₦airaland Forum

eagleonearth:
don't try this. It fosters divisiveness. Roman Catholics are hard to win over to Pentecostal. Talk it out with her before proceeding. If two does not agree, they cannot move together. This is a lifelong journey as death only can separate you except one of you decides to quit and stay unmarried.

thank you

My family is Catholic...tho I changed to Pentecostal..been under pressure to get married..got a girl that's quite a good lady...she said she can't follow me to my church...that we could attend different churches while married. I'm just confused

Glo that block my line every month... useless network

This illiterate governor. Nigeria put round pegs in square holes

coringo:
Which did you apply for?

Seems its same Edutech powering ABUDLC and Babcock.

ABUDLC

Obaaderemi2:
You disrespected him by adding the footnote: we are our own enemies. That was unnecessary on a public forum

we are our own problems..read that carefully......that was on my status

SeeWahala:
But that incident happened in anambra, don't you have people from anambra in that same group you could have been asking such questions? 🤔

Why focus the enugu guy? Because he's your friend?

is eha amufu in anambra? Research before you type pls

SeeWahala:
So kindly tell us your own opinion on the killings so we know if your friend was right to block you or not 🤔

He's from Enugu. I needed more information on who, why and where it happened and also to inform other group members

We have a class Whatsapp group so we often keep in touch and discuss politics, entertainment, football etc.

So one time I tagged him to discuss the killings in eha amufu, Enugu and he denied any killings there that it was propaganda. I even had to show a X screenshot of someone from there and he said it wasn't real that the Governor was doing the best.

Few weeks later, I saw another news of eha amufu killings and posted it on my status with the caption " we are our own problems" and my friend deleted my number , stopped communicating with me and we can't view each other's status.

I'm from imo state and I do criticize my own governor once there's any bad news coming from there.

So we have die hard fans of bad governance even in the eastern states. Na wa o

MissIndependent:
What is LMS please?

learning management system

MissIndependent:
Also, what is their mode of receiving lectures? Please respond.... thank you

lectures are on the LMS

MissIndependent:
How do I join them? Is it on my portal or?

yea on the portal. Since they told u September, you can remind them when it's close

MissIndependent:
I just got information about the program Last week because I had another school in mind. After I concluded I will finally choose ABU DLC, I started registration, did my screening after paying form fees etc. They sent me a mail that I was approved for admission to study Master in International Affairs and Diplomacy. I didn't even know the registration started a long time.....now the course Reg is closed and they said I have to wait till September for the next round. I have asked if it would not affect my previous Registration/Applications and they said it won't. That I will start counting from September 2025 and conclude the Program September 2026.

oh.. information is power. Immediately after the screening, you should have done the registration. I think batch c have started signing up..so u can join them

MissIndependent:
I have done that and they told me same on the mail to wait till September.

u mean u haven't registered any course at all?

MissIndependent:
Greetings please they said I can't apply for any course registration again that I am late and have to wait for September. Please hope it will not affect my admission? ABU DLC Masters in International Affairs and Diplomacy applicant. Please help... 🥺

email them

coringo:
Who has applied for the ABUDLC? Which will be preferable ABUDLC or BABCOCK online MBA program?

I applied. the deadline is 29th. awaiting to be assigned to a tutor

My online products are only slightly negotiable.
If you pester me, I'll just ignore

do they have a community where you can interact with other students

do they have a community where you can interact with other students

dammybrite:
Good afternoon, Nairalanders

I am considering Master's degree in Public Health at the Abu Zaria University Distance Learning Centre which is expected to be almost exclusively online except screening and exams that will take place at designated centres in different regions. Has any Nairalander completed any Master's degree program with this institute? I am highly interested in the experience of different persons... Thanks in anticipation of your response.

Elusive001:
For the fact that your dad contributed immensely to the wellbeing of others DOES NOT that they owe you or him any gratitude. Know this and know peace. Do not expect much from people.

Secondly, you ought have informed your uncle that you were to get married. He does not have to call you. It is your duty to inform him.

please read carefully before commenting.

I said he was informed.

dont understand your point

ChangedMan1999:
Honestly if you are not a billionaire, never think of sending your children to private university.

Money doesn't grow on trees.

You are not a ritualist

Have foresight that that excess money will save you in future

Kobojunkie:
Ask your mother since he is her brother and the one who was meant to be responsible for your upbringing since you are her child.

I have..
I do challenge his opinions...he doesn't want to. He hates corrections as long as he has money. Also because I left his house to rent an apartment

laivwire:
What if none of them treated you well even when your father was alive?

Its good that you are coming of age and you see how siblings who honestly loved each other and were inseperate as kids grow up to become resentful to each other. That's life and it happens.

Focus on your future and personal development. Build new relationships. It would suprise you that "some" friends become closer than family.

If you can, do well to take care of your nieces and nephews. They're the ones who would come through when you are old and wrinkled.

yeah sure I will...I just didn't understand where the resentment to me was coming from.

SKhanmi:
The way you allow people to treat you is what will continue.

Maintain your lane, focus on your family, try and draw your siblings close and only call him once in a year.

Respect is reciprocal. Stop feeling subservient to him.

thank you

Ibechris2:
Don't ever ignore ur uncle.

I don't see any problem in this kind of family at all.

Your uncle has actually played a part in u people's life,don't count everything against him.

Thankfully,ur father was a bridge builder and a wonderful man who actually set a standard for all.

Life no balance any where.

I get you but there's a limit to the subtle and direct insults to an adult in his 30s like me.

ZBUGZY:
No one can really understand what you are going through. But from experience hustle and be successful. Everyone will acknowledge you. Just stay focused on your life goals.

Thank you..I appreciate

It's going to be a long read. I'll like to describe my paternal and maternal families.

My late dad played a vital role in both families. In the paternal, he trained all both in business, education and even sent some abroad. His after thought was that they will replicate same gesture on his kids. It wasn't tho..Even when he died, they were looking to sell his lands so they could fund the burial..igbo burials are expensive. Tho they helped once in a while after we all became graduates.

Now to my maternal family, my dad also contributed. Gave Mom's bro a job, trained one in university, trained one and settled in the university.. They tried tho as we spent most of our university hols with them and they gave us some stipends while in school.

Mom's bro, their first son, who's my uncle, call him Uncle T, really tried for us.
We went to private university so fees are quite expensive. Dad would borrow money from Uncle T and pay back so we could pay fees. When Dad and my late sis passed away, he also contributed to it positively.

The only problem with Uncle T is arrogance and pride. When my mom would plead to borrow money for fees when we're in school, he would flare up and say things like 'he has not trained his own kids and he wants to contribute for another'. Tho he may later do it but he always says some hurtful things before helping.

Sometimes, he would come in my room in his house and start searching if I were with a lady. Also told his kids to stop playing with me. I noticed .

I endured a lot of these but after my dad's burial, I made sure I left his apartment and got mine even tho it was difficult.. I needed to be a man and get my own respect no matter how little because the insults were becoming too much.

My younger bro also moved in with me. I noticed my uncle wasn't happy with my relocation but I was happier and had peace of mind. He talked well with my younger bro and I noticed my brother's attitude towards me changed. Ive asked him what the problem was but he keeps pretending that all was well.

My uncle never visited me for once for the 2 years I spent in my new apartment but when I got a job in Lagos, his kids visited my younger bro.

I still try as much as possible to call him every 1st of a new month to greet him. One of my younger siblings who's still in school goes to his house for hols. I had a very strange feeling about him so I called my uncle, after all the greetings and after asking about his family, I asked after my younger bro and he said all was well.

Few days later younger bro called me to tell me he's only being fed once a day and he uses his money to go to his shop daily and he's sick. I felt bad tho and I gave him funds to take care of himself.

The one that pained me to date was when I told him I'd get married soon. He appeared happy and said I should carry him along on everything. I made sure I did from when we went for lab tests and all.

Unfortunately, the wedding didn't work out due to family disagreement. My mom communicated to her family. Her brothers called me except my uncle. I called him and he said.."yes , your mom told me everything and I said I won't call you. You shouldn't be angry..it's one of those things..I didn't give birth to a boy...only girls"

This was too vile..I told my mom about it but she sounded defensive.

There are lots I can't type here but for now...I've stopped calling him or any relative.

It's going to be a long read. I'll like to describe my paternal and maternal families.

My late dad played a vital role in both families. In the paternal, he trained all both in business, education and even sent some abroad. His after thought was that they will replicate same gesture on his kids. It wasn't tho..Even when he died, they were looking to sell his lands so they could fund the burial..igbo burials are expensive. Tho they helped once in a while after we all became graduates.

Now to my maternal family, my dad also contributed. Gave Mom's bro a job, trained one in university, trained one and settled in the university.. They tried tho as we spent most of our university hols with them and they gave us some stipends while in school.

Mom's bro, their first son, who's my uncle, call him Uncle T, really tried for us.
We went to private university so fees are quite expensive. Dad would borrow money from Uncle T and pay back so we could pay fees. When Dad and my late sis passed away, he also contributed to it positively.

The only problem with Uncle T is arrogance and pride. When my mom would plead to borrow money for fees when we're in school, he would flare up and say things like 'he has not trained his own kids and he wants to contribute for another'. Tho he may later do it but he always says some hurtful things before helping.

Sometimes, he would come in my room in his house and start searching if I were with a lady. Also told his kids to stop playing with me. I noticed .

I endured a lot of these but after my dad's burial, I made sure I left his apartment and got mine even tho it was difficult.. I needed to be a man and get my own respect no matter how little because the insults were becoming too much.

My younger bro also moved in with me. I noticed my uncle wasn't happy with my relocation but I was happier and had peace of mind. He talked well with my younger bro and I noticed my brother's attitude towards me changed. Ive asked him what the problem was but he keeps pretending that all was well.

My uncle never visited me for once for the 2 years I spent in my new apartment but when I got a job in Lagos, his kids visited my younger bro.

I still try as much as possible to call him every 1st of a new month to greet him. One of my younger siblings who's still in school goes to his house for hols. I had a very strange feeling about him so I called my uncle, after all the greetings and after asking about his family, I asked after my younger bro and he said all was well.

Few days later younger bro called me to tell me he's only being fed once a day and he uses his money to go to his shop daily and he's sick. I felt bad tho and I gave him funds to take care of himself.

The one that pained me to date was when I told him I'd get married soon. He appeared happy and said I should carry him along on everything. I made sure I did from when we went for lab tests and all.

Unfortunately, the wedding didn't work out due to family disagreement. My mom communicated to her family. Her brothers called me except my uncle. I called him and he said.."yes , your mom told me everything and I said I won't call you. You shouldn't be angry..it's one of those things..I didn't give birth to a boy...only girls"

This was too vile..I told my mom about it but she sounded defensive.

There are lots I can't type here but for now...I've stopped calling him or any relative.

Mrexcell:
Don't even know what happened to their network for over a week now.

it's a shitty network.
They've blocked my line again after opening for 3 days

Glo has blocked and re-opened my line 5 times in the last 5 months without prior notice. I've left the line for them

adaperry25:
Why is everyone lawless and gets away with anything in this country?

This is the second time Glo would block my line. They did in 2024...all my calls to the cc, visit to their office proved abortive.

I had to rant and tag them on X in a public space before it was rectified.

Now they are blocking it saying for routine checks and I should be patient without giving a timeline to fix the issue.

How can you go on a routine check without informing your customers? I'm really tired of everything.

Please if you have any solutions, kindly respond to this thread

so no solution to this?

Why is everyone lawless and gets away with anything in this country?

This is the second time Glo would block my line. They did in 2024...all my calls to the cc, visit to their office proved abortive.

I had to rant and tag them on X in a public space before it was rectified.

Now they are blocking it saying for routine checks and I should be patient without giving a timeline to fix the issue.

How can you go on a routine check without informing your customers? I'm really tired of everything.

Please if you have any solutions, kindly respond to this thread