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Dead country...what did NYSC do about this? What did appropriate authority and security agencies do about this? Lemme guess....Nothing.
This is so wrong!!!

My man...you need to be smart...the elderly men you saw may not be her dad...have you thought of sugar daddy?

peacettw:
Yes.
Just learnt about it from an authentic source. A pity... What a way to start the year.

As for Mbaka, your "prophesies" have proven time and again to be of no help to anyone. It only brings pain and misery. I refuse to believe that our God is that callous.

Prophets of old also brought prophesies that are atimes not favourable to man. Truly the ways of God are not the ways of man.

VicM6:
Arsenal go first score then later things go change

. False prophet!

dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

. That man will never change.Love is not all you need in a man. Respect and friendship is more important. My dear flee from that woman beater before it's too late.A word is enough....

Beverlyjean:
A friend of mine is in desperate need of advice... She had unprotected sex with a married man... Her fear now is that she feels it might affect her in the future because she knew he was married before she did it...

She regrets her actions... She said she never planned it, although the man had always been disturbing her, but she felt she could control the situation when she visited him, but one thing led to another after a couple of drinks and they ended up having unprotected sex.

The man in question is old enough to be her father according to her but she still doesn't know why she did what she did because at that time she was having relationship issues. She has ended all ties with the man but her fear is that if what she did will affect her in the future because she doesn't want her future husband to ever cheat on her.

She is so broken now and confused... Again she doesn't know how her next boyfriend will think she's that type of person that sleeps with married men if he finds out what she did, because her boyfriend ended the relationship when she told him, although it happened before they met. She doesn't want her next boyfriend to treat her with disrespect if he finds out or make her loose her value.

karma,young girls will still sleep with your own husband.

I hope they won't run through upper iweka the den of thieves.

Oga you don't have money... that is all you need.

Lordbellish:
the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

my bro if she can call eating with you a minor distraction,flee from her,you only mean a small village without electricity to her.pls flee....flee...A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage...flee.

capsule:
would you say same thing if the op lost a bet His babe placed on Him? please don't defend stupidity. you don't bet on ppl you don't trust (though that's extreme), the babe isn't a street babe ( at least He thought so). And did you read the part where the op said the dude is His friend? a guy who's well known to the babe ( the babe would have probably f**ck'd him anywhere without the bet, was only a matter of time). OP, pls rid yourself of such babe and that your friend (He will come after your wife in the future).
God placed a bet on Jesus.
God placed a bet on Job.
Bet wisely, ticket de cut.

. You are good with words bro...keep it up!

Phyno we know but who is Joey Akpan? Phyno remains one of the best indigenous rappers in Nigeria... Na real Akpan (house boy) na him dat guy be...mtchew

worlexy:
I strongly disagree. pregnancy with very low, undectable hCG level? what sustained the corpus luteum to produce progesterone before the placenta takes over, even in failing and Ectopic pregnancy hCG levels are detectable !

I was surprised too,imagine saying at 12weeks,the fetus will not be visible on scan.I doubt this information above.

Melian:
Nothing special about this Ebuka of a guy. Dude only looks good in Yoruba attire. Always looking gay in English, with his square head. Why any man will choose to wear tight breeches is something I'll never understand.

Btw...exposure is good. See what she's achieved at age 34. Some of her peers are still struggling to pick up the pieces of their lives.

I put it to you that Ebuka is a complete guy,share your man and let's compare,as for toke,we all know she hustles without her legs closed.

What a piece! This is really sad.May this never befall our country Nigeria.Amen

dessz:
Chai op u b big noob in phones u forgot the most important thing CHIPSET(CPU/GPU) and the value to money rating of the phone and last but not the least the screen resolution. Op u sef.mk I help u complete ur post.

Chipset: the two most popular chipset is those from mediatek and snapdragon. the best chipset is the bionic chipset which is that of apple iPhone. Samsung have their exynos and Huawei have their kirin cpu.
Mtk(mediatek) cpu is the cheapest more than 50% of android phones use mtk chipset they employ a third party GPU makers Mali for their GPU so their cpu and GPU are a lil bit not in sync. Though I won't lie I prefer snapdragon to mtk.
Snapdragon chipset is the best value for money to me cause they are an actual chipset with their cpu and GPU(adreno gpu) and some other stuff in a single chip.
For a normal user to me anything with a clock speed less than 1.5ghz is a No-no and less than 550mhz is a no.. But a gamer like me I can't use anything less than 2.0ghz and 700mhz for the gpu.

Screen resolution: this is just the quality of display of the phone it is directly proportional to the number of pixels in the phone and inversely proportional to the size of the screen of the phone. It is usually gotten by the ppi anything less than 400ppi is a No.. Anything less than fhd is a No to me sha.

And value for money, it's self explanatory, why will u buy a phone for 40k when u can get a better one for 30k
That's why I will rather throw away my money than by these infinix and tecno that is a waste of money. U guys can mention if u need recommendation when getting a new phone.. so this is my lil addition to ur post op

. Which phone do u suggest one should buy?

Cr7sBabe:
Worwor girl, Congrats tho

. Says a girl who is not even popular in her family

This kind of handwriting puts me to shame.oh my poor handwriting....tueh

This is better than burning them.Thank God.

cruzydal:
He should go for radiography . There is no unemployed radiographer

on point,am a radiographer and i can confirm this,except if the radiographer chooses not to work.

[quote author=softwerk post=58170711]Let him choose Pharmacy!

There are more opportunities in selling drugs both legit and illegit

Obaloluwa08:
1. When you break her heart, the pain never really
goes away.
.
2. When she misses you, she's hurting inside.
.
3. When she says it's over, she still wants you to
be
hers.
.
4. When she walks away from you mad, follow
her.
.
5. When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.
.
6. When she pushes or hits you, grab her tight &
don't let her go.
.
7. When she starts cursing at you, kiss her and
tell
her you love her.
.
8. When she ignores you, give her your attention.
.
9. When she pulls away, pull her back.
.
10. When you see her at her worst, tell her she's
beautiful.
.
11. When you see her crying, just hold her and
don't say a word.
.
12. When you see her walking, sneak up and hug
her waist from behind.
.
13. When she's scared, protect her.
.
14. When she lays her head on your shoulder, tilt
her head up and kiss her.
.
15. When she steals your favourite jacket, let her
keep it and sleep with it for a night.
.
16. When she teases you, tease her back and
make
her laugh.
.
17. When she doesn't answer for a long time,
reassure her that everything is okay.
.
18. When she looks at you with doubt, back
yourself up with the truth.
.
19. When she says that she likes you, she really
does more than you could understand.
.
20. When she grabs your hands, hold hers and
play
with her fingers.
.
21. When she bumps into you, bump into her
back
and make her laugh.
.
22. When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and
untold.
.
23. When she looks at you in your eyes, don’t
look
away until she does.
.
24. Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not
saying anything.
.
25. Don't let her have the last word.
.
26. Don't call her hot, but gorgeous or beautiful
is
so much better.
.
27. Say you love her more than she could ever
love
you.
.
28. Argue that she is the best girl ever.
.
29. When she's mad, hug her tight and don't let
go.
.
30. When she says she's OK, don’t believe it, talk
to
her about it, because 10 yrs later she'll still
remember it.
.
31. Call her at 12:00am on special occasions to
tell
her you love her.
.
32. Call her before you sleep and after you wake
up.
.
33. Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
.
34. Don't ignore her when she's out with you and
your friends.
.
35. Stay up all night with her when she's sick.
.
36.
Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite
show even if you think its stupid.
.
37. Let her into your world.
.
38. Let her wear your clothes.
.
39. When she's bored and sad, hang out with her
.
40. Let her know she's important.
.
41. Kiss her in the pouring rain.
.
42. When she runs up at you crying, the first
thing
you say is; "Who's ass am I kicking today baby?"
.
43. After she reads this, she hopes one day you'd
read it too and do them for her.

After all these,she will still cheat on you with Alhaji... .Bleep love.love is for the weak.

when the relocation print out has been printed, what is the next step, do one still have any business with the current state or he should proceed to the new state

please if you are going to osun from Anambra, let's connect. 08158254395.watsapp

coming from Anambra to osun,this is my watsapp contact:08158254395

why do u always show ur ass

kaduna, Abuja, Osun, Delta

it keeps coming

more of it... I can't wait for mine...

My friend's sister will be saying I do in a few days,these are her pre wedding pictures.

Vinshu:
Lol

So because you sponsored his M.sc means he must get married you?

That lady must be daft

The guy is wicked jor... call a spade a spade.