phintohlar:
That means she doesn't love you enough, if i don't love a guy i dodge such chat, but when i love you i initiate the talks.

Even when we have made love?

Jimbadly:
Get a new girlfriend and stop disturbing our peace.

Thanks!

PrimadonnaO:
Do you try to initiate these discussions one on one?

Over the phone, on WhatsApp, most of the time. We only play about it in person, and if it is not when we are making love she will jokingly try and change the topic by mentioning how a "spoilt child" I am. And I don't press on.

I try not to compare my ex with my current girlfriend, understanding that people are different and I should not have the same expectations, but this aspect of her deviancy doesn't feel like the regular not-expect-the-same-expectation.

It bothers me that she avoids s*x talks whenever I bring them up even though we have made love a number of times in our 3 year old relationship. And it is bad because it makes me miss my ex. I could talk with my ex just about anything and even anywhere and she was always ready for the talks.

Now, the reason I bring up the talks with my current girlfriend is not just for the purpose to have fun but also to let her know my wants in our sexual life and also to get to know her fantasies so as to make up for the parts we lack. Whenever I bring the talks up (and trust me I am not so blatant with them that they make her feel uncomfortable) she always either finds a way to end the talks or give unenthusiastic replies. This always makes me look like a pervert or some s*x-starved guy.

I usually think she is shy about them but then how can she still be shy in a 3 year old relationship or is it normal for a girlfriend to avoid s*x talks?

theunnamed:




When WhatsApp want to verify, opt for verification via call, not by the normal text message.
Make sure the app is on and connected, so you can receive the call

I tried that too but still didn't work. Sometimes I didn't even have the chance to get to that stage before WhatsApp would notify that numbers were invalid.

majamajic:


20k

Loool On top wetin?

All these apps generating US numbers seem not to work for WhatsApp. I'd appreciate if anyone can help me out on it.

I got help. I appreciate your answers. Thanks.

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pongwa:
patience is the key...........though the act might be frustrating. nevertheless, you should help her relax and she will open up gradually. virgins love it slowly at first. after a while, they will ask you to go harder. patience is the �

When I mentioned harder I didn't mean it with respect to pace, it was with respect to push/penetration. What I'm saying is even trying slowing there seemed to be a block stopping the penetration, and keeping on with the penetration against the block seemed to cause her pain, and I'm asking if I should get the penetration going (harder, not fast, but pushing on in the same direction) regardless of the pain. Thank you

kingxsamz:
I'm not saying you're lying o, I just want to know if this is the dream you had last night...

Take it as a dream, do you have an answer still?

It happened last year with my ex when I tried to make love with her. She was a virgin. My dick couldn't get into her. It was like a wall stopping me from penetrating in. The harder I pushed the more I felt I was causing her pain and I couldn't continue. I even thought I was penetrating in the wrong direction, so I asked her to direct my dick instead. It was still the name thing.

I got another girl some months back and now she's agreed we should make love. She's also a fcking virgin. I tried to get into her last night but it was damn frustrating as I couldn't get in and could see the pain in her face whenever I tried harder to. I gave up on her at first attempt (and on all virgins) She asked me to give another attempt. I was already frustrated so I reluctantly tried again. It was still the same thing.

I was never going to do it again that night. It was getting late and I told her it was time to get going. She thought I was angry, which I sincerely I wasn't, and apologised for not being able to make love with her. And for the third time, she seduced me to try again, and this time I was meaning to get pushing harder not minding the pain. But my heart failed me. I couldn't just stand the pain. And it was another failed attempt.

I have had five girlfriends and all of them were fcking virgins Why am I so unlucky

No offence to all virgins, but you girls bring more hardship than the goodies

Those who have gone through the troubles of deflowering a girl or getting deflowered, or those that have an idea without necessary going through it, how did you do it? Did you really keep pushing in harder or letting the penetration without minding the pain, no matter how intense it got? Or how?

Dapo777:


First , I don't believe in romantic love, or lets say I have different views about the romantic love. Let her understand that you are not a religious person, and it might be because of her fears that you might make your atheism public to everyone and how everyone would look down at her as a wife of an atheist, that could be the reason why she wants you to join a religion, or you can join Rastafarian religion that doesn't really demand anything from you, tell her you plan on joining Rastafarians if she persist.

LOL! Thanks.. Noted.

onetrack:
What she needs to understand is that belief cannot be forced. You either believe or you don't. For example, I can't imagine how I could force myself to believe that 2+2=5. It simply isn't going to happen.

Woah! Coincidentally I used the same analogy for her. It's not possible to believe that, one can only pretend to.

Thanks.

menesheh:


you know what you need and also own yourself, hopefully, you've tried fervently to convince her for awhile now to no avail.

therefore do your worst.

As in

Decision is tonight. Sigh*

davien:
If you're comfortable with her being religious, then what's her deal with your unbelief?
My advise is that you shouldn't fool yourself just to please her... . Love in a relationship should be mutual.

Tell her why you view religion the way you do and also listen to her own pleas of why she favors religion...
Then you both should walk a mile in each others shoes.
... You go to church and she'd watch "the atheist experience" on YouTube for a few days or weeks...
But if nothing changes, then please end it.. . Because religion is more important to her than your emotions.

Great! Thanks bro.

plaetton:


Well, you can always become a born again Pastafarian .

FSM religion is a legitimate religion that has the Flying Spaghetti Monster as the supreme Being.
The belief in A SUPREME being should assuage her fears and reservations.

LOL! That was hilarious.

marshalcarter:
Atheism-the most dumbest word ever heard


Oga berra start blvn in GOD ooo....heaven is real

Let's start with your signature...

johnydon22:
[b]This is really an unfortunate position, one that i can imagine well... I understand your plight and i take this to be a very delicate matter that must be approached with caution.

Your reply to chocolateme was a nice one cus Love as an emotion transcends race, colour, religions, status, ideologies and even age. . . And i think your girl friend loves you only that you state of mind is in total conflict with not only hers but her parent's, society and religion. . .So her position on this matter is understandable.

I know it is very hard to feign belief when you lack it, it can be utterly frustrating so your own position too is understandable.

This issue beats my tiny mind but can only try..

Love is acceptance and love is not condition conformity but rather accepting the other as they are.

You and your girl friend needs to have a very blunt talk over this, Is your love more than what you both believe or disbelieve?
Is the beliefs/unbelief worth sacrificing your love over?

If you both cannot accept each other as each is in his/her differences then i do not see any future for that relationship at least not a happy one.

For this to work their must be total acceptance and tolerance... I think your girl friend and yourself needs to come out more explicitly and show how you feel..

If her beliefs makes it impossible for her to be in the relationship with an unbeliever then i think you both know what should be done.

What matters after all is happiness..... [/b]

Superb! Gonna have a final talk with her tonight.

rationalmind:
I was in a similar fix sometime ago and I had to let go.

If I have no issues with you being a christian and still love you unconditionally, I can't see any reason why you should have issues with me being an atheist.

Exactly bro. Same decision.

menesheh:
she will be the one to drop her delusion because it does no good to both of you.

Ahah.. I couldn't spell your moniker well. Thanks anyway.. What if she continues to prove stubborn?

chocolateme:
instead of having future issues with her which would involve your future kids, then cut it at once.
It will only hurt for a while but its for the better good.
Love" alone can never be enough.

Noted.

chocolateme:
Why don't you seek somebody of your own kind?

I thought love was beyond that.

She has been bringing up the issue. She asks me to believe in a supreme being even if not in her religion (Christianity) I asked her whether she doesn't love me for who I am, she said she would have ended the relationship long before then if she didn't. She still never stops asking me to drop atheism and pick up a religion, and I'm getting too pressed.

Dropping atheism isn't possible for me, expect I wanna pretend (which I made her know) I mean why should I pick up a religion I don't believe in? How do I cope with such a life? I no longer know what to reply her. I just feel like someone is choking my life. I dunno if I should get harsh on her by asking her to break up if she can't cope with me. To the atheists what would you do?

cc - Johnydon22 Davien Plaetton Pesty100 MrPresident Dapo777 theAtheist101 Frank317 etc

Niyogeol and Geobukky Thanks very much.

No one to answer

Karmanaut:

Dayyum.
Why you buy am in the first place?
Even if budget was low you should have gotten an Infinix or a secondhand Samsung, LG phone.

My bad. I fit swap to secondhand Samsung and LG, shey?

How much will it cost?

Karmanaut:


>Shit-tier chink phone
There's your problem.
Get a new phone.

Lol. Getting a new phone now? Just bought this not too long. And there are other budget on ground.