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TITOBIGZ:
Does he knw who u are? As in whether u too belong or not, if ur answer is NO
,Guy, no shakement, Just jejely dey live ur life, him go try intimidate u again, again stand ur ground and believe me u don earn him respect be that.
(NOTE: no show fear Oooo)

DemonUnderSiege:
there is nothing like God, anything can be God

ifenes:
Why do Christians fear their god OP?

SWORD419:
NONSENSE, what help do god need from you which bible are you using sef

OSESUNATE:
. Who be this?

Yuneehk:
See the length of her weave-on . The hair can sweep the whole of uwanni clean.

Emorse and temmytea70 go and vote na

bloomstar:
Blessings that comes like problem.. Big problem

yungfritzzleDee:
There's this thing that I don't understand

Should we guys always be responsible for all the calls in a relationship Cus some girls do feel like it's guy responsible to call them three times a day ....some will even have call cards but to push it through the call it's a vet difficult thing to do for them....so am asking should the guys always be responsible for the callings in a relationships?

tohpahz:
Lolz.. Nice font mahn.

tohpahz:
So this morning i woke up to a txt on my phone.

Talking bla bla bla aby bvn whatever.
I normally ignore oo. Buh this time i decided to dig up the person behind it.

Don't be angry at d guy's bad English.. Naija's educational system is amazing

databoy247:
Most of us thinks that sleeping with someone who isn't your spouse can only be defined as cheating. The reason why most relationships breakup today is when both parties cheat on each other without actually sleeping with other people.

Usually, this starts with dozens of mini betrayals. Things that occur in your relationship that slowly but surely crack the relationship’s foundation.

Some of these are obvious — lying to your partner, openly flirting with a co-worker, talking to your old high school flame on Facebook way too much. But some betrayals aren’t so overt. And those acts quietly open the door to major acts of betrayal that can lead to divorce.

So, what exactly are these mini betrayals?

1. You have secret relationships.
Almost everyone has a relationship outside of their main relationship. Exes we’re still friends with, co-workers we laugh with, best friends we share our deepest thoughts with. That’s all fine and healthy. But problems arise when you use those relationships to fulfill emotional needs not being met in your marriage.

How do you know if you’re doing this? It’s easy. Ask yourself one simple question: “Would I act the same with this other person if my significant other was watching?”

If you answer “No,” you’re likely crossing boundaries that lead into dangerous territory.

2. You hide money.
If you ask a thousand couples what they argue about most: 70 percent will tell you money! The way a betrayal happens in this area is pretty obvious: you hide a spending problem, you have a building project you cannot tell your spouse about, you are always in debt and can't tell your spouse about it, etc

If you’re engaging in any of these acts, take action and tell your spouse exactly what’s going on.

But the damage doesn’t stop there. Only allowing friends to hear bad things about your spouse prevents them from seeing the good, even when it’s right there.

4. You undermine your partner in public.
You know what I mean: That roll of your eyes, that sarcastic remark, the cheap shot you take when they piss you off — these are small, but deeply hurtful betrayals. By doing this, you’re telling your spouse that your marriage isn’t sacred and that you’re fine violating their privacy by airing your dirty emotional laundry in public.

5. You’re emotionally dishonest.
Emotional dishonesty comes in all shapes and sizes. From committing to something you don’t really want to do, to saying that you’re “fine” (when you’re actually boiling with disdain), all the way to faking an orgasm. But emotional dishonesty is often most dangerous when you use it to justify your actions.

If you’re doing something that, deep down, you know is wrong, you’ll try to convince yourself (and your partner) that it’s right. Sometimes, you’ll exaggerate or downplay the situation, so that whatever you’re doing seems innocent. You know it’s not.

6. You’re straight up selfish.
You show it in a million different ways — with your time, during sexx, with the attention you give (or don’t). Being selfish on occasion isn’t a problem — it has its own benefits. But being selfish constantly tells your spouse that you’re better off flying solo.

One particularly destructive way selfishness creeps into relationships is by invalidating your spouse’s feelings.

Your spouse’s feeling are never wrong (whether you agree with those feelings or not). Invalidating your partner breeds anger and creates a division between the two of you. It clearly shows that you don’t respect their experiences and that they shouldn’t trust their own emotions. This is a form of manipulation.

WHITEWIZARD:
I SWEAR IF I BEGIN TO DROP OUT SECRETS THAT NO EAR IS PERMITED TO HEAR. I WILL BE PUTTING THOSE I TELL IN DEEP TROUBLE. SO FOR THEIR OWN GOOD. I BETTER NOT SPEAK.

foolinlove:
You didnt respect me in the first place. I'm a woman.

foolinlove:
Don't patronise me. I have a better handle of logic than you do, even though I'm a woman.

foolinlove:
Yes, I know. And it's a sexist point.

When you talk about "decency" you are talking about YOUR ideals. You do not represent all men's ideals.

The world doesn't revolve around you and women don't exist to please you.

foolinlove:
Yes you are. You apply different standards of behaviour to men and women based entirely on gender. That's the definition of sexism.

Kakamorufu:
Dnt wake up and be feeding us craps. So we shld be wearing turtlenecks coz our adam apple is exposed, or u get turned on by seeing the adam apple. Coz wetin u want, i never know

foolinlove:
So you're sexist. Congratulations.

foolinlove:
If you don't understand, read it again until you do.

foolinlove:
You say women should cover their cleavage because breasts are sexual organs.

Breasts aren't sexual organs. They're secondary sexual characteristics.

Just so you know: your facial hair and enlarged adams apple are secondary sexual characteristics as well.

So if you think people should cover secondary sexual characteristics, feel free to shove your entire head into a bag at any time.

Toluwani112:
I want to sell facebook Page with 6,700 likes. Kindly Quote me if interested!

STFUareyouG0d:
Why does God ignore prayers?

Amberon11:
You don't have sense.

bashorunbazok:
This news won't go viral because the crime wasn't committed by a Kabiru Yellow that CAN can feast on.

Trina0936:
Who u EPP??

Trina0936:
Fine boy,I don hear! Thanks for your concern

Trina0936:
But my dad uses his Nokia torch to put on the generator all the time!

kestolove95:
E dey babe aouse

Teensway:
if i click that link, hack me to death. i feel like chopping you raw.

Teensway:
if i click that link, hack me to death. i feel like chopping you raw.