₦airaland Forum

George_D:
these sort of sentiments is what many women latch on to commit all sorts of attrocities in marriage. they think 'well since i'm married for better for worse no matter what i do he cannot divorce me'!

lol, u're absolutely right. This equally applies to the men too.

Hmmmmmmmmm

A lot has been said so far. So pls accept my sympathy. Very unfortunate things happen once in a while.

Wishing him quick recovery.

kodewrita:
Many reasons
1. Love
2.Companionship
3. Helper to assist in many tasks
4. Anatomical/Biological : Certain aspects of my anatomy are designed to fit into certain receptacles and the jigsaw must be assembled. enough said.
5. I need to complete the cycle and unleash the next set.
6. Consolidation of costs and Increase in earning capacity: Same roof, same pots, Same bed(most important), different income sources
7. Societal. So all you married people can stop stylishly reminding me with Married couples' fellowship, couples' night, married men meeting, Married & Responsible and countless other married excreta.
8. Peace of mind. So that my sisters, friends , MUM can stop match-making me with dumb girls with big b**bies.

Correcttttt

Its really not been bad, career wise this year. Cos it has taught me a lot abt my field, I believe d coming year would be an improvement on what has happened this year.

@ POSTER, u're a mad man. I repeat, u are a mad man.

he's just a crazy fellow.

bashy_demy:
@ OP nice one atleast we get something to spend out money on

I dey tell u

Funny, Indeed,

ebonyvibe:
Ideally when you can support your wife, home and potential kids

Right .

Good for him. There's no harm in trying. Whether its an 'election/ political strategy' atleast he recognised God. Some wld never think of it. That, is highly admired. Change starts frm some point. God will grant him his heart desires.

Demoladoc:
i have cheated many times and i cant explain WHY I DO THAT.

THE thing is i have I HAVE NEVER BEEN CAUGHT BEFORE
1. I have dated 2sisters before and they never found out
2. i have slept with my gf's friend and she never found out.
3. i dated 2 colleagues at my work and till today they are so ignorant of it
4. i slept with 2 of my flat mates in school and they had no idea i was banging the 2of them same time
5. ok im not going to mention this one. its really awful.

i am not proud of these achievements but i cant explain why girls cant say no to me. all i need is to just ask and they will just give IT to me free of charge.

Awesome. Buh, u need to do bera than this. Small thing.

Congratulations to her. Happy for her. BTW, I'd appeal to d critics on this thread, to go & sleep.

Murphy G:
@ funshaw, I wanted to use a word 4 u but emm, (I changed my mind). But seriously I how old are u? Is this your 1st relationship? I think so because of wht the way u are handling it, No man, I repeat, no man will want his GF to always tell another guy what transpires in his rship.

Now u dont hav to tell B that your ended your rship with your guy. He cant force words out of your mind if u dont want to tell him abt your rship, can he?

Of course u have to let B knw that u are still in a rship with your BF. That way u will be free when u are with him and your BF calls u, Ok. Or dont u knw how to tell B that u still in the rship?

Thank u, I was going to ask d OP of her age too. Well in a nut shell, I think she should treat her r/ship as a private one. Delete B off ur private affair, abeg.

Nsiman:
@ adaphik, u sound so archaic, this 21st c not 19c or 20th c, let Atiku try that rubbish

Who are you n what r u talking about? Well, its unfortunate if u're an Atiku supporter, like I said n will repeat; Atiku is making noise. Quote me, BTW, u got d attention u sought for. You have been recognised, congrats.

Who are u?

Hmmmm na wa. His family don see smth. I believe the essence of language, any language at all, is communication. With all that, d aim is defeated, if d person / ppl don't understand. Na wetin? I no fit laugh, abeg. They appeal to this man, to help us, abeg.

Wahala dey oooo. I don taya. Men don't like liabilities and they equally do not like independent ladies. So what do they like?

Hmmmm, my observation (judging frm ur detailed note) is that u are in love with the man. I understand how u feel, esp when that 'high profile' attention is not available frm ur husband. The simple truth is that, u have to remain in ur marriage n mould it. If u leave ur marriage, u'd regret d error for life. Finally, the fact that he's religious, doesn't justify ur affair oooo. From experience, not all religious ppl are saints. For ur info 'men of God' n ofcourse priests, all harrass women. So its not new. So forget d religious thing.

If u were confiding in B, for a fellow male point of view over a situation, that may just be understandable. But telling B that u n ur boyfrnd 'no longer talk to each other' is highly unwarranted. Maybe I should ask, was that also for his own opinion? A long distance r/ship, is a fragile affair, so handle it as such.

kettykin:
Don't ever think you can push the north out of power without a fight

kettykin:
The posters who are rejoicing now should actually holp their happiness until Atiku chooses his vice and the PDP congress is over.

Some southerners have very funny memory. But I have some few question for you.

1. What if GEJ looses the PDP ticket to atiku where will that lead GEJ
2. When Aguiyi ironsi an ibo officer was slaughtered where was the south. Clue : they were busy slaughtering ibos. IF GEJ is slaughtere who will fight on his behalf?
3. What if the northern delegates give GEJ the same treatment south west NCNC members gave ZIK.

GEJ alone cannot fight the northern put together politically. The posts here is very very full of political naivety just after what happened in Ivory coast and Ghana where sitting presidents lost then anything can happen.
If Atiku picks a good vice from the SE then the game is very much open and his prediction might come to pass. If the violence is not against ibos then be sure no body else can resist the north.

Ardent supporter, u have been recognised.

Atiku, is just making noise. Which kyn person be that sef. A violent man cannot rule this country anymore. Gone are d days of noise making.

leonaidas:
why are u all sounding as if the man is dead? Ignorance is not an excuse.

Thank u.

SeanT21:
Oh God, stop it.

violent:
stop it dammit!

he did what was wrong plain and simple!

Very true

Sir Welly:
SANUSI is my man anyday anytime. They wanted him to apologize for doing the right thing by exposing their fat sal+alawi to Nigerians. But trust him, he told them he relied on the figure given to him by the ministry of finance and the ministry of finance has not denied the figure.

You cannot imagine that DAVID MARK earns more than OBAMA and DAVID CAMERON.   OBAMA earns $400,000 /yr, CAMERON earns $200,000 /yr while your own SENATE PRESIDENT, DAVID MARK earns $1.7m /yr. (too much money!)

OMG, Can u imagine that!!!! This is preposterous n utterly absurd. I have never seen a country like this. For a country that is 'developing' , the public office holder earns that? And a country that is developed, see what d president earns? Now I know the problem with this country, the ratio of idiots is far higher than that of reasonable ppl. I can't believe this!!!!

Sir Welly:
SANUSI is my man anyday anytime. They wanted him to apologize for doing the right thing by exposing their fat sal+alawi to Nigerians. But trust him, he told them he relied on the figure given to him by the ministry of finance and the ministry of finance has not denied the figure.

You cannot imagine that DAVID MARK earns more than OBAMA and DAVID CAMERON.   OBAMA earns $400,000 /yr, CAMERON earns $200,000 /yr while your own SENATE PRESIDENT, DAVID MARK earns $1.7m /yr. (too much money!)

OMG, Can u imagine that!!!! This is preposterous n utterly absurd. I have never seen a country like this. For a country that is 'developing' , the public office holder earns that? And a country that is developed, see what d president earns? Now I know the problem with this country, the ratio of idiots is far higher than that of reasonable ppl. I can't believe this!!!!

macdaddy:
@Rossike
your comments really irritates me and if i set my eyes on you right now i can give you a resounding dirty slap.
Your jaundiced mind does not know that once you decide to run for public office you are under public scrutiny all the time.They were voted for to represent the people and not their pockets.if you want to live a quiet life dont run for any public office.it is not by force to serve nigeria.
omo ale

Thank uuuuu.

Dbanj is too controversial. Hand never touch am. When hand touch am, he would reason better.

@ OP, first of all, are u that irresponsible, that u cannot be trusted even in ur own house? Very unfortunate. Change that impression, anyhow u want to go about it. Secondly, if u cannot communicate with every person under ur roof, then that person is not relevant in that house. Finally, I am a woman too, but I totally do not accept ur wife's approach. Restrictions can never solve the problem of a 'randy' man. She should go source for update on better n reasonable ways to do so. This is primitive. Very @ that.

Osama10:
This is coming from a lady and so funny.

Yea sounds funny, but its d truth, infact FACT.

Moral decadence n lack of financial empowerment. When the situation is as stated above here, d females tend to think through there anus'.