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Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by kapelvej: 5:43pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Hathor5:please which series is that |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Dalil8: 5:43pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Hathor5: kapelvej: She's talking about the creepy couple, Joe Goldberg and Love Quinn on You series 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by kapelvej: 5:48pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Dalil8:thanks |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by optm(m): 5:51pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Just marry a kind person and one that respects you and people generally . It 'll save you alot of stress as only a devil wouldn't love such a person . |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by InvertedHammer: 5:52pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
/ Only people who watch too much TV go into marriage just for love. After about 2 years, eyes go clear. / |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Kobojunkie: 5:53pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
optm:And this because a "kind" person cannot turn devil tomorrow? |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Xbs1: 5:54pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Hmmm |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by reddingtonblack: 5:59pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Klass99: One flaw thing about our generation is we don't look beyond " big grammar n sense " ... what about a reality test. How realistic is it for anyone to be @ there best in all times, there are time you will even give your best buh it won't even be close to good. We must acknowledge change is constant, as we age and gather experiences peoplw are bound to change, that thing you find in your partner might drop or fade afters some years in marriage ...unconditional is what keep the marriage sailing. Not everything that makes sense is realistic |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 6:01pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: What did Paul said that is contradictory to the 'word' of God? |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by optm(m): 6:04pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:this hardly ever happens. It would take alot for someone who's kind naturally to become otherwise |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Kobojunkie: 6:05pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Ayo081:Compare Paul's alleged statement as claimed by the one I responded to Jesus Christ's statement in John 15 vs 12 and you will see how what Paul said I many ways diminishes the Truth as stated by Jesus Christ. 11 I have told you these things so that you can have the true happiness that I have. I want you to be completely happy. 12 This is what I command you: Love each other as I have loved you. - John 15 vs 11 - 12That command there was not given only to husbands or married couples.... it was given to everyone of Jesus Christ's followers and so does not in anyway represent a special kind of love for just married individuals. |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by naijapips04: 6:06pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Oga we are all stupid. Love makes people better. |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Hathor5(f): 6:11pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
reddingtonblack: Tolerance is needed when we don't like something. It has nothing to do with love. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Hathor5(f): 6:12pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
bezimo: So you can also love your wife when she cheats? Or is faithfulness a condition? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by reddingtonblack: 6:13pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Hathor5: marriage entails , both parties identifying and playing their roles to the best of their capacity. in marriage you must understand you must alway creat room for the other party. when it come family i.e we must do what will cover majority interest, do what favours you as long as it does not jeopardize other member interest. |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by michlins(m): 6:14pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
InvertedHammer:not many people will like your opinions but e dey strike truth always |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Hathor5(f): 6:15pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
bukatyne: I guess so but people also work to bring out their best if they love conditionally because they know that love is conditional. Why did you put unconditionally in '...' ? |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Hathor5(f): 6:16pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
reddingtonblack: How do you do it? |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 6:18pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Oh I see Recall, the 'word' in John 15 was directed to the disciples. That makes no difference as we're all called to be disciples and friends of Christ right. Don't you think I'll have to submit or you have to submit for the love to flow? I mustn't lord it over you and you shouldn't it either. And times will come when one of us must know when and who should submit for it to flow. Won't you submit to Christ if you love him? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Hathor5(f): 6:18pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
bukatyne: I can't ask her. She hasn't explained. For me the difference is clear. I can show up the best I can but I can still formulate conditions under which I will do that, e.g. faithfulness. |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Truvelisback(m): 6:23pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Longsleeve:Somehow, u are rice. |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by after4: 6:27pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Can you define "love" in just a sentence? Magnoliaa: |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by after4: 6:28pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
But true love don't lord it over the ones they love nah Ayo081: |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Ayo081(m): 6:30pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
after4: Exactly what I said |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Spectaclesawe25: 6:32pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Hathor5: Know this and know peace. Otherwise heartbreak is sure in marriage. For men, you can't get loyalty and honour from your wife if you don't secure her financially, securing her financially is only a function of her own expectation and need at any time T, as a woman you can't get to feel secure if you don't trust and believe in your man, and also help him to win in his little battles. These qualities from both parties aren't even at 50% in most homes. Forget love. True commitment, trust and believe is what grows a home, love comes after. |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by reddingtonblack: 6:35pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Hathor5: by playing considerations and simply tolerating little things , some changes are excusable yle some are not. i think physical change is excusable maybe to some extent or not ...what is not excusable is personality change, cos if you aint faking i don't see why your personality should change. |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by babadee1(m): 6:37pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Hathor5: There are two kinds of marriage. The God kind of marriage based on unconditional love, and the human kind of marriage based on what you can get out of each other. You choose the one you want. |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Kobojunkie: 6:39pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Ayo081:I don't follow! Again, what I am saying is that what Paul said is not what Jesus Christ said. So, to suggest then that Paul's words are Jesus Christ's own Words is wrong. Jesus Christ's commandment is given to all of His disciples (individuals, Eunuchs, husbands and wives included). However, Paul's extraction suggests a special case for husbands, where Jesus Christ never taught of such to begin with. The same love Jesus Christ taught should exist between a disciple and another disciple is the exact same love that should exist between a husband/wife and spouse...He, Jesus Christ, made no such distinction as Paul attempts to make in his epistle. Basically, Jesus Christ taught His disciples to submit to each other in Him, this regardless of marital status. Meaning the same way a disciple submits to another disciple is the same way a man is to submit to his wife and vice versa, this where Jesus Christ alone is Lord over each and everyone who belongs to Him - whether male or female. |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Magnoliaa(f): 6:40pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
SweetVibe: Yeah, sure. The realists should go right ahead and embrace it. Count me out. after4: Me? No. I don't have a definition for it, haven't seen the need to. But 1 Corinthians 13 is my go-to definition and guide. You can can check it out. TemmyT002: Lol. Of course. And I create stories like that as well. Sooo it's not far-fetched for me to believe in stuffs like that. How would I sell them, buy your interest and love and influence your beliefs if I don't believe myself? If I don't believe the words I write? Or the circumstances I create in my stories? Or the emotions I evoke to create a magical and satisfying experience when you flip the last page and back cover shut? Belief beget belief. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by TemmyT002(m): 6:42pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Don't worry. When you get married, the stories will change because by the you will truly understand. |
Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Magnoliaa(f): 6:45pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
TemmyT002: Okay. Thank youu. |
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