Happy birthday son Live long and prosper

Salam aleykum all,

So i've been wondering how a lady in an impure state can Observe Laylatul-Qadr. Being the best 10nights to move closer to Allah and ask him whatever we want (be it pious HUSBAND,job,goodhealth,fruit of the womb etc),we (ladies) wouldn't want to miss it.
Capitalize whatever it is that you want in your own case



Worry no more if you are in an impure state during these days (after all we have absolute no control over our body)

Saw this post online and i decided to paste it here,first time in a religion section..........Welcome me ladies




Question:

Dear scholars, As-Salamu `alaykum. If a woman is menstruating then how can she pray in Laylatul-Qadr? Jazakum Allah khayran.

Answer

Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear sister in Islam, thank you very much for having confidence in us. We ask Allah to guide the whole Muslim Ummah to make the best use of the blessed days of Ramadan and to seek the great blessings Allah grants His sincere servants during these days.

As for your question, you have to keep in mind the fact that during their menses, women can read the Qur’an and make dhikr (remembrance of Allah) and du`a’ (supplication), though they are forbidden from fasting, performing Salah (prayer) and touching the Mushaf (copy of the Qur’an). In this way, they still have the opportunity to observe Laylatul-Qadr (the Night of Power) by reciting the Qur’an and making dhikr.

In his response to the question in point, the prominent Muslim scholar, Dr. Muhammad Abu Laylah, professor of the Islamic Studies & Comparative Religions at Al-Azhar Univ. states:

A menstruating woman should not perform Salah (prayer) nor touch the Qur’an, but she can make du`a’ (supplication) and share with other Muslims their prayer by watching and listening to TV channels or radio stations that broadcast Tarawih prayer live.

She can ask someone to put the Mushaf on a table or a stand and read from it without touching it. She can take a cassette and listen to Qur’anic recitation.

Stressing the permissibility of a woman reciting the Qur’an in their menses, we would like to cite the fatwa issued by the Saudi House of Fatwa headed by the late Sheikh `Abdul-`Aziz Ibn Baz (may Allah bless his soul):

There is nothing wrong with a menstruating woman or a woman in post-natal bleeding to recite the Qur’an, because there is no clear-cut authentic Hadith that forbids them from doing so. However, it is reported in an authentic Hadith that one who is Junub (one in a state of impurity following sexual intercourse or wet dream), must not read the Qur’an while he or she is impure, according to the Hadith reported by `Ali (may Allah be pleased with him).

The Hadith reported as regards the menstruating woman and the one experiencing post-natal bleeding reads: “The menstruating woman and the one who is Junub are not to read Qur’an”. This Hadith is reported by Ibn `Umar, but it is Da`if (weak), because the Hadith was reported by Isma`eel Ibn `Ayyaash from the Hijaaziyeen, and he is famous for narrating Da`if Hadiths from them.

However, such woman (in menstruation or post-natal bleeding) should not touch the Mushaf; she can recite from her own memory [or from a copy of the Qur’an without touching it, as per the above opinion]. As for the Junub, he or she is not to recite the Qur’an, whether from memory or from the Mushaf, until he or she has performed Ghusl (purificatory bath). The difference between them is that the time span for the one who is Junub to have himself or herself purified is very short; he or she can do Ghusl right away after lovemaking or wet dream. The Junub does not stay in this condition for long, and it is up to him/her when he/she wants to make Ghusl; if he/she does not find water, he/she can do Tayammum (dry ablution) and then he or she can pray and read the Qur’an. But the woman in menses or in post-natal bleeding has no control over her situation – the matter is up to Allah the Almighty.

Therefore, it is permissible for them to recite the Qur’an so that they do not forget it and they do not miss learning the teachings of Shari`ah from the Book of Allah. If that is the case, then it should certainly be permissible for them to read books containing du`a’ that are mixed with verses and Hadiths, etc. This is the view believed to be the most correct.

Finally, Sheikh Muhammad Iqbal Nadvi, Imam of Calgary Mosque, Alberta, Canada, and Former Professor at King Saud University, Riyad, Saudi Arabia, concludes:

A menstruating woman is not supposed to pray. She can do the following:

1. Read as much as she can to increase he knowledge about Islam.

2. Make du’a’ and spend time making dhikr to Allah Almighty.

3. Listen to the Qur’an or read from her memory.

4. Watch Islamic programs or shows on TV or video to educate herself about Islam.

5. Attend religious classes to be always around the committed sisters.


May Allah accept our ibadah

Someone should please quote me when she start marketing her own version of 'On becoming'

Very natural beautiful bride. Congrats OP. Your joy shall be permanent

sisisioge:


baby girl. They don't know ni. If only...

I have received tons of these PMs and direct mails. In fact, come as purportedly anonymous as you could manage...all that is needed is your email to get info about you. In his mind he thinks he's practicing English language with me ni...if only he knows.

I once was so smitten with a guy here on NL the first time I saw a post he made. I didn't know it was a good day for him and the person he was addressing By the time I checked his previous posts...fear caught me. End of crush Coincidentally, guy was feeling me too, he mailed me later...I ran. Testosterone is better translated into seeex appeal not aggression biko

If only they knew..

BoboYekini:
aje oshi.
Old layer.

Seriously? I mean like seriously?
Do you even have any idea why some Nairaland guys send pms to girls and 'we' choose not to reply 'you'?

Now come here and let me school you;

There is a saying that “men look, women see.” Another way of putting that is that men admire and women inspect. Ohh yes, we do 'inspect'

The first thing most Nairaland girls do but no one talks about is to check random stuffs about what the guy usually/casually talk about here,the kind of comment(s) you make,when you choose to reply or ignore a particular post/personal attacks and insult(s) aimed at you(no matter how angry you are).
You may not know this but the truth of the matter is; there is higher probability that the kind of post/comments most people make here 'diagnose' who they really are in the 'real' world.

Really, i just SMH for most guys.
P.S Yekini...You really have a long way to go brother. I wish you well.

BoboYekini:
Hey

Boboski

sisisioge:


And here is our happy ending. Hallelujah!

At the end of the day. We love who we love. Hallelujah!

IamaNigerianGuy:


Hi. I Replied

Okay

IamaNigerianGuy:


you love the gossip you mean ?

ALL JOIN

NL1960:


What is 'skoin-skoin'?.

Well,according to Aimingincognitopedia;

Skoin-Skion means mental unsoundness or may be used to stress the utterly illogical nature of that which is directly contrary to reason [an irrational belief that everybody is/was one's enemy]; which implies bad judgment, willfulness, prejudice, etc. as responsible for that which is not justified by reason [unreasonable demands]

Believe what i wrote at your own risk

Juliearth:





I think he deserves better. How sure are we that she wont mess up again in the future. I would prefer that he ends up with that ex of his rather than this lady. I hate fake love #angryface

Well, i wish him the very best love has to offer

kevwemanuel:
. Why do I have the feeling that we could move mountains in various significant aspects of our lives if we work like a legalized pair of amorous birds?

In English Sir? Sorry,i don't speak Swahili

Antina:


@ 'skoin-skoin'

tosyne2much:
Very slim and portable with moderate body structure... When a lady grows out of shape, na big turn off ooo

Tell them bro...
Tell them!
One crate of Odeku for you my nigga

sisisioge:




I keep coming back to see if she would revamp and broaden the story. Maybe, just may be we might all get an invite to their wedding. When its love, third parties better stay more than an arm length away.

I already bookmarked this page *coversFace*

@Mr Rasak pls for old beautiful times sake, try and sort things out with her and see there is anything left to salvage in the relationship.
See,at the end of the day we ladies all have one or two 'skoin-skoin' we tend to unleash by default.

All the best o

I LOVE NAIRALAND

Congratulations BankyW!
....and 'now' is right on time.
You are not late,you are very much on time.

So you people wantu tell me that our mummy Sola Sobowale typed this 'fine' english?

Antares:
You're a full blown idiøt. End of. What magic does your first name do? Mumu

I gave you one simple task to do: I would like you to go back and read all your posts on nairaland? can you vouch for 10 decent posts that doesn't involve you cursing someone?

Ohh the corrections; some of us have serious work to attend to on a Monday morning,I've got no time to scrutinize my typographical errors ON A MONDAY MORNING.

Antares:
You don't know yourself. You want to be advised on something that's shrouded in obscurity. Stop seeking undue attention.

Undue attention you said wrote! From who? The likes of uncultured bully like you? or faceless members who doesn't even know my first name? Humor me pls.

I took my time to read few of your posts and i would be boasting your ego if i called you a bully, but in the real sense what you lack is proper home training. I guess you are so pained i ignored the first comment you made on my thread,nigga i'm not here to flirt. I can see you already deleted that post. So, in addition to your lack of home training.YOU ARE ALSO A COWARD!.

I would like you to go back and read all your posts on nairaland? can you vouch for 10 decent posts that doesn't involve you cursing someone?

I'm not here to exchange words with you, I'm a grown as.s lady with back to back proper home training, i'm here to solicit for advice before making a decision that would either make me or ruin me.

So, stay off my mention and go back to being an uncultured coward on someone else's thread.

bnanzip:
what are you calling the mods for? How will people help you if you do not want to say the kind of business. You think Ideas are all that matter?

So you want me to mention my business idea on a forum with almost 2million members. You really must be high on hot zobo o

Besides, i don't need 'help', what i need is advice.

Leave me alone let me call the mods oo, izit your call?

Dominique Mrknowitall pls help me push this to FP for more advice, i really need to Mk a decision by end of May/June
@ lalasticlala i know this is not snake related but don't worry, i will kill a snake for you, you hear

*modified*
ohh Lalasticlala! you did it! Tanchu . Just tell me the specie of the snake you want and how you would love me to prepare it; Smoked? Grilled? Fried? Boiled? Roasted? Spicy? Raw? . I've got you bro! I've got you.

LePrezident:


What's this idea?

Don't worry, I don't stay close to you so I won't be exactly stealing the idea... Who knows, maybe I can advice

I'm not telling you

Thanks everyone.

@eggcelent: I wish its a kind of business I could handover to a family member while I'm at work but unfortunately I have to oversee what's going on almost all the time, part of the business require some skills which I'm really good at.

I would appreciate more suggestions plsssss

*Modified* Yayyy, FP
THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR MEANINGFUL ADVICE. I really appreciate you fam.

As suggested by the majority, i think its better to finish the project first then use the income to finance the business.

Once again, thanks everyone

I have this fantastic business idea i've been thinking about for almost 2years but i'm super scared of quitting my job and venture into the business.

I actually took the job to save up for the business but along the line my dad advised i buy a land around one higher instutition in my state and build student hostels, so each time i save up to the require amount to set up this business,i develop cold feet and i end up using the money to develop the site.

I'm so into this business or let me put it this way: the business is so into me that i could search the internet for 5hrs Straight(mid-night,midday, on the move, in the office,anywhere and everyone- that is the only thing i think about),it got so bad that the only thing i gist my friends about is this biz.

Its almost 5am and i'm still wide-awake thinking and writing stuffs down about the biz logistics(its that bad)

My fam are a bit skeptical about quitting my job(when good jobs are hard to comeby) and starting a new biz.Also, i think they are just reasoning like a typical african parent by saying 'what if you set up with all you have in lagos and you end up settling down in another state?

I can't even think straight because once i clear my account again for my hostel project, i would hv to start saving allover again.

The probability that the biz would be a hit is 80%, but IF 'idea hackers' overtake me kpere! temibami niyen! I'm not too bothered abt 'idea hackers' really, nigeria population is too big for one person to monopolise an idea.

What should i do pls?

***i can't do both(office job and the business) It won't work

With the right partner....
@the right time....

The fear would go away,and you will get married.

Just pray you end up with the right person.
That sh*t is scary bro, one just has to get it right.

...

So people believes Joro and all his fabricated lies?
Relationship adviser that cannot keep a simple-decent relationship, is that one a relationship adviser?

Plus his brother dokun or na dotun who engaged his baby mama for almost 3yrs and suddenly the woman 'disappeared'! Mtshew. Irresponsible wannabes!

Accept my condolences OP. May God give u fortitude to bear the loss.

May her soul rest in peace
Pls be strong for the sake of the baby

vicardino:
What's a garden without snake,, what's a party without u? Come on in and have a blast

Interesting thread
#PullsChair #grabsSeat #crossLegs #FlipsHair

Anyone with Popcorn and Coca-cola Pet bottle pls?

Aaarggghh!!! Guess i missed this party