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MissIndependent:
Also, what is their mode of receiving lectures? Please respond.... thank you

lectures are on the LMS

MissIndependent:
How do I join them? Is it on my portal or?

yea on the portal. Since they told u September, you can remind them when it's close

MissIndependent:
I just got information about the program Last week because I had another school in mind. After I concluded I will finally choose ABU DLC, I started registration, did my screening after paying form fees etc. They sent me a mail that I was approved for admission to study Master in International Affairs and Diplomacy. I didn't even know the registration started a long time.....now the course Reg is closed and they said I have to wait till September for the next round. I have asked if it would not affect my previous Registration/Applications and they said it won't. That I will start counting from September 2025 and conclude the Program September 2026.

oh.. information is power. Immediately after the screening, you should have done the registration. I think batch c have started signing up..so u can join them

MissIndependent:
I have done that and they told me same on the mail to wait till September.

u mean u haven't registered any course at all?

MissIndependent:
Greetings please they said I can't apply for any course registration again that I am late and have to wait for September. Please hope it will not affect my admission? ABU DLC Masters in International Affairs and Diplomacy applicant. Please help... 🥺

email them

coringo:
Who has applied for the ABUDLC? Which will be preferable ABUDLC or BABCOCK online MBA program?

I applied. the deadline is 29th. awaiting to be assigned to a tutor

My online products are only slightly negotiable.
If you pester me, I'll just ignore

do they have a community where you can interact with other students

do they have a community where you can interact with other students

dammybrite:
Good afternoon, Nairalanders

I am considering Master's degree in Public Health at the Abu Zaria University Distance Learning Centre which is expected to be almost exclusively online except screening and exams that will take place at designated centres in different regions. Has any Nairalander completed any Master's degree program with this institute? I am highly interested in the experience of different persons... Thanks in anticipation of your response.

Elusive001:
For the fact that your dad contributed immensely to the wellbeing of others DOES NOT that they owe you or him any gratitude. Know this and know peace. Do not expect much from people.

Secondly, you ought have informed your uncle that you were to get married. He does not have to call you. It is your duty to inform him.

please read carefully before commenting.

I said he was informed.

dont understand your point

ChangedMan1999:
Honestly if you are not a billionaire, never think of sending your children to private university.

Money doesn't grow on trees.

You are not a ritualist

Have foresight that that excess money will save you in future

Kobojunkie:
Ask your mother since he is her brother and the one who was meant to be responsible for your upbringing since you are her child.

I have..
I do challenge his opinions...he doesn't want to. He hates corrections as long as he has money. Also because I left his house to rent an apartment

laivwire:
What if none of them treated you well even when your father was alive?

Its good that you are coming of age and you see how siblings who honestly loved each other and were inseperate as kids grow up to become resentful to each other. That's life and it happens.

Focus on your future and personal development. Build new relationships. It would suprise you that "some" friends become closer than family.

If you can, do well to take care of your nieces and nephews. They're the ones who would come through when you are old and wrinkled.

yeah sure I will...I just didn't understand where the resentment to me was coming from.

SKhanmi:
The way you allow people to treat you is what will continue.

Maintain your lane, focus on your family, try and draw your siblings close and only call him once in a year.

Respect is reciprocal. Stop feeling subservient to him.

thank you

Ibechris2:
Don't ever ignore ur uncle.

I don't see any problem in this kind of family at all.

Your uncle has actually played a part in u people's life,don't count everything against him.

Thankfully,ur father was a bridge builder and a wonderful man who actually set a standard for all.

Life no balance any where.

I get you but there's a limit to the subtle and direct insults to an adult in his 30s like me.

ZBUGZY:
No one can really understand what you are going through. But from experience hustle and be successful. Everyone will acknowledge you. Just stay focused on your life goals.

Thank you..I appreciate

It's going to be a long read. I'll like to describe my paternal and maternal families.

My late dad played a vital role in both families. In the paternal, he trained all both in business, education and even sent some abroad. His after thought was that they will replicate same gesture on his kids. It wasn't tho..Even when he died, they were looking to sell his lands so they could fund the burial..igbo burials are expensive. Tho they helped once in a while after we all became graduates.

Now to my maternal family, my dad also contributed. Gave Mom's bro a job, trained one in university, trained one and settled in the university.. They tried tho as we spent most of our university hols with them and they gave us some stipends while in school.

Mom's bro, their first son, who's my uncle, call him Uncle T, really tried for us.
We went to private university so fees are quite expensive. Dad would borrow money from Uncle T and pay back so we could pay fees. When Dad and my late sis passed away, he also contributed to it positively.

The only problem with Uncle T is arrogance and pride. When my mom would plead to borrow money for fees when we're in school, he would flare up and say things like 'he has not trained his own kids and he wants to contribute for another'. Tho he may later do it but he always says some hurtful things before helping.

Sometimes, he would come in my room in his house and start searching if I were with a lady. Also told his kids to stop playing with me. I noticed .

I endured a lot of these but after my dad's burial, I made sure I left his apartment and got mine even tho it was difficult.. I needed to be a man and get my own respect no matter how little because the insults were becoming too much.

My younger bro also moved in with me. I noticed my uncle wasn't happy with my relocation but I was happier and had peace of mind. He talked well with my younger bro and I noticed my brother's attitude towards me changed. Ive asked him what the problem was but he keeps pretending that all was well.

My uncle never visited me for once for the 2 years I spent in my new apartment but when I got a job in Lagos, his kids visited my younger bro.

I still try as much as possible to call him every 1st of a new month to greet him. One of my younger siblings who's still in school goes to his house for hols. I had a very strange feeling about him so I called my uncle, after all the greetings and after asking about his family, I asked after my younger bro and he said all was well.

Few days later younger bro called me to tell me he's only being fed once a day and he uses his money to go to his shop daily and he's sick. I felt bad tho and I gave him funds to take care of himself.

The one that pained me to date was when I told him I'd get married soon. He appeared happy and said I should carry him along on everything. I made sure I did from when we went for lab tests and all.

Unfortunately, the wedding didn't work out due to family disagreement. My mom communicated to her family. Her brothers called me except my uncle. I called him and he said.."yes , your mom told me everything and I said I won't call you. You shouldn't be angry..it's one of those things..I didn't give birth to a boy...only girls"

This was too vile..I told my mom about it but she sounded defensive.

There are lots I can't type here but for now...I've stopped calling him or any relative.

It's going to be a long read. I'll like to describe my paternal and maternal families.

My late dad played a vital role in both families. In the paternal, he trained all both in business, education and even sent some abroad. His after thought was that they will replicate same gesture on his kids. It wasn't tho..Even when he died, they were looking to sell his lands so they could fund the burial..igbo burials are expensive. Tho they helped once in a while after we all became graduates.

Now to my maternal family, my dad also contributed. Gave Mom's bro a job, trained one in university, trained one and settled in the university.. They tried tho as we spent most of our university hols with them and they gave us some stipends while in school.

Mom's bro, their first son, who's my uncle, call him Uncle T, really tried for us.
We went to private university so fees are quite expensive. Dad would borrow money from Uncle T and pay back so we could pay fees. When Dad and my late sis passed away, he also contributed to it positively.

The only problem with Uncle T is arrogance and pride. When my mom would plead to borrow money for fees when we're in school, he would flare up and say things like 'he has not trained his own kids and he wants to contribute for another'. Tho he may later do it but he always says some hurtful things before helping.

Sometimes, he would come in my room in his house and start searching if I were with a lady. Also told his kids to stop playing with me. I noticed .

I endured a lot of these but after my dad's burial, I made sure I left his apartment and got mine even tho it was difficult.. I needed to be a man and get my own respect no matter how little because the insults were becoming too much.

My younger bro also moved in with me. I noticed my uncle wasn't happy with my relocation but I was happier and had peace of mind. He talked well with my younger bro and I noticed my brother's attitude towards me changed. Ive asked him what the problem was but he keeps pretending that all was well.

My uncle never visited me for once for the 2 years I spent in my new apartment but when I got a job in Lagos, his kids visited my younger bro.

I still try as much as possible to call him every 1st of a new month to greet him. One of my younger siblings who's still in school goes to his house for hols. I had a very strange feeling about him so I called my uncle, after all the greetings and after asking about his family, I asked after my younger bro and he said all was well.

Few days later younger bro called me to tell me he's only being fed once a day and he uses his money to go to his shop daily and he's sick. I felt bad tho and I gave him funds to take care of himself.

The one that pained me to date was when I told him I'd get married soon. He appeared happy and said I should carry him along on everything. I made sure I did from when we went for lab tests and all.

Unfortunately, the wedding didn't work out due to family disagreement. My mom communicated to her family. Her brothers called me except my uncle. I called him and he said.."yes , your mom told me everything and I said I won't call you. You shouldn't be angry..it's one of those things..I didn't give birth to a boy...only girls"

This was too vile..I told my mom about it but she sounded defensive.

There are lots I can't type here but for now...I've stopped calling him or any relative.

Mrexcell:
Don't even know what happened to their network for over a week now.

it's a shitty network.
They've blocked my line again after opening for 3 days

Glo has blocked and re-opened my line 5 times in the last 5 months without prior notice. I've left the line for them

adaperry25:
Why is everyone lawless and gets away with anything in this country?

This is the second time Glo would block my line. They did in 2024...all my calls to the cc, visit to their office proved abortive.

I had to rant and tag them on X in a public space before it was rectified.

Now they are blocking it saying for routine checks and I should be patient without giving a timeline to fix the issue.

How can you go on a routine check without informing your customers? I'm really tired of everything.

Please if you have any solutions, kindly respond to this thread

so no solution to this?

Why is everyone lawless and gets away with anything in this country?

This is the second time Glo would block my line. They did in 2024...all my calls to the cc, visit to their office proved abortive.

I had to rant and tag them on X in a public space before it was rectified.

Now they are blocking it saying for routine checks and I should be patient without giving a timeline to fix the issue.

How can you go on a routine check without informing your customers? I'm really tired of everything.

Please if you have any solutions, kindly respond to this thread

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
na weyrey you be for thinking everything handled in lunatic way that you are

don't mind him. I just wanted my issue resolved. I told the lady who helped me to reorientate her staff. It's a system issue. People are not checked

People are looking for jobs while the employed keep toying with the ones they have.

I had a bitter experience with a CC of an insurance bank . I sent money since last month to my insurance account and sent receipt to the CC on Whatsapp to confirm.

Cc replied after a week that it's yet to reflect. I had to send a mail to my bank and they confirmed the transaction was successful and even sent the session id of the transaction.

I sent all these to the CC and got no reply for over 3 weeks. Sent a mail ..no response. I was frustrated.

Luckily for me, I sell some items online and a customer told me to deliver items at same insurance bank address. It struck me because that's the same insurance bank I was using and I knew she may be a staff.

I messaged her and detailed my issues of the payment I made a month ago. In less than 3 days, the issue was resolved and my payment confirmed. I told her of what the CC did.

CC immediately responded to me on Whatsapp, apologized for the delayed response and confirmed my payment.

Now my question is
What if I didn't meet this customer that helped me? My money will just go like that..

Please if you're employed, take your job seriously and stop any form of eye service.

People are looking for jobs while the employed keep toying with the ones they have.

I had a bitter experience with a CC of an insurance bank . I sent money since last month to my insurance account and sent receipt to the CC on Whatsapp to confirm.

Cc replied after a week that it's yet to reflect. I had to send a mail to my bank and they confirmed the transaction was successful and even sent the session id of the transaction.

I sent all these to the CC and got no reply for over 3 weeks. Sent a mail ..no response. I was frustrated.

Luckily for me, I sell some items online and a customer told me to deliver items at same insurance bank address. It struck me because that's the same insurance bank I was using and I knew she may be a staff.

I messaged her and detailed my issues of the payment I made a month ago. In less than 3 days, the issue was resolved and my payment confirmed. I told her of what the CC did.

CC immediately responded to me on Whatsapp, apologized for the delayed response and confirmed my payment.

Now my question is
What if I didn't meet this customer that helped me? My money will just go like that..

Please if you're employed, take your job seriously and stop any form of eye service.

the more you look, the less you see

Damilgodwin:
Baba don't be tribalistic. If na Anambra babe nko

u have any?

I've not been lucky in relationships. Now I'm trying to get married and it seems all the ladies I meet have a red flag.

I created a thread on my last relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/8324668/wedding-plans-suspended-advice

My uncle referred one to me and she's subtly billing already. Saying her phone hangs and she doesn't take calls only Whatsapp. I'll call and she won't pick up and she'll say hello on Whatsapp.

I have prayed and fasted.

I just need a 25-28 yo igbo lady preferably imo state that's very reasonable

Am I the problem or is it a general thing for Nigerian women?

I've not been lucky in relationships. Now I'm trying to get married and it seems all the ladies I meet have a red flag.

I created a thread on my last relationship
https://www.nairaland.com/8324668/wedding-plans-suspended-advice

My uncle referred one to me and she's subtly billing already. Saying her phone hangs and she doesn't take calls only Whatsapp. I'll call and she won't pick up and she'll say hello on Whatsapp.

I have prayed and fasted.

I just need a 25-28 yo igbo lady preferably imo state that's very reasonable

Am I the problem or is it a general thing for Nigerian women?

anyone knows where i can play or join a club in table tennis in ota? 1000 airtime for any recommendations?

Shidinky:
Payments don' dey hang
Quarter to close

sure about this

olatade:
E be like say this VDM fight with girls well-well when e dey small.

na the ratel