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Please I need clarification.
Would you tell your babe or wife about your financial status before she agrees to support if she has or would you allow her see things for herself before she decides to help out

illicit:
Tomboy


I am knacking one tomboy this Sunday...

do you have them in your neighborhood

OGHENAOGIE:
obidients are just social media nuisance and trolls so nothing like rivalry... Anyone in that camp hardly reason well...

batist spotted

Obidients v barists.

If obidients existed in the 80s..our parents would have been enlightened in the choice of their leaders.

I recently got a 1000w solar generator and 2 180w panels. I noticed a few things.

1. At night..when I charge with nepa..it takes forever to charge well. Infact the bars doesn't move but from 7am..it starts charging well and gets full fast within 3-4 hours.

2. When I use nepa to charge and it gets full 100%..if nepa takes light and I change over to solar..the bars drop to 80 or 60%.

Please I need advise how I can optimize the solar generator.

I attached the pic

ibechris:
I don't know the kind of woman she is especially with money but what I can say is that,make sure ur wife to be is working and money discussion should be uppermost in ur home.


It is very,very important.

thanks

I told my fiancee that we needed to discuss finances before marriage as that's one of the issues many couple face in marriage.

So I told her I'll do major of the responsibilities and would like to know what her input would be.

She responded by saying she's only meant to support and a fixed role shouldn't be assigned to her that it's only when I'm not capable of doing something that she would assist .

So I need inputs from experienced married people.

I want to join Alt school

Scholar212:
If you are active on twitter, you will know Alt_school has gained massive popularity and support from senior tech founders in Africa. Some people sponsored over 200 women to register, another did same for Ghanaians and someone else did for another African country. They have Angel Investors funds and massive support from many tech founders. If you are truly an interested, apply for it. You will be sent learning material for the screening test, I am in the health sector and transitioning to tech with their training.

are u done with the program..how was the experience

FreeStuffsNG:
Paper loss actually Their revenue short up and they're still making big money here in Nigeria!

just be telling lies like a kid

Mrchippychappy:
So Mazi Kanu was right?

How pls

PureFace1:
Everything doesn't revolve around you still pain about Election lost, the economy failure if Nigeria don't diversify from crude oil predicted since the time of GEJ is finally here even if your Peter Obi was the one there he would be forced to face the same issues and implement the same policies.

stop all this gaslighting....enjoy your 8 years

Watianoengineer:
Those shouting Peter Obi up and down as if he has magic wand what would Obi had done differently? Peter Obi that failed in Anambra is who they are comparing with a man that set the template for modern Lagos. Even if the price of cement is 50k, we will continue to pray for and support the renewed hope agenda of President Tinubu

keep praying, lying and deceiving your generations

oliverwrites:
I really don't understand you people that wish the country bad. What makes it worse is that 90% of you people earn in Nigeria. I earn in dollar, when there is inflation, my dollar gives me an edge or at worse cancels things out for me ( my buying power doesn't diminish ) but most of you people wishing hell on Nigeria earn in naira. Almost like putting fire to your one and only house with no escape route.

Quiet senseless if you ask me.

so our wishing good will make the dollar drop to 500.

You see something wrong and ignore?
Same tribe

adaperry25:
please who sells sofa cover wholesale

any update on this

Got promoted in my workplace and got a plot of land.
Thank you Jesus.
I'm hoping for God to give me the right woman to marry.

Juliearth:
It is certainly the kind of women you are meeting. I am open to having a "social experiment" with you to buttress my point.

how do I reach u

duduade:
They are simply not into you


Step up your game!!!!!

Give me example of game. At least I've dated a few in the past and we were good.

doggedfighter:
Just 2 women and you are already saying Nigerian ladies.


If you meet my type that will use communication
wound you . You will run and say they're clingy.


Try foreign angels like Jeon said.

Foreign ladies are perfect.

Na the one wey go use communication wound me I dey find abeg. I am an introvert. u get anyone especially from SE..abeg recommend..

JASONjnr:
Nope, when a woman behaves this way, she's either in a relationship or she doesn't just like you or she doesn't know you.

If you want this to change, meet her physically on a date and if you spoil her well... She might want to have a rethink about how she relates to you.

I have tho..i think probably one is an introvert and she's wired that way.

I'm an introvert too so it will be difficult

Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

Owutuotuo:
My feedback will be strictly based on your write up and not morals.

You showed a chart that depicts people’s opinion about it. The nature of your population and sample space was not disclosed. Who are those you considered? What are their age ranges mostly - teens, young adults, or middle aged? Is this a feedback from 10, 50, 100 or 1000 people? You also didn’t say. Are your respondents mostly men or women? You didn’t say. Their “why” would they or not do it isn’t checked.

On this basis, you may want to reconduct your survey, state your parameters and assumptions and they’ll help us understand the facts more, beyond your own obvious opinion.

Well done, and your topic is worth the read.

I see a data analyst

federal9:
30 million is all you need to live a comfortable lifestyle.

na wa o. With a student visa o

yrhuhfy113:
Make it 4/5 million if you don't want to be stranded and regret your life.


Being stranded in another country...... IS WORSE THAN ANYTHING YOU CAN IMAGINE.


So yes, you can but it will come with a lot of issues

do you know all that is required ?

dawnomike:
Before the new exchange rate - Maybe!

But now, that money will not get you to anywhere outside Africa

so how much are we looking at

immortalcrown:
Yes, Cotonou or Ghana no far. But na wrong decision.

not talking about African country.

How is it a wrong decision

I want to use student visa to travel to small countries like malta.

Please explain to me like a 5yo in detail what is involved and the breakdown.

Can 3m take me there?

Expecting good feedback.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Don't ever use money to woo a lady it always doesn't end well.

Leave her for sometime and gauge her interest, if she doesn't initiate communication try again the last time and move on to the next available option.

thank you. I've decided to ignore her. If she communicates..fine..if she doesn't..i move

imagrg:
Talk to her one-on-one.

I have done that

23jerryking:
Have you both had any one-on-one meeting? Probably an outing or something like that, if no then you should try take her somewhere private and spend some time together. But if this attitude continues after that then I guess you should just tell her to continue in her own lane as you guys don't share the same objective. Time is too precious to be wasted chasing shadows.

yeah I intend doing that but I hoped to get a positive energy with our communication via phone.
That will bring a push to us seeing physically.

Marynwachukwu21:
No serious suitor and they're looking for fairy use

come make we marry

I'll just observe for a couple of days and if she doesn't improve..ill withdraw