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Only broke guys complain because of bills.
Make money and bills will be scared of you, it's time y'all face the sad reality.

Hey, you're immature for bringing this online .

said by someone that's living in a face me I face u self con and can barely afford two square meal a day, there better bills to pay not taking a girl out and she uses the advantage to wreck the guy

lol after reading the writeup then I remember Madonna, half of the school rules and stuffs is the same in madonna if not all, well is anyone's choice they didn't impel them to go there. least u can do go there for what u came for 4\5years your out, not make there for permanent home, or your sent home to your parents

wizrose:
lolz is like u have been having fun.. With. UR Guy ..

quoting u is like giving scholarship to a mad person

so goats here will be looking for a decent girl buh when a girl visit them they will even rape her when she refuse their advances. most nigerian guys lack decency, girls even have self control

SoapQueen:
Bless you for this. I laugh when I see a guy I know write about how scared he is of women. This same guy is very childish, proud and domineering. You treat a good woman like dirt and still have the guts to slander women!

I believe there are good men out there.

my dear ive not had bad experiences buh ive seen guys who had a good girl buh treat her like trash. some have irritating childish character buh we s tolerate them, sometimes they expect u to root for them more than they even try .

SenhorSean:
you must be mistaken probably due to ur experience.
Btw, am decent and dont want a girl that isnt decent.

to shock i have never had any bad experience with guys. luck in your search pray u find wat ur looking for

wizrose:
i no u are not a virgin so y are U angry .
infact no one in narialand

hahaha im not a virgin and i dont have any regret. just hate to see stupid people commenting trash.

wizrose:
no decent gal.. Anymore .. No virgin anymore .. The world is cuming end

virgin kill you there

you cant expect what u dont have. are u decent?? some guys are just naturally stupid. they want a decent girl buh cant treat her the way she deserve

BiggyB242:
Not spending on a girl makes him daft or smart. Una go just use words anyhow.

From the way you talk you sound someone in her early twenty. Let me give you an advise, the world is moving is either you move with or you will be left behind. The economic is getting harder nobody is looking for a liability. If you want a provider is either you get yourself s yahoo boy those are set who throw money without looking back or some old rich man as a second wife perhaps a widower in his late 40's or early 50's. If you need a young ambitious man then you have to get something doing.

Make I chop e money, make I chop e money as so girls take turn ashawo.

so u wasted your time to type this trash, my dear me being in my early twenties has nothing to do with maturity. u might feel u have sense buh i cant see any in all these u typed here. if u dont have money dont bother going into any relationship, if u know ur ambitious focus on ur hustle when uv3 made it then u can settle down. is only weak men that say shii like ehn i need a woman by my sid3 to support my hustle, let me shock u my first relationship i never asked this nigga for a dime buh he cared about certain things about me, i still left cuss of distance now hes rich thru what u call yahoo, he said things like i was never there blabla . thats story for another day, the thing that weak me about guys is that they dnt know their responsibility u feel is to be doing press up on bed, u feel cuss she doesnt ask means she has it all, most guys are quite comfortable with it. they will even brag to their frnds, their bae dont ask for money tf?? u should be ashamed of ur self,even the rich gurls that are independent on their own u feel they dnt need little aliment once in a while. u dont want ones responsibility on u buh u wanto fvk, if shes ur gf also take the husbandly responsibility

BiggyB242:
Yea so stupid of them. Funny enough they are girls who wouldn't ask dime from you. That's why I don't bother myself trying to convince a lady, I will simply walk away. There are ladies who don't have this mindset. Just search brothers.

she wont ask a dime from u and ur comfortable, enjoying her when your tired u discard her smh . some guys are just daft

just once cause a friend of mine saw a poster where they specified they needed someone for a vacant space for office secretary. so she copied the no and called them so they told us to come on Monday in the morning by 8 . omoh my friends wear cooperate as per interview work. me mah i wore my causal clothe i send, we even paid for a drop from the house to the place, so when we got there the girl that my friends having been talking with, that asked we come for the interview directed us upstairs we also saw alot of people there too both young and old. they asked us to sit like is a circler position, so a guy came out and was asking us questions. why people graduate without getting job. that parents should invest money in business inst3ad of sending their children to schl. mahn i know i was annoyed, the thing continued for good two hours, when he finished another one came and started saying the same thing the first person said. damn i couldn't take it any longer, told the guy i wanto leave he said i should stay for some mins. and also i didnt eat before coming out, i got angry stood up and left. my frnds followed suit

the alfa abi pastor didnt tell u to stay away from her before you banged her abi

allergic to fvkboys
broke ass niggis
talkatives they cant keep secrets and they brag alot especially of their parents wealth buh got no name for himself
.sex freaks
. perverts they cant keep hold a convo, buh always thinking of how to get into the sac with u.

.no future goals always rely on parents income shii turns me off.
.smelling armpit. if u cant shave ur underarm atleast use nice Cologne
.and lastly dirty niggis

why she they look like vulture wey rain beat

CorGier:
Yeah, I think I can relate to that. Sometimes love comes with this possessiveness that tends to make us feel like we own the person, but that's just plain neediness and obsession. We need to learn to respect the privacy and personal spaces of the people we love. Even in love there should be boundaries. We don't wake up one day then choose to change a person and their social circle just cos they say they love us. I guess it takes a level of emotional maturity to love but be outcome independent.

PS: They say a woman's heart is like the ocean, so for us guys to think a girl's deepest secrets lies somewhere on some phone is just being naïve.

thank you for understanding cuss if i should stay with my man anything he tells me is what i believe. i will respect your phone i can check your pics buh ur msgs no i wont simply cuss i dnt wanto see something that will change my perception about the relationship. if hes cheating sure there can always be signs. im that sensitive , or i can demand for his phone when i suspect anything is going on. is that simple

sangresan:
Take your time to read what the OP wrote.
He narrated how he caught the lady with another man.
So,why all these,"I do this,I do that"?
This isn't about checking of messages...

pls just stop quoting me

sangresan:
So,you were also caught in a compromising situation with another guy?

Because I don't understand you.

how would you understan. always quick to quote, just so you know i dont cheat in relationship not cuss i dnt have options. nop buh cuss ive self respect for myself. just saying is only someone thats doing the same thing will be quick to check to make sure u dont beat em to their own game. cheating is too stressin, i rather have my phone with me not wen u randomly go through my phone hoping to find something. or even check my call log asking me whos this?? are u madt boyfren oo. like how much did u pay for my head your claiming ownership so the little im giving u . u wanto form landlord nonsense

MhizzAJ:
Why did you go thru her messages....Bad habit

It's natural to be curious about what your girlfriend is up to but privacy in a relationship is very important but if you suspect something is up,its fine to ask your girlfriend about it instead of going thru her messages or better still take permission from her before reading her messages

I don't see myself being in a relationship with someone that doesn't trust me or someone that feels i have something to do with other guys all the time

You strike me like a very weak guy plus you are so untrustworthy...Deal with the outcome of your actions...I care less

so true dear had the same problem in my relationship. i was never cheating, buh he has this habit of going through my phone which i find childish. like we aint married u doing all that. is best u ask instead of being curious

mgtow:
You're mistaking me for someone else ma

just checked. okay sir noted

mgtow:
Lol... this sex ish is really overrated though.

u and who is talking about sex. u said u having peace of mind with ur sexdoll

ubunja:
i stayed on my own masturbating to porn but noone gives me peace.i get a sex doll everyone is pissed

who cares. u will still complain the sex doll doesnt moan enough

ubunja:
if i can shine by my own money when you show me off to your gfs then shine by your own money when i show you off to my friiends.

nah so then stay on your own if u cant take care of her. she will also stay on her own

the stingy ones will claim the man is right. nonesense as a man u dont know u ought to care for your girlfriend or wife anyone. not the montly allowance thingy. nop atleast send her money for her upkeeps. u dont give her money to maintain herself buh u admire other girls that look good. if u cant provide for her why are u calling her ur girlfriend. shey you would wanto show her off to your friends. if she looks good, some of em saying the man is right would send money to a random girl they barely even know

lefulefu:
i am not telling him trash but telling him what happens all the time, there are instances where ten men might be dying to have one particular girl and she might not be feeling anything for them. They could be sending her money or expensive gifts to get her attention and if she's the well brought up type she might reject but if she's the street wise one she would play along and kid them dat she has a thing for them while she's eating all their money. This is why some of u ladies tag such men as maga,mugu or Daddy ATM on your phones. Such a girl would have a guy she really loves and be giving it to him for free while d rest of d men begging her,spending on her,she ain't opening her legs for them cos she don't want to feel like a hoe sleeping with them but she can be eating their money. Its all a game and only a man that's cunning and sensible can beat such ladies at their game. Even u urself i am very sure there are men dying to date u but u not attracted to them..some might be wooing u with gifts...i lie?

this one is just story.let me tell you what you don't understand about girls . when a girl loves you she won't deny you sex. just pray she doesn't get over you fast. especially when you don't take care of her need. cuss there some guys who won't do shii for they girlfriend probably cuss she's not gotten comfortable for her to ask. buh as a guy u should take care of your gf even when she doesn't ask u for it why?? when she sees what her friends bfs are doing for they gf definitely she would feel somehow. once in a while surprise her, do things the way it were when u first met her trust me she won't look outside. buh most naija guys exclude that and pay much attention to the sexual aspect. u think cuss u fvk her good she won't leave. to hell with u and ur D. OP said they have been intimate meaning there's something he's not doing right. for her to stop having sex with him definitely the relationship was based on sex and the dude said he won't care for her needs since shes not getting down with him. the only way u can ascertain if there's anything ur benefiting from the relationship is if she also lend a helping hand too when u have problems too. if not then forget it. and op if u claim u love her why not help her

lefulefu:
well most times ladies that multiple date may prefer giving it only to the guy they fancy while they close up their legs to their other sideboyfriends .they do this in order not to feel sexually lose but then they can be collecting money and expensive gifts from their sideboyfriends sha. All na racket and only the experienced chicks know how to play the game right.its just for u as a guy to be smarter and beat them to their game.iyam not saying this is what is happening in ur case oooo but most times u can't over rule this. U just have to be smart and cunning when dealing with a sharp babe.

stop telling him that trash. the girl fell out of love with him. probably there's something he's not doing right. maybe he demands for sex a lot. and she feels cheated, and your nigga will be using love to deceive that poor girl. who love help

ubunja:
yah take that sense and go buy a phone then call me on my number 073 go hang...

mehn pls quit quoting me.

ubunja:
what has your maturity earned you on NL beside Likes? what can you take home??

what u don't have, which is sense. common sense

ubunja:
no wonder you on NL not instagram, no erections can happen based on your looks.hide here behind words.

now u sound stale get lost pls. heres for matured people not for kids

ubunja:
you speak as if your attention pays my bills or gives me orgasms. keep it....

like u even get erection talk more of paying bills. weak ass nigga piss off pls

ubunja:
no wonder everyone is losing love for you fast. you were always overated.... continue

u wanted attention now uve gotten it. u can jump into the lagoon