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elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going

I can say that thank your God that she did not agreed to travel abroad with you. It would have been worst off.

Hassanmaye:
How can I do it myself please, do I need to spend millions as well?

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The best way for "do it yourself" is by:
1. Joining some travel community forums on WhatsApp, Telegram

2. Read more on the various travel threads on Nairaland Travel Section.

Using this communities listed above, you see fellow people with like minds, you read from people experience, you ask questions and you follow the procedures.

Best of luck Sir/Ma

Hassanmaye:
Please don't discourage me, I'm planning on given an agent 5m to take me there. What's your experience, I'm scared 😨

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I will advice you to abort the mission of giving an agent 5m to travel to middle East.

Sit down, pray, plan and make other decision either to stay in Nigeria or to travel to other Countries ( check out some good EU Countries).

Mind you, you can do it yourself

Good

The first picture in the post show the quality of a man
The second picture shows the quality of a kid.

So, OP kindly decipher where u belong out of this two pictures

Okay

Sapasenator:
I have seen a Yoruba landlord deny renting to an Igbo. Our own tribalism is worse in comparison to racism.

I have equally seen so many igbó tribes refusing to sell LAnd in the East to other Nigeria tribes.

Women!!!

Why always crying foul over what is not yours?

Moreso, i hope someday soon Adebowale Ikechukwu Ademola will become Governor of Enugu State and Bashir Ikenga Babangida will become the Governor of Anambra state.

Why is Oloshoism taking over this time. Chai

Agentina should be ready to collect cane from France!!

He make sure i went to higher institution.

The option is SGF (Boss Mustapha)

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Good idea

Ok

Good

Catastrophe woman/lady. Green snake lady/woman

Huun

Huuun, see due diligence investigation

Soludo?, Yes

K

First of all, I congratulate you. I guess you know why I congratulate you?

Pls don't go and beg her now rather you will regret it in the near time cos the issues will be compounded more. I suggest calm yourself off this current& temporary storm, pray fervently to God and map out strategies to get yourself something doing (I.e. another job, business and or any legit hussle). Surely she will be the one that will come and beg you. By then you will place the rules of the game which you want her to adhere to.

Above all brother, never allow this temporary situation pull you down not allow it to debase you.

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Ok

Hashabiah:
Let's see where this will lead them. I thank God they're surrounded by Arabs on every side and we'll see how in unfolds in the coming weeks

Pls read about 6days war

Hun

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AuroraB:
Rude employees a whole Queen's College's got. Unorganized and hateful. Tueh!
NB. Uncouth response will be returned in equal measure. What if the Mother do know her daughter had eyelashes on.

Thank God the school security identify the indecent dressing hence the action

After, they will be complaining of RAPE