₦airaland Forum

Teempakguy:
those are the exceptions.

btw, have you noticed the pedophilia trend recently?

#justsaying.

That is different

What exceptions? These are men who tried their best for their families. Who are sensible and reasonable enough to know that it is no longer about them.

Paedophilia has nothing to do with men taking up women roles. FYI, there are supremely Alpha males who are also paedophiles.

eni4real:
Mothers are not on the same level as a young lady who is yet to be committed to a relationship, sacrificed for her partner or possibly demonstrate love.
It doesn't make sense to keep comparing such girls to a fully grown mothers who has gone through thick and thin of life with her family.

She was once a young lady. And FYI, whatever they did before they chose their husbands or their husbands chose them is no different from what is happening right now.

Forget that nonsense about modern day, it simply does not add up.

Truckpusher:
Their queer nature is what makes them special bro.

Trust me , try and relax with a free hearted woman and listen her - She's for your comfort but she's got a price too......and that price isn't money.

Just simply tell them what they want to hear.

You ehn

You haven't met the one that nothing go move her. Stay there o

emusmith:
Nonsense! Uncouth! Insulting! Rude!

Why bring his mum into the pic?
All these kids...

I didn't

He did. He mentioned ladies and I asked about his mum. It was just a mere inference. It is allowed now

Teempakguy:
everything. from the physical biology to the emotional trauma that women seem to so easily cope with, can make a man go insane. kids are . . . after all, as annoying as sh*t . . . pardon the language, but women do handle this quite well.
thrusting a man into this role will be quite the spectacle. hence my choice of words. it will be quite ridiculous. at the end of the day, the man will regret ever leaving his job to tend to such petty annoyances for the rest of the foreseeable future and due to the reduced ability of men to repress their anger, he might start taking it out on the children or on his wife.

do not let us forget what the woman herself will be going through too as the bread winner . . .

That is not true

There are many great single fathers out there

My father can do both roles lthough he is still a married man.

flokii:
a guy once said.. 'other than sex, there is nothing so special about women'...

well I partly agree and with your points too

nice writeup

*mum

Other than child bearing and sex, what so special about her

lekzzydo:
The last time I checked, 3 beautiful ladies have asked me out. So why do I have to force on any lady.

They don't even worth it.

What about your mum? Was she worth it?

Owliver:
K

Yeah

OK is too much too type out

I don't even consider guys that use ‘k'. Don't commit suicide when classy ladies ignore you. You are simply not their type.

Teempakguy:
i never said a woman's work is derogatory. and you know it.

I don't know it. You implied it. What is abnormal in doing a woman's work?

Owliver:
K

Broke ass nigga, face your okada job and stop chasing women unless you are ready to settle down.

Owliver:
my dear brother in the lord. no woman, i repeat. no woman with black skin will put on a good behaviour in such situation. abi no be this same Nigeria wey be say broke girl go dey call okada man broke azs? . now imagine wen such a girl earns more. loooooool never enter such trap oh. no say i no warn you oo

The fool that has never step out of his black continent will continue to make stupid assumptions. FYI, women are the same. I understand that you have never been outside Nigeria and that your inferiority complex is a big issue.

Your mum must have treated your dad so bad. You should blame her not us.

Are you saying that in your entire neighborhood you can't find a girl (educated or non-educated)/dating okada men. You must be living in lalaland. In fact many female graduates marry broke guys every Sunday, wake up and face the reality

You need a psychological help too. Your madness is real.

Teempakguy:
i don't think it would be such a good idea for the man to resign.

it is not easy to have one's ego so utterly destroyed.

besides, it is somehow ridiculous to have the man do the work of the woman. the most difficult part won't be the man resigning, but doing what he resigned to do.

Work of a woman?

Where your children are involved? And you have failed to explain what makes a woman work derogatory?

Owliver:
no black monkied woman will be matured in such situation. trust me. see them girls saying he should resign to take care of kids, soon the wife will expect the man to cook, clean, wash plate since she's always busy. i die if i resign

I don't blame you, your comment speaks volume of he type of environment you come from. I know poverty is synonymous with your last name. Your mama na black monkied woman. Your sisters and every female members of your family na black monkied women.

Marriage is a goal, it is the roles of the parties invlove to put in their best. Is cleaning, cooking and washing plates so dirty that you cannot do it for your own family? I don't blame you sha. You will marry a woman just like yourself. She will mistaken inferiority complex for submissiveness.


It takes a foolish man and an arrogant fool to confidently blame his poor leadership skill on women. I don't blame women who prefer rich men, they have seen it all. Some Nigerian men have inferiority complex.