₦airaland Forum

ubunja:
listen to this sewage...

coming from your drainage mouth

Reeberry:
Nothing like know how to love. It is a feeling. You don't need to know how to.

keep feeling your feeling. most guys dnt know how to love . too quick to get under the sheets and after it thats it

simple u dont know how to love her

kolawoleibukun:
you never see anytin. make you day there day fork pastors mek dem day give u tight money. na age day come so oh. small time grey hair go ful yout tohto. you go no wetin u do yourself.

u need to be sedated in a psychiatric home. wacko

kolawoleibukun:
make u no go cure your gonoria. you day spend money way dem give you for weekend fork day buy data. you need to be arrested for sharing STI. it is very devilish to do that when you know the consequences of your actions. na my body you wan get power abi? wen dem day knack your back for cheap bedbug bed you no fit talk.

sorry for ur life.

kolawoleibukun:
ashawo with your dirty tohto way pastors day fork. why you no go come after me when pastors sperrms don discolor your melanin.

ignored, continue to wallow in stupidity can see it has affected ur sense of reasoning.

kolawoleibukun:
Just imagine the cash being mentioned here. all these pastors are criminals. why dem no go buy private jets? Oyakhiloma way day fork sinach leave him beautiful wife, Anita. when that woman filed divorce paper the initial reason na adultery all of a sudden maybe becos of the kids, she changed her statement. Man way no fit keep him preek one place. Now, that branch in UK is closing because of the divorce scandal. na small small all their yarsh go day open. thieves. see the money way dem day rob innocent people way day find God.

e remain omega ministry to declare bankruptcy because the money way dem pay Otobo no be small. ashawo pastors and their sheeples go day defend dem. na so so bad news of them we go day hear every time for front page.

yes the money u will never have not even your forth coming generation so continue to wallow in ignorance . people like you get the privilege to talk. cus u have access to the internet where people post all kind of stories . do u live with him in his house to know he cheated on his wife. or are u the monitoring spirit they sent to go and know whatsup. that one wont even be possible cuss ur too small, next time when you see news like this in any forum. learn to type like a sensible person

the girls are really fugly except the cynthia girl. damn the guys are drop dead hotties

see head like caterpillar no be only sleep with u

Oxster:
But de act look somehow nah

wah act is somehow??

they are only romantic wen they need sex. some you cant even have a meaningful convo with em. they cant even hold a conversation for a long time. buh always quick to talk about anything related to s3x anytime any day even when they are sleeping

sure they werent dating for 15years. probably they have known each other that long

Reeberry:
What rubbish is this one saying?

take your frustration to your village people

queenfav:
Wow!Her case is strong honestly. Despite the fact that you guys made love, she had to top it up that same night? What's even annoying me the most is that the guy cannot even afford a hotel room. I really don't know how some girls think o. Honestly, many think with their vaginnna! Op thank God you discovered early. It's better than ending up with a hoe for a wife!

iswr she took the brokeass nigga to a hotel room someone paid for.

wisdomguy4u:
My fellow nairalanders, pls you guys should follow me digest this my matter. Una fit learn one or two things. 


Around 23rd of Dec 2017, i travelled from benin to my hometown in Anambra state for the Christmas holiday. While on the way i called my fiancee who stays in Onitsha with her parents, i asked her if we could lodge in a hotel when i get to onitsha so i can continue my journey to my hometown the next day. She told me she can't sleepover as her parents won't let her ( as she was expected to cook the next day). So we agreed that when i get to onitsha i will come pick her up and drop her back in the evening.


So when i got to onitsha i went straight to her house. And with the permission of parents , i went out with her (her parents 
knows me ).


We went to a nice hotel in onitsha where i booked a room #9,500 (lodging). We relaxed have some drinks and food. We talked about how our wedding will be. I wanted the wedding to hold around June this year , but she wanted it early. We had a nice time together as it has been months since we haven't seen. 


After some hours together, she said she has to go as her parents would be expecting her. I told her i will drop her and from there head to my hometown. She asked me what about the room i paid for lodging... i told her that we would have to return the key as i cannot sleepover in the room all alone when i know i can still reach my hometown if i leave now. As a smart girl (which she feels she is), she told me that if the hotel workers finds out that I'm leaving,they would just put someone else in the room and pocket the money to themselves (in my mind then i was like that's their luck then). 


As we were about to leave the room , i wanted to return the key, but she suggested i leave the key inside the room and just jam the door so they wouldn't know that we have left until the next day. I asked her why didnt she want the workers to make gain from it; she said the workers didn't attend to us well, that they were forming big girls. I did as she suggested,  jammed the door and we left. I dropped her up in her street and left immediately for my hometown (that was around 6:00pm).


While on route to my hometown i met a heavy traffic jammed around nkpor junction. After an hour or so in traffic, i decided to go back to the hotel and spend the night , and continue my journey on the early morning of the next day, so as to bypass the traffic. 


When i got to the hotel (around 8pm) , i walked straight to the room i earlier booked. But when i tried to open the door...i found out that it was locked. Angrily,  i walked down to query the receptionist on why she should put someone else in the room when i never told her that I'm done with it. 


But to my astonishment,  she told me she didn't give the room out to anybody. She called one of the security guard to accompany us to the room to find out who the intruder is. 


When we got the door, the receptionist knocked . A young boy on his underpants opened the door and asked what the matter was. The receiptionist asked to find out when and how he got the room. The young boy went in and brought out the receipt of payment bearing my name .


At that moment i sensed what could be up, so i pushed the door open and got in, nobody was in the room . i tried to open the bathroom, and noticed it was locked from the inside (In my mind i prayed to God let it not be what I'm thinking).

After several knock on the bathroom door, the person behind the door finally opened it. Behold it was my fiancee (ex-fiancee now).  I was shocked . 


I was so furious that i felt like giving her a sound slap. She was just crying and couldn't say a word (what would she say? She was caught in the act). I called her mother that night to inform her of what happen, she was shocked too. She said she call her on phone and told her she would be spending the night with me as we were setting plans for our upcoming wedding. 


Some girls have fish brain, you met a guy who love you and even got engaged with you. But yet you still mess around with your street boys who couldn't afford to pay for a hotel room or even get his own apartment. This should be a lesson to you girls.


As i enter the new year , i enter with the watchword "trust no woman , fear every woman".  In this new year , may we find our true love. Fake love will not be our portion.

im even disappointed what kind of fiancée is this one. atleast wen ur cheating cheat with someone thats better than ur partner. she sure doesnt have self respect for herself. i wonder how u met her and u probably didnt bother to pay more attention to the things she do. happy u discovered this early imagine the disaster this would have caused if it was late

i wonder how she gave birth to em. except it was c section

see the fugly boy you wanto kill yourself for. later now guys would say girls are gold diggers. see this unfortunate mofo. girls get heart to fvk this kine human being talk more of love

savvy12:
I dated him cos I had no option.
Thanks for ur advice. I appreciate.

never settle for less than what you deserve. theres nothing like not having options,

my dear at 27 your not a bad market. just try to keep yourself busy be open for options. cause your not even sure of the guy abroad. except if u wanto wait for him cause from what i can deduce from your story the guy is not established yet. both serious guys and unserious all want sex. then the doctor bla bla. u said u cant have sex with him cause ur not attracted to him. then why are u dating him if he should propose to u will u marry him?. go out and meet other guys try to know them. share views and definitely u will find someone that matches your taste

fake news

NwaAmaikpe:


Unfortunately Madam,
God will not give you another innocent man as your own husband.
Your destiny now is to become a side chick or a babymama.

You are now a fairly-used, totally depreciated item of betting and no man in his right sense should even imagine marrying you.
It's even wicked of you to desire having a husband of your own with all your baggage and past.

You turned down all the boys in your area, but fell for the one who could take you to Ghana....(ordinary Ghana).
Turns out you were not decent but a worthless opportunistic gold-digger.

You got served and I pray many more materialistic shortsighted tramps like you get served.

immature thing that feel the world revolve around cash and money. im sure is ur type the lady just described now. i really dont know what is wrong with nigerian men. when they have made money, they feel any female that come along is a gold digger. for you to support this single act it shows how heartless you are. shes fairly use cause she accepted his ass after how many years of disturbing her. if she didnt accept is another thingy, u feel any woman in her right sense will agree to marry the man after knowing hes past? is only achievement is to get her to ghana fvk her and leave with pregnanacy you feel is only men that has the right to look for a good wife. aftrr your stupid past u go and look for an innocent girl to marry. even if the girl is a gold digger, he has no right to treat her in that manner.

here in cameroon we dont know her. actually thought it was regina daniels

is an american born Nigerian based in kenya singer. ? only her

mytym:
What you type is not only incorrect, it suggests a dysfunctional mind...@bolded Your mind is funtionally fixed. Why will you think that you're not the type someone can start a conversation with? And furthermore, why will you verbalize such in a forum. You are simply not convenient.

Now to the topic, You 'desperately' need to learn civility, I'm sure the dude will respond to neutral gestures from a sane girl better.

CAVEAT: Don't bother to quote, just edit/rephrase your first post, that's a first positive step to healthy PR.

Danke

savage, LMAO

nopp im notl

rebirthforgoody:
Here Bebe here is not america oooh.here is Nigeria.

whether na Pluto, everyone deserve to be loved

alexialin:
Don't worry, soon u go know how far

Dem no dey tell deaf and dumb say war dey come

Body go tell you. By then to cry, u no go fit cry.

It's not compulsory u listen to my advice.

Am just saying my own.

Follow such feelings at your place of work @ya own peril.

Sleeping with a colleague in the name of am in love in the same office is not the best

Anyways what's my own?

whether professional or unprofessional is left for her to make that decision. if she feels is unprofessional to have an affair with someone in her work place. then she will not be interested to know if the guy likes her or not. cause i can imagine how she feels when the guy is around her. she tries to be funny to get his attention, which is actually cool .

Shawnnn01:
This is advice is plainly foolish. How does any lady in his right frame of mind walk up to a guy and ask him out especially in a society such as Nigeria. Even guys are cautious when it comes to asking girl out because of the shame from dejection. What happen to giving him the green light so he takes the initiatives. As far as I am concerned only a shameless girl will walk up to any guy in Nigeria n ask him out. What is the assurances she won't just be drooling over the next cool guy around but actually chasing after him like a vampire on a blood hunt ?

keep living in your society, dont grow up and be exposed to certain things. probably u didnt see where she stated "you cant start a convo with her" she believes she has a standard every guy should meet up to. as a girl if u like a guy, you should let him know its better than to die in silence. a guy will not always come around to do that all th3 time. i didnt say u should go and start telling him how u cant live without him. no normal guy will not love you more for doing that. if your still living in your planet where u believe woman shouldn't go after what they want that's your opinion.

alexialin:
Op, I repeat abort mission!

Abort!!!!

That guy is a confirmed player!

He knows you are tripping for him and having butterflies inside of u

Infacf he know say u don fall finish, na to corner you somewhere kiss and fucvk the living daylight out of u then pretend like it was the spur of the moment and when u ask him after a stormy round. Honey hmm are we know dating
Guess what his answer will be?
He will scratch his head, look at you and calmly say I have a fiance, although she is not in the country @the moment. But there is something about u, that makes my blood hot! And I know u feel same about me. But cmon? Don't worry dear, cheer up, dress up ,someone might knock at the door.
Then he briskly wears his trousers and tucks in his shirt while u will shamefacedly put on your bra, panties and that short mini gown.

So op I hope am making sense

And , I hope you can now understand what's really going on with your emotions showing boldly in your eyes, whenever he's around u and touches u

Hes Gaddam player!

Jeez! Can't u seeeee?

Abort! Before it's too late.
Na true talk I dey tell u so ooo

Tf is tis one even typing. is your type fvkboys use for ludo

Apus:
But U'r Dt kinda girl that will Fall for a play boy. Be careful into whose hands U fall into.

lmao

Imarnuel04:
Only sensible comment I've read here. People always find a way to blame and stigmatise the victims (who show incredible courage by reporting rape cases). Even the police handle cases like minor issues. So sad really.

is quite unfortunate the country we live in has no value for human right. people cant say how they feel,