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Mariangeles:
She go collect am back 7 fold from another guy hand. 😀

Do you even know if she collected that money from a guy out there?

Why is she even complaining?

Samantha125:
The only punishment the woman would face is divorce... But the children would still be hers while you'll be left childless after spending years working hard to invest in children that aren't biologically yours.

And once those children establish themselves, they'll only look after their mother, neglecting you to start from the bottom despite having built them to be where they are.

Why not try it and see?

Samantha125:
But who's crying about the rampant increase in paternity frauds? Men or women?🤷🤷🤷

Nobody can escape the consequences of his or her actions. There's no escape route for wicked/evil people.


Know that for your own good.

Samantha125:
But you'd have still invested so much in children that aren't yours...

Her only punishment would be you divorcing her after building another man's children to be the leaders of tomorrow... And those children would eventually look after her while you'll be left childless and having to start from the bottom all over again.

You're really drunk in ignorance.

Samantha125:
At the end of the day, it's you men that'll suffer the consequences of raising children that aren't biologically yours, not women...

So go ahead and keep blaming women without taking any accountability on your side and enjoy raising your fellow men's children...🤣🤣🤣

You women don't like truth. Am talking about taking responsibility for your actions and you're here telling me am attacking your fellow women. You can't shy away from the truth dear.

Secondly you said is the men that will suffer the consequence of raising another man's child, hmmm I laugh at your ignorance. You think your fellow women will escape the consequence of their evil deeds? The Bible said whatsoever a man soweth that's what he or she will reap (galatians 6:7-9). For every action taken on this earth there's a consequence for it irrespective of your gender.

Keep on deceiving yourself👏

bukatyne:
If the men kept it in their pants, they wouldn't have to worry if they have kids outside or 'not'.

Five kids in fifteen years.... that means the man is unable to get his wife pregnant and might know about it.

Except they had very regular sex during her child birthing years, one or two should have immediately piqued his interest as per timing.

That said, I would the kind of double irresponsibility that would make a wife have five kids for another man. You were committing adultery and couldn't take extra precautions to ensure you don't get pregnant

If you did not want the marriage, the honorable thing was to divorce him and move on with the father/father(s) of your children.

I pity the husband and the innocent kids in all of this.

When will you women ever take responsibility for your actions? You're blaming the men for not putting it in their pants, how about you tell your fellow women to spreading their legs anyhow?

Samantha125:
But men also have a hand in it, why sleep with someone else's woman to the extent of impregnating her? It takes two to tango.

It takes two to tango but is a matter of choice. Why spread legs when you know the outcome of that act. If you dont want sex you won't engage. So Stop blaming the men as if they force the women to have sex with them.

AguluLiar:
Kumuyi should do a public apology before he leaves the World.
He really used his awkward religious styles to mislead so many ladies in Deeper life.

You won't understand until you visit their congregation and you will see so many old ladies that have never married due to kumuyi's man made doctrines.

Where were you when kumuyi was talking about making change concerning some obsolete traditions he introduced into the church?

Daejumong:
I am happy Deeper Life ladies are gradually modernising their dressing. Thanks to Pst Kumuyi and especially Mummy Esther Kumuyi for this laudable idea. Many young people have sadly and painfully left the church because of the harsh dressing formula especially for women.

Ecclesiastes 9:8
8 Put on nice clothes and make yourself look good.

Daejumong

Which bible are you quoting this ecclesiastes book from, your point is not relating

Benrosaria:
Equality on the grounds that there isn't suppose to be hierarchy in the spheres of human life

Who said there isn't suppose to be hierarchy or inequality in human society? You're just giving your own unrealistic opinion.

Since from the days of old, looking at it from the Bible, there is always something that marks the difference of men in their various society. Their society where hierarchicaly structured by either the substance they possess, their exceptional characters and the skill they have, shifted them into higher positions than others e.g Joseph, Daniel, david, the three Hebrew boys, job, Abraham and the kings, princes, governors, soothsayer etc. This people where influential men during their time, and they occupied top positions during their time and in their various territories.
However, you also need to know that God created us equal as humans by giving each and everyone of us a skill or ability that can shift us to greatness. But is not everyone that is ready to take the responsibility to work on that skill to the extent of becoming a master in it. Some are too lazy to work it out. But the few successful ones that discovered their skill, refined it, master it and finally became great through it cannot be on thesame level with those that didn't work out their own skill to greatness. That's what brings about hierarchy and social stratification in the society.

We are equal before God but the investment of our time, hardwork, knowledge, persistence, believe and sacrifices have separated men into different levels and and positions in our various societies. So don't seat there and assume unrealistic equal society, discover your skill, work on it,become a master in it, and pray for grace then watch how God shift you to the top levels of life.

I hope you understand my inputs. Thank you and God bless 🙌

Benrosaria:
Yes I could but, do you agree with equality??

Equality on what ground?

Benrosaria:
our parents never loved us cause if they did they wouldn't have brought us to this cruel world of inequality

You have the capability to work your way to the equal part of life.

Your parents have done their part.

MrHandsome2013:
It is very simple to spot parents that never love their kids from day 1.
Like me I was never loved from day 1 by d so call parents .

1) no child fond memories

2) no single group pic with them as a kid and as an adult

3) They never care about you or how you make your money as long as you send them money

4) I was hospitalized for one good month , my dad one day never call or ask about my well bring

5) the worst thing that can ever happen to you as child is having both parents coming from a polygamous family , no single love.

6) imagine your mum from a polygamous family and your dad from a polygamous family coming together to get ma, worst nightmare parents combination .

Your experience is terrible, I can feel your pain.

But you can actually bring love to that family. But Don't join them in displaying that lack of love attitude. Maybe they where not shown much love from their own families or parents. But just be different, be the light of love in that family.

Thank you.

cenaman:
Maybe na play station.

Too much exaggeration here

Hahahahaha

Exactly, PlayStation 5 I guess.

Casham:
My cousin just told me last night that she just got raped on Sunday afternoon/evening (6th July, 2025).

I stay with them for now. She's 18, the first of two daughters and was still virgin (as far as I know). Her only [older] brother is in school.

She's been acting funny since on Sunday evening. She couldn't hold it in anymore and, since there is no one else she could actually confide in, she confided in me. Now she's begging me not to tell anyone and not to cause trouble. She only wants me to help her get a drug (if any) that will prevent pregnancy.

She told me about the man coming to see her in her mother's restaurant and said she was going to talk to the man about getting me a job, but when she went into his car, he forced himself on her.

Honestly I am angry right now! I am angry at three things:

First, I am angry at my family. I have a family where the children are afraid to open up, because if you do, you will be blamed and castigated upon. I understand her fear and apprehension about letting other people know, but I just can't let this go.

Secondly, I am angry at our society. How can a man confidently feels he can force himself on a lady and get away with it? What kind of society do we have?

Thirdly, I am angry at myself. I am angry because I feel helpless. I can't let this thing go. I have to deal with this man, but I don't know how to do it without putting my cousin in a difficult position. I have tried to let her know that it is not her fault and that the man needs to pay for this, but she's been begging me to just let it go. She only confided in me because she's really scared of getting pregnant.

According to her though, there was never any real penetration, but the man (who is a high ranking government official) actually "released" ON her, not IN her. (Does that even make sense?)
How can I handle this issue right now? For me, I am planning to go all out and let hell break loose and let the heavens fall if they have to.

First of all I don't support rape of any kind but your cousin sisters case and report is not clear to me.
She said there was no real penetration, that the man only released on her and not in her. If that's the case what does she need the drugs for?

It might be something consensual but she doesn't want to tell you, or she's hiding something. Pls vet her thoroughly. Don't go and react for the wrong reason. This women sometimes can put you in a big problem if you don't use your head.

wittywriter:
Olivier Giroud was on the pitch of play for 90mins and never had a single contact with the ball been played .

True...stop showing ignorance online...DYOR.




Wittyness

Can you tell us the exact match?

I need to do some personal investigation. No matter how bad you're as a footballer you can't be in the field for 90min and not touch the ball.

Arobaga:
Beauty vs the beast



Light vs darkness



God sent vs God forbid



Merit vs forgery


Sound mind vs heroine

Hahahahha 🤣🤣

Pls allow our dear president breathe o

Clemss88:
you are the one that envy will kill.
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I don't envy so it can't kill me.


Take my advice and focus on your life. Jealousy is a killer of destiny.

Clemss88:
Not some that are busy buying Rolls Royce and intimidating people with it on social medias

I don't know what's your problem with successful people. Run away from envy or it will kill you.

CoronaVirusPro:
Exactly!

I just called the DSS to inform them. Peter is undermining our electoral susyem

Electoral process that has been undermined since April took over power.

GanagiBitrus:
To Religious Folks; God saved him.

To Superstitious Folks; the man get Odeshi.

To Atheists; he was lucky

To Scientists; a combination of seat location, crash dynamics, structural damage, and human reaction combined to create a rare escape window.

Grace of God did it.

Not everyone have that grace. Out of 274 people onboard only one person survived. Only those those that underestimate the miraculous power of God that won't see it that way.

Righteousness2:
The owner and CREATOR of the Heavens and the Earth GOD does not need your Money but GOD has laid principle on how the Earth inhabitants can be blessed.

Sowing and Reaping
Giving and Receiving
Tithes, offerings, helping the less privileged, etc

GOD'S Principles of Prosperity will not change no matter how wise you try to be.

If you don't want to struggle in life , you Must adhere to God's Principles.

Well said brother 👏


God's prosperity plan can not change, if you want his blessings then you must adhere to his rules. Sowing of seeds (eg tithe, offering, ) is some part of it which the sower will reap in due time.

Secondly the church ministry needs finance in order to operate smoothly, the tithes, offerings ,vows etc are been used to run the operation of the church ⛪️

Peakdesign23:
What of she decided to use her father's name to buy the land?

The father will prove his financial contribution on the property.

This is not america my dear.

Samantha125:
When you're from a disadvantaged background, of course you'll see money as everything... But once you have it, you'll then realise that it's nothing, it can never buy you happiness.

You don't know what's happening to that person behind closed doors.

I think you're looking at it from another point. The person you replied to is only trying to make you understand the importance of money in ones life, especially during old age. Money is not everything, I agree strongly, but money can give comfort, money can make people smile, money can engender speed, money can help solve health issues especially for oldies etc. Old age is a period where people don't need to work hard or stress themselves to make a living, is a season of rest, you eat and relax from your youthful labour over the years. But how can one rest during old age when you have no finance to feed and relax from? You'll start depending on children for help, it doesn't make sense at all.
Sometimes when I see how some people especially aged people die because of common sickness that can be treated with small money, I'll just shake my head in pity.

In conclusion, money is not everything but money is important to the life of every individual be it young or old.

Fareke:
Muhammed Hammed

A Nigerian youth corps member who studied Mass Communication has taken to social media to express her frustration after being posted to a bakery for her NYSC.

The young lady, identified as @Aridunu_jones on X (formerly Twitter), shared her experience online, questioning the relevance of her posting to her field of study.

In her words: “God will help me and judge NYSC. When I studied Mass Communication, you guys now posted me to a BAKERY. BAKERY OOOO!!!”

She called on God for help and expressed confusion over the decision, sparking reactions online.

As her post gained traction, concerned users flooded the comment section to share their thoughts and offer support.

See some reactions below:

@DrMel_: “You can be their PR person? Opportunities don’t always look like opportunities sometimes.”

@lekan_olayinka1: “Will the masses not buy bread? Will you not communicate with them?”

@orukusuku: “What happened to you managing the Public Relations Department of the Bakery?”

@Tim_krux: “Your skills in mass communication would come in handy in advertising bread.”

She called on God for help and expressed confusion over the decision, sparking reactions online.

As her post gained traction, concerned users flooded the comment section to share their thoughts and offer support.

See some reactions below:

@DrMel_: “You can be their PR person? Opportunities don’t always look like opportunities sometimes.”

@lekan_olayinka1: “Will the masses not buy bread? Will you not communicate with them?”

@orukusuku: “What happened to you managing the Public Relations Department of the Bakery?”

@Tim_krux: “Your skills in mass communication would come in handy in advertising bread.”


https://www.gistreel.com/corps-member-who-studied-mass-communication-fumes-after-nysc-posts-her-to-bakery/

Communicate with the bread 🍞

Samantha125:
How is she naked? Is she not wearing clothes?

Is not about wearing clothes but the kind of clothes she's wearing. And maybe in your place it's acceptable but not in my place.

That's an indecent dress wore by a woman on her wedding.

Vergovert:
If your husband refused to touch you, were you forbidden from touching him.


Is he not your husband?

The thing is just surprising me over here. Which law said is only a husband that is supposed to initiate sex?

And the lawyer is also bias, she only stated what her fellow women complained about in their marriage, but never said anything about what the men complained.

chatinent:
Mine:

1. Putting others before my life...while others actually put their lives first.

2. If you live in a public yard, you must understand that your neighbours aren't your emergency family members.

3. Avoid taking things on credit from shops close to where you live.

4. You really do not owe anyone an explanation when you say NO to their requests.

5. Learn to speak not talk.

6. You are the most important person to you in this world. Remember that.

7. Don't let them kill you!

8. Learn when it's apt to walk away.

9. Set boundaries. Whether they call it pride or whatever, they will respect you.

10. Overthinking will only get you sick. Start doing whatever you can.

11. You really do not need to recruit others to hate someone you hate with you.

12. Some relationships should be valued by you than always trying to be right always.

13. Drink clean water always. Eat good food. Sleep when needed. It's your health. If you can ensure your car gets sealed engine oil and better fuel for efficiency, how much more your body?

14. You don't need to lie to refuse lending money to someone; a simple "I don't have" is accurate. You don't need to attach a reason..damn it's your money!!

And it is also very necessary to collect collateral or they put it in paper. If they refuse, it's ok to let them fck off. A lot of borrowers have no conscience.

15. Avoid too many friends. If possible, avoid it completely. When your are becoming more successful, too many friends and you are closer to your grave.

16. It's not everyone you should bring to your house. This is very important.

17. Refuse binge drinking or eating outside. It's a one-way ticket to hell.

18. Ensure you know how to respond to peer pressure bullies.

19. Buy what you can afford...everything depreciates..



Share yours.

I regret not starting my career earlier, but success is still sure for me though.

Almantra:
Pls I don't know if it's because of many years of being an introvert that causes this problem that is affecting because i am always weak I can't run raise my voice. Some say I act like a woman.even if I want to act agile or fast I can't .I just started a job that requires being strong ,fast,and bold but I can't do all that and the manager and supervisor are not finding it right with me.

Because even the ladies there at my workplace are more stronger, faster than me in doing the job,and they even start asking me if I am medically fit

Pls any tips or supplements that I can use to behave energetic pls I will appreciate thanks.

Change your bad attitude from your mindset, and then engage in physical exercise like jogging, climbing stairs and press-up for like 30 or 40 minutes. Your blood flow, agility and physical movement will increase.

Thank you.

Obavoh:
Since Bandits attacked my village last year, we had to abandon the 2 bedroom home that I built.

We have moved into the main town and I managed to rent a small but spacious room for my growing family.

The problem is that me, my wife and children all sleep in the same room now. This has affected the Romance between my wife and I.

The older children sleep on the floor and our last 2 babies sleep on the same bed with us. We demarcated the bed with a small curtain for privacy.

I have to make sure the children are asleep before I can touch my wife but I always feel the older children are light sleepers. Since we moved here I have not been successful in showing love to my wife.

Out of frustration, my wife and I started bathing together around 5a.m in the morning but the landlord warned me seriously and said such a thing is forbidden in his Gida so we stopped.

I work Monday to Sunday during the day so I only have night time to spend with my wife. I am losing my happiness.

Stop complaining, complain doesn't help anyone. Just look for a way to improve your finance.

gragz8701:
My friend who is a military officer with exposure to UN mission in Arab nations advised me never to date nor mary any Nigerian girl that have lived in Dubai.

Hmmmm..... did he give you any reason?