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FamilyRe: Adultery: End The Marriage Immediately. by achimendy(m): 4:33pm On May 12
ceejay80s:
adultery for women not men,
men are alpha and can do do do around with more women,
but no to women adultery
Stop deceiving yourself, adultery is adultery be it a man or a woman.
CareerRe: Oracle Fires 30,000 Employees As A Result Of AI Revolution by achimendy(m): 10:52am On Apr 01
datola:
That's not fair sha because these companies have enough resources to keep the employees without affecting their financials negatively.

And some of these employees built the system(AI) that's causing their job loss.
Every organisation is out to cut cost. There's nothing like pity but value that brings profits to any organisation.
FamilyRe: Man Ends 3 Months Marriage As Wife Refuses To Join His Church by achimendy(m): 10:35pm On Mar 04
SeriouslySense:
grin grin grin Its should not be an issue. Go to any church you want to go to, as long as you are not doing juju. grin

You can even visit each others church sometimes. Just unnecessary to have dispute over unity of church attendance.
It shouldn't be an issue at all talk more of divorcing because of it.
FamilyRe: Man Ends 3 Months Marriage As Wife Refuses To Join His Church by achimendy(m): 10:33pm On Mar 04
DeltaBachelor:
Chai. Can you imagine divorce on something as trivial as this. Anyways, na their own kettle of fish abeg !
The thing is really surprising me. Just because of attending church ⛪️. Is very funny o
Nairaland GeneralRe: Which Of These Phobias Terrifies You The Most ? by achimendy(m): 10:28pm On Mar 04
SkyBizzy:
So He will come down and help me?
Some of you Christians are the most wicked set of people
He don't need to come down and help you, his word (the bible) is already there to help you. Align yourself with him and Follow his principles then poverty and lack will be far from you.

Secondly am not wicked but am just enlightening you because you're suffering from ignorance. You need knowledge of the truth.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Which Of These Phobias Terrifies You The Most ? by achimendy(m): 5:28pm On Feb 25
SkyBizzy:
Me is, Poverty, especially lack of what to eat.

The thought of this alone can kill someone, especially when there's no hope!

That's my biggest concern right now
That shouldn't be a problem for you cos your heavenly father know you have need of this things, just seek first his kingdom and everything including fried rice and chicken will be added unto you mattew 6:27-33
Forum GamesRe: Who Is The Winner Here? by achimendy(m): 7:06pm On Feb 12
Great100000:
Check It Very Well, Who Is The Winner Here?
Person A wins the race.

The line on the ground is the end point.
FamilyRe: Sometimes Parents Can Be Hinderance To Your Success. by achimendy(m): 4:38pm On Feb 11
MONEY247:
I was listening to one old cosmos maduka interview...

He was saying parents play a big role in thier children accomplishments in thier lifetime..

Some kids are so witty...
Some kids are very observant
Some kids are obsessed with organizing and managing
Some are interested in sorting solutions for certain challenges..

But then, parental ego comes in.
My child must be this or that... You tilt the child out of his natural ability and he's confused about life through out his living time.
He's 💯% correct on that


Many Nigerian parents do that. Some will say I want my child to be this and be that, as if they're the one's that create the child. God has given every child his or her own gift, your only job as parents is to help them grow with gift successfully.
CrimeRe: Italy Highway Heist: Robbers Blow Up Cash Van In Broad Daylight (photos/video) by achimendy(m): 3:30pm On Feb 10
obinna58:
Money have been the main problem of the world
Can you explain how?
RomanceRe: What Is Going On With The Ladies Of This Generation? by achimendy(m): 2:05pm On Feb 08
Samantha125:
I'm not your aunt...😒😒😒
Correction noted. Thank you.
RomanceRe: What Is Going On With The Ladies Of This Generation? by achimendy(m): 12:19pm On Feb 08
Samantha125:
How is being fully covered without a bra indecent?
Your titties are visible aunty. Cover it up.
RomanceRe: What Is Going On With The Ladies Of This Generation? by achimendy(m): 6:12pm On Feb 05
Samantha125:
No one in this life has never seen bare breasts before, so I don't see what you guys are making a big deal out of nothing.
The point is not about who has not seen breast before but dressing decently and covering your body as a woman, especially sensitive parts.

Women this days expose almost every part of their body all in the name of fashion.
PoliticsRe: 2027: Atiku Meets ADP National Chairman As Rumour Of Obi, Kwankwaso Tickens by achimendy(m): 4:46pm On Feb 03
Oju4190:
Obi and kwakwaso is a wrong combo

D best belt to kick tinubu out is Atiku and Obi combo
Atiku should go and sleep, he has outlived his usefulness.

Obi is the man of the season 🫡
CultureRe: Does Juju Really Exist? (picx) by achimendy(m): 10:19pm On Feb 01
dawnomike:
If this story is true... The husband is a foolish man!!!

Why would a man ruin his wife's business for any reason?
The man really took a foolish decision. That's what jealousy and entitlement mentality can cause. How can you decide to go fetish on your wife's business because she refused to give you her money, that's pure evil.

When you tell people to mind the kind of friends they keep they won't listen.

Just offer a heartfelt apology to your wife and pray to God for forgiveness and healing 🙏
RomanceRe: Man Stuck On A Married Woman In A Hotel... by achimendy(m): 9:27pm On Jan 23
Marvieduke:
In a viral video on facebook where a man got stuck on a married woman in a hotel, in the video circulating online it was visible where people were seen carry the couple together into the back of an ambulance bus. Below is the link to the video that is circulated online

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1BkewuwT9V/ cry
I don't support adultery of any kind.

But why is it that when a married man is caught sleeping with a single girl they blame the man, and when a married woman is caught sleeping with a single guy there'll still blame the guy?

Are the women faultless, or is it that they didn't play any role in the act?

What happened to decisions and it's consequences, or is this some kind of gender bias or what??
RomanceRe: Man Stuck On A Married Woman In A Hotel... by achimendy(m): 9:23pm On Jan 23
Marvieduke:
In a viral video on facebook where a man got stuck on a married woman in a hotel, in the video circulating online it was visible where people were seen carry the couple together into the back of an ambulance bus. Below is the link to the video that is circulated online


I don't support adultery of any kind.

But why is it that when a married man is caught sleeping with a single girl they blame the man, and when a married woman is caught sleeping with a single guy there'll still blame the guy?

Are the women faultless, or is it that they didn't play any role in the act?

What happened to decisions and it's consequences, or is this some kind of gender bias or what??





https://www.facebook.com/share/r/1BkewuwT9V/ cry
RomanceRe: Man Stuck On A Married Woman In A Hotel... by achimendy(m): 9:09pm On Jan 23
dawnomike:
Why a man will be interested in another man's wife is what I do not understand
That is what I don't really understand.

But can you ask thesame questions to the single ladies sleeping with married men?
PoliticsRe: ADC Ticket: Who Would Be A Better President? by achimendy(m): 9:14pm On Jan 17
Validated:
This is purely an opposition thread. I would ask all others, especially supporters if Tinubu and APC to respect this. However, without prejudice to anyone's opinion, I ask you chose from these hopeful.

1. Atiku Abubakar
2. Peter Obi
3. Rotimi Amaechi
4. Goodluck Jonathan

Note that I am adding Jonathan, in event he joins ADC or PDP collapses structure into ADC as seen in some states already.
Is Peter obi or nothing.

I'll never vote atiku or amaechi, both of them contributed to the APC disaster happening to Nigeria since 2015 till now. And also is not the turn of the north, so atiku should go and sleep.
RomanceRe: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by achimendy(m): 8:55pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
You need serious deliverance. Run to God to deliver you from that bad spirit. It's not ordinary bro, is not.

And don't think of Marriage because it will make it worse. You may even contact a deadly disease and give it to your wife.

Deliverance, Deliverance, Deliverance is all you need.
RomanceRe: 2026 And Men Still Want To Marry Virgins ? Upgrade Your Mind by achimendy(m): 1:46pm On Jan 16
KobolanderSegun:
Me I am Laughing..... In 2026 men are still prioritizing Female Virginity as a yardstick for marriage ? In 2026 !!!

What about Female Intelligence, Female Wisdom, Female Comportment, Female Financial Literacy ? They are not even looking to see whether she can cook. But No she must be a Virgin.

I cannot speak for everyone but no wonder Africa is so backward when you place so much energy on a state God created but you will not look for attributes that come with self development.
I think you're the one that is backward here because of your lack of understanding of what it means to be a virtous woman. You want us to follow the whites pattern and look civilised whereas we know their marriage and family system is bad. You can find the high rate of divorce in western nations, number of them is America. That's what you want us to copy? We will never, it's not our tradition.
Men talk more about a woman's virginity that doesn't mean virginity is the only thing they look out for in a woman, but is very important. There's a way a man sees a virgin woman, especially if she has crossed the 20 years marks. It makes them respect her more because not every woman can do that. In our world today you hardly find virgins, most of this girls lost theirs at a very young age of 16,17,18,19,and aven 20s. Is not easy, is really hard to find one now. Nobody will see new thing and go for used product, including you posting this.

And you also need to understand that it takes a virtuous woman with moral standards to keep her virginity in a world where most women no longer value their body but pollute it for reasons best known to them. And also there are some non-virgin women that are good to go in marriage. For Some, unfortunate circumstance like rape, or financial challenge made them lose their virginity, and some swore never to go back to it and also kept their body. But character wise and intelligence they're good, while some others change for good( we call it repentance).

Virginity is not the only thing a wise man look out for in a woman, although is very important but they're many things that define and makes a woman a good wife. It just take the help of God to get a good husband or wife.
Christianity EtcRe: Believe God For A Breakthrough by achimendy(m): 1:14pm On Jan 16
femi4:
This thing is very easy

Get the original language version and translate the words to english by yourself. You ll discover some of these translation error.

English wasn't the original language of people of old n new testaments
Is very obvious comprehension is your problem here.
Christianity EtcRe: Believe God For A Breakthrough by achimendy(m): 4:10am On Jan 14
femi4:
What do you mean by "The bible cannot lead you astray" . We have many mistranslation versions out there of which kjv is one of them

Another kjv translation error is found in " By risen of the annointing, the yolk will be broken

The Hebrew word in question is shemen, translated as "oil" or "fat" in almost all other instances. In Isaiah 10:27, the KJV is the only major English translation that renders it as "anointing".
You call it mistranslation because you don't have understanding of it. We use word to define word, but the most important thing is the point it buttress about a particular thing or situation.

Something is interpreted in different versions is to give people easy understanding of it, not to lead people astray, and you're at will to chose which version suites you.

You're the first person I've seen saying the bible will lead somebody astray.
Christianity EtcRe: Believe God For A Breakthrough by achimendy(m): 12:21am On Jan 12
femi4:
kjv will lead you astray with its interpretation

The original word is שְׁלוֹם (Shalom) whch can be translated to 'well being' or 'peace' in mordern english.

If you want to know if it was talking about material wealth or not, read both pre-text n pro-text
The bible can never lead anyone astray, is simple and straight no matter the version. If you don't have understanding you'll interpret wrongfully.

The point is still clear even with the version you gave, is just that your own used well-being while KJV used prosperity. Either way is still correct, and the point is still thesame because a lot contribute and affect the well-being or peace of a man, be it emotional, financial, social, spiritual, and physical aspect of it. But it seems you're only limiting it to the financial aspect.

It's all encompassing. I hope you get the point.
Christianity EtcRe: Believe God For A Breakthrough by achimendy(m): 5:41pm On Jan 11
femi4:
How is the verse related to success

Ps35:27
May those who delight in my vindication shout for joy and gladness; may they always say, “The LORD be exalted, who delights in the well-being of his servant.”
Lolz.....that's another translation I guess

Let's check KJV
Let them shout for joy, and be glad, that favour my righteous cause: yea, let them say continually, let the lord be magnified, which hath pleasure in the prosperity of his servants.

Read through and tell me if it's related or not.

Understanding key bro.
Christianity EtcRe: How Christianity Brainwashed Me So Much (Photo) by achimendy(m): 5:22pm On Jan 11
jesusjnr2020:
Just imagine how Christianity continues to brainwash people.

What a scam!
Is indeed a good brainwashing

May his name alone be praise 🙏🙏
Christianity EtcRe: Believe God For A Breakthrough by achimendy(m): 5:14pm On Jan 11
femi4:
Breakthrough preachers, the poor will always remain in your midst. God is more interested in your salvation
God is also more interested in your success psalms 35:27
Christianity EtcRe: Believe God For A Breakthrough by achimendy(m): 5:01pm On Jan 11
ReacherSaidNoth:
Your god only gave breakthrough in your storybook. When real world problems need solving, he goes into hiding.
Ignorance is one of the reason why you made that statement. secondly, negative life experience and unbelief is another reason why you utter such trash, but my prayer for you is to come to the realisation of his truth and also his mighty power.

If you know him you won't write that nonsense up there. He's God of everything and he's God all by himself.
RomanceRe: Is It True That Once You’re Successful, Girls Will Want You? (Gehgeh’s Take) by achimendy(m): 7:46pm On Jan 03
Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱
Success has many relatives but failure is an orphan. It attracts so many people to the person, not just women alone. And majority of the people coming to you when you're successful are leeches looking for how to feed on you.
BusinessRe: Folorunsho Alakija: The Icon Who Refused To Be Conquered by achimendy(m): 8:45pm On Dec 25, 2025
OneCandleAway:
It's only human to want to see evidence.
Everybody don't live their life on social media and they don't owe anybody any explanation.


You need to understand that.
BusinessRe: Folorunsho Alakija: The Icon Who Refused To Be Conquered by achimendy(m): 9:27pm On Dec 24, 2025
irumanle:
Nice question. The normal Nigerian padypady things
Read the story again so you can get it.

It's her willingness and persistence backed by the favour of God that gave her that license. The then maryam babangida wife which she sew clothes for was the one she told to help contact the people incharge of the license stuff, and she agreed. When she went there she was not given the stuff automatically. She tried up to 4 to 5 times before she got it. It took her years before she was finally called one day. She's indeed a strong woman.
BusinessRe: Folorunsho Alakija: The Icon Who Refused To Be Conquered by achimendy(m): 9:16pm On Dec 24, 2025
OverCalculating:
Folorunsho Alakija did not study Geology.

​She started as a Secretary. Then she became a Fashion Designer.

Yet, she beat the global oil giants at their own game.

​Most people think she just "got lucky" with an oil license.

But the truth is, she used a strategy called The "Rejected Stone" Advantage.

​Here is what happened:

In the 90s, she applied for an oil license.

The powers that be gave her OPL 216.

​They didn't give her this block because they liked her.

They gave it to her because nobody else wanted it.

It was "Deep Offshore" (Deep Water).

At that time, the technology to drill that deep was expensive and risky.

The big companies (Shell, Mobil) wanted the easy, shallow water.

​They thought they gave her a "useless" paper.

She saw a "Golden Ticket."

She knew she didn't have the billions to drill.

But she had the Rights.

She approached Texaco (now Chevron).

She told them: "I have the access. You have the technology. Let's work."

​She didn't try to dig with her hands. She used her "Paper" as equity to attract a giant.

This is the most important lesson.

When they finally struck oil (the massive Agbami Field), the Government was shocked at the volume.

They got jealous.

The Government tried to use a decree to forcefully take back 50% of her stake.

​Most people would have bowed to the Federal Government out of fear.

Alakija sued them.

​She fought the Federal Government in court for 12 years.

She refused to settle. She refused to be bullied.

Eventually, the Supreme Court ruled in her favor, restoring her full stake.

​Why am I telling you this?

​Don't despise the "Hard" road:

Just because an opportunity looks difficult (Deep Water) doesn't mean it's bad.

That is often where the biggest treasure is hidden.

​Defend your Value: In business, creating wealth is one thing.

Keeping it is the real war.

You must have the audacity to fight for what is yours, even if you are fighting a Giant.

​She went from sewing clothes to owning one of the most prolific oil blocks in Africa.

Not by luck. But by Grit.

​Nairalanders! I hope you learnt something today.
Her story is really inspiring. Very strong and persistent woman. Learnt a lot from her story. Success is not for the fainthearted but for the strong minds which she is.
BusinessRe: Folorunsho Alakija: The Icon Who Refused To Be Conquered by achimendy(m): 9:12pm On Dec 24, 2025
OneCandleAway:
Yes I saw an aide holding her as they walked. The funny think is you hardly see them giving life changing charity to the less fortunate.
Most you see everything they do?

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