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Politics / Re: Herdsmen Kill Five, Injure Others In Fresh Attack In Ondo Community by ak22(m): 10:22am On Jan 12, 2022
Kwashiman:
Herdsmen Kill Five, Injure Others In Fresh Attack In Ondo Community.



https://tribuneonlineng.com/herdsmen-kill-five-injure-others-in-fresh-attack-in-ondo-community/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

I thought Amotekun will use to curb these people calling herdsmen ? But I was wrong .
If driving from state to Ondo state you can't see any Amotekun on the road till you get to inside Akure which is the state capital of Ondo state, Is then that you will know that Amotekun are existing . One funny thing that Amotekun are doing now in Ondo State now, is that they are checking Car particulars inside Akure city and if you have expired particulars your car will impound . Is this there Original motive or they have diverted from the reason they are created for .
Nairaland / General / Re: Buhari Appoints Doyin Salami As Chief Economic Adviser After 7 Years In Govt by ak22(m): 11:40pm On Jan 04, 2022
Nonsense after 7 wasted years.
Properties / Re: Architectural Design And Build Projects by ak22(m): 7:33pm On Jan 02, 2022
I love your work . Keep it up
Politics / Re: Tinubu Is A Liar And Should Not Be President Of Nigeria - Bode George (Video) by ak22(m): 11:20am On Dec 26, 2021
I pray that I should leave this Country for Abroad before next general election
Family / Re: My Wife Behaviour Towards My Family Members/Siblings Is Driving Me Crazy by ak22(m): 8:12pm On Dec 19, 2021
Richpet85:
Please do not mind my english consider any error as typo but I honestly needed a sincere advice.

My marriage will be 8 years by September 2022. The journey of marriage has not been rosy and sometime I feel I made a very huge mistake by marrying my wife. I met her in April that year, we date for 6 months and we finally got married Sept same year. Prior before we got married I took her to meet with my siblings since my both parents were late specially our 2nd daughter who her husband sponsored my secondary education. She was cool with my family and never raised any concern during this period of courtship.

Suddenly a night of our wedding everything changed. That same woman that took care of my family as hers turned into directly opposite of who she used to be. To cut the story short, she started dispising my family and the thought of their sight irritates her.

She started by complaining about my sister's son living with me before we got married, her mum and other of my siblings to the point that anytime my eldest sister visited she will leave my house with tears.

My wife also ensure she send all my siblings and relations away from me and my house no go area for them. But what confuses me was that she doesn't behave in a similar manner whenever her own siblings or her mum visits our home. Her behaviour towards my family has destroyed the joy we once had as siblings. The marriage has produced 3 kids of which my last child is less than a month old. Anytime she put to bed her mother has always been the one coming for OMUGOO. None of my siblings can come to my house because of her attitude towards them.

I can't tolerate it further am dying silently as am typing this msg her mum, her immediate junior Sister are in my house and every where is very peaceful. If they were my mum or sibling my house would have been burning by now.

I made conscious effort to kill and ignore this feeling but anytime I see her mum and sister. I feel very depressed in my own house. There are other ill behaviour she have which I can tolerate but seeing myself separated from my siblings because of my wife is my greatest Marital night mare.

I am sincerely fade up with her but my kids are my greatest weakness. The thought of leaving my house and go far away from her or rather travel abroad and leave there permanently has recently overcrowded my mind. But I can't stop thinking about my kids, their future and what they will turn into if she is to raise them alone.

Don't forget I have provided her with everything needed to be comfortable in marriage, house, cars, business etc mostly importanly I am not cheating on her, I don't smoke, I don't keep late night and I don't have friends because she has sent everybody close to me away from my life.

I need a mature advice and no insult please.

I am emotionally trumatised and feel so depressed.

98 % of today married woman does that. Make God help all men that are in this mess oooo. They we tell you not to bring any of your relatives to your but they we turn that your house to there family house .
Nairaland / General / Re: Change Of Name In Newspaper publication by ak22(m): 7:21am On Dec 12, 2021
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Nairaland / General / Re: Acquire A Tangible Skills/handwork Here And Become Your Own Boss This Year by ak22(m): 7:18am On Dec 12, 2021
Skillsnigeria:
“Investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make. It will not only improve your life, it will improve the lives of all those around you.”


Thanks

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Career / Re: Which Of This Skills Should I Learn by ak22(m): 12:15pm On Dec 11, 2021
Jh0wsef:
Learn Graphics design, I've not regretted having that skill for a minute!

You get jobs on a daily. As long as you're good.

Put me through on this bro your contact please ?
Politics / Re: COVID-19 Affected My Fight Against Corruption, Insecurity – Buhari by ak22(m): 9:24pm On Dec 04, 2021
Politics / Re: COVID-19 Affected My Fight Against Corruption, Insecurity – Buhari by ak22(m): 9:23pm On Dec 04, 2021
Family / Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by ak22(m): 9:21pm On Dec 04, 2021
Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?


My sister let me tell you the biter truth. Your on own brother will never really on one Child.
Me I can't never accept that from any partner. Na you need ham no be your partner so go ahead to do it alone
Family / Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by ak22(m): 9:18pm On Dec 04, 2021
MufasaLion:


Seems you qouted the wrong person.

Yeah sorry for that

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Family / Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by ak22(m): 4:51pm On Dec 04, 2021
[quote author=MufasaLion post=108106356]

You just gotta talk to him or better still, go visit a family physician for professional advise. .
Celebrities / Re: Dare Art Alade & Deola Ayeni Celebrate 15th Wedding Anniversary (Photos) by ak22(m): 8:29pm On Nov 30, 2021
We4all:
Firstly, we all know he married an older woman, so they should stop scamming us with those over edited pictures.

Secondly, so Dare married at the age of 24? Hmmn…

Thirdly, is he still a remix musician? Niggar has never dropped any original hit song since he started. Always remixing songs.

Last but not the least, I like him because he is very matured. He paints the picture of a gentleman.

Why you won die on top someone mater self ?

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Politics / Re: Goodluck Jonathan Reconnects With Former UNIPORT School Mates 40 Years Later by ak22(m): 9:44am On Nov 27, 2021
Tinubuadvocate:
Jonathan a failed leader even his classmates are ashamed of him.

Can you compare Jonathan with your Oga buhari . Is better for you these people to take us back to where your government met us

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Family / Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by ak22(m): 2:50pm On Nov 26, 2021
Kobojunkiee:
Relevance ? undecided

If you said so
Family / Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by ak22(m): 6:41pm On Nov 25, 2021
Kobojunkiee:
Marriage no be shackle or prison...stop treating your partners as though prisoners , well unless that is the kind of marriage you both agreed to. undecided

It is well .
Have you married ma ?
Family / Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by ak22(m): 11:43am On Nov 25, 2021
Kobojunkiee:
There is a way to ask a question that would cause one to reason it a simple inquiry. The manner the OP asked most every question, seemed heavily loaded from the start and this because he approached this as if an interrogation. undecided

You don't interrogate a loved one without expecting tempers to flair unless you live in bubble where it all has to be about you and you alone undecided

Stop supporting bad behavior . They are married. So he has every reason to know her Movement ok?
Politics / Re: Muhammed Mahmoud: Nigeria Leading Globally In Yam, Cassava, Rice Production by ak22(m): 9:58pm On Nov 23, 2021
Lori iro. Lie lie government
Car Talk / Re: Toyota Corolla 2004 Vs Honda Civic 2004 Which Is Better Overall? by ak22(m): 6:12pm On Nov 22, 2021
LiberatedGirl:

Go for the Toyota , iv seen too many Honda have problems with broken front wheel Axel's on the streets of Lagos. They say that is Honda signature , a broken axel

Not Honda Civic

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Investment / Re: Investing In Digital Currencies; Looking At The Bigger Picture by ak22(m): 9:33pm On Nov 16, 2021
jedisco:



A lil update.... 80 bucks more in 10 days...
I'd like to round up this portfolio in the coming days and lock it up for the time being

How much do you by stake ?
Politics / Re: General Obasanjo With President Jimmy Carter (Throwback Photo) by ak22(m): 3:27pm On Nov 13, 2021
Olachase:
I love that material he put on pls how can I get it..... Here in lagos

You can't see exactly that again
Car Talk / Re: Maintenance Tips For Honda Cars by ak22(m): 10:57pm On Nov 11, 2021
Rumundele:
My mechanic insists I remove my thermostat and single cell radiator, i agree but keep the radiator safe.
I didn't see any difference since I changed it, should i install it back?

Yes
Autos / Re: HONDA & ACURA Replacement Part's, We Got You Covered!. by ak22(m): 11:23pm On Nov 10, 2021
2006 Civic shock front and back is how much ?

Price separately
Investment / Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by ak22(m): 10:52am On Nov 02, 2021
Good day everyone. Is Rose finance a legit?
I have been trying to swap it on trust wallet but is not working. Or can someone teach me how to swap it ?
Politics / Re: Fayemi Institutionalizes Ekiti “Oni Uyi” Honours Awards by ak22(m): 1:32pm On Oct 31, 2021
God bless Ekiti KETE.
May good things starting to happen in Ekiti State .
Aku Ojo isimi oooo

Like for Ekiti

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Crime / Re: Raymond Nkemdirim: I Am Fulfilled With My Role In Checking Terrorism by ak22(m): 4:07pm On Oct 25, 2021
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How much?
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye Shows Off His Bentley Mulsanne Worth $310,000 (N173,000,000) by ak22(m): 2:58pm On Oct 25, 2021
“My Money Started Flowing When I Bought McDonald’s Franchise” – Dino Melaye Reveals The Source Of His Money.
Business / Re: Bolt Drivers In Akure by ak22(m): 3:28pm On Oct 11, 2021
Colina234:
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Have you registered?
Crime / Re: Two Die In Edo Over Money Ritual Practice by ak22(m): 4:08pm On Oct 06, 2021
Edo ritual no get part 2

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Family / Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by ak22(m): 9:22am On Oct 04, 2021
Kehindeaj78:
I'm married and the development of the house is from the purse of me and my wife

Bros, I understand you let them know where the money you use to build that place come from . That the money is not only yours . And talk to them like son and parent . That that house is not only yours. From there you will know their plan .

May be you too have Bleep them up somehow before
Celebrities / Re: Shina Peller & Wife Ayobola celebrate 16th Wedding Anniversary (Photos) by ak22(m): 5:30pm On Oct 02, 2021
kenzysmith:
The wife no too fine and she is too old for shina, anyhow sha am happy for them

Na so una go dey do AMEBO .

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