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[quote author=Moradeeke post=45791144][/quote]Jazakumullahu Khayran for the reminder. such a beautiful and articulate write up. |
May you receive guidance. This guy was there mainly for the sake of Nigeria and he decides to pray for the same Nigeria, Nigerians and himself. Whats's the ish in that? kodded: |
teechudleyy:Wishing you better |
Let me sight the following points as regards this issue: 1. Denigrating or belittling unmarried people is just immature and bad, simple... 2. Statistically, some nations are getting extinct given their prolonged practice of non reproductive culture (Esp. Europe). 3. If a healthy family is the smallest unit of a successful society, then GETTING the FAMILY RIGHT IS TOO IMPORTANT. 4. Given the 3rd point, INTENTIONAL SINGLE PARENTHOOD is just a JOKE, a main contention to successful marriages. 5. A quick rewind into the past 40 to 60 years ago, our forefathers successfully managed their families (monogamy or polygamy) 6. No one (man or woman) was created to be single neither do they want to be single in the real sense, WE JUST WANT TO BE FREE.... 7. Yes, being Single and Financially buoyant is an option but why don't you try being Married and Financially buoyant? 8. Remember, MARRIAGE is an institution with RULES and SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE is HARD WORK with GREAT BENEFITS. So where's this problem coming from? To solve a problem, you must understand its terrain, causes and promoters, history and geolocation. 1. Why do women (successful or not) decide to remain single? 2. Who benefits when women decide to remain single? 3. Are you telling me u were never interested in any relationship since adolescence? 4. What's your kind of Ideal Man like? 5. How many criteria do you have on your list? 6. Does the economic woes influence relationships? 7. How much damage or effect has CULTURAL DRIFT had on the African Family Structure? etc... (you can add yours). We must answer this questions to get to the root of this problems and don't forget, an except from this material, "Protocols of the Elders of Zion", states that the FAMILY UNIT HAS TO BE DESTROYED, MARRIAGE MADE REDUNDANT and UNSUCCESSFUL and likewise GETTING THE WORLD UNDERPOPULATED to mention a few. These are some of the people responsible for many troubles globally however, we share a huge part of the blame too... I will wrap up my response with a simple advise, 1. Men PLEASE REDUCE YOU EGO, BE TRUTHFUL TO YOUR WOMAN and you will gain her respect. 2. Women, work with your guy as a team mate, pray for him, be his counselor, forget PRIDE and reduce APROKO (i know u can't do wdt it). I am married and my babe is getting her PhD soon with the support of God and myself.... I take care of her career interests and needs but she KNOWS, FAMILY FIRST... |
Kindly update the caption cos the content says the opposite. Don't misguide people with catchy titles OP |
ahhh. This generation is something else. sebi you all use phone and computer to post comment while those devices have calculators. Use it and see. Most of you claiming BODMAS violated its basic rules, chai (covers face). YOU ARE DISGRACING THE YOUTHS PLEASE. If you can't solve a simple arithmetic devoid of logic, i mean the answer is 12 straight at a glance, then how can we talk about catching up with the world around us via invention. May God save Nigeria's soul o. |
It's a pity u had a rough ride in your early days but do you even read and comprehend any of those scriptures at all.... if you do and really strive to understand the content, i am sure most of the thing you have written won't have made it in ur write up. obviously, u r confused and u need to take responsibility for your decisions. Just as you had no choice but to follow your parents while you were young, u had no choice in selecting your language, sex, nationality, skin color, etc because these features don't matter at all. they don't !!! It reads in the Qur'an that we have been made into nations and tribes just to recognize and know one another but the best is the one who is God-fearing. Going further by the scriptures, God-fearing entails loving your neighbors like you love your self, no adultery nor fornication, no unjust killing, no slanders, no lies , being responsible member of the society etc. These instructions are both in Quran and bible so i ask you Op, does God or the Gods (as u put it) be blamed for us not following this instructions. These simple instructions are the basic tenets that strengthen the fabric of a peaceful community or society at large. We (almost all humans) have neglected everything yet we blame Religion. Finally, never judge a religion by the actions of its followers but the content of their scriptures. Humans err and that doesn't make God unjust so be careful when you apportion blames. Thanks |
In less that two years, this man fought a war for his country and he won. build refineries during his reign which still stands today but were mismanaged. Seriously, lets be constructive in our criticism. Those asking for war and disunity truly don't know what war really means. For the moment, in my opinion, buhari is a better option while we hope for the best. So Femi, relax n focus on what u do best than asking a General and one time president to come and debate with you. By the way, Dbanj doesn't represent the youth and neither do you in any way |
FFK is so cheap. You need to see APC's response to an authority, Prof. Soludo. |
Don't give me that story Prof Jega. These cards (whether with chip, RFID or magnetic stripe) can be hacked and the on the reader software + hardware tricked to read those cards. Even ATM machines here in malaysia were hacked with fabricated cards by experts from south america and there pictures are everywhere now around malaysia cos they scored big in one shot. Just pray the riggers don't employ the right black hats to do the damage cos the way i am seeing things, nigeria ain't matured yet to put everything online. I'd suppose n suggest they still keep written records to ensure both manual and electronic databases of voters really tally. Else, rigging spree for sure..... just my 2cents |
kennyamusan:This is no mistake. The move was deliberate for profit making. Simple !!! |
Lilaex:Go and sit down joor. Worship God worship God.... No be the same God under GEJ some pastors dey charge N1000 for gate fee to worship for church? Abeg park well.... This is not about religion. Nigerians are too religious and yet most corrupt. Biko, we need change from Top to Bottom (government to people) and buttom up (people to governement). Muslims and Christians have lived side by side for long years wdt issues and suddenly everyone starts to call for the head of the other party...... IF u like list all this names u can find on earth, we must move forward and adopt change come feBUHARI ..... |
if you examine that belle well well, na marital issues full am.... ![]() |
please put the idi0ts where they belong. imagine all these nonsense they do just to get famous. hear the trash moheeda or whatever was sharing in public as well (love to commit adultery with the president). it's unfortunate lots of parents gave their kids all the support to get rotten. shameless she-goat. finally. MODS, i don't like these trashes and i know lots of people don't. you are responsible for making this sluts popular hence our ladies wanna be like them. |
Netanyahu of all people responsible for killing thousands of innocent civilians just few months ago. Have you all forgotten how the whole world boiled over the unnecessary shedding of blood by this coward? Like suddenly, they just became friends or have been partners in crime? Gej didn't just start to romance ISRAEL now, most of our security and huge financial deals are channeled to them. The recent $9.2m scam was also through an Israeli contractor!!! Look again at this letter and you'd notice the "DEAR FRIEND" is a message connoting a special meaning as it was written in his own hand writing (anyway, subject to verification). As for me, i do not support shedding of blood by any party expect the culprit has been taken to court and found worthy of such fate but this current romance between nigeria and isreal is now at a whole new level because when you show me your friend, i will tell you who you are.... GEJ HAS BLOOD IN HIS HANDS and whoever is behind this current carnage in Nigeria, no matter who you are, YOUR HANDS HAS ALREADY CURSED YOU even while we mourn in silence. As for those calling for war, i only wish you understand what you wish for cos when you finally have it, it will be too late. Real leaders take wars as a means of last resort. If we HATE OURSELVES this much, divorce (a peaceful separation of Nigeria into sovereign nations) is still a tenable and practicable option. Even God despite not liking divorce, he still permitted it as that might be the only way out. If this war starts, hummm, both parties involved will not taste anything but years of sorrow o. A word is enough for the wise o. N.B: The Letter doesn't bear any authenticity so there's no need to sweat about it. #NigerianInDiaspora |
WHY AM I HERE? =========== I didn't choose my country. I never chose a tribe. I didn't choose my pigmentation neither did i opt for this set of beautiful parents. What about my mother tongue? Buddy, i never had a choice... I just happened suddenly like a newly instantiated object with all the necessary parameters cum variables to survive an unknown quest in this strange place but this question still lingers, resonating in my head all day long, "WHY AM I HERE?". For sure, i eat because i'm hungry, sleep cos i'm tired, work hard and smart to make a livelihood but round the clock i fall into oblivion forgetting there's a question yet unanswered !!! i live because of "........" ? Isn't it disturbing that we stockpile wealth, fame, influence,entertainment, authority, food,gadgets, estates etc yet pass away like we never owned a dime. Something grand is really missing honestly. Isn't it smart to search for and harness the missing puzzle so we can enjoy all the stockpile? Have you not seen the mundane situation we slipped into? A new child is born, goes to school, grows old, marries, makes all the money, grows a circle of influence and make more babies etc then passes away like wind !!! If anything, so far i have come to realize that if we, irrespective of our longitude : latitude, were to consider, confront and confidently answer this lonely raging question, there's great tendency that many of the problems we face today across our worlds, if not all, would dwindle one after the other into nothingness hopefully. However, i find it bizarre and surprising that a man sedated and forced on a long trip (like a new born) in a funky train embellished with all the fun you can imagine never bothered to asked that Question, "WHY AM I HERE?"!!! |
E be like the economy drink paraga, e come swell soteee e just busrt, pooo !!!. |
The same people who brought Ebola through a Liberian American citizen that deliberately infected our medical personnels in Lagos are also responsible for these boko haram boys. They will soon be exposed by God's grace just as ISIS is now exposed as a CIA covert operation to destabilize the whole of middle east http://www.veteranstoday.com/2014/08/04/french-report-isil-leader-mossad/ How long will it take for us to realize who the real devil is? Their plan is to reduce human population as much as possible. May God save us oooooooooooooo |
These boko boys will soon be exposed by God's grace just as ISIS is now exposed as a CIA covert operation to destabilize the whole of middle east http://www.veteranstoday.com/2014/08/04/french-report-isil-leader-mossad/ The same people brought Ebola through a Liberian American citizen who deliberately infected our medical personnels in Lagos. How long will it take for us to realize who the real devil is? |
These boko boys will soon be exposed by God's grace just as ISIS is now exposed as a CIA covert operation to destabilize the whole of middle east http://www.veteranstoday.com/2014/08/04/french-report-isil-leader-mossad/ The same people brought Ebola through a Liberian American citizen who deliberately infected our medical personnels in Lagos. How long will it take for us to realize who the real devil is? |
myproperty: some muslims on this site called the quran a perfect book and they say the Bible is full of errors, some even asked that errors should be pointed outin the Quran. i would point some out but before i do that i want to say something about the origin of the bible and QuranSeriously, i would have loved to tackle your all questions in shaa Allah, all i mean and give you the befitting answers but for the following reasons: 1. Nairaland is not the appropriate forum or channel to handle this very sensitive issue for the sole purpose of properly re-educating you. No private chats, frequent derailment and each questions raised won't be dealt with properly in minutes if we are truly sincere about solution and not just argument... 2. Your tone and language suggests you really opened up the Qur'an to find errors and not really understand it. So no matter how many people put the right perspective to you, your mindset will remain the same. In Islam, Scholars are those in position to take on this kinds of issues and Muslims are encouraged to be either scholars, student of knowledge or seeker of truth via questioning but never to be an ignorant person. Given this premise, i could go all the way clipping videos of question and answer sessions of renowned scholars who have answered all these questions over and over again but would you even check them out? You claimed no prophets were killed, wasn't Zachariah and John the baptist (Yahya...PBUT) murdered by the Jews? Wasn't the life of Jesus and Muhammad attempted by the Jews (according to islamic belief). These are just few cases and like i said you need to change you intention of studying the qur'an else talking to you is just a waste of time. it may not benefit you and time is money. 3. The Qur'an has made many claims and a peculiar one is It's originality and protection from CHANGE. Allah challenges those in doubt in Qur'an [17:88], [11:13] and [2:23]. It's still open till today and all we do is discredit Allah, the Messengers and their books. In the light of this, the Qur'an is the only book in the world memorized by millions of people word for word showing their collective belief and acceptance of it authenticity while the bible doesn't even come close. God doesn't confuse us, He is a God of orderliness, hence the uniformity and universality of Islam. Does the orderliness not amaze you or are just jealous of Islam? Note... Muslims are different from Islam. Islam is perfect, muslim's ain't so put the blames where they belong... 4. You claimed Qur'an copied the previous books? That's lame because all the books came from one Author, Allah. [003:003] It is He Who has sent down the Book (the Qur'ân) to you (Muhammad [sal-Allâhu 'alayhi wa sallam]) with truth, confirming what came before it. And He sent down the Taurât (Torah) and the Injîl (Gospel) However, 4 books were given out. One to each of the Prophets David(Daud)- Zabur, Moses (Musa) - Tawrah, Jesus (Eesa) - Injeel and Muhammad (Al-Qur'an) (Peace be upon them). However, Tawrah was hidden and you were given Talmud so was Injeel hidden and you were given Bible. But because He loves us mankind, He deemed it fit to protect the Final Revelation despite the attempt to discredit it. [015:009] Verily, We, it is We Who have sent down the Dhikr (i.e. the Qur'ân) and surely We will guard it (from corruption) In conclusion, i can't help you if you don't wanna help yourself by asking from those who really have the knowledge. If you really wan't answers and you are ready to seek the truth, contact me on akande.james1@gmail.com (no spamming and be decent in your tone/choice of words pls) and Allah knows best!.... |
The whole of Christianity is a sham. see your pope invoking satan... You better forrget sentiment and save your soul. these satanists want you hypnotized till death. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUN-XEU6HUc |
Alishachris: Death to all muslims! How come no christian in protesting in IRAQ against the thousands ISIS is killing? Yea because the muslims are an intolerable and temperamental bunch of child abusers!Whether you wish them death or not, everyone will die. However, killing innocent people must not be condoned by any party. Despite the fact that Muslims are being killed, humanity stands with Palestinians all around Europe and some Arab nations. Nigeria is just a different and difficult country and it's a pity that even when the world says no, Nigeria will say yes. In summary, the death of anyone innocent must be condemned irrespective of their religious inclination. Remember, e fit be you o! |
This problem can never be solved if we do not leave sentiment aside. We still at this moment tag boko haram as islamic. With this mindset, this cancerous problem will continue to spread. Look at the whole terrorist cell around the world, they have one thing in common and they serve the same master, "THE WEST". In simple terms, these guys are there just to keep any stubborn nation in check for the bigger picture, "THE F**king New World Order". It's easier to break the whole human race with the divide and rule principle using the religious chip, ISLAMIC TERRORISM. However, no one holds monopoly of terrorism just like ISRAEL is demonstrating now. But, behind the scenes, these people don't care whether you serve Allah, Jesus, Yahweh or Ogun etc. They see humans as cancerous cell spreading all over the earth and they want the human population reduced as much as possible by every means necessary e.g. Wars, Lesbianism, Gay, GMOs, bio-warefare (HIV/Ebola) etc. From my perspective, the next world war is about starting, hence the provocations, blood sacrifices and chaos on a global scale to usher in a global solution in the form of the New World Order. To have this, all current governments must be dismantled including Russia and China. However, most developed nation especially Russia (orthodox Christians) know the game, so they wouldn't wanna go for the bait. In this chess game, Boko Haram, ISIS, Al Shabab, Al Qaeda, Nusra Front etc are just expendable pawns. You just wait and see. #myHumbleOpinion |
We Nigerians should learn from what is going on around our world. We can't afford to be myopic and ignorant as global as the world is. Peaceful protest is held all over the world and people ain't gunned down just like animals. This is the world protesting http://mondoweiss.net/2014/07/worldwide-protest-israeli.html bringing about changes in the way human affairs are being run yet we Nigerians act like we are isolated learners. If we continue like this and fail to stand up for eachother, I am afraid our implosion and helplessness will not be pitied by the world we mock ignorantly |
dr dams: just Curious the kind of Fish it would have been. God works in a Mysterious way cos this beat scientific theories and its definately not a Whale..This is an excerpt from the Qur'an in response to the thread: point 1: [068:048] So, wait with patience for the Decision of your Lord, and be not like the Companion of the Fish – when he cried out (to Us) while he was in deep sorrow. (See Verse 21:87) [068:049] Had not a Grace from his Lord reached him, he would indeed have been (left in the stomach of the fish, but We forgave him), so he was cast off on the naked shore, while he was to be blamed. [068:050] Then his Lord chose him and made him of the righteous. point 2: [021:087] And (remember) Dhun-Nûn [Yûnus (Jonah)], when he went off in anger, and imagined that We shall not punish him (i.e. the calamities which had befallen him)! But he cried through the darkness (saying): "Lâ ilâhâ illâ Anta [none has the right to be worshipped but You (O Allâh)], Glorified (and Exalted) are You [above all that (evil) they associate with You]! Truly, I have been of the wrong doers." [021:088] So, We answered his call, and delivered him from the distress. And thus We do deliver the believers (who believe in the Oneness of Allâh, abstain from evil and work righteousness). Learning more from our holy books and trustworthy clerics would be of great favour but it begins with YOU to arm yourself with knowlegde |
there's only one response to your assertion. Go and do ur home work. the real people pulling the terrorist strings by proxy are the ZIONISTS. look around u in every country with chaos or war, its always been the same methodology of divide and conquer and put the blame on Muslim + Islam. God bless you Haji for the bravery. Teotihuacan: Good for him but this propaganda won't bring back the dead nor will it launder the image of a religion whose penchance for violence is well known and documented.As i am typing this more muslims are still signinup to join these terrorist groups, I believe alshabab already knows what to |
When you decide to discard the manuals provided by a manufacturer for the product he designed and experiment then OYO for you o. This problem has a solution but the question is, "Are we ready to adopt it?" rather our society promotes hedonism, lesbianism, gay etc and we adopt them by default. can u even imagine some people supporting Gay @religious circles. Women are yet to find their match and men are now marrying each other just imagine !!! We should retrace our steps from where we got it all wrong. MARRIAGE is the most fundamental institution in human life because when it's done as prescribed by God, our problems will fade off one after the other. It start with You and me. |
Mynd_44: Why buy a book when I can always go to the library and borrow one every other day?Then you will live to see people borrow your own books or cows in your life time. |
pro01: "Advice" is an uncountable noun. Make mods no dey use front page teach people pikin nonsense.thanks for this thread. if u had read the content u would have overlooked his error. I guess this is the only thing you could see in 100 virtues listed. besides u are responsible for ur children not the internet or its content. peace on you all peeps ![]() pro01: "Advice" is an uncountable noun. Make mods no dey use front page teach people pikin nonsense.thanks for this thread. if u had read the content u would have overlooked his error. I guess this is the only thing you could see in 100 virtues listed. besides u are responsible for ur children not the internet or its content. peace on you all peeps |
May God Bless you for this reminder |
Boll2010: bros wit al d issue on ground u stil dy advertise ur blog n u typed so concerned#naija I hail oh......biz 1styoung chap. it's not my blog n I ain't a blogger. just tired of these people in 9ja called pastors... |

just imagine !!! We should retrace our steps from where we got it all wrong. MARRIAGE is the most fundamental institution in human life because when it's done as prescribed by God, our problems will fade off one after the other. It start with You and me.