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I can't imagine what a particular family at ijegun area of lagos is facing after their son killed a lady and mutilated her body.... Trust me they would be neva be the same... Even me sef no fit near them |
Am 29...and I did worst than u... Bet9ja included.. I dropped out at 300level due to addiction to gambling... I was also suicidal till I realized something... All I need to do, Is find a purpose to live... And pursue it.. I used to teach before lockdown.. Now am jobless.. Am far away from my family.. I hardly check on my friends.. Am jst waiting for that spark dat would spur me into renewed sense of living on purpose... So brother cheer up.. Once there's life there is hope.... Did I also add, my parent constantly shame me which is my only worry |
dhantey324:Exactly my thoughts |
I believe the level of hurt the mother was inflicting on this boy wasn't brutal... If it was, I doubt if there wuld be enough saneness in him to negotiate... New generation mothers are really changing the narratives.. ![]() |
marvelck:Our society has scammed us in the past |
SmartProf:Even if the money get disbursed.. 99% of the proprietors and school owners wuld either not pay the teachers or shortchange them... ![]() |
Balenciagaokey:My thoughts actually |
JasonScoolari:��� |
MJBOLT: ![]() |
funmijoyb:Make me laugh please �� |
Hoodbilonia:How is the looting her fault She acted in her capacity as financial minister to request for the fund.. She didn't spend it neither was she part of the people meant to acquire the equipments |
Zendinho:7 minus 6 is 1 And 1 times 6 equals 6 So it's the same amount.. Jst different figure ![]() |
The fire which we all estimated to have killed two people(an aboki whose kiosk got burnt and a bus driver who was caught in d inferno) but more deaths has been recorded no thanks to the Lagos state government's poor emergency management authorities Please don't mind my literal deficiencies...am Just trying to ring out an update on d current life situations of victims and survivals from this fire... And also voice my opinion on a lingering community problem we facing 9 people has been confirmed dead as at 6pm last night leaving two breathing survivals hanging on to d tiniest hope of life with the aid of an oxygen The Thursday early morning fire which began few minutes past four and claimed few lifes at the initial has almost wiped out A complete family of 7 (grandmother.. Father mother and 2children late) left is two daughter who we are still hoping will pull through... The Lagos state emergency management authority came on air and all media platforms saying victims of this inferno will be giving proper treatments for free....but the Truth is... They got abandoned immediately they were admitted into gbagada general hospital... This particular family of seven who got burnt in this inferno were unfortunately part of the victims dumped at gbagada hospital by LASEMA ... This hospital demanded a deposit of 100thousand naira before any treatment can be perform on the victims... We were shocked at d cruelty of this particular agency... The whole irede community landlords in ijegun and every other concerned community member were ask to come to their aid cos the whole family were incapacitated.. We all paid the little we could so treatment could commence but after raising d money We lost d grandmother and the mom.. Saturday we lost one of the twin.. And yesterday Morning we lost the pretty daughter zainab... My problem is not with the hospital actually... But how can an institution that is saddled with d responsibilities of protecting life nd property fail in protecting the life and still fails in saving what is left of the unprotected life... As in Why should a fire victim.... rescued by LASEMA...... be asked to pay a first aid FEE... It's atrocious... It's either someone is trying to make a quick cash from the non payment of the victims hospital treatment ... Or there was never a free first aid treatment in the first place.. I reside in ijegun... My apartment was few Meters away from been engulfed if not for some divine intervention nd maybe the swiftness of Lagos state fire service... I experienced the 2008 fire explosion which claimed more victims nd property due to the time it occurred ... But all victims to my knowledge didn't pay a dime till they got discharged.... And those who lost loved ones were assisted financially in their burial.. While doing some consulting with the aim of making this case against LASEMA public... I got some cold replies from the elders in the community... The general view was that.. Since the fire was triggered by vandals and not the government or any government agency the victims are on their own... Unlike 2008 which was caused by an ongoing road construction... This country is actually a shit hole.. There shouldn't be a condition written or unwritten that regulates d involvement of any government in saving lifes of dying victims....am actually typing this with a trembling heart... God help Nigeria Lalasticlala |
Britishcoins:.. I wana learn how to make money using admob... Here is my email.. Lexxyps2009@gmail.com . Pls reply |
eyinjuege:apologise done already.... |
Tolupage:God bless u man..tanks |
skuribeebo:OK |
mecussey:a day came...nd we(me nd my brothera)..threw such to my dad..he laughed nd promised Neva to do d comparison again.. but he soon forgot nd resumed d comparing d comparisons dosnt get to me anymore so I thought... until we fought now I wished he had listened nd stopped |
olori98:I for d umpteenth time...I only mentioned wat I did to my brother..cos its my nightmare..nd I regret it. .am currently nursing a broken arm...are u happy now? |
Desdola:I grew in dis ..nd we(my elder brother and I) often tell him to stop...but sometimes he'll jst unnecessarily bring it up... my brother got admission immediately he finished from school I got mine 4years after I finished but before I did..he wuld compare d living daylight out to of me.. how my brother got admission cos he's brilliant..how I should be like him how I should walk like him..nd talk like him i wasn't a dull student..nd d olodos in my class got admission b4 me..am I to fight wat life gives me? Before d fight ..me nd my brother do virtually everything together.. we are even planning on investing in a business.. I took up home tutorship during my spare time jst to avoid asking my dad for money Nigerian parents should stop dis |
LaExpert:naive and Sturborn?.. mr man..am a fine young man..who knows wat he's doin..nd who makes mistakes.. my brother won't have dat kinda tut if harming me later...we've known each other for 20+ years..nd we both set goals together ..it's was a regrettable miss understanding been envious?.. am working hard in my field to make my family proud...am so happy my brother got d job he's doin....its more money to d family.. But am still a students.. hoping to be like him wen I grow up..but wen someone expects u to be making money like ur brother..nd u don't av d qualifications to even get a job yet.. he makes u feel useless to d family.. like ur jst a liability not an assets . |
deflover:I was ready for all dis comments before I posted d writeup..nd no am not yet a graduate.. but would soon be one am not a rebel..nd neva been a violent person... it was a huge mistake from my part...I could av jst walked away from him..but I stayed back nd let d devil used me.. |
Goahead:lolz..I saw a lot of people talking about how foolish I am..nd how stupid of a young man I am..nd how proud I am for breaking my brothers nose... i stated it clearly.. I felt bad..I couldn't sleep..we are good padis ...or rather we were I posted dis cos we've Neva fought since our primary school days.nd fighting now was a big embarrassment on my mum who we respect so much.. she cried a lot..nd we both ad to apologized to her he accused me wrongly.. nd I didn't like it..he den proceeded in hitting me first.. God forgive me..but I already knew how he was hot temper..nd u don't talk back to him wen he's angry.. I was ready to make him pay for all d caparisons.. nd I made him hit me so I could fight back...stupid me Neva proud of my action.. abi who fight EPP we are guys nd we've got each others back why would anyone reasonable brothers wana trade dat for a fight?.. We just got stupid in d heat of d moment NOTE: I got injured too..nd I broke my arm..I didn't add dat cos am more concern about wat I did to my innocent brother.(moreover his name is also innocent) am still getting treatment.. nd we avoid each other for now |
Recently I got into a fight with my elder brother..nd I broke his nose..it was a very bad thing for me ..but its jst d end product of wat my dad has been planting inside of me It all started THUS My dad is a master comparer ..wen we wer younger ... he wuld compare us (me nd my brothers) to anyone he deems fit even if dat someone is worst Dan us.. .comparisons like *--.why are we not leading d youth choir in our church like d pastor's son *--why can't i take d first position in my class like Camoru Omo Iya alata *-- why cant I win d scholarship like lagbaja even if my school is not offering any I could remember last two years..a relative came visiting..dis guy recently came back from Obodo oyibo..nd he was forming all single nd holy.. here comes my dad again..comparing us to him..saying d guy has gone to a foreign land nd he was successful all because he was holy nd he abstained from women.. nd all we do here is think and gist about women(we are 6 boys)..we didn't take it lightly wit him..but we let it slide. .only to get invited to a party by dis holy obodo oyibo guy..nd we met him rocking d biggest ukwu we've ever seen..Chai!!..God punish devil Back to my main reason for writing dis.. My dad ridiculed me so much with my brothers success.. he wuld use every opportunity to compare me nd him my brother is a graduate nd works for a big tech company.. while i'm still a 300level student The comparison got so bad I started hating my brother..not because he's already successful Dan me...but my dad rubs it on my face always..like I should jst graduate sharp sharp nd start working long story short.... we fought nd I broke his nose NOW MY QUESTION IS I know my dad wants to motivate us with d comparisons But is it ideal to motivate someone( brother.. friend..anyone) by comparing him to another person.. nd if ur a victim like me..talk ur story |
U jst av to love wen IBO men talk in diaspora.. Dier tone no de change.. Dem must put IBO inside...givet dat guy a beer pls. .I wish I ad IBO toned voice..girl wuld love me.. ![]() |
Guy u don't need to learn how to pray in a rush..all u need is to change ur mindset.. spend time attending prayer gatherings nd weekly bible studies.. Currently my spiritual life is as good as dead as well..my family don't bother calling me for morning prayers..bt in my little way am crawling back into spiritual strength nd I attend vigils Life story Around 2009 I was dis way..lost nd careless about life..I could see a trailer nd imagine how it will feel jumping on d tyres.. ...den I was seeking admission.. I started attending service nd prayer sessions.. Within a month..I started enjoying it..I could pray for one hour...i was depressed b4 den..I saw no reason for living ..only my love for my little sis kept me going...bt I later found joy in d things of God...I smile each time my past "which makes me depressed come calling".. Cos I saw more reasons to live now.. than visit third mainland... I was so strong in prayers I almost forgot my initial reasons for turning spiritual... Jst dedicate urself ..to d things of God..it works like magic Advice from a fellow lost fellow ![]() |
Am guessing Lizzy has been visiting spiritual places.. But Amanda is too soft for my liking..she appears strong BT too feeble wen it comes to love.. Now she can't even fight for her love.. If am nelson I won't take her back after all dis ..she fvck up.. ![]() |
Awesome.. Keep it coming |
Keep it coming NNE...Am enjoying every bit of ur story Chumzypinky: |
Beautiful people..happy for them... Would av been spiced up if d owners of d sperm product would av appeared in dat shoot.. |
NNE continue.. Am loving every bit oh it.. Were dat ur husband BLESSEDMAN ..always lookin forward to his comments.. ![]() |
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