₦airaland Forum

RichDad1:
Enabling 2fa is a more secure way to protect your account.

light099:
AJ was in the ring last night to win, not to impress you.
He has always impressed us and will still impress us but yesterday was a day to win by all and any strategy that can make him get back his belts.


I commend AJ for his wisdom, he didn't underrate Fat Yoga, it would have been a shame if he was trying to please people and give Fat Yoga the opportunity to knock him out again, that would have been the end of his glorious career. All those saying they're not impressed would have been the ones mocking him all over the world.

Being a great warrior is the ability to know when to attack and when to retreat.
Wisdom sometimes doesn't make sense on a short term but will make the whole sense in the long run and the long term. Very soon no one will remember the process anymore but the product.

AJ is a wise son.

farady:
OP, thank God for using you to keep the home running, still loving you husband etc. Your husband really need some time to chill off and some bit of counseling preferably from someone he greatly respects to give him new "factory settings".

His behavour which is normal with men that have experienced job loss can be really traumatic. To him, he has lost that his economic power (which defines his masculinity) to provide for the family and in fact lost it to you................Look whether you bring in a cleaning company or not, his attitude will not change for the better, it will grow worse. At this moment, he need the support and encouragement of everyone, friends and family.

Get someone he truly respect to talk to him. On your part, go on kneels and commit him to God in prayers. Next, as you run the affairs of the home, please be kiafu make you no go mis-yarn. For instance you come dey hala like "I think you people have finished this milk that i bought just 2 days ago" or "I don't understand what you people are boiling with gas oh, that cylinder I just filled it with N4k last week and the way the cooker is burning, its like the cylinder is getting empty"...............When we men hear things like that, some of us get very upset, cause he would start thinking all these years he has been spending, nobody heard anything.

I pray God will visit your home and He who sees your sincere heart will restore joy and happiness to your home by settling your husband in Jesus name, Amen!

superlanny:
I never see person wey mumu pass for Atiku or Dino, how can grown men be so intellectually foolish, this boy does not have a case and the better he see it, the early his folly can be averted, going to an international court on what basis, suing who exactly, what happened to our numerous and prestigious court houses and judges.
That is why I support a wise man who said politicians should use ogun, sango or amadioha to swear before accepting public office, Dino melaye cannot tell me his ill gotten money did not grease the palms of thugs, touts, agbero and the likes, yet he wants to go to ICC

Hoodbilonia:
I doubt this man.
Demon cannot cast out demon.
Flee from him,he is evil
Tb joshua is a ritualist

Lamasta:
When God is about to bless a nation and its citizen He sends His Prophet there...

God bless Snr Prophet T.B Joshua and other true ministers of God doing the work of the ministry in truth and in spirit.

GOFRONT:
This man is a Sissy.......A total disgrace to Manhood.

Chubhie:
Finance is a very big issue in marriage and ought to be sorted out before standing in front of a priest to say I do.

Your husband hustle to bring food on the table whilst your own hustle pays fees and funds projects. You've got a bigger hustle here. Double double down on the hustle and quit trusting your husband with funds cos he is a bad manager.

You can buy the net and pay boys 20 Naira to fix it for you.

Acidosis:
He collected all your savings to add to a project (a personal apartment??).

I don't understand why people rush to build apartments. It is absolutely needless when you still struggle to meet your basic needs.

Advise your husband to;

1) Quit daydreaming about a juicy political offer. This venture never ends well when you don't have a job/business, trade, skill, etc. After 4 or 8 years of tasting little money as a counselor or special adviser (assuming he gets the offer), the situation will get worse. I've seen too many examples.

2) Sell off the uncompleted project.

3) Use the proceeds of the sales for business (this should be your focus and priority).

A house project won't put food on your table. A lot of Nigerians make this mistake. The urge to be called a landlord push many into shanty houses that ordinarily should be left for poultry and pig farming.

There's so much ignorance in the land. Tenancy is not bondage. Stop attending churches where tenants are demonized. There's no glory in being a broke landlord. Remain where you are and divert your money to a productive venture. That's how to grow. Your personal apartment may help you save a little (assuming you pay a lot on rent) but it won't put N1 on your table.


N.B: Please ignore the above if my interpretation of "project" differs.

SODbaba2:
This woman is as useless as my left hand

BluntBoy:
So, what should Buhari have done? He should have beaten Daura's daughter or locked her up?

Is there a family in this world where there are no conflicts? And does that belittle the competence of the head of that family? We are humans, and are bound to collide once in a while due to individual differences and conflicting interests. That is why we have conflict resolution.

Aisha's story did not happen suddenly. You must have read about Yusuf and the House that Maman Daura once occupied. This means that the tension had been building over time. Aisha has yet to imply that Maman's daughter is always rude to her, so it might just be a one-off incident which happened due to anger, immaturity, and women palaver.

Tjah:
notin u sabi, keep quite and learn

NairalandSARS:
No na. Kwese sports and supersports have exclusive rights to televise premier league in africa and these cable tv operators illegally broadcast beinsports and canal sports instead. Bein has no rights in africa, so on what authority are these operators broadcasting EPL games?

MVLOX:
So becuz they have been doing this for years now makes it right abi

ezewealth:
If u see requirements for the loan u go just tire. The list is endless

Funkybabee:
you better keep shut and stop giving a better hope for her or such woman...


It's a sin scriptural and also low of her.


one woman is meant for a man same with a man meant for a woman, God created everything in good other It's you people that wish to please your lust... I will keep saying it whether she marry late or not, A man is meant for her at a right time


It's not a curse to marry late, u can't run than your creator, every thing under the sun have their own time.

@eni4real

Olalan:
Don't be deceived behind those smiles are bickering, envy and jealousy.........no woman likes to share her husband

Charleys:
Pastor fatoyinbo is not Neymar take note.

12345baba:
Pastor B abeg write the letter , wetin she want no hard. Do it make rest for this matter

Vicintonsh:
very beneficial my guy
my friends phone was stolen 2 weeks ago and about 375k was stolen from her account.

HER PHONE WAS PASSWORDED.

okeyumez:
Its Nigerian workers that will suffer for it if MTN leaves Nigeria.
MTN is already rich. They are only helping us but we are ignorant

fuckingAyaya:
But like seriously wetin buhari go do 4 S.A last week or so

theenchanter:
Moghalu shouldn't say such a thing, that's uncalled for...... the matter should be diplomatically resolved.

Drake2021:
k

You can choose not to believe what the Federal Govt and India Govt are saying. It doesn't count and who cares if you don't believe any way.
Dump Head.

PUSSYHOE:
Only a woman can psychoanalyze another woman and come close to a perfect conclusion. If i take a girl home i am eager to hear my mum's view than dad's, afterall a woman can easily manipulate a man into doing her bidding, but can't in most cases her fellow woman.

Timoleon:
Me I no dey like story wey get too much coma abeg.

haryothosyn93:
Today is my birthday



Wish me well my people

numen:
The south does not know what it's enjoying right now! I can't imagine how life is for the people up north. If this government has any sense of responsibility, BH should be their utmost priority alongside Power. There is wanton waste of life in the north! For what?

So who will now bury those that came to bury thev dead?

adioolayi:
https://punchng.com/court-declares-shiites-movement-terrorist-group/


Now they've got what they wanted...let's see how it goes. I support FG on this

I totally refused to support the FG on this, because of it's implications, but first why has the Fulani herds men that have painted the country red with blood not being tagged a *terrorist group", this country is really heading for disaster, may God help us faster which ever way he wants.

CanadaOrBust:
What’s wrong with this guy? Do u see anywhere he said the Dakolo’s asked him to represent them?? And why do u have to be so insultive?
Bros there is something up with u, u sound like a paid agent.

Here are some things real Nigerians are saying, not COZA people and paid agents:

“One striking thing about these CONSENSUAL SEX proponents is that they have forgotten something called statutory rape - that Pastor Fatoyinbo was SUPPOSED to be pastor and spiritual father to then YOUNG AND NAIVE BUSOLA. Careful GROOMING made it appear like consensual sex. Betrayal of trust on the part of a pastor should be condemned.”

“Sending a truck load of well armed policemen to invite a woman who claimed she was raped is just so very wrong. It says to the woman that the police is working for the accused, otherwise a couple of officers could have stopped by her house to deliver the letter in a none threatening way“

“A civil case local to Lagos that should be answered in a nearby police station in Lagos. How did it become a federal criminal case with lurking armed policemen from the IGP from Abuja suveiling a private citizen’s home and intimidating him to sign a paper to appear in Abuja”

“Once a cultist is always a cultist , forget either pastor or no pastor”. (I do not agree with this. I put it here to show that such view exists)

“Fatoyinbo was the high priest of a cult in Ilorin. You can’t attain such position without killing people. He should kindly confess how many people he killed.”

“There are other more prominent pastors. Ask yourself why this particular one is the one being accused by several women.”

ifyalways:
The mom and dad fell apart,obviously but thats not enough reason for the dad to abandon them, if he actually did.