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Christianity Etc › Re: That Spiri-spiri Experience. by Adortem: 8:38pm On Oct 22, 2015

bstringz:
Is this suppose to be funny? I expect better from the owner of nairaland. At least if you don't believe in spiritual things you could have as well not post anything. You trying to mock God?

Very disappointed.

Yes,he obviously doesn't believe it.

Politics › Re: Why Is Senator David Mark Always Silent In The 8th Senate? by Adortem: 3:03pm On Oct 22, 2015

Law of diminishing returns

Romance › Re: Opinion!! Why Do Handsome Men Marry Ugly Women?? by Adortem: 8:17am On Oct 22, 2015

The one that baffles me most is the fact that very pretty gals marry ugly guys...Their reason is the ugly guy would value them more and vice versa

Career › Re: 5 Things You Need To Survive In The Real World As A Nigerian Graduate by Adortem: 9:20pm On Oct 21, 2015

As practical as your article seem, I can say, sometimes its easy to lay on your couch and write all these points than the real deal(action). Well,the article is an inspiration though, however, I usually love to learn by people's efforts,personal experiences, and how they handled challenges in the past. As far as I am concerned you may be equally unemployed,perhaps a blogger...Forgive my sarcasm,just my opinion though.

Celebrities › Re: Julius Agwu Fires Back At Fan Who Insulted Him About His Leg On Instagram (pix) by Adortem: 2:39pm On Oct 21, 2015

ahamonyeka:
call your father an idiot

You just proved that you are an idiot, I wouldn't reply you again,so you don't drag me in your mud.

Celebrities › Re: Julius Agwu Fires Back At Fan Who Insulted Him About His Leg On Instagram (pix) by Adortem: 2:19pm On Oct 21, 2015

ahamonyeka:
who are you?climb a Kilimanjaro Mountain fall and die.

The smiley I quoted you with meant "sealed lips",you should have asked for the meaning before sending me this kind of reply, I never knew I quoted an idiot,my mistake,sorry.SMH

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Celebrities › Re: Julius Agwu Fires Back At Fan Who Insulted Him About His Leg On Instagram (pix) by Adortem: 1:01pm On Oct 21, 2015

ahamonyeka:
Are you people referring to his chicken legs?

Celebrities › Re: Julius Agwu Fires Back At Fan Who Insulted Him About His Leg On Instagram (pix) by Adortem: 12:49pm On Oct 21, 2015

The fan simply said what she saw,he should learn to handle his insecurities well. As a comedian,he should have simply made a joke out of it,or better still ignore it,his response was really low for him,anyways,he is only human,and I guess he was pained by the comment. I pray he gets back to shape soon.

Health › Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Adortem: 5:36am On Oct 20, 2015*

@Cooldee,please answer this question,if a man suddenly finds his wife dead wouldn't he raise an alarm to call the attention of neighbours,would he rather solely carry her to the hospital? This isn't the western world where neighbours hardly interact,with such a sudden discovery an alarm should have been raised. Does he have an alibi to vindicate him? Someone should please interview the neighbours,its not like they live in the wilderness or something. I think most families are afraid of court cases,the mother is just trying to protect the family,and most court cases take years to solve thereby prolonging the pain of the death. Many suspicions,a lot of questions left unanswered. Reading Arowolo's murder case too,very similar to this,the accused left no suspicion to the outside world,very religious man that had held religious positions in the past,even sang hymns in court...who would have thought he could stab his wife 76times?@the end,the victim got justice.

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Health › Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Adortem: 8:02pm On Oct 19, 2015

annibro:
Its complicated. Church bureaucracy is horrible. After a scene which happened within d church premises(d last physical incidens b4 I went 2 court), while members were consoling me & advising me 2 report to authority, one of d elders , a woman in her 60's came 2 me & said " what is wrong if ur husbands beats u? Is he not ur husband? I thot I didn't hear well & afta trying 2 explain dat it isn't d 1st time & he usually locks d door wen such happens, she still said "and so". D church was divided in Opinions, so I figured its best 2 tink of my life. Though I know if I was opportuned 2 meet with d General Overseer, he'll support d truth & probably suspend my ex but I'll stil be d one at d receiving end, cos he(the G.O) will neva support seperation & witout a job he(my ex)will be more aggressive.

I hate to go tribal but at this point I should say that some tribes don't see anything wrong in husbands beating their wives,infact,they compare it to father beating his child,like putting her through in love,they argued that as long as he provides for the family. Infact,they can even turn the story around and blame the wife completely for being beaten up. This society of ours is totally a patriarch society and the woman is always at the receiving end,so the for better for worse part is usually for the woman(I am not a feminist). I know you are going through a lot right now,considering how the society frowns at divorce,no one wants to hear your story all they do is blame you. Its well madam, I believe marriage shouldn't be a prison,and when it becomes life threatening,take a walk,to avoid stories that touch...

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Health › Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Adortem: 7:17pm On Oct 19, 2015

teamplayey:
@ Adortem:
Looking at their pictures, the man is so very huge while the lady is petit.
The man did not need to beat her to the extent of her sustaining such injuries.Domestic injuries should be criticized but its unlikely him needing to beat her so severely for whatever reason.
The post-mortem report would go a long way in us understanding what may have occurred. RIP Hestia!

That is if the reports isn't compromised. A similar case of a female banker last year was blamed on suicide,multiple stab wounds was found on the victim,one would have thought just a stab or two should do,the husband blamed suÍcide then later said during their fight she fell on a knife,still couldn't explain the numbers of stab wounds on her. The husband was later found guilty and sentenced to death. Some people are just psychos...

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Health › Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Adortem: 5:46pm On Oct 19, 2015*

cooldee:
@5minsmadness....what a nickname.....it was the stupid reporter that put up fake story on the nation newspaper that started all this. If you want more truth check sunday punch oct 18...u will see a correct report there. By the way....just wait i will be here to put up the real truth when the official autopsy reports are released or by the time the family sues the stupid journalist that started spreading wrong info about this.

I can see that you are actively defending this woman's husband,please what silly news did the Nation's newspaper jornalist published? Please don't be sentimental,analyze the case very carefully then you would see what others are seeing,suicide cannot logically explain all the lacerations on her skin and the mark on her skull,there are lots of questions to be answered.Someone said they found a torchlight she used to climb the ladder,common! Anyone can drop the torch there! Also said marks/scratches isn't on the husband to confirm he killed her.When I saw the picture of the couple,I knew why, the lady is very petite,while the man is so huge,I wonder what he could have done to her to make her sustain such wounds,till she lost her life. God would surely judge and I know the man would try it again in his next marriage...

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Health › Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Adortem: 10:14am On Oct 19, 2015

annibro:
Well said. As a victim, my 'ex' was & funny enuf is still a senior Pastor in one of ds most respected churches dat ladies don't wear jewelries. Wen I started opening up no one believed me cos of his comportment outside until he displayed it in d opened one fateful day.
Pipu had compelled me 2 go report 2d church authourity but becos I know how I mite be compelled 2 endure 2 keep d story silent cos of d image of d church & his position, I was more concerned 4 my life. I went 2 court myself 2 get my life & freedom back. 2day am Free 2d glory of God

Are you saying he battered(physically and mentally) you before you left him, with his position in church? You should have reported him to the church authorities,that would make him embarrassed. I salute your strength madam,its well.

TV/Movies › Re: Dance With Peter by Adortem: 10:01am On Oct 19, 2015

apcpdpallscam:
now dat they r in d academy,and wit yesterday's performances,who are you looking out for.my fav now is tom tom;he is gud.

I am yet to master their names,they've all been entertaining to me,don't know much about dance,just watch for the fun of it.

Health › Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Adortem: 9:31pm On Oct 16, 2015

cooldee:
THE CHILDREN ARE JUST TODDLERS .BOTH BELOW THE AGE OF 8. THE KIDS ARE STAYING WITH MY CLOSE RELATIVE NOW.

@DALU THANKS FOR THE CLEARIFICATIONS.

@BREADFRUIT AND EVERY OTHER PERSON STILL SUSPICIOUS ABOUT THE CAUSE OF DEATH BEING FROM THE HUSBAND....ALL OF YOU NEED TO GET YOUR FACTS VERY CORRECT. THE MUM VISITS THEM EVERY 2MONTHS AND SPENDS SOME TIME WITH THEM BEFORE GOING BACK COS SHE KNOWS HER DAUGHTER SO WELL AND AGAIN SHE EVEN PRAISED THE HUSBAND FOR TAKING CARE OF HER DAUGHTER.....

MY POINT AND MY STAND REMAINS THAT SHE WAS NEVER BATTERED OR BEATEN BY THE HUSBAND. THERES NO WAY A LADY WILL BE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND A FRIEND OR COLLEAGUE OR NEIGHBOUR OR FAMILY MEMBER WOULD NOT HAVE SUSPECTED ANYTHING GOING ON IN THE HOME AND THE INFO WOULD HAVE SPREAD OUT FAST. THEY ARE A NICE HAPPY FAMILY.

DONT COME UP HEAR AND START SPREADING STUPID BASELESS STORIES ABOUT THE HUSBAND BATTERING THE WIFE AT DIFFERENT TIMES.

I am suspecting this man,are you sure you aint the lady's husband? Cos the man hasn't been arrested,he knows the story has gone viral on social media,as far as I am concerned he may be the one typing this,trying to be on a defensive side right on his couch. Let me say the suicide,depression excuse doesn't work for me. Who are you to the family,you seem to know so much and taking sides too.

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Health › Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Adortem: 4:42pm On Oct 16, 2015

cooldee:
.......I DONT HAVE TIME TO READ ALL THE FOOLISH AND STUPID COMMENTS HERE. BUT I AM ONLY HERE TO TELL YOU GUYS THAT HER HUSBAND HAS NEVER BEATEN HER AND HER HUSBAND IS NOT THE ONE THAT KILLED HER. ALL THE PEOPLE SAYING THE HUSBAND BEATS HER REGULARLY ARE LIES. THE HUSBAND IS A VERY GENTLE AND EASY GOING PERSON.....DR HESTIA STILL VISITED ME ABOUT 2MONTHS AGO AND I VISIT HER AND PLAY WITH HER CHILDREN REGULARLY. I KNOW THE HUSBAND VERY WELL TOO ...THEY ARE BOTH VERY COOL HEADED AND EASY GOING.ALL I WILL SAY FOR NOW IS THAT ...THE HUSBAND DID NOT KILL HER.

DR HESTIA'S MUM KNOWS HER DAUGHTER WELL AND SHE KNOWS THE HISTORY OF HER DAUGHTER WITH DEPRESSION AND SUCIDAL THOTS. ETC......GO AND ASK HER MUM ABOUT HER CHILD. THEN YOU WILL ALL KNOW THAT HER DEATH IS NOT A RESULT OF ANYTHING FROM HER HUSBAND AT ALL.

People that suffer domestic violence always look perfect on the outside,even the people closest to them hardly suspect,the batterer usually look cool and calm,the victim usually hide their problem from the world in the name of protecting her man and marriage. Seeing a mark on her skull,do you really think she can do that to herself? Why would people start saying she died from domestic violence.In every rumour there is an iota of truth. How can someone just wake up and say that poor woman killed herself. Definately,that marriage isn't healthy

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Health › Re: LUTH Doctor, Hestianna Thomas Dies Through Domestic Violence by Adortem: 4:26pm On Oct 16, 2015

What a pity,marrying a psycho as a husband,prisoner in her marriage and finally sentenced to death by her accuser. RIP to her. Unfortunately,the case might be swept under the carpet,since the man is a rich man.

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NYSC › Re: Going Back To My Parent's After POP by Adortem: 5:09pm On Oct 15, 2015

apprentist:
God will reward you for your labour Bro, you're not alone at all. I'm previlaged to stay in a family house where many batch Cs past out today. trust me, I can see anxiety in most of their eyes. even though they smile.

What some would meet post NYSC would not be expected,the pressure out there is huge.

NYSC › Re: Going Back To My Parent's After POP by Adortem: 4:45pm On Oct 15, 2015*

legendgalas:
we use to buy every food items that we assumed can last us alhrough the term cus once you cross to the community, no coming out till we set to travel back home for the term's holidays. That was how we managed to survived and the community every month end do support us with 3k per corper. So we managed and managed till we concluded our service year OCTOBER last year.
na so we do o! now i'm happy I with the help of God utilized mine federal nysc allowee well even though am not working.

You were same batch with me batchC 2013,I also saved nearly what you saved,though I had to use part of it for a professional course which sapped a lot of my savings thinking it would give me automatic employment,well,still actively searching,had to pause when I got to the final stage.Now,I am thinking of a career change,its has not been easy,sometimes I feel so alone,like I am the only one going through this stage in life,I didn't even know it would be like this,I tried,while serving I had,like 3 part time jobs,that helped me save,but it seems the real world now is not something one can control,things happen beyond our control,its called fate!

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Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe Shows Off New Blonde Look - Ladies Who Can Bet This? by Adortem: 3:03pm On Oct 15, 2015

iamrealdeji:
This girl get bad yoruba mouth,she talks too much in movies and shouts too much with cursing and insulting big big Yoruba words,she's a typical yoruba girl you'd hate to get into a quarrel or argument with you,i don't like arguing with yoruba girls that use extraordinarily big big yoruba words and proverbs to defend themselves and insult

Sorry to disappoint you,she isn't Yoruba,she is just a very good yoruba actress that interpretes her role well.One Nigeria,say No to tribalism!

Celebrities › Re: Ubi Franklin & Lilian Esoro Wed At The Registry Today (Photos) by Adortem: 2:55pm On Oct 15, 2015

Sijo01:
Congratulations Nurse Titi

Nope,Nurse Abigail. My favourite character in Clinic Matters

Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by Adortem: 1:16pm On Oct 15, 2015

dhredamilare:
any info concerning OAU DE list and the date that it might likely be posted.

Probably,ending of this month the list should be out

Romance › Re: Advice Urgently Needed! by Adortem: 4:59pm On Oct 13, 2015

Olayinka8793:
bro why na,ain't gals of such age range matured enough for dating?,this particular gal is 19+ so she should be ripe enough for marriage in 3 years time.

Please,how old are you?

TV/Movies › Re: Dance With Peter by Adortem: 4:13pm On Oct 11, 2015

Can't believe this thread is as dry as this,or is there another thread?

Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by Adortem: 5:33am On Oct 10, 2015

AkinadeDare:
. One should also be able to do that.

Did you do that yourself or you only think one should be able to do that?

Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by Adortem: 7:44pm On Oct 06, 2015

AkinadeDare:
You should be able to. It all depends on the manner of approach. Even though i did not go there myself, but a friend, who is a student there, told me one does not need any sort of connection to check the movement of one's transcript at all. He said it depends on the manner of approach.

I already confirmed my transcript,I am talking about main credentials,can one go to faculties to confirm if ones credentials was forwarded from the Senate to the faculty

Education › Re: 2015/2016 Direct Entry Admission Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-ife by Adortem: 3:18pm On Oct 06, 2015

When do we think our list would be out?

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Sahara Group 2015 Graduate Aptitude Test by Adortem: 1:51pm On Oct 06, 2015

tjkadzyanju:
yeeeeeeeeeereeeeehhhhhh......i no finish o...

Oh!sorry o,how did it go?

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