I can't imagine what a particular family at ijegun area of lagos is facing after their son killed a lady and mutilated her body.... Trust me they would be neva be the same... Even me sef no fit near them

Am 29...and I did worst than u... Bet9ja included.. I dropped out at 300level due to addiction to gambling... I was also suicidal till I realized something...

All I need to do, Is find a purpose to live... And pursue it.. I used to teach before lockdown.. Now am jobless..

Am far away from my family.. I hardly check on my friends.. Am jst waiting for that spark dat would spur me into renewed sense of living on purpose... So brother cheer up.. Once there's life there is hope....

Did I also add, my parent constantly shame me which is my only worry

dhantey324:
Stop deceiving us Mr. Governor... We are more vulnerable than you all.. Watch them use this as an excuse for spending on more bulletproof cars, jets, helicopters etc.

Exactly my thoughts

I believe the level of hurt the mother was inflicting on this boy wasn't brutal... If it was, I doubt if there wuld be enough saneness in him to negotiate... New generation mothers are really changing the narratives..

marvelck:
Back in the day, single ladies that own cars were usually advised not to flaunt their cars or let guys know they own a car, in order not to chase men away from marrying them.

Unmarried ladies that own cars then were tagged all sort of names. But a lot has changed since then. Most guys even prefer going after ladies that own cars and houses these days. And e get why �

Our society has scammed us in the past

SmartProf:
Just because of the FG bailout of private schools, many schools who were not registered under NAPPS have bombarded the association to get themselves registered at the 11th hour. What may happen next will be padding and falsification of data on the number of existing private schools. Once the FG suspects the process, they will just use that as an excuse to suspend or abandone giving out the promised bailout....Due to many private schools shortchanging their staff on salaries even prior to Covid 19, the FG should use this opportunity to set a regularized minimum wage standard for teachers in private schools before releasing any bailout to them. Else greedy proprietors may divert the bailout funds and pay peanuts or even nothing to their teachers.

Even if the money get disbursed.. 99% of the proprietors and school owners wuld either not pay the teachers or shortchange them...

Balenciagaokey:


Congratulations ..
But is it Genuine love for Marriage..
Or just to trend and take photoshoot.
Anyways, marriage no be beans..
It's either one of them found genuine love and invited others, or their parents forced them to marry .

My thoughts actually

JasonScoolari:
God surely knows how to embarrass some möronic fraudsters called "Pastors"

These men just use the title to decieve gullible followers to achieve their personal gains... I will give you some examples.

-Pst. Tunde Bakare: Wanted to have a feel of the Presidential Villa, tried and failed so many times and was later relegated to a mere consultant.

-Rev Chris Okotie: You all know how it always ends up for him, even his church members do vote for a different candidate.

Pst Yemi Osibande: Used the title of a pastor to sneak into the Villa, but ended up heading irrelevant committees meant for Omoniles. E.g "Chairman,Use The Toilet Committee of Nigeria" amongs others.

Now Pst Ize-Iyamu, who's now behaving like a cheap prostitute all over Edo State will end up heading the team of organizers in the next Igué festival after he's being used and dump.

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MJBOLT:

yes,blame men for ladies not getting married on time due to lack of funds ignoring the fact that the country is a shithole

#SIMP

funmijoyb:
Yoruba Amaka

Make me laugh please ��

Hoodbilonia:
Corruption.
U wont escape Gods wrath woman
Wicked thief of a woman who supervised looted abacha funds wired to dansuki.
She should be in jail by now

How is the looting her fault
She acted in her capacity as financial minister to request for the fund.. She didn't spend it neither was she part of the people meant to acquire the equipments

Zendinho:
Dancing Awilo Logumba....Skelewa...Shoki....Alanta....

Salary for April sure....

But come o where them take see money come share am pass Feb with the dropping oil prices....

February with oil boom: 600billion+
March without oil 700billion+

Am not understanding.

7 minus 6 is 1
And 1 times 6 equals 6

So it's the same amount.. Jst different figure

The fire which we all estimated to have killed two people(an aboki whose kiosk got burnt and a bus driver who was caught in d inferno) but more deaths has been recorded no thanks to the Lagos state government's poor emergency management authorities
Please don't mind my literal deficiencies...am Just trying to ring out an update on d current life situations of victims and survivals from this fire... And also voice my opinion on a lingering community problem we facing



9 people has been confirmed dead as at 6pm last night leaving two breathing survivals hanging on to d tiniest hope of life with the aid of an oxygen

The Thursday early morning fire which began few minutes past four and claimed few lifes at the initial has almost wiped out A complete family of 7 (grandmother.. Father mother and 2children late) left is two daughter who we are still hoping will pull through...



The Lagos state emergency management authority came on air and all media platforms saying victims of this inferno will be giving proper treatments for free....but the Truth is... They got abandoned immediately they were admitted into gbagada general hospital... This particular family of seven who got burnt in this inferno were unfortunately part of the victims dumped at gbagada hospital by LASEMA ... This hospital demanded a deposit of 100thousand naira before any treatment can be perform on the victims... We were shocked at d cruelty of this particular agency... The whole irede community landlords in ijegun and every other concerned community member were ask to come to their aid cos the whole family were incapacitated.. We all paid the little we could so treatment could commence but after raising d money
We lost d grandmother and the mom.. Saturday we lost one of the twin.. And yesterday Morning we lost the pretty daughter zainab...


My problem is not with the hospital actually... But how can an institution that is saddled with d responsibilities of protecting life nd property fail in protecting the life and still fails in saving what is left of the unprotected life... As in Why should a fire victim.... rescued by LASEMA...... be asked to pay a first aid FEE... It's atrocious...


It's either someone is trying to make a quick cash from the non payment of the victims hospital treatment ... Or there was never a free first aid treatment in the first place..

I reside in ijegun... My apartment was few Meters away from been engulfed if not for some divine intervention nd maybe the swiftness of Lagos state fire service... I experienced the 2008 fire explosion which claimed more victims nd property due to the time it occurred ... But all victims to my knowledge didn't pay a dime till they got discharged.... And those who lost loved ones were assisted financially in their burial..



While doing some consulting with the aim of making this case against LASEMA public... I got some cold replies from the elders in the community... The general view was that.. Since the fire was triggered by vandals and not the government or any government agency the victims are on their own... Unlike 2008 which was caused by an ongoing road construction... This country is actually a shit hole..



There shouldn't be a condition written or unwritten that regulates d involvement of any government in saving lifes of dying victims....am actually typing this with a trembling heart...

God help Nigeria


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eyinjuege:


Apologize to your brother, and stop making excuses.
Its not enough to feel bad and sorry for your actions. The most important thing is how you have made amendments, and corrected the wrongs.
If your dad brings up all his comparisons, report him to your mum, and let her know he's breeding enmity between her children.

apologise done already....

Tolupage:
it's really a serious issue especially coming from parents, our parents seem to share similarities on this matter especially when it involves church but what I did was plainly tell them, I can't live hypocritical life, most of those compared with me ain't actually all saint like they portray them to be and Frankly said I don't need such comparison.

You must tell urself that you won't allow your emotions be ruined by these actions and never allow it breed negative relationship between you and others.

Work on yourself and make yourself a better person than you already are.

God bless u man..tanks

skuribeebo:
if I were ur elder brother , I would kill u. You are just so useless ,rude and brainlesss. You can even kill ur brother through envy.

OK

mecussey:


U dey dull na, why u no compare the old man with his mates wey be ministers and presidents.

a day came...nd we(me nd my brothera)..threw such to my dad..he laughed nd promised Neva to do d comparison again..
but he soon forgot nd resumed d comparing

d comparisons dosnt get to me anymore so I thought... until we fought

now I wished he had listened nd stopped

olori98:
U broke ur brothers nose and u are still saying it
*standingovation* the Lord is ur muscle

I for d umpteenth time...I only mentioned wat I did to my brother..cos its my nightmare..nd I regret it.

.am currently nursing a broken arm...are u happy now?

Desdola:
As an informed person, you should know your left from your right. Your father meant well though his approach might be somehow harsh

I grew in dis ..nd we(my elder brother and I) often tell him to stop...but sometimes he'll jst unnecessarily bring it up...

my brother got admission immediately he finished from school
I got mine 4years after I finished

but before I did..he wuld compare d living daylight out to of me..

how my brother got admission cos he's brilliant..how I should be like him

how I should walk like him..nd talk like him

i wasn't a dull student..nd d olodos in my class got admission b4 me..am I to fight wat life gives me?

Before d fight ..me nd my brother do virtually everything together.. we are even planning on investing in a business..

I took up home tutorship during my spare time jst to avoid asking my dad for money

Nigerian parents should stop dis

LaExpert:
He could break your head if he decides to get back at you, he's your elder brother. The fact that you fought him alone can make him have funny thoughts and plans towards you.

You seem very naive and stubborn and probably deserve that treatment from your Dad. Even though it may not be the best, your brother has mastered how to take the positives and be a better person...and you're being envious.

Apologise sincerely to your Dad and siblings, then focus on how to successfully graduate from school and be a better person.

naive and Sturborn?.. mr man..am a fine young man..who knows wat he's doin..nd who makes mistakes..

my brother won't have dat kinda tut if harming me later...we've known each other for 20+ years..nd we both set goals together
..it's was a regrettable miss understanding

been envious?.. am working hard in my field to make my family proud...am so happy my brother got d job he's doin....its more money to d family..

But am still a students.. hoping to be like him wen I grow up..but wen someone expects u to be making money like ur brother..nd u don't av d qualifications to even get a job yet.. he makes u feel useless to d family.. like ur jst a liability not an assets

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deflover:



So did you finally make the 2:1 or 1st class or u turned an ashawo
Cos that's all I can read from your write up
A rebel

I was ready for all dis comments before I posted d writeup..nd no am not yet a graduate.. but would soon be one
am not a rebel..nd neva been a violent person... it was a huge mistake from my part...I could av jst walked away from him..but I stayed back nd let d devil used me..

Goahead:
Why would you fight with your elder brother in the first place

lolz..I saw a lot of people talking about how foolish I am..nd how stupid of a young man I am..nd how proud I am for breaking my brothers nose...
i stated it clearly.. I felt bad..I couldn't sleep..we are good padis ...or rather we were


I posted dis cos we've Neva fought since our primary school days.nd fighting now was a big embarrassment on my mum

who we respect so much.. she cried a lot..nd we both ad to apologized to her


he accused me wrongly.. nd I didn't like it..he den proceeded in hitting me first..

God forgive me..but I already knew how he was hot temper..nd u don't talk back to him wen he's angry.. I was ready to make him pay for all d caparisons.. nd I made him hit me so I could fight back...stupid me

Neva proud of my action.. abi who fight EPP

we are guys nd we've got each others back
why would anyone reasonable brothers wana trade dat for a fight?..

We just got stupid in d heat of d moment
NOTE:
I got injured too..nd I broke my arm..I didn't add dat cos am more concern about wat I did to my innocent brother.(moreover his name is also innocent)

am still getting treatment.. nd we avoid each other for now

Recently I got into a fight with my elder brother..nd I broke his nose..it was a very bad thing for me ..but its jst d end product of wat my dad has been planting inside of me

It all started THUS

My dad is a master comparer ..wen we wer younger ...
he wuld compare us (me nd my brothers) to anyone he deems fit even if dat someone is worst Dan us..

.comparisons like

*--.why are we not leading d youth choir in our church like d pastor's son
*--why can't i take d first position in my class like Camoru Omo Iya alata
*-- why cant I win d scholarship like lagbaja even if my school is not offering any

I could remember last two years..a relative came visiting..dis guy recently came back from Obodo oyibo..nd he was forming all single nd holy..

here comes my dad again..comparing us to him..saying d guy has gone to a foreign land nd he was successful all because he was holy nd he abstained from women..

nd all we do here is think and gist about women(we are 6 boys)..we didn't take it lightly wit him..but we let it slide.

.only to get invited to a party by dis holy obodo oyibo guy..nd we met him rocking d biggest ukwu we've ever seen..Chai!!..God punish devil

Back to my main reason for writing dis..
My dad ridiculed me so much with my brothers success.. he wuld use every opportunity to compare me nd him

my brother is a graduate nd works for a big tech company.. while i'm still a 300level student

The comparison got so bad I started hating my brother..not because he's already successful Dan me...but my dad rubs it on my face always..like I should jst graduate sharp sharp nd start working

long story short.... we fought nd I broke his nose
NOW MY QUESTION IS
I know my dad wants to motivate us with d comparisons
But is it ideal to motivate someone( brother.. friend..anyone) by comparing him to another person..

nd if ur a victim like me..talk ur story

U jst av to love wen IBO men talk in diaspora.. Dier tone no de change.. Dem must put IBO inside...givet dat guy a beer pls. .
I wish I ad IBO toned voice..girl wuld love me..

Guy u don't need to learn how to pray in a rush..all u need is to change ur mindset.. spend time attending prayer gatherings nd weekly bible studies..
Currently my spiritual life is as good as dead as well..my family don't bother calling me for morning prayers..bt in my little way am crawling back into spiritual strength nd I attend vigils

Life story
Around 2009 I was dis way..lost nd careless about life..I could see a trailer nd imagine how it will feel jumping on d tyres.. ...den I was seeking admission.. I started attending service nd prayer sessions.. Within a month..I started enjoying it..I could pray for one hour...i was depressed b4 den..I saw no reason for living ..only my love for my little sis kept me going...bt I later found joy in d things of God...I smile each time my past "which makes me depressed come calling".. Cos I saw more reasons to live now.. than visit third mainland... I was so strong in prayers I almost forgot my initial reasons for turning spiritual
...
Jst dedicate urself ..to d things of God..it works like magic

Advice from a fellow lost fellow

Beautiful people..happy for them...
Would av been spiced up if d owners of d sperm product would av appeared in dat shoot..