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For me, love is is a decision with or without emotions

Magnoliaa:
Yeah, sure. The realists should go right ahead and embrace it. Count me out.



Me? No. I don't have a definition for it, haven't seen the need to. But 1 Corinthians 13 is my go-to definition and guide. You can can check it out.



Lol. Of course. And I create stories like that as well. Sooo it's not far-fetched for me to believe in stuffs like that. How would I sell them, buy your interest and love and influence your beliefs if I don't believe myself? If I don't believe the words I write? Or the circumstances I create in my stories? Or the emotions I evoke to create a magical and satisfying experience when you flip the last page and back cover shut? Belief beget belief.

Soak the GPA for water make e rise.

Guy seat down and read. Mind you, what you become out here has little or nothing to do with your GPA. It is a known fact that first class guys ends up working for 2.1 guys because while the first class know book, the 2.1 knows the street. Book smart no be street smart. So no kill your self if your head no gree carry book. Just do your best and leave the rest.

But if you dey do arabanko, omoo efile e no go pay oh.

Advice no be curse

You better fight for Igboho and stop crying after people that are bigger than you. MNK is bigger than your god tifnubu or the mere commissioner

adamsmith914:
Nothing will save that Selfish Secessionist from serving nothing less than 13 years in a Federal Correctional Centre in Bauchi or Yobe. Presidential pardon after at least 7 years in prison.

You need to be included as one of the prosecuting counsel

McCoy662:
But Nigerian government has hold him hostage for four months now and still counting. Nigerian government will still send him to jail soon

Unity is not by force Oga, you can cry harder

muykem:
South East is not ready to leave. IPOB is as result of their political elite lost relevant after GEJ government. How can people want to secede without a map of proposed new conutry. There's a time Nnamidi kanu came up with Biafra include south south, kogi and Benue. You have seen how interested of these people now in the foolishness called Biafra?

And how does repeating it since 2018 made it a lie? Nah lie? Was this not one of his campaign promises in 2015? Did he do any of them? If he couldnt do it in the past 6 years why should you blame someone for not believing him.
Can you show us any empirical steps he has ever told you on how he intend to bring out 30+ million people out of poverty?
Make unah dey respect unah sef oh

TheRareGem1:
You have been saying this comment since 2018. On every VP's post. Na ment?

Nah all these yeye talk make me hate this man.

Yes I am an Igbo man, pure breed, a dotian, biafrans boy and much more.
Now the point is, is tifnubu not corrupt?

achymmania:
another Igbo.

But true love don't lord it over the ones they love nah

Ayo081:
Oh I see

Recall, the 'word' in John 15 was directed to the disciples.

That makes no difference as we're all called to be disciples and friends of Christ right.

Don't you think I'll have to submit or you have to submit for the love to flow?

I mustn't lord it over you and you shouldn't it either.

And times will come when one of us must know when and who should submit for it to flow.

Won't you submit to Christ if you love him?

Can you define "love" in just a sentence?

Magnoliaa:
Is showing up the best we can and bringing out the best in our partners not a part of unconditional love? I believe it is a part of it, and one does not necessarily preclude the other.

Love is important. Yes, the feelings, tingly kind I believe. One that makes your heart race and feel good just thinking about them, I believe. No, that is not all there is to it.

But unconditional love has imbued in it the works, the efforts, the commitment and the blindness as well.

To the usefulness of such advice, I feel it paints a dreary picture of marriage that I don't want to look forward to. Sounds drudgery. Like I must do things for my partner, just because. Not cheerily. Are there likely going to be times I feel that way? Possibly. But haba, for the most of the time and my marriage life?

I don't want that kind of organic, fulfilling-a-duty or filling-in-a-space love, tenkio.

Of course "he is a clean business"

sunto:
Is can never be there, because he is a clean business,

Must he be Igbo to say that? Is tifnubu not corrupt? If we may ask

achymmania:
you must be igbo. Only them reason this way.

How much do they pay those policemen on the road?

imam07:
rubbish talk. U think they pay them small money. Teachers collecting small salary no dey misbehave. Pay 500k monthly to all police men. They will still steal.

I know that some of the top guys are part of it, but there are some that can't help it. Some of them do it because of their poor pay. Two wrongs don't make a right you know

Fahdiga:
So you believe the top echelons in the police force doesn't know about all this? Wake up from your slumber

Ebi like sey something dey worry you bah?



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Even people wey never near airport gate dey insult another person.
If e easy, go russia go study

amuwo1980:
He no even go school, who on earth will go to communist Russia then to study economics , failed socialist economy. This one Na intimidation and Russian gangs give his money

The kind of talk people day talk when in the process of licking buhari ass, the man just mess those hem rotten egg smely mess

APCNig:
Self praise is good. It helps to reduce hypertension and depression. However, when you continue lying to yourself repeatedly, then we need to check your mental health.

Oxygen of Nigeria that cannot be Oxygen to his backward region. Onyema, who cannot step into USA because he has been declared wanted. He cannot even step into Cotonou so that Interpol will not pick him up. His life depend on Buhari. If Onyema looks too handsome and that useless Malami becomes jealous, Onyema will be on the next free flight to US prison. That is one of the people this lazy youth is calling Oxygen, Carbon dioxide, Phosphorous, Hydrogen and Helium of Nigeria.

Say it without crying

baralatie:
Gradually!
South east is falling to disrepute with the aid of ipob

This is what the police needs to be doing to redeem her dead image.
One the other hand, I will advocate for an increase in police officers salary so that those of them that do these things will have no moral excuse to do them again.

Talking about "morality", who still get morality for these country sef

You get time to dry answer that zombie, look at all his comments here did any of them make any sense to you? Why did you think he can comprehend anything you say.
The bible said that it is not good to take a pearl and throw it to pigs because it will trample on it and attack you

Emergingnation:
We are following due process, it'll soon be accomplish

Now let me ask you a question, that major that was kidnapped from the NDA, how was he released? Did you hear that their was a fight between the soldiers and the bandit to release him? So why did you think Nigerian soldiers can't pay ransom to rag tagged bandits as you called them? The same rag tagged bandit that shot down a jet fighter or you didn't believe that one too? See, if you think Nigerian army is worth anything then you are simply not following events

kettykin:
If this story is true the Nnamdi Kanu no Matter his fault should be made the president of Nigeria. It means no body not even the DSS knows for certain where Nigeria is headed but Nnamdi Kanu and his intelligentia, what more can I hear about Nigeria. I am shocked to my marrows, the once revered Nigeria military has been reduce to the worst military in the world that pays Ransome to illiterate bandits and rag tag militias

You refuse to believe a news from Wall Street journal? You think sey nah Linda ikeje blog abi nah NTA dem be?

kettykin:
I refuse to believe this story but then if it is the truth then know for certain that Nigeria military is a waste of tax payers money and the most useless military on the face of the earth since mankind was created. Not even Benins army is this useless.

This is like God giving satan money not to shoot down the donkey carrying Jesus. What more can I hear in this hopelessly useless,God forsaken entity ruled by fooools and supported by imbeciles

Nonsense, as if Mohammed did not sell slaves

ChiefJusticeFuc:
Muslims are not as dangerous as woke communists .


Go and see what they are turning America into.

foolish pepe, no be the country wey allow them go enter?

and when did the igbos need to be president? we want biafra and not presidency!

Now who is behaving like a child here? My question now is, was there a conference of people who gathered to decide what the constitution should be?

Your claim on that rubbish you wrote their is twisted again but am not ready to even go there. Just answer my question

ajumma:
The first Democratic elected Government were usurped by igbo cum Biafra men...So right do you have to lectured us about constitutions

Ifeajuna led the massacre in Lagos and killed Balewa, Okotie-eboh .etc.
Nwobosi led the massacre in Ibadan & killed Ladoke Akintola in fanis presence.
Nzeogwu led the massacre in Kaduna killed Ahmadu Bello, Ademulegun & pregnant wife .etc.
22 people were massacred before daybreak & no one was assigned to the east. Even the top eastern officers in Lagos were spared.

Was there a conference of people representing different ethnic groups in Nigeria, different stake holders to discuss the issues of the said constitution? What is wrong with you must you twist what is already known just because you are paid 30k?

ajumma:
That simply analogy show your narrow thinking & understanding .
Let me educate you a bit because you maybe a toddler then , or due to your youth exuberance

The independence Constitution was written by civilian yet we encountered snag due to politicians manipulations
The 1979 Constitution was written by civilian still the problem persisted.
The 1989 transition midwifed by IBB was all civilian affairs yet they are plethora of issues.

The above shown we can make things work if we so desire