adeoyekay:
Self control is the only antidote for any addiction

Exactly 💯

ChildOfDoom:
I started womanizing to help me overcome my addiction of Betting.

It has helped to an extent as I spend majority of my time in a brothel, Eating, drinking, relaxing and fvcking (my mind leaves betting).

The issue now is that, since I started three years back, I have been treating one infection to another. Currently having skin reaction that brings out small inflammation and rashes on my body like my favourite olosho.

I can't help it. I have tried switching to drinking to take over womanizing, but it won't work.

Except I go back to betting (which is worse). In the past, I would sit all day in a bet9ja shop wasting away - gambling with my money, people's money and my belongings. Then I lose focus and don't work

But with womanizing, at least I get some pleasure, and get to use my money little by little. The rate at which it finishes is not as fast as betting.

The thought of having to choose between different bannies to lash at night keeps me motivated during the day to work harder for cash. Just the infection part as condom do burst at times while there are some I only do raw.

I know my lifespan is short, I just want to enjoy it with a sane mind and not fleeing from betting woes. My body is wired to do one addiction to stay placated/elated.

Having a girlfriend is scary. What if I invest a lot on just one girl and she cheats on me

Addiction is your problem

Self control is the solution

None of those things you're doing will help your life. Thank you.

Nackzy:
If you're from plateau and you vote tinubu again you're a big fool

No sensible person voted tinubu, they just manipulated the election results with inec to secure victory.

fasmukol:
I am fully in support of this. We need to clean up our education system. Just that some people have gone away with it and the legislation wouldn't affect them in anyway.

You want the educational system to be cleaned up while the political system still remain unclean.

This same leaders trying to pass this bill will never allow such bill to be passed when it has to do with them. They carryout corrupt practices, loot public funds with immunity and disobey thesame law they swore to abide by and protect.

Who's deceiving who?

Dpsychologist:


Chief I am not ignorant of anything. While I respect your spiritual beliefs, the reality is that people, regardless of religion or morality, continue to engage in sex outside of marriage. Telling them to avoid it completely hasn’t been effective for thousands of years and will still not be effective in the future, as evidenced by the ongoing rates of unintended pregnancies and STIs.

Using condoms is not just about preventing pregnancy; it’s about protecting health. The goal should be to reduce harm.

Whether or not someone chooses to follow religious teachings, we all live in a world where sexual activity happens outside of marriage(whether it's right or wrong doesn't matter), and providing people with practical ways to protect themselves is both responsible and necessary.

I have seen some religious advice that one shouldn't use Condom. So the ones who were reckless with sex end up getting STIs or unwanted pregnancy.

Ignoring the physical risks for the sake of spiritual beliefs does not change the fact that individuals need to be educated on how to stay safe. Using protection isn’t a rejection of spiritual values; it’s simply a logical step to protect one’s health in the real world.

Noted.

Dpsychologist:


This has been said for over 2000s years but has it worked?

Youths still have sex so it's appropriate to tell them to use protection.

What do you mean by has it worked??

Secondly you're ignorant of the spiritual implications of sex, but only concerned about the physical aspect.

Dpsychologist:
In the age of instant gratification and sexual freedom, one line cuts through the noise like a blade of truth:

"Better dey use condom make she no go carry belle born for you when you are not even married. If you no buy kiss use , you go end up buying KissKid."

Let that sink in.
Because behind the humour lies a serious truth — many young people today are living with the consequences of temporary pleasure.

The Rise of Casual Intimacy, The Fall of Personal Responsibility

Sex is easy. Cheap even. One look, one smile, one drink, one text, and it’s on.
But here's what most people forget: Sex is not just fun — it’s power. It’s potential. It’s responsibility.

Every time you unzip without protection, you’re playing Russian Roulette with your future:

Unplanned pregnancies.

STDs.

Broken dreams.

Lifelong financial pressure.

Emotional baggage.

Some of us joke about it—“Na just cruise.”
But what happens when the “cruise” leads to a child you’re not ready for, with someone you barely know, under circumstances you never planned?

You don’t just buy “Kiss” (pleasure), now you’re stuck with “KissKid” (a lifelong responsibility).
And in most cases, both lives are affected—the man, the woman, and most tragically, the innocent child.


Sex Without Sense is a Setup

Let’s talk facts:

Over 7 million unplanned pregnancies occur in Nigeria annually.

A majority happen among unmarried youths between 18-30.

Most of them were never ready—financially, emotionally, spiritually.

What does this lead to?

Abandoned children.

Single mothers struggling.

Men ducking responsibilities.

Increased poverty.

Broken homes before they ever formed.


And all this started with just “small enjoyment,” with no plan for the aftermath.


Condoms Are Not Just Rubber, They Are Wisdom

You wouldn’t drive a car without brakes.
You wouldn’t jump out of a plane without a parachute.
So why sleep with someone without protection?

Using a condom isn’t just about avoiding pregnancy — it’s about protecting your goals, your dreams, your health, your peace.
It’s about understanding that you’re not just playing — you’re planting. And every action today has a fruit tomorrow.


“But I Love Her…” or “She Said She’s Safe…”

Love does not erase consequences.
Lust never asks for permission.
And assumptions have ruined more lives than accidents.

Many guys trusted “she said she’s safe.”
Only to hear a few weeks later: “I’m late.”
Then what?

She’s crying.
You’re panicking.
Your plans are on hold.
And boom — adulthood hits you with a slap of reality.


The Real Men Plan Ahead

Real men protect:

Their future.

Their partner.

Their peace of mind.

It’s not “unromantic” to use a condom.
It’s unwise not to.

If you can’t handle the consequence, you shouldn’t engage in the act.
If you’re not ready for a baby, don’t act like a baby-maker.

Final Words: Enjoy With Wisdom or Regret Without Mercy

The next time the heat rises and your hormones scream louder than your logic, remember this line:

“If you no buy Kiss, you go buy KissKid.”

It’s not a joke.
It’s a warning.
It’s a mirror.
It’s your life.

Enjoy yourself, yes.
But enjoy with sense.
Because one moment of pleasure can cost you a lifetime of pressure.

Let's be guided. Country Hard.

If you want sex go and get married. Sex outside marriage is a sin.

KnowledgePower7:

So enviroment dey affect skin color?? i no understand

You no no b4?

Medici777:
hi. Please what’s your phone number?

Pls Why are you asking?

Kobojunkie:
Of course, you would not find it reasonable for anyone to point out that these delusions/fixations are likely to lead nowhere good if not immediately nipped in the bud. Your best bet is to make an appointment immediately with a professional mental health therapist or counselor, so you can rid yourself of what is clearly an unhealthy fixation.

If you have no sensible advice to give the young man just keep quiet let others help him out.

PressMyButton:


https://tribuneonlineng.com/yoruba-group-rejects-bill-granting-indigene-rights-through-residency-marriage/

This bill will only be good and possible if a nation has factors like unity, peace, love and selfless leaders.

CJStarz:

He was not yet an Emir during the Gideon Akaluka episode.
Or was he in support of that dastardly act?
Pls educate me further

He spearheaded it, organise mob that killed Gideon akaluka because of a torn piece of quran.

Abacha almost killed him for that but he ran away.

smartlad:
I woke up fine today and went about my hustle to survive, suddenly I can no longer use my left hand i feel numb and emptiness in my left hand, i cant use my left fingers or hold anything with the hand what is wrong with me. I am devastated.

Did you sleep on your left hand? Cos if you did you'll experience numbness in your hand as if is not working again. Try not to sleep on the hand again, exercise the hand to increase blood flow and also rest too. Too much lack of rest can result to stroke and unusual movement around the left arm and hand.

It happened to me sha. But Try and see your doctor.

Orinechi:
Was the mother of Jesus married to father. Remember Joseph is not her father. So, why did she wait until she got married to the supposed father of Jesus before he became pregnant?

You really need to see your doctor, you medical attention ASAP.

Orinechi:
Allow people to have sex in peace. The desire to have sex is innate which means that man is same with other animals that mate once the desire comes. Sex is not sinful. Is part of human reproductive make up.

Is that what the Bible told you about sex or you're just quoting your own doctrine??

tamonokare:
What about pastors that use tithe and offering brought by poor members to buy private jets, build schools for the rich and move around with armed security while their members live in poverty, find it difficult to send their children to the school that was built with their own money.

Ever since Righthussle posted on Nairaland that "Whoever or whatever made the universe does not and will NEVER EVER EVER NEVER need your money for A N Y T H I N G whatsoever. Instead of giving your hard earned money to these thieves, use it to feed stray dogs on the street.", i stopped giving money to these thieves.

According to Righthussle,


Any human being who collects money/tithe/offering/first fruit or anything from other humans on behalf of the maker of the universe is a THIEF . You don't need a judge to tell you that.


Any human who gives money to another human with the mindset that he/she is giving money to the creator of the universe or any unseen entity is not only a big fool but a mad person.


Any man who tells you he works for the maker of the universe is a thief. He works for his stomach. He must one day come to tell you his "all-sufficient " god whom he works for needs your money. The being behind the existence of the universe is not a human like Dangote, Elon Musk or Tinubu that will need workers and money. Wise up

You're suffering from what I call gross ignorance. I pray God open your eyes and understanding to his principles.

boxypane:
Adage Master

Leave that title for Pete edochie

Acekidc4:
🧐👀

Now he's blaming the system for not helping him out, when he was working with the former president which positive change did he bring to improve the system

Freshtruth:
Only this guy 3weeks salary if i no carry escort make he no better for me




Obi cubana sef no feel make almost 2billion every month

Just see your mentality, so escort is your problem??

Goodlady:

You must be another woman beater. God will judge you.

Judge me for what exactly??

The victim said you people should leave her lovely husband alone, or you don't understand English?

Valwezzy:


I hope you'll mind yours when shiiit involves your sister(s) and loved ones — else, do me a favor, shut the f**k up and gedifok outta here.

Do you wan to cry more than the bereaved??

The victim said people like you should leave her lovely husband alone. Is it too hard for you to understand??

Goodlady:

I was still on ban the day her first video came out. Look at this girl. Until a man kill you with beatings and maltreatment?
Man wey she suppose don carry go Human Rights Commission or Ministry of Women Affairs make dem use his case collect allocation from Tunubu.
If she end up with more suffering now na she cause am.
Men that are mostly scums.

Shut up Mrs human right and mind your business 🙊🙊

LoneSoldier:
Dear Esteemed men, please share your experience of how you became a bachelor, and also share the benefits and challenges that comes with it...
I will start with mine, years ago when I was little I thought marriage was a thing of blessing and doesn't require a man to suffer, but little did I know that marriage is a bondage, so fast forward to when I was a teenager (Am a grown ass man now, that was then!) I started seeing things more clearly, let's take Nigeria for instance.... 90% of married men across Nigeria as a whole are suffering and smiling, why because marriage wasn't what they thought it was, some where even forced to marry by family members, some just wanted to try marriage out thinking is a thing of joy ride not knowing it is an everlasting torture.....

A country where everything is left for the man to do, and to worsen it more, economy is not smiling and men are dropping dead everyday due to high BP of so many budgets in a man's mind, a wife you think is a blessing is just a load of suffering, a liability that leaves the man to cater for everything, even though she also brings little by little it doesn't change the fact that she is a burden of suffering on the man's shoulders....


Well let me conclude here, there are more to write but let me conclude with the benefits and challenges I faced as a bachelor.....

BENEFITS AS A BACHELOR:

I always have time for myself, I do whatever I want whenever I want to do it.... No liability as a wife to dictate how my life should go, I eat whatever I want to eat, no kidding am a good cook... So I don't need a woman for that, when am Hørny.... I masturbate myself to stupor, I have a decent job (Remotely) so I have time for myself indoors, the only time I go out, is when I want to get food items......

CHALLENGES AS A BACHELOR:
Not so much tho, but it came to some point I got pressured by my stupid family (father and mother excluded) to get a wife, I boldly told them NO!

Planning on disowning them very soon, but that is a topic for another day...!

So esteemed men, this is my experience.... Share yours!

Help yourself and stop that masturbation, you're doing more harm than good to your health if you keep engaging in such act.

yashau:


https://x.com/thecableindex/status/1883074456685269242?t=i34QixkLl3T0gMDOIxxyzQ&s=19

That tax reform bill must be passed. I trust tinubu on this, enough of this cheating.

Olachase:
Since na Adam and Eve give birth to all of us

Na him be say

(Elon musk & Jeff Bezos) Are my uncles 😁

I think we need to stop all this rubbish stuff, half of what's in the bible and quran is just a write up story

Please live your life to the fullest till the day you pass out

If you are lucky reincarnation would pick you to enjoy the life again


Happy Sunday to you all ✌️✌️

It doesn't work that way bro, is either you're with the devil or you're with God, there's no room for neutrality.

Don't be deceived by that reincarnation shit. Know God and find rest for your soul.

fyneboi79:
Nonsense! Africans should wake up from this stupidity called religion..... A trap enslaving our mentality for ages!!!

Why didn't God show up for 9/11 victims??

Why didn't God show up for Boko haram victims?

Because God only shows up when its convenient...but the devil is everywhere, every time and everyday!!

You're suffering from gross ignorance. You need to know God personally for your own good.

Almiron:


Source: NYPOST

I can't wait to read it

Hezzyluv:
He has taken some idiotic actions less then 2days in office

To the Mr. above me, do you think the publishing company don’t have lawyers and doesn’t know that Trump might threaten to sue them on seeing this headline? They have looked into it and concluded thus, “nothing dey happen”

What's the idiotic actions if i may ask?

Jokerman:
Can you name one thing Nigerians are benefitting from this government?

Something tangible and what's is down to the local level?

Some other governments Nigerians enjoyed free education, reduced cost of petrol, cheap commodities in the market, etc??

So who can point out one thing Nigerians are benefitting from BAT government

PAIN.....

Typing:



Why Tinubu never pass the bill? Why is he begging them? I go laugh una well well today

Laughing at what exactly, is the bill withdrawn?

Breatheon:
@33, I'm more afraid of the future

So reality is dawning on me for the tasks ahead.

Presently 33 with N85k/month salary job

During my days in school, I had thought life will be far better after school but here I am earning 85k/month and that is money that cannot even meet my immediate needs and not to talk of wants and unto other responsibilities.

By age, I'm supposed to have been married but still living in one room which is not advisable to even think of marriage in this condition.

To arrange myself for marriage, I need at least a one bedroom, furnished and comfortable. The yearly rent for that is about 400-450k

Then I am also worried about renewing the rent every year, year and year.

How about catering for the family? Aside rent, feeding, school fees (once married, you begin to reproduce), medical, clothing and so so and so forth.

To live a good life, you need a car for mobility sake as a family.

I can't continue to pay rent. Meaning I need to build a house.

Obviously, the 85k salary is not enough. I need to start a business.

And so many other issues giving me stress and sleepless night.

So my worry is, where would i get the money to do all these with these kind of job i am doing? For years i may not even raise a million naira.

I have seen situations where people no longer able to change clothes just because they now have a family and I'm trying to avoid that by all means.

I'm really really afraid of the future.

I feel there shouldn't be any future.

Fear and Complain has never helped anyone, if you need upgrade in your financial life then you must do the needful by working on your skill, draft your plan, add value to your life( go for knowledge by learning from other successful people in your field) , work hard, be persistent, commit it to God, stay positive and believe.


God bless you🙏

Baronthecelebri:
My grandma is very short and wicked according to my mom

I've never seen a short gentle person in my life.