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Myer:
There are 3 things involved.
She's either in another relationship and you're the back-up or she is simply not so used to this relationship thing or she needs time.

Communication is every thing.
Have you asked her if she is in a relationship?
Have you asked her the time convenient for you both to talk?

Seems you have given yourself a yargey/deadline to marry as most Migerians do. Patience is a virtue. Build a friendship with her and see how it goes from there.
Your communication will naturally improve when she begins to like you.

Oxdorf:
If you're going via study route, precisely via scholarship, 2million is more than enough to cover you, even including your flight ticket.

ucheuzor1:
I have worked remotely with a company there and also have some of my friends relocate there. It's cool and also pays well. I am talking for IT related jobs though.

I don't know about teaching/lecturing so I can't say. They have their local Maltese language as well but they speak English as major language.

Abiliboi:
In Vietnam, you can teach the English language, and your pay is in lucrative dollars

perfectedQueen:
Are you looking for that lady that will love you and give you peace and you are ready to settle soon. You are tired of Games and please you should be from the East ( to avoid family drama…I don’t want to waste your time) and you can also give me peace and love me then let talk
I’m 26 years old
I’m from the East
A man that know what he want
And you’re working
Ready to settle down
WHATSAPP 0704799156

C2Ok:
If your story is true
Then I sure hope you don’t regret your decision in the nearest future.
Thanks for letting the girl go tho, that’s also a matured thing 👀

WeirdAlien:
A bird and a fish can fall in love . The great question is "where would they build their nest?"

You guys want different things. Love sometimes means you let go of that person so they can find the happiness they won't have with you.

You have a family decision not to travel, what if it's the universe speaking to you that you could be in better position to help your siblings abroad?

With her family abroad, sooner or later, she will travel. If she is smart, she knows it's unwise to stay back in naija because of a man who could dump her at any time. Not that you're the kind of person, but bro, shit happens.

The bird and the fish in love... They both know how it ends.

Adeoye11:
Since you no wan go sir , make me her dependent sir...

Mhizzard:
If truely,she really loves you can abid by her decision.being a first son,doesn't mean you can travel out.but there is another excuse apart from this.or you give her the suggestion that after having a child you people could travel

2goodbobo:
As I speak to you my 2 Brothers are doing just the same thing your brother is doing. From taking drugs to stealing and selling my Father’s properties to dropping out from School. My mum is late and had BP because of them. I have done my best to change them but to no avail. I have decided to since leave them to their fate.

I intend to get a place for my dad where he can stay away from them. He is no longer enjoying his stay in the house he build because of them and I am tired of complain here and there. I pray they change for good.

sunnymighty:
Take him to a rehab.

Versitee:
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