₦airaland Forum

justirich: I find it particularly disgusting and revolting how young girls nowadays have turned into sex-for-money beings. Majority of them especially in the tertiary institutions should actually be called prostitutes. It's almost a norm now for young girls to run around the town and country chasing money which they claim they lack. It's so annoying when you learn that some of them are actually from financially stable families. I don't know if it's a demonic nymphomaniac spirit connecting the most of them that you can't stop seeing them jumping from one car to a club to an hotel into a eatery and back to occasions. The funny aspect is most of them will still claim to be broke after so many "business trips." This trend is so prevalent and it's disheartening considering how our future wives would have been so ravaged by their numerous clients. The question i pose is: does being a girl equates to sleeping and flirting around with all money dudes in the name of hustling? Another painful aspect of this modern trend is that virtually all of these girls are regular church goers when they are not away on business. Who are you deceiving? You just fooling yourself cos God cannot be deceived. Why can't you just hold on to just one boyfriend or fiancé at a time? I know men play a great part in this gross anomaly but let's talk about the ladies today. If you are a virtuous lady reading this, pls advise your fellow sisters cos this is da truth. No pretence here!!!
Wetin dey pain me pass be say all the hustle nor fit reach them buy car or build house or travel for holidays overseas. I've not even talked about the health implications of such frequent sexual marauding at this young age. Finally pls remember that Cervical cancer is real. Save yourself by getting vaccinated today. At least one good business trip should fund the vaccine.

relax man,na because say you no get money nah-if money dey,you no go dey complain,cos you just dey watch while ballers dey ball
back to topic,i think its cause they stopped female circumcision,girls these days love sex after some baileys or a lil redwine mix...their clitoris go just dey vibrate.

[quote author=Texas.Cowgirl]I want to be seated like a great Benin/Oyo queen while being read this letter.[/quote]

Myne White: Dear Women,

First of all, we're sorry. We're sorry that although we look like men, we often act like boys. We're not even sure what it means to be men anymore. As we grow up, we learn that to be happy is to be self-indulgent and self-centered. We try to make enough money so that we can have the right TV with the right video games in the right home. We want to date you and maybe even marry you but we are scared to focus on someone else instead of ourselves. Isn't it sad that we see committing to you as a potential threat to our happiness instead of a wonderful opportunity?

Here's what we don't understand: True happiness comes from being true men. We think and act like boys who don't want their toys taken away. We look up to "role models" in the media who teach us to get as much gratification out of life as possible. We may claim to be spiritual, or even firm atheists, but pleasure is the god that we worship, whether we realize it or not. Unfortunately, women tend to be just another part of our hedonistic lifestyle. Please know this: True men won't treat you like an irritating obstacle or a sexual convenience.

A real man understands that women are to be cherished and treated with care and honor. He sees marriage as the opportunity to be a real-life superhero—he leaves behind his old identity and becomes a new person, dedicated to serving his wife and children. Although he will struggle at first, a true man who marries eventually understands that he can't fit through the narrow doorway to happiness if he tries to carry all of his toys with him. There is just enough room for him and his wife, arm in arm, committed to their marriage.

Women, you can help us become real men! Most importantly, we want to feel admired by you. Help us to know that you love us just as we are, even if there is room for improvement. Do this by giving us words of validation; praise us for the things we do well. This means more to us than we let on.

In return, we will make sure that you feel loved and cherished by us. We will learn to talk with you so you can be heard and understood, not so that we can tell you how to solve your problems. We'll also try to learn to express how we feel without withdrawing or getting angry. With polished communication we can learn that what makes you happy makes us happy too! What a concept!

Once again, we're sorry. We are to blame, even though good male role models are hard to find these days. We've ignored our calling to become true men and instead act like we're in high school for as long as we can. Please trust that we are capable of more than this.

If you are frustrated with the man in your life, do your best to forgive him and start fresh. After a while, if it's clear that he will not become a real man, leave him. You deserve better.

A healthy relationship will make everyone involved feel happy. When we are happy, we are capable of living meaningful and fulfilling lives alongside one another. Thank you for your understanding and patience as we journey onward to find happiness and become real men.

Sincerely,
Men

http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2013/06/one-man-writes-open-letter-to-women.html

hmmmn...Op speak for yourself,majority of girls these days aint worth good loving.

[quote author=Symphony007]Everybody is entitled to their own view but not their own facts. The comments calling me a lair has been most amusing because i find it hard to see what i'll gain by making up a lie and putting it on a public forum...anyways, if i really did make this up then i am either a very spirited lair or an amazing creative writer, [/quote
nah man,nothing creative about this,you are just a jobless young lad with so much time in his hands.

super story...go find work my man.

honeric01: Can you just house them instead or can you take up their bills if you prefer life in prisonment?

my brother no mind these myopic people.God bless you for your objectivity.

[quote author=shine-eye]Stop doing drugs-you are losing grip![/quote]he aint-he says "god" not God-they are so many gods out there-you are the dumb one following fake pastors worshipping them as gods...Almighty God don't need any money from us-this Nigeria christianity will mislead so many of una-hypocrites.
how does that woman look good enough to preach the gospel,does she have an fruit of the spirit,does she look clean/righteous/holy?

wahala dey...this woman wan hammer final hammer.

Mr Jona,change Lamorde,replace him with someone with integrity.EFCC needs constitution powers,it needs to be separate from the executive like FBI,CIA are-we need to see some of these crooks behind bars.Fight corruption,we don't need all these stories.

joeyfire: Old gist. A colleague told me story of how his church member went to see the wife of one of their bishops in the north. Lo and behold the mai guard that let her into the compound looked exactly like a school mate of hers from her Poly days. An engineering graduate. She tried to ask the guy if he was the same guy but he acted dumb so she let it pass.

After a few minutes with the bishop's wife, curiousity forced her to ask her hostess about the mai guard and she was forced to send for him. The househelp she sent came back to say the guy was gone. Till this day no on has seen him.

This public advice is coming a bit late

better late than never,they can be sacked an replaced with vetted guards..i bet you never thought about that...don't let me call you slow poke

Fhemmmy: Because some other nations are doing it means we have to do it . . . Yes, the crime was bad and must be punished but i am not too sure this kinda argument makes it better - looked at the list of nations and seeing Nigeria there makes me weep for Nigeria . . . We are on same list with Somalia and even we broke the record for being the latest to use the punishment after Somali

Nigeria is a peculiar country,even with more greedy peeps than USA,Indonesia,qatar,Saudi Arabia-why are they not ashamed.
indonesia is bigger than Nigeria,so is Saudi Arabia,Qatar,-all these kill for drug peddling.
while Nigeria reserves death penalty for uncontrollable murderers that have spent years on death row without signs of changing or remorse.
you want them to take them to your house?

i think anyone that purposely killed another soul,armed robbers that rape and kill,sadistic rapists and terrorists should be killed when convicted,for all y'all talking trash-check out the list of countries here that still use death penalties over 60.
Amnesty international do not have work,they are living in a fantasy,the truth is there are more evil sadistic killers and cultists,that crave for human blood now than before,we must eliminate these barbarians in order to have a sane world.
follow this link to see the list
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Use_of_capital_punishment_by_country

jjcbuthot: We make noise when the law catches up with the murderers/criminals. If murder/criminal kills your relative, will you say killing a murderer is bad?

DONT MIND THE MYOPIC,SELFISH PEOPLE,NA BECAUSE MURDERER NEVER VISIT THEM BEFORE.
THESE KILLERS SHOULD BE KILLED FAST-ALL OF THEM TO CREATE SPACE FOR SANE PEOPLE THAT WANTS TO LIVE LIKE HUMANS.

xandy84: Oga Jona could not fix electricity but he can urge the governors to sign death warrant.. Dis guy need to wake up tat capital punishment is been do away wit throughout the world nah

YOU ARE AN IGNORANT FOOL FOR THIS STATEMENT
HOW OLD RE YOU?
GOOGLE IT AND SEE,FOOL.

kandiikane: Even if that's the case, can't they use a much humane way of execution? Have they never heard of lethal injection? I'm sure he's suffered enough in the hands of the prison guards for 17years why would they make him suffer just before death too. Na wa! If God didn't forgive we'll all go to hell oo. Una still dey forgive God for snatching away your child, husband, mother, being stricken or born in poverty etc and he does it everyday. Just saying, not blaspheming because I know this same God is the one that said love thy neighbour as yourself. If you make a grievous mistake after years of suffering I'm sure you would have learnt where you went wrong and want to be forgiven? And so f-ing what if usa has death penalty? Na dem born we? We for follow follow or compare? "Oh, my father us of a has death penalty why should I stop my own?" Shoooir!

mR MAN YOU ARE A FOOL,USA HAS BETTER SECURITY ARRANGEMENT,THEY ARE IN A BETTER POSITION TO ABOLISH IT BECAUSE THEY CAN MANAGE THEIR SOCIETY AGAINST CRIME THAN WE HERE.
AMNESTY AND ALL THE FUCKING HUMAN RIGHTS ARE AMERICAN OWNED,HENCE THEY SHOULD TALK TO THEIR FATHERS,AND LEAVE US ALONE.SEEMS YOU DONT KNOW CULTISTS MAKE A VOW TO KILL TILL THEIR DEATHS.YOU ARE INDEED NAIVE.

mikeywise: Na wao, so they have not abolished capital punishment? this is 2013 oooo

you are sounding like a naive,dumb idiot-over 25 countries still use the death penalty,some for as little as drug peddling your neck is cut off.
THESE ARE UNMANAGEABLE KILLERS ON DEATH ROW FOR YEARS,SHOWING NO REMORSE OR NO EFFORT TO CHANGE.

ehie: In this day and age...kai...why do we always regress

too bad,society is not getting better and kinder,they are more mindless killers out there today than ten years ago-its good for them to be killed since they don't respect lives.

bella berry: Na wa o. I thought capital punishment is now a thing of the past?

May his soul rest in peace.

i pray you don't loose a loved one to a sick,mindless killer-then your views will change.slow poke.

Very misleading report,most countries of the world still use capital punishment.
1.USA-the father of Amnesty and human rights still kill convicted murderers and barbarians.
2.Saudi Arabia-these are the people that bribe amnesty to speak against Nigerian government on their crack down of Salafist terrorists Islamist,they slice the neck of convicted rapists,drug peddlers and armed robbers.
3.Iraq
4.iran
5.Indonesia-kills drug peddlers.
6.India still kills killers and terrorists
7.Democratic republic of Congo
8.Gabon
9.Gambia
9.Guinea
10.Libya
11.Somalia
12.South Sudan
13.Suda
14.Zimbabwe
15.Swaziland
16.Tanzania
and more,do your research all you slow pokes before you spew trash you hear from hypocritical amnesty that support terrorists.

Some countries are filled with hardened criminals,evil cultists that thrive on human blood.the only option is to kill them and save innocent lives.
or do you rather they kill your father and mother,as armed robbers or kidnappers?
you Nigerians are pathetic,bloody hypocrites-why would you pity for someone that kills human beings for no reason,they deserve to be killed.
Death penalty must be retained because it is the only detterent against violent crimes,it also help our society get rid of sadists that might influence a gang of youngsters to become killers.
or do you rather the killers kill your family member?
kill them all.
in Nigeria death penalty is reserved for uncontrollable death row inmates,or do you rather they release savage beast into the society?

God bless Nigerian army-frequent air raids and aerial bombardment will sen their souls to their 79 virgins faster...dont waste time,just bomb the evil invaders-Shekau,a bloody Chadian coming to cause problem in Nigeria-they all must die.Nigerians kill them where ever you see them,dont be a fool,terrorists are evil,they love only their fellow killers.

kkkp: Who will dey hire??

Dumb question,they are security companies everywhere-just a little difference in what you will pay them compared to mallams,dont be penny wise to loose your life.

larmorde is a lame duck,just sitting in and chopping money,he should be removed from that position,no single corrupt governor or minister has been arrested since he came in as the EFCC boss.

Good development,please Goodluck Jonathan ensure all parastatals and Ministries employ the best brains for public offices-we should be proffesional and utilise merits in selection not nepotism and tribalism.This federal character we use enhances mediocrity-the best should be given the job.

coogar: they are doing a lot about that - UK wants out of EU. that debate has been going on for a month now. the romanians are everywhere these days taking their jobs and putting a huge strain on the NHS.

are u a british spokesperson?

British are sly,cold and self centered people,we gain nothing from them-they gain much more from us,we spend hundreds of millions of pounds on their economy via our criminal politicians and money bags when they visit UK.our economy is open to their goods and businesses-which they make billions of pounds from yearly.British should show respect to us cos we generate income for their government.

gramci: Baga fraud

what is your point,or do you just lying brewing conspiracies for the fun of it?
we are talking National security here,if you aint got something progressive to say,shut your dumb mouth.traitor-if not for the military,your head would have been dancing on the streets by now,or you would have been a Muslim by force fool.

emmysenior: Quite amusing. But he wouldn't have thrived without the help of insiders/fundamentalists.

But, imagine an alien destabilizing a whole country.

Men... That devil is a bastard.

He is not that strong,if not for the foolish and myopic AC and AREWA supporting them-imagine those old fools calling themselves Nigerian politicians selling us out.bloody traitors.

splashbaby and co,you are pathetic Nigerians,bloody traitors-they tell you that someone that has been killing your fellow Nigerian brothers and sisters are not Nigerians-instead of you fools to think of ways for Nigeria to eliminate these external aggressors,you choose to derail and keep blaming the military.
you bloody cowards,if not for the military,your father and mothers would be slaves to the Arabs by now.
Nigerians let us rise up and kill all these Kanuris tormenting our people,no mercy-these people are not even Nigerians,hence they must be totally destroyed-killed.

playah P: My heart goes out to the thieves/kidnappers.
They don't deserve to die like this!!

The people they kidnapped are the same upperclass fucktards holding the poor people in Nigeria down!!

Criminals should learn to booby trap their houses!!.....haba!!

criminals and kidnappers deserve death for killing and disturbing the sanity of people.if you are one too,you will meet same fate.

berem: Ogbeni, can't you be proud of your home state, Delta State, for once? You haven't said anything positive about your state. No matter how bad it is, be proud of where you come from. Your obsession with Lagos is becoming silly!

your statement has no relevance to the topic-or do you like kidnappers/killers...are you one?

deshclones: The guy spews more thrash than that egghead mofo..leave him to revel in his custom made foolery...spare him no heed abeg..

he is right,if you want to rob-rob your fathers and mothers in your states-if you come to Lagos,you will be shot dead.

Garri the 1st: Maybe their legs are chained. Besides it's possible that "Your Fiends" the police have shot their legs, eliminating the possibility of escape.

they deserve death,all kidnappers/armed robbers deserve death.