 Education › Re: Mention A Popular Place In Your School And Someone Will Tell You The Name by Adesammy01(m): 6:09pm On Feb 16, 2022 |
ZendayaColeman:
Dangana boys hostel
Inikpi girls hostel Kogi State University |
| Education › Re: Mention A Popular Place In Your School And Someone Will Tell You The Name by Adesammy01(m): 6:07pm On Feb 16, 2022 |
Kogi State University. Anyigba. |
| Romance › Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Adesammy01(m): 6:27pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Sorry about the heartbreak, don't be the reason why the woman's home will break. You don't have to make the children suffer what they know nothing about. Just let go and move on. quote author=Adesammy01 post=110011110][/quote] |
| Romance › Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Adesammy01(m): 6:23pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Mineralzz:
Hello everyone.
Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now 
I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat 
He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "
At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.
I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?
Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do .
Mynd44, seun, lalasticlala. |
| Romance › Re: A Nairanlander Experience With Abuja Rich Kids. by Adesammy01(m): 7:06am On Dec 20, 2020 |
[quote author=Karlifate post=97224259][/quote]So people still have this picture of my grandma and mum. Lol. |
| Romance › Re: I'm Confused Should I Still Continue With This Relationship by Adesammy01(m): 6:58am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Well, I'll just share my experience with my ex with you and won't tell you what decision to make. I noticed along the line that she has some men like this she talks to. Whenever I confront her about when she started talking to the man she'd say she thought she told me about the man. Who does that? like how can you lie that you told me what you know you're hiding from me? the man would buy her a phone and she'd tell me her brother surprised her with a new phone. I became so irritated when I knew she has been lying. She didn't just start, I was just blinded by stupid love believing whatever she told me. She placed a curse one day if I have another girl. I immediately placed same curse if she has another man too. Just like magic, she didn't expect I'd do the same and she became worried and she started talking about how those men she was hiding from me have been inviting her and she had sex with them. She told me that they were just assisting financially but I knew she was lying. I've decided to tell you this because from experience, no man or few men will be so generous to do all that for a lady and not expect anything in return. The man has won her with what he knows would make her give in to his sexual advances, it won't come as a rape but he'd just say you know I've tried, you should return the favour. Girls are greedy, she'd easily give in because she wants it to continue. If the man comes around you can be assured that they'd see and the rest would be history. Some girls can sleep with any man for such items and money don't be deceived by the man's age or however she has painted the whole thing to make it look like a father and daughter affair. If she sincerely leaves the man to concentrate on you fully then she truly loves you. If she told you that she stopped talking to the man and you later realize that they still talk, trust me she will never stop she would instead look for more men that'd do same but this time won't give you any traces of it. My advice, know when to end it before you start feeling like a fool. The regret that comes with it after might make you not want to trust any girl again. Leave before it gets messier if she doesn't change to have your sanity. |
| Romance › Re: I'm Confused Should I Still Continue With This Relationship by Adesammy01(m): 6:52am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Zzor:
I don't have much to say,anything these my ogas you mentioned asked you to do is the right thing to do lol |
| Romance › Re: Nothing In My Life Is Real by Adesammy01(m): 4:05pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Prettydevil:
I hate my life, I wish I was dead. my family only love me when I have to give and treat me like a competition and a failure. everyday I am always wondering if society will love me today or hate me today. sometimes I go out and everyone shows me love and the very next day everyone acts like I'm invisible. how is that normal? never had a real relationship with anyone for the same reason, they love me one moment and hate me the next, and I dont even have to talk they just take one look at my face and decide if they will hate me today or love me today. I don't feel real or human, I feel like a thing people use for their entertainment. I hate society, I wish I was dead honestly Prettydevil:
I hate my life, I wish I was dead. my family only love me when I have to give and treat me like a competition and a failure. everyday I am always wondering if society will love me today or hate me today. sometimes I go out and everyone shows me love and the very next day everyone acts like I'm invisible. how is that normal? never had a real relationship with anyone for the same reason, they love me one moment and hate me the next, and I dont even have to talk they just take one look at my face and decide if they will hate me today or love me today. I don't feel real or human, I feel like a thing people use for their entertainment. I hate society, I wish I was dead honestly Prettydevil:
I hate my life, I wish I was dead. my family only love me when I have to give and treat me like a competition and a failure. everyday I am always wondering if society will love me today or hate me today. sometimes I go out and everyone shows me love and the very next day everyone acts like I'm invisible. how is that normal? never had a real relationship with anyone for the same reason, they love me one moment and hate me the next, and I dont even have to talk they just take one look at my face and decide if they will hate me today or love me today. I don't feel real or human, I feel like a thing people use for their entertainment. I hate society, I wish I was dead honestly So sorry about how you feel, but this has to do more with your mindset. Maybe you expect too much from people and when they don't deliver what you expected of them you feel disappointed. Don't expect from anyone to avoid disappointment in you really need to build your self esteem by reading about how to do that and how to overcome inferiority complex too. Develop a positive attitude to situations and stop being pessimistic. Nobody can give you happiness except yourself. Nobody will breath for you! |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Lady Loses Job To 'Who Gave You My Number?' Question On WhatsApp by Adesammy01(m): 9:12am On Nov 28, 2020 |
Jashub:
I do support the lady's rudeness, but the company should have informed her on the method they would use to contact her in case she was selected. It is just standard procedure. Na them |
| Romance › Re: Life Of A Work From Home Single Lady by Adesammy01(m): 6:51am On Nov 16, 2020 |
Can you reach me? I wanna be a friend if it's cool by you. 07010753637 |
| Health › Re: Daniela Trezzi: Italian Nurse Commits Suicide. Tested Positive For Coronavirus by Adesammy01(m): 4:21pm On Mar 25, 2020 |
Niwdog:
with all these you think, there is still life in you What a savage!   |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Cheated, Any Advice? by Adesammy01(m): 10:08am On Mar 25, 2020 |
KaideeGee:
Okay dude since you brought the topic to this forum, i'll assume you still love your babe. Try having an open discussion with her about why she cheated, if there was something you were not doing right? That should open up the conversation to a lot of grey areas in your relationship.
Just my thought though... So, your partner cheated and you want her to justify her actions abi... You try! Why didn't she tell you before she cheated? We'll, experience they say is the best teacher! You haven't been through it. Bro, a cheat is always a cheat. Once you forgive and continue with her, you're already in for a big time emotional trauma because she'll use your good heart against you as a weakness! |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Cheated, Any Advice? by Adesammy01(m): 10:01am On Mar 25, 2020 |
Nagol95:
Good day house.
I bring this here as I always see here that it's not advisable to forgive a cheat. I and my girlfriend had a smooth relationship mid last year but by early this year we started having issues.
I was calm about the whole scenario to be brief, she cheated along the line. I saw hints but I had no evidence and we kept having issues till the end of February.
She felt the issue was too much and suggested a break up which I accepted immediately and stopped calling or texting her. We were not in contact for a week then she broke it and started calling profusely but I ignored it.
She used another number after three days and when I picked, it was her mum and she just enquired why I've been distant, I just told her I've been busy then we talked normal.
In a nutshell, she confessed all her doings with all the details and has been asking for a last chance begging everyday and feels extremely guilty. I don't want to accept because I've started rubbing it on her face but she is willing to continue.
She has made efforts by changing her number and saying that she is not in contact with the guy.
This is just a brief, I'll need advices and I could provide more info on request. She'll cheat on you again! |
| Romance › Re: I Wish To Marry Her But Her Parents Want To Spoil The Plan by Adesammy01(m): 1:13am On Mar 25, 2020 |
Adeonaola:
Dear nairalanders,
I need your advice on this matter, sorry am not a gramanian type please you'll accept me the way I'm.
Since my childhood I do tell my people that I wish to marry so early if God bless me early and thank God at age 24 I drop out of school @HND1 level due to Asup strike wahala to face my pigry farm fully everyone was against me then but I told them then that I don't want school to waste my time. At age 26 i was able to build a standard 3bed room flat for myself, buy small Toyota corolla 2000 to ease my transportation from farm to my house. In short word, I'm OK a little bit.
Let me now talk about the girl now
She's at age 23,I'm at age 27 now and we've been dating now going to 2 years now, I have done both physical and spiritual test on her to know our compatability and we're good, We so much love each other, I make a move that I wanted to settled down this year January and we both agreed. I took her to my parents everything was set, she was so happy that day and when she got home, she update her parents about the new development and to my surprise her mother call me the following day that I should come and see her and when I got there she beg me to allow her to finish her HND meanwhile she will start that HND next year. She's plead with her parents too but they want her finished the HND first before anything.
To leave her, it'll hurt her alot now
To wait for her is not safe for nowadays girl, I've been planning to dump her then marry another person next year if not this year.
How can I handle this issue, Your advice is highly welcome sir/ma Talk to your parents to meet with hers and let them reach an agreement that she'll further her studies while you guys are married. I advise you go back to school too. |
| Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Or My Boss Who Should I Choose? by Adesammy01(m): 1:05am On Mar 25, 2020 |
I just hope this your boss truly loves you and not after your body! If you guys broke up later, your working in that office would be very frustrating though. By then the other guy wouldn't want anything to do with you again and of course not anyone who knew about it. |
| Health › Re: Help! My Dad Is Rotting Away (Graphic Photo) by Adesammy01(m): 1:26pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
BiniShrine:
Gory picture attached please.
Doctors in the house pls come to my aid.
Has this gone beyond bed sore?
Is there any hope for my dad to get healed?
Is there a remedy for the wound on us back to get healed again?
Is this beyond medical prognosis?
Should we look for alternative?
Please mod do the needful. I want to believe he is old. My grandma suffered this before she died. The cells though she took antibiotics at interval. It is because he doesn't stand from his sit for a long time. You can see a doctor for it but fear not. It is associated with old age. |
| Romance › Re: Me And The Girl Next Door by Adesammy01(m): 7:47pm On Mar 31, 2017 |
Vick4rill:
please i need a very mature advice from you guys...During my first year in school, a girl packs into our lounge and we become very friendly and do everything in common..i tried very hard to maintain the relationship like that. but it soon escalate to alot of smooching and romance.. she never allow me to have sex with her..she makes me realised she have different men she goes to have sex with and even tell me about some of her escapades.. The problem now is that this gal always get jealous anytime she sees me with another gal. she question my every moves and tries very hard by discouraging me into falling inlove with any gal. But yet when i ask her for sex,she refuse and gave me flimsy excuses by promising me, she can only let me have sex with her when she is in her husband house. the truth is that i dont get why this girl will let me smooch her, always want to be with me. and show me all kind of love only to deny me sex But she comfortably give it to other guys. Run for your life o, a girl telling you she can only allow sex with you when she is married could be dangerous o. Considering the fact that she sleeps around now and even proud of it should tell you that she isn't a good one. Not all good looking girls are good. |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfrnd Says She's Uncomfortable Because I Look Good.. I'm Really Shocked! by Adesammy01(m): 7:33pm On Mar 31, 2017 |
SorftWerk:
This evening, I got talking with my girlfriend,i told her I just finished having my hair cut, looking super cute and while I said all these, she was silent all the time, then I asked her what's wrong and she said nothing (you know girls nah) I asked her again, she said nothing, that I shouldn't worry.. So I raised my voice and asked her what's wrong, then she said she just feels uncomfortable I look handsome, I just removed my arm off her shoulder in surprise,what exactly is the meaning of what she said? Why is she uncomfortable she had a good looking guy as her man? Still surprised though! Permit me to say she doesn't really love you, she is obsessed. She is scared of seeing another complementing your good looking so that you won't think of dating someone else. She should even be the one to bring out the best in you in all aspects. She won't like you to be rich or even dress well for outings so you don't attract opposite sex. She is obsessed about you, that's not love. A lady that can't allow you mingle with opposite sex will not like it if a lady wishes to assist you in life. That doesn't mean she will be faithful too. Just speaking from experience, I used to have a lady like that then. |
| Romance › Re: Please Advise Me... Can I Still Trust Her? by Adesammy01(m): 7:24pm On Mar 31, 2017 |
CondomSir:
Bro what do you advise me to do now? Should I just move on with my life and jilt the four years we have been good together? I must say that I really like your maturity. All your responses has proven that. Girls generally are flexible minded, I will advice you not to give up on your investment so soon. please give he a second chance. On trusting her like before, make sure both of you don't make reference to it anytime even when you have issues. Just assume it never happened. You won't be happy if she leaves you because you made a mistake once. Forgiveness is a must if you love her. Since it's the first time. Don't throw her away just like that. Give her a second chance. I like it when a guy decides to challenge himself by being faithful. Don't forget to keep praying for her not to fall too. |
| Science/Technology › Re: See The Animal I Killed In University Of Benin. What's The Name? by Adesammy01(m): 12:17am On Mar 10, 2017 |
zykson:
I just killed this animal in Uniben.please can someone help me with the name The name is bush baby. |
| Fashion › Re: I placed an order, See What I Got [pic] by Adesammy01(m): 4:45am On Mar 04, 2017 |
MOSTEC:
Am Emotionally down right now, 2 weeks ago, i order a pair of nike air sneakers nd a designer vee neck top from a popular online store. I sent the address of my sisters place of work in V.I to be delivered there nd to her, [i already gave her the money] 2 weeks after i placed my order, they finally delivered. My sister paid on delivery nd collected the package without checking[ which is understandable] when she got back home,nd gave it to me, i was shocked when i saw dis>>
1. The vee neck top was oversize XXL
2. The sneakers was just too small to fit in.
Note: i stated it to them my size XL AND size 45 for the nike air and not 40.
The problem is dat i can't return it. Pls help what should i do. Advice needed.
Ishilove mynd44 .Take them to chukwudi, sell them for him or beg him to change them for you and add some token. |
| Celebrities › Re: 10 Things To Note Before You Protest With 2face Idibia by Adesammy01(m): 5:42pm On Feb 03, 2017 |
charliboy654:
Well suit urself, but one thing u should know is that even if buhari step down today, Nigeria problems will still continue. Yrs of mismanagement by previous govt is what is crippling our economy. And there's nothing anyone can do abt it. Even of PDP get power back, the suffering continues. Are you now saying we shouldn't even bother ourselves to make Nigeria better? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: I Have To Deny God So I Can Pass..should I? by Adesammy01(m): 9:03am On Sep 06, 2016 |
FunkyMetahuman:
Fakeee
No one will ever ask for such debate in Nigerian schools
Abeg bring another lie Call your friends studying the course, that's not lie. Lecturers do ask them |
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| Celebrities › Re: Tayo Amokade Gives Birth To Baby Girl by Adesammy01(m): 5:16pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
AnonyNymous:
Wife looks older Even if she is older, is age a factor in marriage? |
