Olayinka8793:
noted bro thanks,actually the deafness has defied both medical and spiritual interventions,hav been to and conducted audiogram test or whatever they called it at LASUTH and a hearing aid was prescribed but still no positive result after been tested on me,as for the waking part I have control over it so am not addicted,u know it is better than patronizing ashis.

2dice:
well u seem like a GoodGuy
Yes they are mature for dating
Most girls from that range don't even think of marriage
Na their Prime Be that .. Their eyes still dey outside also most will still be in School
No pls don't say i want to MARRY YOU...
Lastly becareful of your Heart some girls dey carry Sledge Hammer about

chuna1985:



Check if u can find a hearing aid to help u to hear low sounds at least. Good luck

xyoung:

I will toast you on the road soon

2dice:
u don't even need much grammar/English diss days
Let her know u like her without being too forward
If she likes you ...everything u do will look perfect

Swissheart:
.....then I will ignore you

Bamz:


LOL Mr. Love Doctor

I agree 100%. If a chick likes you, the stupidest things you do will be the funniest.

xtervaganza:
hahahahhahahaha at the sledge hammer part



You no go kill me this morning

Olayinka8793:
ok bro,thanks for your incomplete advice sha.
*rehearsing*
hey baby what is ur name
my name is.............
I like u,I mean I fell in like with u
she :meaning?
Me: *speechless*



if she embarrassed me I will blame u bro.

victor2fresh:
bro can i hav ur facebook name..i feel ur pain..its lyk am havinq 90% of d same prob wit u..lets chat up nd gv each oda reasonable advices on d way forward..tnx

Olayinka8793:
One of the best advice I could have asked for,many thanks bro.points noted,God blessed.

dontecrosofiso:
say the truth, you didnt attend high institution, how come you wrote like one them?

DedeNkem:
Grab the bull by the horn!

You have an easy catch and still you' re f*ucking scared to tell her your feelings. I can't say "be yourself" because your present self s*ucks real bad and that's why you were only able to befriend your m*asturbation prone hands.

The chic knows you too well which kinda made it easier for you. Summon some goddam courage and go talk her! She won't bite you, I promise! The worst thing she could do is to say "no". That's it, it won't turn your life upside down. You need to grow some f*ucking balls and have confidence in your damn self. Never use your f*ucking deafness as a weakness, it should make you stronger!

There are tons of stuff to talk about. You only have to start by talking about stuffs that concerns her - like her good looks (don't f*ucking overdo it), job, hobbies, her favorite stuff (like movie, music, etc), future ambition, and her unforgettable life experiences, try to be funny (chics love it) and then finally let her know your feelings for her and be real with it. Don't sound like a douchebag or a f*ucking creep doing it.

Don't f*ucking tell her you want to marry her. That scares some chics away because it's the same as telling a chic you're toasting that you love her. She may see you as a p*ussy player and dumb your a*ss while you stand there drooling like a he goat and about blabbing sh*it. And don't entice her with money! Entice her with your good personality (if you have it).

Don't tell her you're a f*ucking virgin for God's sake! She may see you as an inexperienced j*erk and wonders why you haven't had any chic in your life at your age. It could also make her think something is damn wrong with you. You should only tell her few seconds before sex so she won't call you an as*shole if you f*uck up in bed. Watch some p*orn to learn how guys get laid.

Few chics would be excited to f*uck a dumb virgin because of the rarity of virgin guys, not because the sex will be f*ucking great.

Now get your sorry hairy as*s out and look for her! Good luck, virgin!

daryoor:
i wouldn't have bothered replying since the comments are in their 6 page.

after reading through you post. i outlined the point where u said you didn't have the ability to further your education. but going by the quality of your write up, i can confidently tell you that you will cope and pass well in a university. i know billions of university graduate that cant write half as good as u just did.

about the whole girl thing, there are lots of girls and guys your age that have worse social skills when approaching the opposite sex. my advice is for u to keep trying and failing till u get better at it.


my point: GO BACK TO SCHOOL

Olayinka8793:
bro why na,ain't gals of such age range matured enough for dating?,this particular gal is 19+ so she should be ripe enough for marriage in 3 years time.

Olayinka8793:
ok bro,thanks for your incomplete advice sha.
*rehearsing*
hey baby what is ur name
my name is.............
I like u,I mean I fell in like with u
she :meaning?
Me: *speechless*
Lwkmd!!! Guy u funny o



if she embarrassed me I will blame u bro.

Olayinka8793:
thanks a bunch,mixing harsh words with sound advice,points noted sha,thanks

Olayinka8793:
bro why na,ain't gals of such age range matured enough for dating?,this particular gal is 19+ so she should be ripe enough for marriage in 3 years time.

Bamz:


Well you look like you're in your prime you can afford to ignore boys at the moment

Just kidding.

How are you?

Swissheart:
..not about the age nau....just not a fan of 'roadside wooing'.

Swissheart:
The first thing is to be yourself.....look beyond d said deafness.You write well...so I think you are quite intelligent.Make friend with her....with dat She must have been convinced of your worth...I am not a fan of toasting by d road side actually. friendship first.Continue being a good guy.Think of getting better..both medically and career wise.