last time i visited Dubai for my holiday, i was shocked.

Part 2 of things my eyes saw in Dubai will drop tomorrow so stay tuned, Kindly follow Indiscov for more and don't forget to share this post to create awareness for those our Nigerian sisters planning to relocate to Dubai, they're going there for prvstittvtion, there's no good paying job there.

The only jobs you can do there is menial jobs, odd jobs that comes with obscene stress and you will earn less, they share bed space there unlike in Europe that you rent apartment and live only you, in Dubai up to 10 people stays in the same apartment and they share bed space, it's more like prison; this is why some of my clients that came to me for visa if any of them mentions Dubai i just tell them we don't do Visa to Dubai not because we don't but i can't send anyone's child to that country.

Don't allow any of your sister, daughter or niece to go to that country, anything Arab country isn't advisable because she is going there to suffer and believe me at the end of the day she may go into aashawo work fully, on the next part of this expository i am going to throw more light to things i saw and what is happening there.

Watch out for part2
Sermons over!
My bro just came back not too long from dubai, and what you're saying is no different from what he told me.

I've never liked any Arab country, even when my bro told me to come then I refused, their wickedness has no limit.
HealthRe: Sex Addiction: I Am Tired Of Infection by achimendy(m): 7:18pm On Apr 21, 2025
adeoyekay:
Self control is the only antidote for any addiction
Exactly 💯
HealthRe: Sex Addiction: I Am Tired Of Infection by achimendy(m): 4:48pm On Apr 18, 2025
ChildOfDoom:
I started womanizing to help me overcome my addiction of Betting.

It has helped to an extent as I spend majority of my time in a brothel, Eating, drinking, relaxing and fvcking (my mind leaves betting).

The issue now is that, since I started three years back, I have been treating one infection to another. Currently having skin reaction that brings out small inflammation and rashes on my body like my favourite olosho.

I can't help it. I have tried switching to drinking to take over womanizing, but it won't work.

Except I go back to betting (which is worse). In the past, I would sit all day in a bet9ja shop wasting away - gambling with my money, people's money and my belongings. Then I lose focus and don't work

But with womanizing, at least I get some pleasure, and get to use my money little by little. The rate at which it finishes is not as fast as betting.

The thought of having to choose between different bannies to lash at night keeps me motivated during the day to work harder for cash. Just the infection part as condom do burst at times while there are some I only do raw.

I know my lifespan is short, I just want to enjoy it with a sane mind and not fleeing from betting woes. My body is wired to do one addiction to stay placated/elated.

Having a girlfriend is scary. What if I invest a lot on just one girl and she cheats on me
Addiction is your problem

Self control is the solution

None of those things you're doing will help your life. Thank you.
CrimeRe: Heartbreaking Pictures Of Plateau Killings by achimendy(m): 8:53pm On Apr 14, 2025
Nackzy:
If you're from plateau and you vote tinubu again you're a big fool
No sensible person voted tinubu, they just manipulated the election results with inec to secure victory.
EducationRe: Mixed Reactions Trail Proposed 5-Year Jail Term For Exams Malpractice by achimendy(m): 1:48pm On Apr 13, 2025
fasmukol:
I am fully in support of this. We need to clean up our education system. Just that some people have gone away with it and the legislation wouldn't affect them in anyway.
You want the educational system to be cleaned up while the political system still remain unclean.

This same leaders trying to pass this bill will never allow such bill to be passed when it has to do with them. They carryout corrupt practices, loot public funds with immunity and disobey thesame law they swore to abide by and protect.

Who's deceiving who?
RomanceRe: “If You No Buy Kiss, You Go Buy Kisskid” — The Price Of Reckless Pleasure by achimendy(m): 1:37pm On Apr 13, 2025
Dpsychologist:
Chief I am not ignorant of anything. While I respect your spiritual beliefs, the reality is that people, regardless of religion or morality, continue to engage in sex outside of marriage. Telling them to avoid it completely hasn’t been effective for thousands of years and will still not be effective in the future, as evidenced by the ongoing rates of unintended pregnancies and STIs.

Using condoms is not just about preventing pregnancy; it’s about protecting health. The goal should be to reduce harm.

Whether or not someone chooses to follow religious teachings, we all live in a world where sexual activity happens outside of marriage(whether it's right or wrong doesn't matter), and providing people with practical ways to protect themselves is both responsible and necessary.

I have seen some religious advice that one shouldn't use Condom. So the ones who were reckless with sex end up getting STIs or unwanted pregnancy.

Ignoring the physical risks for the sake of spiritual beliefs does not change the fact that individuals need to be educated on how to stay safe. Using protection isn’t a rejection of spiritual values; it’s simply a logical step to protect one’s health in the real world.
Noted.
RomanceRe: “If You No Buy Kiss, You Go Buy Kisskid” — The Price Of Reckless Pleasure by achimendy(m): 6:11pm On Apr 11, 2025
Dpsychologist:
This has been said for over 2000s years but has it worked?

Youths still have sex so it's appropriate to tell them to use protection.
What do you mean by has it worked??

Secondly you're ignorant of the spiritual implications of sex, but only concerned about the physical aspect.
RomanceRe: “If You No Buy Kiss, You Go Buy Kisskid” — The Price Of Reckless Pleasure by achimendy(m): 4:17pm On Apr 11, 2025
Dpsychologist:
In the age of instant gratification and sexual freedom, one line cuts through the noise like a blade of truth:

"Better dey use condom make she no go carry belle born for you when you are not even married. If you no buy kiss use , you go end up buying KissKid."

Let that sink in.
Because behind the humour lies a serious truth — many young people today are living with the consequences of temporary pleasure.

The Rise of Casual Intimacy, The Fall of Personal Responsibility

Sex is easy. Cheap even. One look, one smile, one drink, one text, and it’s on.
But here's what most people forget: Sex is not just fun — it’s power. It’s potential. It’s responsibility.

Every time you unzip without protection, you’re playing Russian Roulette with your future:

Unplanned pregnancies.

STDs.

Broken dreams.

Lifelong financial pressure.

Emotional baggage.

Some of us joke about it—“Na just cruise.”
But what happens when the “cruise” leads to a child you’re not ready for, with someone you barely know, under circumstances you never planned?

You don’t just buy “Kiss” (pleasure), now you’re stuck with “KissKid” (a lifelong responsibility).
And in most cases, both lives are affected—the man, the woman, and most tragically, the innocent child.


Sex Without Sense is a Setup

Let’s talk facts:

Over 7 million unplanned pregnancies occur in Nigeria annually.

A majority happen among unmarried youths between 18-30.

Most of them were never ready—financially, emotionally, spiritually.

What does this lead to?

Abandoned children.

Single mothers struggling.

Men ducking responsibilities.

Increased poverty.

Broken homes before they ever formed.


And all this started with just “small enjoyment,” with no plan for the aftermath.


Condoms Are Not Just Rubber, They Are Wisdom

You wouldn’t drive a car without brakes.
You wouldn’t jump out of a plane without a parachute.
So why sleep with someone without protection?

Using a condom isn’t just about avoiding pregnancy — it’s about protecting your goals, your dreams, your health, your peace.
It’s about understanding that you’re not just playing — you’re planting. And every action today has a fruit tomorrow.


“But I Love Her…” or “She Said She’s Safe…”

Love does not erase consequences.
Lust never asks for permission.
And assumptions have ruined more lives than accidents.

Many guys trusted “she said she’s safe.”
Only to hear a few weeks later: “I’m late.”
Then what?

She’s crying.
You’re panicking.
Your plans are on hold.
And boom — adulthood hits you with a slap of reality.


The Real Men Plan Ahead

Real men protect:

Their future.

Their partner.

Their peace of mind.

It’s not “unromantic” to use a condom.
It’s unwise not to.

If you can’t handle the consequence, you shouldn’t engage in the act.
If you’re not ready for a baby, don’t act like a baby-maker.

Final Words: Enjoy With Wisdom or Regret Without Mercy

The next time the heat rises and your hormones scream louder than your logic, remember this line:

“If you no buy Kiss, you go buy KissKid.”

It’s not a joke.
It’s a warning.
It’s a mirror.
It’s your life.

Enjoy yourself, yes.
But enjoy with sense.
Because one moment of pleasure can cost you a lifetime of pressure.

Let's be guided. Country Hard.
If you want sex go and get married. Sex outside marriage is a sin.
TravelRe: Why Does Abroad Make people Look Fresh? by achimendy(m): 4:47pm On Apr 08, 2025
KnowledgePower7:
So enviroment dey affect skin color?? grin grin i no understand
You no no b4?
CrimeRe: I've Just Been Duped by achimendy(op): 3:04pm On Apr 07, 2025
Medici777:
hi. Please what’s your phone number?
Pls Why are you asking?
FamilyRe: Benefits Of Marrying A Virgin As A Married Man. by achimendy(m): 4:52pm On Apr 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Of course, you would not find it reasonable for anyone to point out that these delusions/fixations are likely to lead nowhere good if not immediately nipped in the bud. Your best bet is to make an appointment immediately with a professional mental health therapist or counselor, so you can rid yourself of what is clearly an unhealthy fixation. undecided
If you have no sensible advice to give the young man just keep quiet let others help him out.
PoliticsRe: Yoruba Group Rejects Bill Granting Indigene Rights Through Residency, Marriage by achimendy(m): 12:04pm On Mar 31, 2025
PressMyButton:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/yoruba-group-rejects-bill-granting-indigene-rights-through-residency-marriage/
This bill will only be good and possible if a nation has factors like unity, peace, love and selfless leaders.
PoliticsRe: Don’t Attack Non-indigenes Over Uromi Killings, Sanusi Tells Kano Youths by achimendy(m): 11:03am On Mar 31, 2025
CJStarz:
He was not yet an Emir during the Gideon Akaluka episode.
Or was he in support of that dastardly act?
Pls educate me further
He spearheaded it, organise mob that killed Gideon akaluka because of a torn piece of quran.

Abacha almost killed him for that but he ran away.
HealthRe: Can I Get Stroke At 30? by achimendy(m): 9:40pm On Mar 26, 2025
smartlad:
I woke up fine today and went about my hustle to survive, suddenly I can no longer use my left hand i feel numb and emptiness in my left hand, i cant use my left fingers or hold anything with the hand what is wrong with me. I am devastated.
Did you sleep on your left hand? Cos if you did you'll experience numbness in your hand as if is not working again. Try not to sleep on the hand again, exercise the hand to increase blood flow and also rest too. Too much lack of rest can result to stroke and unusual movement around the left arm and hand.

It happened to me sha. But Try and see your doctor.
Christianity EtcRe: Serving God In Church Department Yet Living In Immorality by achimendy(m): 12:47pm On Mar 24, 2025
Orinechi:
Was the mother of Jesus married to father. Remember Joseph is not her father. So, why did she wait until she got married to the supposed father of Jesus before he became pregnant?
You really need to see your doctor, you medical attention ASAP.
Christianity EtcRe: Serving God In Church Department Yet Living In Immorality by achimendy(m): 3:43pm On Mar 23, 2025
Orinechi:
Allow people to have sex in peace. The desire to have sex is innate which means that man is same with other animals that mate once the desire comes. Sex is not sinful. Is part of human reproductive make up.
Is that what the Bible told you about sex or you're just quoting your own doctrine??
Christianity EtcRe: No One Has Cheated The Church More Than The Music Industry - Pastor Chris by achimendy(m): 3:31pm On Mar 23, 2025
tamonokare:
What about pastors that use tithe and offering brought by poor members to buy private jets, build schools for the rich and move around with armed security while their members live in poverty, find it difficult to send their children to the school that was built with their own money.

Ever since Righthussle posted on Nairaland that "Whoever or whatever made the universe does not and will NEVER EVER EVER NEVER need your money for A N Y T H I N G whatsoever. Instead of giving your hard earned money to these thieves, use it to feed stray dogs on the street.", i stopped giving money to these thieves.

According to Righthussle,


Any human being who collects money/tithe/offering/first fruit or anything from other humans on behalf of the maker of the universe is a THIEF . You don't need a judge to tell you that.


Any human who gives money to another human with the mindset that he/she is giving money to the creator of the universe or any unseen entity is not only a big fool but a mad person.


Any man who tells you he works for the maker of the universe is a thief. He works for his stomach. He must one day come to tell you his "all-sufficient " god whom he works for needs your money. The being behind the existence of the universe is not a human like Dangote, Elon Musk or Tinubu that will need workers and money. Wise up
You're suffering from what I call gross ignorance. I pray God open your eyes and understanding to his principles.
CelebritiesRe: Chiwetalu Agu Turns 69 Today! by achimendy(m): 6:05pm On Mar 06, 2025
boxypane:
Adage Master
Leave that title for Pete edochie
BusinessRe: Man Has Refused To Return Money I Mistakenly Sent To Him -Bashir Ahmad Cries Out by achimendy(m): 9:59pm On Feb 18, 2025
Acekidc4:
🧐👀
Now he's blaming the system for not helping him out, when he was working with the former president which positive change did he bring to improve the system
SportsRe: Almost ₦2 Billion Per Month, Boniface Is Now In The League Of Obi Cubana by achimendy(m): 5:29pm On Jan 29, 2025
Freshtruth:
Only this guy 3weeks salary if i no carry escort make he no better for me




Obi cubana sef no feel make almost 2billion every month
Just see your mentality, so escort is your problem??
FamilyRe: Leave My Lovely Husband Alone – Woman Defends Her Husband After He Beat Her by achimendy(m): 9:35pm On Jan 27, 2025
Goodlady:
You must be another woman beater. God will judge you.
Judge me for what exactly??

The victim said you people should leave her lovely husband alone, or you don't understand English?
FamilyRe: Leave My Lovely Husband Alone – Woman Defends Her Husband After He Beat Her by achimendy(m): 9:32pm On Jan 27, 2025
Valwezzy:
I hope you'll mind yours when shiiit involves your sister(s) and loved ones — else, do me a favor, shut the f**k up and gedifok outta here.
Do you wan to cry more than the bereaved??

The victim said people like you should leave her lovely husband alone. Is it too hard for you to understand??
FamilyRe: Leave My Lovely Husband Alone – Woman Defends Her Husband After He Beat Her by achimendy(m): 3:12pm On Jan 26, 2025
Goodlady:
I was still on ban the day her first video came out. Look at this girl. Until a man kill you with beatings and maltreatment?
Man wey she suppose don carry go Human Rights Commission or Ministry of Women Affairs make dem use his case collect allocation from Tunubu.
If she end up with more suffering now na she cause am.
Men that are mostly scums.
Shut up Mrs human right and mind your business 🙊🙊
RomanceRe: Life As A Bachelor! by achimendy(m): 2:47pm On Jan 26, 2025
LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!
Help yourself and stop that masturbation, you're doing more harm than good to your health if you keep engaging in such act.
PoliticsRe: What The Six Geopolitical Zones Contributed To The VAT Pool And Received In 2024 by achimendy(m): 2:35pm On Jan 26, 2025
yashau:
https://x.com/thecableindex/status/1883074456685269242?t=i34QixkLl3T0gMDOIxxyzQ&s=19[/quote]That tax reform bill must be passed. I trust tinubu on this, enough of this cheating.
Christianity EtcRe: When God Shows Up by achimendy(m): 2:13pm On Jan 26, 2025
Olachase:
Since na Adam and Eve give birth to all of us

Na him be say

(Elon musk & Jeff Bezos) Are my uncles 😁

I think we need to stop all this rubbish stuff, half of what's in the bible and quran is just a write up story

Please live your life to the fullest till the day you pass out

If you are lucky reincarnation would pick you to enjoy the life again


Happy Sunday to you all ✌️✌️
It doesn't work that way bro, is either you're with the devil or you're with God, there's no room for neutrality.

Don't be deceived by that reincarnation shit. Know God and find rest for your soul.
Christianity EtcRe: When God Shows Up by achimendy(m): 2:04pm On Jan 26, 2025
fyneboi79:
Nonsense! Africans should wake up from this stupidity called religion..... A trap enslaving our mentality for ages!!!

Why didn't God show up for 9/11 victims??

Why didn't God show up for Boko haram victims?

Because God only shows up when its convenient...but the devil is everywhere, every time and everyday!!
You're suffering from gross ignorance. You need to know God personally for your own good.
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Orders Release Of Long-Secret Final Files On JFK, RFK, MLK Assassinations by achimendy(m): 1:46pm On Jan 24, 2025
Almiron:
Source: NYPOST
I can't wait to read it
Foreign AffairsRe: "Return Of The Village Idiot": What A British Newspaper Called Trump by achimendy(m): 1:29pm On Jan 24, 2025
Hezzyluv:
He has taken some idiotic actions less then 2days in office grin

To the Mr. above me, do you think the publishing company don’t have lawyers and doesn’t know that Trump might threaten to sue them on seeing this headline? They have looked into it and concluded thus, “nothing dey happen” grin
What's the idiotic actions if i may ask?
PoliticsRe: Can You Name One Thing Nigerians Are Benefitting From This Government? by achimendy(m): 5:29pm On Jan 22, 2025
Jokerman:
Can you name one thing Nigerians are benefitting from this government?

Something tangible and what's is down to the local level?

Some other governments Nigerians enjoyed free education, reduced cost of petrol, cheap commodities in the market, etc??

So who can point out one thing Nigerians are benefitting from BAT government
PAIN.....
PoliticsRe: Tax Reform: Tinubu sends emissaries to leaders as Northern Govs remain adamant by achimendy(m): 8:57pm On Jan 05, 2025
Typing:
Why Tinubu never pass the bill? Why is he begging them? I go laugh una well well today
Laughing at what exactly, is the bill withdrawn?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: @33, I'm More Afraid Of The Future by achimendy(m): 8:53pm On Jan 05, 2025
Breatheon:
@33, I'm more afraid of the future

So reality is dawning on me for the tasks ahead.

Presently 33 with N85k/month salary job

During my days in school, I had thought life will be far better after school but here I am earning 85k/month and that is money that cannot even meet my immediate needs and not to talk of wants and unto other responsibilities.

By age, I'm supposed to have been married but still living in one room which is not advisable to even think of marriage in this condition.

To arrange myself for marriage, I need at least a one bedroom, furnished and comfortable. The yearly rent for that is about 400-450k

Then I am also worried about renewing the rent every year, year and year.

How about catering for the family? Aside rent, feeding, school fees (once married, you begin to reproduce), medical, clothing and so so and so forth.

To live a good life, you need a car for mobility sake as a family.

I can't continue to pay rent. Meaning I need to build a house.

Obviously, the 85k salary is not enough. I need to start a business.

And so many other issues giving me stress and sleepless night.

So my worry is, where would i get the money to do all these with these kind of job i am doing? For years i may not even raise a million naira.

I have seen situations where people no longer able to change clothes just because they now have a family and I'm trying to avoid that by all means.

I'm really really afraid of the future.

I feel there shouldn't be any future.
Fear and Complain has never helped anyone, if you need upgrade in your financial life then you must do the needful by working on your skill, draft your plan, add value to your life( go for knowledge by learning from other successful people in your field) , work hard, be persistent, commit it to God, stay positive and believe.


God bless you🙏

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