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NGpatriot:
What is insensitive is peddling flammable and inciting rhetorics, lies and fake news. Look all over the internet, they have graphics with fake narratives about a massacre which actually did not happen, that's what's insensitive.

What exactly are you trying to achieve People were killed yet rather than honouring the dead you're here arguing about wrong use of English.... What is wrong with us in this country... People like you are worse than the devil

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I laugh when people recommend getting busy as the cure for masturbation... Can you be busy all the days of your life? So how about when you sit down to think? How about the enormous lustful thoughts that floods your mind when you see anything skirt.... What majority term as overcoming addiction is just blocking one tributary of a river with so many more... True victory comes when you're able to stop the source... Addiction to masturbation and lustful thoughts are both the same but we always tend to make ourselves feel good by telling ourselves our outward actions have more consequences than what goes on in us.... Before you claim to have overcome any addiction.. Check the true state of your heart

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derrick015:
Good morning everyone.

The subject refers,
I am a Christian. However, I have been struggling with a whole lot of non Christian like habit. One of such habit is watching of pornography and masturbating. This habit has lingered for more than 10 years now.
I am an introvert probably what has made it worse and perpetual.
I don't like this act. But I usually still practice it.

I believe God loves me but he hates this act. I really don't know how to STOP IT.

Pls I need help. This has really affected my relationship with the Holy spirit, myself and other people please help.

Also I have discovered that in the past 2 years i have been so disorganized, and forgetful.

At work I have been termed a LIER. I feel really embarrassed with myself when people give me something and I forget I have been given or I don't know where exactly I kept it. Then I will be asked of the same thing I won't be able to find it. Sometimes I deny it was ever given to me because I can't remember It was ever given to me.

This has brought me a lot of struggles at work(banking) and has made me ever so frustrated with myself.

I WASN'T LIKE THIS[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] before. It so unfortunate this is happening to me.

My prayer life too has gone down the drain it's zero. I attend church service Sunday however due to the current lockdown I can say I don't have any relationship with God!

Please I need help

I can relate perfectly to your current state, I was once under this menace but thank God I'm on the pathway to freedom today... Don't mind those suggesting marriage is a cure for it, marriage would never cure lust. The first thing is, do you desire sincerely to be free, it is easy to mouth it off but are you really sure? If Yes, the solution is both physical and spiritual... You need to replace those habits by cultivating Christ like habit, I'd recommend you start off by reading books you can find on overcoming lust e.g "Every young man's battle".... God will only help you if you're willing to run, he won't run for you but be rest assured he will run with you.. Make it a daily goal to pray at least for 30 minutes each day, read at least one chapter of the Bible, also get one verse of the Bible you'll meditate on each day, you can set up constant reminders for this verse using your notepad. The battle is gradually won, it might look difficult at first but trust me as you continue, you will begin to see improvements not only in this aspect but other areas of your life as well

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