₦airaland Forum

I was discussing with an older man who was complaining bitterly about dating relationships among teenagers. I told him if you advice a teenage girl about having boyfriends, she will become arrogant and stubborn. She'll think you don't want her to shine, you want to cage her, meanwhile, her male counterpart is only in relationships for sex and he is not confused about that.

OP, apart from you being very wicked, is this what your mates are doing at this age? You want to depend on a man who is living from hand to mouth? You should be ashamed of yourself, your choices are really poor.

You have stepped into adult shoes too quickly and I tell you you are not ready for what will hit you. You know nadda! If I hear you say again that you are mature. Mature kee you there.

I pray your sister will bounce back, God will restore all she has lost seven folds in Jesus name.

As for you, if you refuse to confess...and ask for forgiveness..., I can't pronounce judgement but there's no peace for the wicked.

GoTV:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, i see nothing wrong in having Arabic inscriptions on our naira notes or national monuments. We Christians should be glad about it as it avails us the opportunity to study the Arabic language and we can also preach the gospel of our lord Jesus in Arabic language whenever we travel to the middle east. It's a win win for we Christians because before we realize, we would have won more souls for christ or we might decide to join Islam if we are tired of Christianity. Arabic language is a blessing in disguise

You are ashamed of Islam right? That's why you cannot boldly write as one, I understand.

But Mr. Bornagin Alfa, are you sure you are not risking the 72 virgins promised in Aljana because all liars will go to hell and perish. Even Allah knows you are denying him on social media, so be guided.

mutvy:
I'm still looking forward to the day Muslims and Christians in Nigeria will freely unleash hell on one another. Oh Lord,please let the day come this year 2020. Let the war start soonest.

You need Jesus urgently! The state of your heart is evil and terrible for you to accommodate and spew this thought. What kind of human are you? Zero love and light, 100% Hate and darkness. Btw which lord are you praying to?

SEGLIZ:
Doyin this one you looking for all the side of or to the story so, the weather is not so friendly o. the heat might end up turning everywhere into bakery oven o.
just one side of the story is enough to tell us the whole story, women could be but a man that can't keep his cool is worse.
but the woman got it wrong inviting her family members. the mother and brother don't mean her well, she should have informed her husband family first before involving hers.
it's been as long while, how is your family (particularly the young one) doing? á tí máa claim title o.

Ok o my brother. Make heat no dey anywhere. If this his is first time of hitting her, it is better nibbed in the bud before it becomes something else. Involving her family might be extreme though but her elder bro is also a man....

Family is fine. Young boy done dey do shakara. How are you sir

xendra:
I'm not surprised to see men saying she should have kept this within the family. na from clap dem dey enter dance. a man that can come home 2am and slap the wife that same night deserves no sympathy. na so she go keep quiet till it gets worse and he kills her.

naija men, Una try o

God

God bless you my sister. That's how it starts. Beatings today, flowers tomorrow; kick today, shoes and bags tomorrow. Na so e go continue till dem beat am enter grave.

I have a strong feeling this story is not complete. As you men will say, we have not heard her own side of the story. There's more to the issue.

realtalk19:
Firstly,how come after having sex with her And you gave her contraceptive to use and after she used it SOME THICK BLOOD MIXED WITH WATER' started coming out of her followed by stomach pains?

Contraceptive is supposed to prevent pregnancy not abort, and she wasn't on her period during that time.

After the first doctor checked her and informed you that she reacted to the drug because she was pregnant already. She denied

U can detect pregnancy from 5 weeks using a urine test strips or blood test but scan Will only detect a sac and wunt consider it viable until after 6 weeks + which is why it was negative at that time you visited the first doctor.

From Nov 3rd to 3 days ago (Dec 1) is 4 weeks which her visit was the first sex you had with her. But she is already 6 weeks and two days which is over a month depending on when conception took place.

From all these give or take she had sex before coming to see you at Abuja and maybe she may or maynot be aware she had conceived and after she had sex with you in Abuja and left for camp was expecting to see her period which she didn't see which she is not sure of who exactly owns the pregnancy but because she had sex with you last , she decided to pin it on you.

It wild shock you that she already did the pregnancy test at camp before coming back but decided to act ignorant and pretentiously drag u for a test so u Wil feel guilty and accept.

You need to be relly tactical to get the truth from her and very smartly. Don't wait till 9 months.

She is playing a deadly and risky game.

Are you actually female? Have you been pregnant before? So you don't know pregnancy age is calculated starting from your last menstrual period LMP, i.e 2 weeks plus when the actual conception could have likely taken place. That's is why you will be asked in the hospital the last time you saw your menses.

So please do some reading (Google is your friend) and come back to edit this ignoramus epistle you have written. This should not be coming from a lady except you are not one.

Pregnancy is normally calculated adding 2 weeks before the actual conception took place. That is the gestational age of the pregnancy.

The fetal age of pregnancy is when the woman conceived and it's usually around the ovulation period which is assumed to be 2 weeks after the last menstrual period.

So, using this logic, gestational age is 6w2d, fetal age is 4w2d. That pregnancy is likely yours.

I will advice that you accept this woman, be there for her during this period and go for paternity test when she delivers. If you abandon her with the pregnancy and the baby turns out to be yours, then you will appear to be a wicked man who is out to destroy a destiny.

SEGLIZ:
ogd was purely a scam.
your hate for Amosun would make you blame him the decay.

I don't care about any of them. They are both scams specialising in different areas.

Kapilta:
seems you are a PDP apologist. All the same, Amosun has done his part, state capital is very vital and because it was neglected, he choosed to bring it to live which is okay dear. Now let's face Dapo Abiodun together. The roads are bad, he doesn't have so much to do in Abeokuta. Buh till tommorrow i will never blame Amosun for focusing on Abeokuta during his tenure infact i'm glad about that.

Let's all join hands in making Yorubalands a better one. That's the only thing we have, we have no other home. Yorubaland belong to us all. That's our pride and that of our unborn children.

So please let's all keep remindin Dapo Abiodun about these bad roads every now and then on twitter and other sm platforms.

And yes, never bee to Ogun except when in mowe/ibafo enroute Lagos.

You are an APC card carrying member ehn while I have no business with any political party.

Since you don't live in Ogun to see and experience what we talk about, then your position cannot be justified.

Kapilta:
you are not egba, right?

Nope

Kapilta:
nah, you can't blame him for that. The capital is the face of the state. It needs to be in a very high welcoming state at all times, eyes are always on the capital. Whole state is mostly judge using the capital. If the pasts govs have not ignored the city that much, he wouldn't have too much to do there. Mimiko did same in Ondo and today Akure is shining.. Other govs that follow will take it from there and find other places to focus on. The likes of Otunba Gbenga Daniel were scam and the whole of Baba iyabo squad were all also scam.

So that justifies the numerous unused bridges Amosun built across Abeokuta. Money that should have been used to build and repair roads across the state.

Right now we are judging Ogun state based on other cities apart from the capital. How did the past administration fare? It was not so terrible during OGD's tenure, mind you that's some 9 to 16 years ago, so leave OGD out of this.
You don't live in Ogun state do you?

Kapilta:
Ogun state have the worst roads in our region. Even the poorest amidst us(Ekiti) is blessed with good roads.

Many years of PDP rule in Ogun state i guess.

APC to be precise. The former administration practically neglected the rest of Ogun state and focused more on the state capital, Abeokuta.

If the billions of naira Amosun used in the construction of useless bridges across Abk were utilised in repairing roads across the state, it would have been a different story.

MUMUdom:
Are you kidding me? Ghanaians are wailing here? why will Ghanaians be wailing when their economy is doing so well? Growing at 8% the ones wailing are the poverty capital of the world,huh? The stvpidity capital of the world. The zoo that has been overrun by kidnappers what do you think? Fuckeduppedness

What is the meaning of these your rants if not wailing? Why take paracetamol for someone else's headache? Who was slapped and who is suffering from pains?

If your so called growing economy is not so dependent on Nigerian market, why are you spitting fireballs and hurling insults because our borders are closed?

Answer this truthfully, why are you so pained?

1Sharon:
Abeg jo. Stop jumping on the bandwagon


Mental health is being used as a weapon these days

We can't rule it out. That's why evaluation is needed to be done by a professional. If she has one, then she can be helped and managed, if not, hmmm...it is well with OP.

I think your wife has some kind of mental issues, you should have her evaluated. Keeping dirty environment, violence, not been remorseful are pointers to that fact.

So sorry for all you are going through. At this stage, involve her family, let them know what has been happening.

Benekruku:
If I want to be fair and go by the recommendations of those that antagonised my humble and honourable self when I was in support of RUGA,

I will clearly state that the Ultimatum is well deserved. Many quoted me on Nairaland saying "RUGA should be done up North ONLY". Fine! And now they are also telling you to go trade in your region. Anybody that needs your product would come and buy in your region.

I think its fair with all honesty. If a Fulani or Hausa man is limited to trade in certain parts of the country, then I think other tribes should be limited to trading in there own region too.

I feel does that came for head when I was supporting RUGA can now find a better resolution to the impending doom that stares at us at present.


The English people call it "Tit for Tat"
Warri people call it "Do me, I do you"
Men call it "An eye for an eye"

Oga, RUGA is dead on arrival. Did other tribes use government money to settle and build businesses for themselves in the north? Don't we have northerners doing their private businesses peacefully in the south?

Why will government spend billions of Naira to settle a particular tribe and their private businesses across the whole country, plus provide social amenities and infrastructures (that are lacking in the generality of the country) for them if not that there is an evil motive for such?

And northerners are feeling entitled to other people's lands as to give the federal government ultimatum to implement an evil policy? Let's see how they'll play out their threats.

SEGLIZ:
ekú ijó meta. Doyin where all this while? seems you took mat'leave off nairaland!?
how is the young one doing? óye ko to máa ran lo bú omi wa o.
ibeg make unna leave bros alone o, him try o, na the one wey com now make face.
though Amosun has laid a precedence that would give him a run for his money.

E ku ojo 3 brother mi. Oke niyi ni ko je ki a ri oke oun jare. He is fine, o ku die.

Abi o,he has done his bits but making him look like he is the best thing to happen to Ogun state dey vex me, kò sí yato larin won. They are just different sides of the same coin.

May God help Dapo to help Ogun state if he is sincere.

Gazzy88:
From your assertions, it shows that you're a pained ijebu man. I guess you've been teleported to the future to know exactly what would have happened in the next 4 years abi. Osoba left IGR at 350m. Daniel spent 8 years and all the magic he could do was doubled the IGR to 700m. Your "enemy" amosun took the same IGR to 7bn for the exact same 8 years daniel used and you're hear ranting like a baby. I guess you won't tell the whole world the 2 flyovers amosun did at ijebu ode and 1 at sagamu, with another uncompleted one at ijebu igbo. I highlighted these areas because it shows that the only enemies amosun have in ogun state are the ijebus which clearly shows you're one of them. Now that one of your own have been elected, let him turn ijebu to Dubai. I don't have your time this morning.

Why are quoting the IGR like this? What was the cost of living during the tenure of Osoba and OGD compared to now? You you know how the so called IGR was raised? Bogus IGR that has not translated to anything for the citizens of Ogun state.

Amosun built bridges and malls in Abeokuta ONLY. What about other sectors like education, agriculture, and health. How did he fare? Go to any general hospital in Ogun state and see things for yourself.

Do you know how much debt Amosun is leaving behind?

There's absolutely no difference among the three governors

SEGLIZ:
CONGRATULATIONS
that is a BUNDLE of JOY bearing Good Tidings of FAVOUR, ENRICHMENT, BREAKTHROUGH and UPLIFTMENT.
I can't name the Glorious Joy before the dad does so as not to trespass. so I keep the name with me o.
a dúpé ti a gbóhùn ìyá, a gbóhùn omo atún wá gbóhùn bàbá.
I rejoice with you.

Thank you brother mi.

rabluk:
Birth alert!!!!
Alhamdulillah
I was delivered of a baby girl this morning at 10.57am via ELCS. God be praised

Congratulations cappo! God bless your princess. Now you have changed from team green to team pink.

Birth Alert! Birth Alert!!

I gave birth to my handsome bobo on Friday 8th of Feb (against edd 27th Feb). I had to be induced because of HBP. Thank God it went well.

BS coming soon. I'm so sorry the BA is coming days later, I just see road see myself after we returned from the hospital.

Wishing all pregnant mothers safe deliveries of their cuties.

Cc rabluk

Yesitsme:
BS

EDD 28/2/2019
DOB 2/2/2019

Since 33wks I started having contractions was placed on drugs and bed rest to stop contractions, yet nothing. I could barely stand for long without waist pain. I took steroids to strengthen her heart in case she comes out.
Was in 2cm for 3days no progress @35-36wks
Was admitted for 1wk...So I can reach 36wks, they refused to release me due the fact that I have had a preterm before now. I was angry all I wanted was to go home. Had about 25 finger inserts into my vagina. Met 7 consultants who checked and had different things to say.
Managed to move to 3cm after 4 days yet Nothing
Water broke while in almost 4cm on Saturday by 4am,i was immediately moved to labour ward. Cos they give oxytocin at 4cm, they did membrane sweep 4times early and u had another one that same day, still nothing. I only had pains,nothing more.
I cried terribly as they always said something is wrong but didn't know what it was, her heart beat was very stable.
D 8th consultant came and said something is holding down baby, he said her head couldn't be felt as she was far away from the birth canal, that she could be held by cord and as water is draining delay is dangerous cos labour wasn't progressing
Na so emergency CS was declared. Hubby didn't waste time to sign his consent.
Took d spinal cord injection to paralyze my legs, didn't work
Had to make me sleep
Woke up and saw my number 2.DR said it was cord that tangled round her neck

Born 36wks
Weight 2.6kg
Sex Girl
Name Overcomer Oziomachukwu

Thanks alot to @raluk u are a great cappo

Congratulations mama, thank God, mother is alive and baby is bouncing.

estagirl:
God has blessed me and my family today 5th Feb with a princess, through elective cs. Pls join me in thanking God.

Congratulations mama. Speedy recovery. God bless your LO

rabluk:
FEBRUARY ROLL CALL

( HAIL TEAM EXTRAORDINARY)

It's finally our month. So some people ran away with my chokolait to 31stJanuary. I'm not angry. I have a big heart,i forgive them but their names are....

Ported to January

Sweetveee ........15/02 ...babe... delivered 14/1 BS seen
Dazzlinganio .....13/02...Babe..delivered 31/1
creamzytee ...14/02.....Babe.....delivered 31/01
Glimpse ....25/01& 1/02... Bobo...delivered 31/01

Congratulations...

Name...............EDD............SEX
1.Bunny19 .......... double for your trouble
2. Geesucc ............14th Feb 2019
3. Messyodi ..........16th/17th Feb 2019...........Babe
4. Mumben ........... 11th Feb 2019
5. Faithpeace ......... 22nd feb 2019..............babe
6. AdedoyinO ........27th Feb 2019.....................Bobo
7. rabluk .......... ..24th Feb 2019.....................surprise
8. estagirl ............18th Feb 2019................... Babe
9. Majestique ......26th Feb 2019
10. Meeva621 .......26th Feb 2019
11. gegyna ..........9th Feb 2019
12. stephmiracle ...21st Feb 2019
13. kuhuz ..............12th Feb 2019
14.Hyphee.....
15. Yesitsme ........28th feb 2019 .................Babe
16. sholai .............10th Feb 2019
17. Owlette .......... 21st Feb2019
18. Ekis .................20th Feb 2019 ..............surprise
19. Meggitto21......17th Feb 2019
20. Naomi1990 ......... march porter
21. Bceeme ...........6th feb 2019
22. BrilliantF .......... 18 Feb 2019
23. jennyurch ...........march porter
24. lehwah ................ march porter
25. PraisesG ......... march porter ......... bobo

My darlings pls make sure you start your exercises now. Do squats, Clean your nipples and take dates and pineapple if you like. We need to poop out these cuties.

Please pack your bags if you haven't and don't miss your weekly antenatal to be sure all is well.

May God make it easy for us all.

Hmmmm...na small e remain, I for port to Jan 31st too but thank God, everything is fine now.

It shall be short and sharp delivery with no complications for us all in Jesus name.

Dazzlinganio:
Good morning team February. To God be the glory, my Edd was 13th Feb but I gave birth yesterday 31st Jan. I was 38weeks 2days.

Congratulations teamie! God bless your LO.

missyojo:
Good evening mummies in the house,
I trust you all are doing good. When ever I wake up in the morning, I always wake up with Headache and always feel hungry, please is this normal? Then secondly, at what stage will someone stop to vomit.
Thank you all for your response.

Do you eat breakfast early enough? Make sure you eat very early, your blood sugar might be low.

rabluk:
FEBRUARY ROLL CALL

( HAIL TEAM EXTRAORDINARY)

Yay... how are we. I hope we are enjoying all the symptoms associated with late 3rd trimester. We are gradually moving to senior class. We should be in our week 35, 36,37, 38, 39. February is just some days away.

Name...............EDD............SEX
1. Glimpse .......... Jan 25/ Feb 1st................. Bobo
2. Bunny19 .......... double for your trouble
3. Geesucc ............14th Feb 2019
4. Messyodi ..........16th/17th Feb 2019...........Babe
5. Dazzlinganio .....13th Feb 2019. ..................Babe
6. Mumben ........... 11th Feb 2019
7. Faithpeace ......... 22nd feb 2019
8. Sweetveee ........15/02 ...babe... delivered 14/1 BS seen
9. AdedoyinO ........27th Feb 2019.....................Bobo
10. rabluk .......... ..24th Feb 2019......................Green
11. estagirl ............18th Feb 2019................... Babe
12. Majestique ......26th Feb 2019
13. Meeva621 .......26th Feb 2019
14. gegyna ..........9th Feb 2019
15. stephmiracle ...21st Feb 2019
16. kuhuz ..............12th Feb 2019
17.Hyphee.....
18. Yesitsme ........28th feb 2019 .................Babe
19. sholai .............10th Feb 2019
20. Owlette .......... 21st Feb2019
21. Ekis .................20th Feb 2019
22. Meggitto21......17th Feb 2019
23. Naomi1990 ......... march porter
24. creamzytee ...14th feb 2019......................Babe
25. Bceeme ...........6th feb 2019
26. BrilliantF .......... 18 Feb 2019
27. jennyurch ...........march porter
28. lehwah ................ march porter

My darlings pls respond to roll call. This will be the last before our sweet month of February.

Mamas pls submit the sex if you know pls. Indicate if you are team surprise like me too.

Our antenatal appointment is now weekly, pls endeavour not to miss them

May the rest of the journey be smooth.

Salam

Me late February mama, I don't want to port óo . My edd happens to be on my birthday and I really want it to happen that day, but then Gdd is better.

I am fine, just tiredness and pressure in my pelvis. Can't wait to meet my LO.

Sure you are doing great too Cappo?

sweetveee:
BA/BS
PRAISE THE LORD!!!! I WELCOMED MY PRINCESS ON THE 14th of January. After 5 miscarriages in three years of marriage. JEHOVAH Overdo proved himself. complete the work he has started for every

Hearty congratulations teamie! God bless your princess.

SEGLIZ:
hi.
quite some days.
the OP is not wrong, if he is talking about the Ado-Odo from Ado-Odo/Otta local government in Ogun State, history has that it use to be a kingdom of its own. Awori is know to be a nation but politics and westernization eroded many history. besides the unity of the Yoruba nation overrides most political division and differences.

Happy New year bro.

It's Ado-odo town, Awori Kingdom. Awori Kingdom is not limited to Ado-odo alone

rabluk:
February mamas, i hail thee. Our seniors.... i greet una.
My respectful juniors, how are you doing. Hope you're doing just great and its as easy as licking icecream. My stubborn juniors, how are you too. Don't worry, u wee have juniors too.

The xtraordinary team February, i raise yansh 4una. Shey una de enjoy every every. Na small remain. Just a little while more.

I don't even know what my emotions are like. Whether I'm anxious ni o or happy or nervous or expectant or unprepared. I suddenly feel i have not made enough arrangements n i am nt ready/ unserious. I suddenly realised time is closing in very quickly. The uncertainty of d birthing process and alll.I hope m not been too emotional.

I hope u guys are doing better sha.pls come share your feelings n lets relate.

Love you all

Cappo, it is joint pain oo especially my knees and fingers. Everything is fine generally but I can't stop imagining how I will fall into labour and the drama that might happen that day. God is in control sha.

It shall be short and sharp delivery for us all in Jesus name. Congratulations to mamas who have finished the nine months race

OP, it is Ado-odo, not 'Ado kingdom'

nifeseun:
I lost the pregnancy yesterday, i can't sleep, my baby came out still inside the sac. I felt i was too careless but dere was no heartbeat and it looks so small, dont even know what went wrong. It is well, thanks fir tge concerns.

Take heart sis. Double for your trouble in Jesus name.