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It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by aIrbenIc(m): 12:18pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
It happened last year with my ex when I tried to make love with her. She was a virgin. My dick couldn't get into her. It was like a wall stopping me from penetrating in. The harder I pushed the more I felt I was causing her pain and I couldn't continue. I even thought I was penetrating in the wrong direction, so I asked her to direct my dick instead. It was still the name thing. I got another girl some months back and now she's agreed we should make love. She's also a fcking virgin. I tried to get into her last night but it was damn frustrating as I couldn't get in and could see the pain in her face whenever I tried harder to. I gave up on her at first attempt (and on all virgins) She asked me to give another attempt. I was already frustrated so I reluctantly tried again. It was still the same thing. I was never going to do it again that night. It was getting late and I told her it was time to get going. She thought I was angry, which I sincerely I wasn't, and apologised for not being able to make love with her. And for the third time, she seduced me to try again, and this time I was meaning to get pushing harder not minding the pain. But my heart failed me. I couldn't just stand the pain. And it was another failed attempt. I have had five girlfriends and all of them were fcking virgins Why am I so unlucky No offence to all virgins, but you girls bring more hardship than the goodies Those who have gone through the troubles of deflowering a girl or getting deflowered, or those that have an idea without necessary going through it, how did you do it? Did you really keep pushing in harder or letting the penetration without minding the pain, no matter how intense it got? Or how? 1 Like |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by techgeek12(m): 12:21pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
aIrbenIc: 6 Likes
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Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by Obierika(m): 12:33pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
Tales by moonlight |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by kingxsamz(m): 12:44pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
I'm not saying you're lying o, I just want to know if this is the dream you had last night... 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by aIrbenIc(m): 12:49pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
kingxsamz: Take it as a dream, do you have an answer still? |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by pongwa(m): 12:53pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
patience is the key...........though the act might be frustrating. nevertheless, you should help her relax and she will open up gradually. virgins love it slowly at first. after a while, they will ask you to go harder. patience is the � 1 Like |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by aIrbenIc(m): 1:00pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
pongwa: When I mentioned harder I didn't mean it with respect to pace, it was with respect to push/penetration. What I'm saying is even trying slowing there seemed to be a block stopping the penetration, and keeping on with the penetration against the block seemed to cause her pain, and I'm asking if I should get the penetration going (harder, not fast, but pushing on in the same direction) regardless of the pain. Thank you |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by DanDeeBoss(m): 1:28pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
You're already making me afraid of marrying a virgin.. Haba!!! Op small small na... |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by pacino26(m): 1:35pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
Kinda rotf ATM. Way back memories. I no wan talk sha. Some other folks are coming. Try through the back it's easier while standing. Then a little highness is recommended. 11 Likes
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Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by itzprezy(m): 1:43pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
I have been in this situation before..but not with 5 different girls like your story said,just one.. My advice is use a finger first to open way slowly..then use your uncle Thomas after that 6 Likes |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by CAPSLOCKED: 1:50pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
I SUMMON MISSRAINE69 ON BEHALF OF THE REST OF US "CLUELESS" FOLKS. 1 Like |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by bobokeshington: 1:58pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
Please can you introduce both your ex and your new girl to me? I just want to help you bore the hole afterward you continue from where i stop... Btw no service charge required! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by Lucifer66(m): 2:38pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
Did you ever try fingering or using a lubricant first? These are the basic things for fvcking. 4 Likes |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by Cumtroller: 3:49pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
She should try fvcking someone else to identify where the problem is coming from. |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by mrMeen(m): 4:40pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
Op someone is searching for vergins upanda but you wey just dey get them anyhow no like them this life no fair sha, abeg op pass one we go do the needful for you. |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by Luckygurl(f): 4:51pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
This is gonna be interesting.. Grabs a bowel of popcorn |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by MissRaine69(f): 5:10pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED:You are funny |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by MissRaine69(f): 5:11pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
If you are anticipating failure You will fail. There is more to the act than just pushing it in. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by Nobody: 5:31pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
I smell lies! lies ! everywhere! 1 Like |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by pongwa(m): 5:48pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
aIrbenIc:allow her to dictate the pace for you. this way she'll be relaxed and naturally well lubricated. you have to man up and do the main deflowering. I can't say more than that 1 Like |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by Headlesschicken(m): 6:05pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
Five virgins son? Are u a virgin magnet or what? I'm sure u v been trying to Phuck dia @$$,cos we don't v that much number of virgins left in dix country as a whole... 3 Likes |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by samkevie: 6:28pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
See mata |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by ekanDamie: 6:42pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
I don't want a virgin really. I can't try to force myself into any woman Pls have experience abeg. |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by Nobody: 6:50pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
Kids |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by CrazyPros: 6:53pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
It's really frustrating, my two ex were virgins back to back, the way the scream and push you out, then urge you to continue, then blood, then cry. I won't wish to experience that again. Op, Vaseline or baby oil is your friend. 2 Likes |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by aojully: 6:54pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
It's obvious dis thing runs in ur family. |
Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by marvin905(m): 6:56pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
oga go find olive oil buy
use am baptise your John Thomas and also baptise her Gates of heaven..
or you can try alot of pre-intimacy make her relax
if you nor fit enter after all this then your case is hopeless 3 Likes
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Re: It's Our First Time Making Love, And It's Frustrating by samuelchimmy(m): 8:03pm On Nov 15, 2018 |
Who is this otondo LA (sorry for calling you that,but its just simple as engaging the girl in intense pre-intimacy,finger the hell outa her starting with the middle finger,then proceed with two,make sure her p@ssy is wet as hell, use verseline to line your prxck ,,slap her p*ssy with your dxck severally,then hold your dick like you hold knife, and try letting the head in first.... Haba how can I be teaching an old man like you how to Bleep a virgin,its not too hard like you think,just improvise,you don't want to regret this great opportunity all ya life....m goodluck 6 Likes |
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