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midehi2:
That part been against the tradition is ok...but not certainly because she was moaning, it might be moaning of pains,depression, who moans while bn raped

A question best directed at the woman. Beside, what stops her from crying or even wailing.

Estharfabian:
You need to Stop dilly dallying around the truth. You very know what I meant.

A woman Cannot dream big Or aspire to great heights and achievements in a patriarchal society because a society such as that do not believe that those are roles befitting of a female.

What tha hell are you yapping about? A woman can not dream big? What manner of nonsense are you vomiting, child. What is hindering a woman or any woman from dreaming big if not her mind.

Patriarchal society or not, I've mentioned names in my previous post of women who aspire big and achieve big despite being born in a Patriarchal society. So I wonder where your thoughts is spewing from.

Look kid, nobody is stopping you from achieving what you want to achieve, the only person who can stop you, is you! No one else.

FTrebirth:
which is equally prostitution.

many of them will vehemently disagree. But hey, it's all about opinion nowadays.

FTrebirth:
women, before and after my birth, have been attending the same schools with men, and you can find them working in every sector of the economy as well...some as directors, some as HODs, some as subordinates, same as their male counterparts. the opportunity is free like air and attaining any feat is simply where your qualifications, coupled with your determination, get you.

i have both female and male bosses in my place of work and accord each his/her due respect. most job vacancies i've seen do not specify male gender only. so, i don't really get the reason for this "gender equality" rants these nairaland girls are still fighting for. or are they clamouring for easier access to reaches because they have a one pussy and two bigger breasts?

clowns!

The bolded is what I feel they are silently clamouring for with this gender equality diatribe.

Estharfabian:
Exactly my point.
why do we have to break Certain, Herculean barriers in other to achieve something Members of opposite Gender would get on a Pot of gold? why do the society feel the need to make Us work relentlessly, Unduly hard in other to meet up with Societal standards?

Oh so you think and believe men don't struggle to break barriers? You don't men are given 'pot of gold' just because they're men? You think men don't work relentlessly hard in other to meet with societal standards and expectations?

Hello, please answer me this, what do you do for a living? And kindly ask your dad, if any of what you mentioned was given to him on a 'pot of gold' like you said.

Estharfabian:
the society we found ourselves in as ingrained male supremacy in almost all facet. so it is expected of them to be in the forefront always. there are to do this, and that. Learn this and that. wield this, and that. we are supposed to be subservient, Submissive, receptive...

if they do not take the lead on certain areas, we dare not take the lead, because well, We are harbour A Vagina.

I really do not want to go all personal with this. it's something you are well aware of. the status quo is and has always been skewed against women.

I beg to differ. All around me I see women who break barriers and stamp their foot print in the Sands of time.

"Excuses are cheap" the society we live gives equal opportunity to everyone. Nobody expect you to be submissive, subservient, receptive and the likes, you can only choose to. Mary Onyali, Lola Alakija, Funmi Iyanda, Genevieve Nnaji, Omotola and the likes didn't conform to what society expect of them, did they?

Please, stop giving excuses, be a goal getter, an achiever, an employer of labour and people won't even notice there's a vagina between your thighs.

Estharfabian:
i Acquiesce with the bolded.
But you see, The opportunity You're talking about is limited with the females.. and please don't act oblivious to that fact. we both know there are heights members of my gender can't Attain Simply because She has A vagina. and if she eventually does, It would be A little more tasking than The due process needed to reach such heights.

heights? Heights such as what and what, kindly elucidate further so we won't dive into an ocean full of abstract ideas.

Estharfabian:
Exactly. gender Equity is Condescending to the female folks.

what Equity simply means:
Because the Female gene is handicapped by Sheer nature. females are Second fiddle to men, Sub-humans and So must be aided to reach Human Status.

Gender Equality: Give them equal Opportunities, let Nature decide their strengths.

Nature already did. That's why you lot are screaming for gender equality.

Opportunity(ies) is there for any right thinking human being to tap and gain from. You don't just down and expect to helped because you're a woman.

Hmmm. I'm forced to ask how the married man gained access to their room and catch them in the act. Or, don't hotels protect the privacy/identity of their customers.

makydebbie:
Omg fear fbi on nl

I'm as shocked as you. But I'm laughing here.

That's total execution, the type usually given to those rejected asswipes we call purified losers.

Decryptor:
You know a very big lie when you spot it! Thank God for NL! There is always an avenue to dig out the past. See the post your fellow woman put up here and you came here to rant and claim "Mrs Virginia".

So you are a virgin yet you proudly admitted just 2 months ago after Acidosis tried to even correct you that YOUR COUSIN f*cked you and that it was the best f*ck in your life! YOUR OWN COUSIN! Abomination!!

I have always known that Nigerian women who open their mouths to say they are virgins are way worse than...

Lord Have mercy, dude you're wicked!

See as you finish her. LMAO!.

TSOM:
It's an open secret. You both would have 'virtual-fùcked' her.

LMAO!.

CanadianNurse:
Gender Equality Can never work!!

- Why is it OK for a man to fight a man but when a man fights a woman all of you shouting gender equality will still go against it

-Why is there a ministry of women affairs in Nigeria and no ministry of men affairs... You all fighting for equality can't see that one abi

There are so many more

We should be fighting for GENDER EQUITY not GENDER EQUALITY... You can never compare your self to a man no matter how hard you try except you want to close your ears while stealing a bell

A woman can't compare with a man... That doesn't mean the man is more superior or important but the role of a man can not be overemphasized

There is a big difference between EQUALITY and EQUITY even all men are not equal not to talk of men and women

Let's support equity and not equality

Firmly put. Many women who shout gender equality are the type who want men to please and worship them just because they're women.

They're here shouting gender equality, they forget nothing hindered Lola Alakija from being the richest woman in Africa.

To me, any woman who shout gender equality is too lazy to take the bull by the horn.

safarigirl:
oh, I'm supposed to look through 11 pages?
Wow, happy reading. Why don't you do a headcount and tell me which gender is a majority since you're less busy

I'm already at work. So don't have the time. But you still could when you're less busy, you know. Lol.

TSOM:
It's called a 'peck', not a 'kiss'.

I knew you'd see it. That's why I mentioned you. If I had mentioned lezz, I'm sure you know what I and he would have done.

TSOM:
Petrol. Car tires. A quick strike of a match stick. Always remember that.

How can I forget. Not forgetting being beaten to a pulp by hungry mob.

safarigirl:
I didn't take a survey, but everyone on the first page missed it and there were more guys than girls there

Oh I wasn't referring to the first page alone. I know for certain in times like this, people see what they want to see.

safarigirl:
most people missed this part of the write-up, quite disappointing actually.

Nigga, state your mind without posing. This is a bytch move

Isn't it funny how those who missed that part of her post are mostly girls?

I'm curious to know what the water is doing in a toilet bucket in the first place.

I'm sure the owner of the apartment doesn't believe his friend is clairvoyant. Like how is he suppose to know the water is blessed? When he clearly wasn't told.

All said and done. He should have apologised after being told. No harm in doing that.

EngrXrix:
She even feels sold out.. that only further proves that women campaigning for equal rights is a struggLe rather than a 'right ' itself... lol

Life has always been a huddle of struggle. Nothing good comes easy. But sometimes this girls make this gender equality thing sound like a pain.

chiagozie1:
This is a love story between an ordinary man and an extraordinary woman
i joined nairaland 7 years ago and i cannot count the benefits of this forum but today i will just focus on one
i asked for a friend
Nairaland gave me a best friend
i asked for an adviser
Nairaland gave me a councilor
i asked for a prayer partner
Nairaland gave me a pastor
i asked for a wife
Nairaland gave me the best wife

i am here to share the testimony below are some of the memories
cc lalastica

Congratulations. Wish you a happy married life.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
her ignorance is dumbfounding.

You who's not ignorant, kindly throw more light into this issue.

Dimples129:
1. Can a man impregnate another man?

2. Why should the lady take the "blame" (a child is a blessing and not blame) when it takes 2 to reproduce?
Should we not change this backward ideal rather than embracing it?

3. Gender equality isn't about trying to be a man but rather trying to protect women from the injustices that you as woman is supporting.

I hope all the praise you get from the men on this thread puts money in you're account because you just sold out on the female race including your daughters.

which injustice if I may ask?

A man can't impregnate another man, neither can a woman impregnate another woman. A woman gets the blame if she gets pregnant because she (as a woman) is suppose to know what to do to avoid getting pregnant. Especially if she's not ready to settle down, likewise the man.

Mindfulness:
In some cultures men kiss each other. Ever been to Turkey?

Nope. But I'm fully aware the kiss is on both side of the cheeks and it's a form of greeting. But it's not the same with what you've been doing...

sexybbstar:
I saw a thread earlier on (why do guy thinks girls are whores?) I think this is my own view.

You had better stop comparing, if God wants equal rights for us all, he would have created everyone with p.enis or va.gina. But the difference in our private organ and body build shows that what is good for one may not be good for the other.

If a male child should become wayward, believe me if he repents, not a sign of it will be on his body but if a female child becomes wayward, I won't lie to you, let her become a pastor. There will still be signs to show for it like sagged breasts, wide va.gina, etc.Tell me can a man have a deformed organ as a result of being promiscuous.? obviously no!

Don't compare the two together.A lady that compare herself with a man is playing a dangerous game. U sure know that when he have sex with u without protection, u would get pregnant and u will receive the blame. Yet u allowed him, don't blame anyone for your misfortune because u are aware that the lady takes the blame.

Man and woman are two different words with different attributes. A man who lives like a woman won't find it easy and vice versa. Even two ladies are not the same not to talk of a man and a woman.

You want gender equality, ladies. Can you impregnate a fellow lady? Even those of us who transgendered to become a man still have so many manly activities they can't do.

Learn to appreciate your gender and bring out the best from it.

Now the bolded caught my attention.

Mindfulness:
I have no gay tendencies whatsoever.

Why would you make everything about s.ex? The kiss to my soul sister was very innocent.

Kiss is a way of showing affection to a love one. Innocent or not, it's not always about sex. But like I said, imagine me kissing my soul brother tsom. Get the drift?

Mindfulness:
No time now but I will look at it later even though I do not think that I am still needed when you are here.

Why do you ladies always love blowing each other kisses. I mean, imagine me blowing tsom a kiss. Men that sh1t is gay.

Funny how some people say women have the tendency to become gay.

obixcel:
Now you're talking. Which one be dis "Wedding Party" gibberish? Me I no follow, I just don't know why I hardly watch naija cinema movies. Last one I saw was "A Visit to Jamaica" by aka Akpos. Even that one SELF started well but took an ugly twist in d middle and speedily rushed to an end. damn! I laughed small but same time shook my head in dissatisfaction. Anyway sha, we shall get there. More investments are needed to really upgrade our local movies, some dey try but we have a long way to go.

I don't watch Nollywood movies.

John Wick Chapter 2.

Her nipples_ ain't bad. Not at all. Though one nipp.le seem to be lighter than the other, I wonder what's the reason... too much sucking or what... ?

This is what usually happens when your so called brothers slaughter innocents in the name of religion, and you keep mute because you're sympathetic to them or feel it doesn't concern you.

Evil, in whatever form shouldn't be tolerated, not now, not ever.