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Jupxter:
This discussion isn't o'er yet. Strange

It can never be over as long as there are still irrelevant _whores who litter cyber space with their unpleasant desire for equality.

Ponder this: even in Heaven, there's no such thing like equality.

dominique:
Angry frustrated men everywhere. Can't a woman be a feminist in peace again ni? We all know that y'all's definition of submissive is subservient, why is it now paining you that not every woman wants to be subjected to that kind of life?

Most of you seek meek, religious, down-to-earth women that feel you can easily control and subdue. After some time, you get bored with her and start cheating on her with more assertive women you claim to dislike. Either that or her hidden claws come out after marriage then you realize the true meaning of 'one chance' like one Nairalander whose ordeal made front page just last week.

Currently hot on FB is the love-turned-sour story of Francis and Amara. Amara appeared to be the God-fearing, down to earth, former domestic violence victim who loves to write about submissiveness in women. Her charms got caught by US based Francis and they started an online relationship. They eventually got married and she was able to get the guy to file for her and children to join him in the States. Two years down the line, they're going through a bitter divorce and the guy has been lamenting what he went through in the hands of the woman and her children. Turns out the the woman that so much love to preach about submissiveness is very manipulative and will throw several tantrums when things don't go her way. Even the domestic violence she claimed to have suffered and wrote a book about was not true. The ex husband got hospitalized when he read what she wrote about him in her book. This is a woman that was staunchly against feminism and was always preaching submissiveness (yes I follow her). As much as I felt sorry for the man after reading his ordeals, i must say he just got served. Sebi he was the one looking for a mild mannered saintly woman he can control, see the kind of person he ended up with.

I don't have figures but I'm pretty certain that a great number of men poisoned or killed by their wives are the so called submissive ones who would rather be widows than divorcees. A feminist would rather be a divorcee than a widow (at least she won't go on to poison him to be free from him). Do you know there's a secret whatsapp group where women share tips on how to use juju to turn their husbands to their personal mumu? Most of these women claimed they have suffered enough in the hands of their husbands and they want to be the ones doing the subduing. A real feminist has no time for such, when she's done she's done.

Contrary to beliefs that feminists expect their bills to be payed by a man, that's totally false. A real feminist pulls her weight financially in a relationship. It's those fake ones that will insist that it's a man's responsibility to pick up the bills while he treats her like a queen. The true feminist struggle is about fair and equal treatment for all and end of oppression for her fellow women. I don't know what is making you guys so angry, maybe you fancy the way your fathers ill-treated your mothers and now that some women are saying they don't want to live like that you're getting upset.

Good morning Mrs. All what you assert are the many manipulative tendency of most women.

A woman don't need to be a feminist to be bitter, angry, manipulative and of course, a man hater. Some are just born that way.

Feminist or not, I bet more than half the women/girls who posted on this thread still have their bills paid for by men. Even the OP, I believe her dad still pay her bills. So wonder what you're driving at. Considering the section this thread was opened, that is.

Any woman who want to be treated fairly should work hard, and stop believing it's her good given right to be treated fairly. Come to think of it, how are women even treated unfairly? Can you please point it out, because last I checked, the constitution didn't favour men alone, it favour nigerians.

Thank you.

FTrebirth:
see what we're saying about equality?

can you explain why guys have to pay 4 times higher the fee for girls?

If the price is the same broke girls like pocohantas won't be able to afford it. Heck, even if it's free, she still won't be able to afford it.

pocohantas:
So many will say no big deal, but we know the truth.

The corps member said 'NO'...no time to waste

Like you'd deny you were abused when you were a child, right?

Hope they have jobs and they're not planning on staying in Kogi or Benue state?

TheSonOfMark:
If Pocohantas isn't a pseudo-feminist then I have Russia's nuclear launch codes!

Same sex-starved frustrated girl who never stops littering every front page thread about romance with the specifications of a man she wants to marry? I can dig up twenty of such posts! She repeats it so many times, it's become like a signature statement/comment and somewhat of a subtle invitation for unmarried male Nairalanders to make a go at her?

She lives for one thing: getting a ring to her finger. That's the crown she seeks to ascend her thrown of servility to a man. Marriage would define her, complete her even.

There goes her claim to feminism - out the window.

I'm not surprised, not in the least.

pocohantas:
I guess that's all, goodnight.

save your goodnight for those who leak your sh1t stain spiritually abused anus.

pocohantas:
K

Potassium to you too, you raging hypocritical vermin.

Get lost and stay lost.

FTrebirth:
if i have a partner who does nothing but spend all day online chatting and gossiping i'd file for a divorce quickly. i don't mind if she's pregnant!

I doubt if you'd even marry such, docile and dormant woman. Like who in this modern world wants to be a housewife?

pocohantas:
It's the norm jare. People would only see what they wanna see, things that'll give them the right to say what they wanna say.
If they don't see something to pick on, they twist your posts or tell outright lies. Pretty annoying, but it's the norm with some here.

It's pertinent everyone learns to tolerate diverse views. Something alien to romance section.

If you actually believe this, you would have stopped your emotional tirade about hating men.

FTrebirth:
LOL!

even the "pregnant twitter snitch" is taking sides.

of course, no man with a good head on his shoulders would want to be responsible for that illegitimate child.

Ah, funny thing is there's a man. I've seen his picture.

That woman is a disappointment to everything that is the sacred feminine.

I know for a fact women like her are only feminists on the pages of Nairaland, and twitter.

IamiKayJayCee:
I know of only one baboon on nairaland who could have said something like this. His moniker starts with "L" and ends with "Z". Am I right?

Oh I missed this. You're the one who spoke about being courageous on social media. I wonder why you didn't spell the moniker out completely, let's see how much courage you really have.

https://www.nairaland.com/4151991/feminist/15#62011947

Or doesn't action speak louder than word anymore?

NightHound:
Lol! You dey yab me, abi? I have four very opinionated elder sisters. They turned me into a feminist a long time ago.

No wonder!

FTrebirth:
definitely they are. and, laughably, even these ones ranting online are really nothing in real life. i learned one popular feminist from the family section is a slave to her husband. but she go come dey form nikita for nairaland.

SMH.

I'm not surprise, at all, at all. Na nairaland many girls fit dey form say dem be Rambo.

dollyjoy:
So many asslickers on this thread.

Dolly baby. Is you be dis? How far la? Where you dey since?

FTrebirth:


as if the opposite is not the case..

i still remember one time i went for a job interview at promasidor in apapa. we were given a test, over a hundred of us. a fine chic beside me was giraffe-ing and didn't even finish up, but when they called the ten people that qualified, 7 of them are hot chics... and the cute babe beside me was among them. my jaws almost dropped to the floor. an intel told me they wanted those hot chics for marketing. so, why the stupid test?

In Jarule's voice, "it's the power of the _P.U.S.S.Y".

TheSonOfMark:
We've seen countless folks like you pandering to women on the pages of Nairaland hoping to earn brownie points.

That feminism seeks to champion women's cause only is no different from the KKK seeking for white superiority. Both aren't any different since both ideologies branch out to assume political forms.

Both are ultra ,self-serving movements of deranged halfwits , one seeking superiority of race and the other of one gender.

Humanism is more inclusive but they'd rather play the feminist card when it suits them.

No, you never were a man, not mentally at least. You're just a mental Caitlyn Jenner.

And the Mark just delivered a brand new flavour in my ear.

LMFAO!

BiafranBushBoy:
Lol... I became HOD IT sales, I fired all the lazy girls that wanted preferential treatment, but yet claimed equal rights...

So I read all these write ups and just laugh...

Ah! Bros, you be badt guys oh.

Reminds me of my cashier where I work, she wanted equal pay with me. Told her no problem, she can have my job while I have hers. Within two days, she was already complaining. I put my foot down and told her no! Within a week, she fell sick. She resumed work and I still told her to continue with my work. Guess what she said to me? "Kai, Ehis, why are you this wicked".

Since then bros, na mellow she dey oh. LOL.

FTrebirth:
very good!

encourage them to aspire higher and be useful to themselves first before the society, not perching on social media and crying wolf when nobody is attacking their sheep.

Don't mind them. All most of them know is to sound tough on social media. Meet them in real life and you'd be amaze at how timid they are.

makydebbie:
If you say so.

I say so.

I wonder if there's any such thing as 'men rights' in the constitution of the federal republic of Nigeria. Of course, there's no such thing. Trust me, I know cos I have a copy.

SecondEva:
Mighty Joe

Hian. How we dey?

shaybebaby:
How does this relate to the post?

Sarcasm, look it up in your dictionary of self love.

Thank you, miss for your time.