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Na wa oooo. Even during sallah too. Christians cannot be this barbaric. Some of these muslims no dey gree hear word.

80% of r/s ppl cannot be ikwerre. pls consult current statistics.

There's smth called 'balanced equation'.

There's smth called ' balanced equation'.

Mobinga:
:d :d +!

Mobinga, can u speak English!!!! LOL How u dey?

@ OP, I think that apart frm indiscipline n lack of self control, most men do it for unexplainable reasons. Associated with the FACT that its an African Culture. Its sad though, but its a fact that remains. For the girls, nobody forces u, u're well aware he's married n u have a choice to accept or not. As simple as that.

comechop:
Madness. Thanks for the midnight laugh all you clowns. Yes everyone of you.

@topic: its a spurious lawsuit - lacks merit and will be thrown out. Yes, taking pics of a total stranger in public is RUDE, but doesnt break any laws. Esp if those so called policemen were breaking the law, then kudos to the young man for trying to document it! We need more accountability in this country.

To fstranger and the other clown isheet4bodi - i honestly think ya'll are fit for eachother.
isheet4bodi has once again shown to us that there's more to woman than just her looks - after opening her mouth, showing us that she is probably well educated, but extremely foul mouthed and vile, no thanks, i'll pass. Lots of beautiful opinionated and sane girls with great bods out there too. What a shame tho - such potential. Just like in proverbs - a gold ring in the snout of a pig - what a waste!
besides, who the hell posts a pic of herself in a bikini on a random website? So pple can comment on how good you look? praise you? Lol attention seeking disorder - well she's getting it thats for sure!
@fstranger - well gat no words for you - you need some serious help no doubt. The earlier you figure that out and work towards that, d better for you.

Peace

Gbam

T.Woods pls enjoy urself. Life is but once. Everyone makes blunders. Its unfortunate ur own blunder has reverted u to singlehood. Its not by force to stay married, after all. Enjoy ur sweat jaree. Nothing do u.

Billionaire

Romeo4real:
If such happens, you need to take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror. Deliberately or through no fault of yours, It certainly means that you have failed that child as a parent.
Most Nigerians think the zenith of parenting is discipline, paying for education, putting food on the table, and a roof over the child head - and that if they accomplish that much!

Thank u jareeee, u'd be a very good parent.

Cyberfreak:
So what the men on this thread are saying is that EVERY MAN is going to cheat after he gets married? Oga o. This life na wa. You men are just capitalising on the fact that you can get married at practically any age and that society encourages polygamy for men to abuse the institution of marriage.
You can have the opportunity to cheat and get away with it, but you can still let the opportunity pass. If not for anything else at least avoid doing it because of the respect and obedience you should have for God. He forbids adultery and would not ask humans to refrain from it if he knew it was impossible for them to do so. No normal man will take it lightly with his wife if she has s.ex with another man while she is married to him. The thought itself leaves a sour taste in your mouth, so why have you chosen to deliberately put your wives through the trauma of knowing you constsntly sleep with other women outside? You guys seem to be proud of flaunting that 'Men are naturally polygamous' card. Naturally polygamous my foot. how about you use your silly 'naturally polygamous' excuse for your future sons in law if they decide to disrespect your daughters by bringing different diseases home to infect them with?
I am typing this message with pain in my heart because reading thrugh this thread has made me more acutely aware of much inhumanity towards other people is in the hearts of men.

RECOGNISED. Be strong. Shit happens.

El Guapo:
Lady am not really perfect but i jxt desire a woman to cover up my voids and she got to be perfect

Long thing

Bobajo:
Tolerance, Tolerance, Tolerance.

And an addition, if you equate cheating by a man to not being a good husband, you just missed the bus. From experience, seen, heard and felt - from talking to older men, younger men aand agemates - 98% of men will cheat at some point in time. It is hardwired in the genes. This has absolutely nothing to do with the man being a wonderful husband and a good father. Only God can do a re-wiring - and even then, sometimes the genes win - King David?

Moral of the story - Practice tolerance (for both parties). No person can be as you want them to be. It is impossible, and 2). Please dont equate cheating as being a bad man/husband (for the ladies).

. VERY VERY TRUE

Husband no easy find these days

Holiday

I strongly agree, the man, Ciroma, is battling for relevance. I urge Jonathan to completely ignore him.

I can't imagine this,

Without a doubt, I believe their economic policies should be adjusted to encourage foreign investment. That wld go a long way in improving their present economic status.

Unfortunate bullshit. Results frm decayed moral values.

Wetin dey happen for here?

Wonderful

deltalife:
Maybe you ex is not potential, But you are yet to tell the trught because no body was ever there with you.

Great, u know u're entitled to ur opinion n so u have a right to believe what I have said or not. I do not owe u any further explanation.

rubi:
The ones that struggles to keep a man are the ones who struggled to get him
Be yourself. And don't stress yourself to please anyone

Some men like "good wife" some men like "bad wife"

Gbam. Y struggle to keep a man? The man himself no get sense? Can't he struggle to keep u too. Rather than kill urself trying to please men, like I said earlier, na only God be d solution. Even if u have to pray urself to unconsciousness, just keep praying. I prefer prayer making me sick, if it does, than a man. Hmmmmmm

Creamish:
which one concern me? --if datz wat he/she wants--wetin concern agbero with overload?

Gbam

@ Phate, good question.

Hey not all ladies. However, I'd speak for myself. From my experience, only a gun to my head would make me do that. In other words, I CANNOT.

If he really loves u, he should act like it. It may be worse in marriage. because d excuse then wld be, if I didn't love u, I wouldn't hv married u. Use ur head. No time , no time is their excuse. They're actually busy, I agree. I'm in the same profession too, but I certainly create time for loved ones, even if I don't sit with them regularly, I call them regularly. Wetin? Delay that wedding until u clear ur doubts. Marriage is not a bed of roses.