Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by akike: 7:59pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
sonofananimal: Lolzzzz!
Nice statement.
Let me see WERe to start.
Have you ever worked so hard in your life for just one particular goal or something and found out that, that particular something is just a delusion? and hope is still in you and you don't want to believe that you are still in that same delusion and still repeat thesame process again but in another different angle. But this time, what you hit is even worse than delusion. Despair, hatred, depression and so on. 
You won't want to make that same mistake again.
I hope this tell ALOT of my story Pele But if your dad can find your mum You will find your missing rib however you have got to start reason like Someone with a brain |
Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by akike: 7:42pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
akinsal: Ori awon aburo mi lo fa igbe |
Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by akike: 6:10pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by akike: 5:23pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
akinsal: Hoes are d things we use in the farm  You mean like your sisters and your daughters They are hoes to some guys, you know  |
Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by akike: 5:07pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
akinsal: I av norhing to say but from my experience so far dos hoes aint loyal @all.. Trust no one even d S.U. Hoes? Who are the hoes? |
Romance › Re: The Trick I Used On My Girlfriend In Order To Know She's Been Cheating On Me by akike: 4:55pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Blessinzy: why does some girls cheat? Why do some boys cheat? |
Crime › Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by akike: 3:34pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
bisdansun: Should I now wash my dirty clothes outside? The questions you raised I can't answer in a social network like nairaland No, the questions I raised still do not give you any right to beat your partner or belittle her. She is not a kid, she has independent mind that is you can tell her what to do and she can decide not to do it if it is not criminal and it is not going to put you in harm's way. If you do not like it, divorce or separate from her. You cannot beat her for failure to obey you or mistakes whether intentional or unintentional. However the main question is if you expect your wife to listen to you, do you also listen to her. Being the head of the house does not mean that your SPOUSE will listen to you everytime. She has the right to some discretion and she also deserves to be listened to. Therefore if you expect her to listen to you, you also have to listen to her. This is the 21st century, everyone has near equal access to information and have brought up to think independently, you can not and should not expect to be obeyed every time. |
Celebrities › Re: 7 New Busty And Talented Actresses Shaking Yoruba Movies Right Now by akike: 3:09pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
They are all fat, trashy and bleached out
It was not in their DNA to be fat, they did because they thought it should be the norm.
*Between I love Eniola Badmus, she is fat because she is fat |
Crime › Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by akike: 1:34pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
bisdansun: How many people try to find out what the women did that got them beaten.?
Note: Never beat a women it show your weakness and temperamental level. What did she do? Was it because she called her husband, her lord a fool? Was it be ause she bought something , her husband asked her not to? Was it because her husband asked her not to talk to someone and she did? Was it because she burnt the food? Was it because she is having an affair? I can understand provocation in this situation. Was it because she wnet out when her husband asked her not to? What did she do? |
Crime › Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by akike: 1:27pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
bisdansun: I apologized to her after the incident, she forgot and forgave me, but it took me nearly 4 months to forgive myself
One question I will like to ask you is ARE YOU MARRIED? If you have not then stop talking from theory and what you read from books.
I'm a relationship coach and a minister. Leave spirituality and head knowledge with out handling our mindset with prayers we can do anything.
Let me tell you as a result of my profession and experience, I have come across ladies who, if their husbands stop beating them they will think they man is having an affair outside, their push the man until the man snaps.
Until you meet a woman who can beat you to death with mouth don't talk. I use to criticize men that beat their wives, not until I got married that I understood that it may not be entirely the man choice but he was pushed to.
A man told me his wife will lock the door whe he is sleeping and hide the keys and nag him to death, the man stays out very late, he drinks as well.
I'm not justifying my actions for beating my wife, that's bad and very wrong of me, and he won't try it again.
Beating your wife once is a mistake Twice is coincidence The third time is now a habit.
Don't generalize that men who beat their wives are fools.
How many people try to find out what the women did that got them beaten.?
Note: Never beat a women it show your weakness and temperamental level. You mean I should believe you over scientific books written and published by professionals. Thanks but I will take a pass. If you are a relationship counsellor, I take it that you know that the second process of an abusive partner is the blame game. They try to convince themselves that others would have done the same thing if they were in their position. They try to play the victim by redirecting the question you just asked. Women who wants their husbands to beat then are not normal. It is either they had abusive fathers or abusive brothers. They are obviously into BDSM. You can't use them as an excuse for your actions. Men who stay in a verbal abusive relationship are as worse as women who stay with physically abusive relationships. Verbal abuse and physical abuse are the same. There is absolutely no difference. I have met men who are just as verbally abusive as some women although I agree that more women are likely to be verbally abusive than men. But men who are physically abusive are also likely to be verbally abusive. Therefore I do not agree with your submission. I totally disagree with it. All in all, what I got from your comment is that you have always thought yourself as someone with control not until you lost it. Instead of you to calm yourself down, warn and advise your wife not to provoke you again, you sought to justify your reaction by reducing the burden on you. You can do that however you have no right to justify other men's actions based on yours especially when we are dealing with a serial abuser. Yout wife was wrong to verbally abuse you or provoke you and you are also wrong to have reacted. Answer my questions and I will answer yours and I will tell you how flawed yours is. Are you aware that there are times your wife have actually felt like killing or hitting you? Have you ever verbally abused your wife? Called her a fool or something else. |
Politics › Re: Fayose Employs 10 Physically-Challenged & Gives Out 35 Wheelchairs (Pics) by akike: 7:53pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
WarRLaY: Do you know his next agenda concerning the physically challenged people, I think you should hush up... I think you should kill yourself |
Politics › Re: Fayose Employs 10 Physically-Challenged & Gives Out 35 Wheelchairs (Pics) by akike: 7:52pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
shaniqueK1: Nigerians are so shallow and it is so annoying! I am sure there are over a thousand physically challenged people in ekiti, fayose has singled out a mere 45 and some low key Nigerians are going crazy. What happens to the rest of the physically challenged? Giving employment to 10 solves no problem and guarantees no sustainability in the long run. What is sustainable would have been passing a disability law that also looks out for the welfare of other disabled people in ekiti side by side with a skill acquisition programme. Fayose is so timid and lacks forsight. Let all low key people descend on me!!! It is allowed! ! The idiots that praised are not fit to live in this world. I can imagine a man with a brain praising Fayose out any Nigerian least for that matter. I weep for Nigeria. We haven't suffered at all |
Crime › Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by akike: 6:59pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
eherbal: You Sound Very Lonely And Depressed. Hope You Get Help Soon Dear . It Seems You Trying To Master A New Vocabulary; "Inferiority Complex" Look who is talking?  You need help  Really |
Crime › Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by akike: 6:24pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
ZUBY77: And you parrots that runs your mouths to provoke men should be sent to Mr. Biggs every evening for meal Men no dey provoke women  So you know I have know more men with bad mouths than women. |
Crime › Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by akike: 6:20pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
kosplateau: intimidate ke...na dem dey carry their nyash and cash dey find men. Men no dey find women ba  You have inferiority complex, face it joor |
Crime › Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by akike: 4:15pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
eherbal: Evening Sir. The Day You Laid Hands On That Woman Was The Day You Gave Her The Excuse To Leave You. You Played Into Her Hands. You Allowed Her To Sell Engine Oil. A Married Woman For That Matter! Who Buys Engine Oil The Most? MEN! Just Like A Liquor Bar. It's Patronized By All Manners Of Men. From The Gentleman ,To The Commercial Vehicle Driver. All Manners Of Men. You Could Have Employed A Sales Boy,Not Girl o, To Run It On Her Behalf. It takes A Nerve Of Steel For A Man, The Jealous Ones Especially, To Allow His Wife Work Talk less Of Trading Or Dubai Purchase Business. Women Are Not To Be Trusted In That Sphere Unless You Can Vouch Your Life For Her. I've Known Female Bosses Cheating On Their husbands With Their "colleagues".Well To Do Women, and The Not So Well To Do. So Therefore Sir,You Committed A Institutional Harikari.If You Don't Trust Your Wife, Work Very Hard To Afford Her The Luxury To Stay At Home  Your inferiority complex is astonishing..of course she is the type of woman a man can ask not to work, a woman that has no independent mind. You wrote like a man who was born in a place other than earth. Are you saying that men do not cheat? Instead of wtting that rubbish epistle, you could havr just written ‘Successful and hardworking women intimidate me' |
Crime › Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by akike: 4:03pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
bisdansun: If you are not married, never bad mouth any man for beating his wife, men who do it don't like it, mark my words men not boys.
I have beaten my wife once and I didn't like the experience, I dislike my self for months, and will never try it ever in life. see your wife knows your button, and she can push it any moment, when a man is pushed beyond his limit expect anything. I am sorry but that it is what all abusers say. Ask any of them and ask psychologist too Don't blame your lack of self control and self discipline on other people. Stop making excuses to appease your self. Asldnit what you did was wrong. There are many ways you could have afforded beating her but you just couldn't walk away. Why on earth would you think that you do not do things that make her wish she should stab you to death?  . I am sure there are times that she would love to beat the devil out of you or shoot you dead but she restrained herself. Learn to do likewise. If you cannot leave with her or if you think she is impossible, there is something g called separation and divorce. You have no reason to resort to violence |
Crime › Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by akike: 3:53pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
oluwaSmith1: yes, but the lady herself fault up. as for the man, he should be sent to prison What has bride price for to do with the issue at her? Is she a product for sale? Does bride price determine a peaceful home? |
Celebrities › Re: Photos From Laide Bakare’s 35th Birthday Party In The US by akike: 10:28am On Oct 12, 2015 |
jaymichael: A bleached person is someone that was black then had to transform. If she bleach, from what color to what? What class has mercy that Laide doesn't have? How do you define class or trash. What are the controversies you hear about her that made you classify her as trashy. I don't like her because her acting is neither her nor there, but she has her own class and in my opinion she is never trashy. She is just a hard working mother and business woman minding her own business and she is like those hungry (advance olosho) actresses. Fair enough but you are mistaken on the definition of bleaching. Skin lightening = bleaching, regardless of whether or not you are dark skinned. How is she different from other actresses. She is married to a polygamous man. Her personal life is her business not mine. However I can make judgment on her public personality. Classy is looking smart, elegant and simple. She is none of the above. Do I even have to explain myself? As a guy I was hoping you would know better. Your taste must be something else. I am sorry but I think we share the same outlook on things. It is futile to keep this conversation going. |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Female Celebrities And Their Expensive Engagement Rings(photos) by akike: 10:06am On Oct 12, 2015 |
Expensive? How are they expensive? How much do they cost? I can't wait for Ubi to start treating Lillian like a fool that she truly is  |
Celebrities › Re: Photos From Laide Bakare’s 35th Birthday Party In The US by akike: 10:02am On Oct 12, 2015 |
jaymichael: Laide is fat, yes. She bleached, I disagree she Has always been fair in complexion. Bleach na black person wey come yellow. Trashy? I totally disagree with you. Trashy is Maheeda, cossy orjiakor and Afrocandy. Is she naturally fair?- yes Is she using bleaching lotions to enhance her complexion? - yes, take a look at her. Have you seen any of her recent movies? Trashy? - yes, it has categories. And she is trashy. Does this picture look classy to you? Can you put her in the same class as Mervy Aigbe? NO
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Celebrities › Re: Photos From Laide Bakare’s 35th Birthday Party In The US by akike: 9:48am On Oct 12, 2015 |
tammie24: you keep saying independent judgement I don't think you know what that means To you it means people should agree with you whether they like it or not I don'y believe that people should agree with me but at least they shouldn't be ruled by sentiments when they do Is she bleaching?- yes Is she fat?- yes Is she trashy?- yes, just take a look at her dressing Does she look classy? - Yes, if and only if you grew up in Omuleru village Is she a good actress? - hmmmm, she is neither here or there. Like I had written earlier, I was just being factual |
Celebrities › Re: Photos From Laide Bakare’s 35th Birthday Party In The US by akike: 9:18am On Oct 12, 2015 |
tammie24: No you didn't strike any nerve my dear You couldn't have done that with your low IQ I had to write an epistle cos you don't seem to get it and I don't think you ever will This the longest I have chatted with someone with IQ as low as yours and doesn't seem like anything has changed It is what it is But it's unfortunate! Coming from a person that can't make an independent judgment, I am gonna pass. |
Celebrities › Re: Gambian President Gifts Nollywood Stars Plots Of Land by akike: 9:15am On Oct 12, 2015 |
MrEverest: Stop making a fool of yourself already! If recieving plots of land from the president of a country due to your talent is not recognition then I bet you dont know what recognition means. Go get a life dude & stop hating on those that are progressing. You are the one that needs to get a life and a brain. |
Celebrities › Re: Gambian President Gifts Nollywood Stars Plots Of Land by akike: 8:52am On Oct 12, 2015 |
menix: So after leaving the bar last nite, he did not come home..
Aki boy, I will quickly rush to the gutter in front nd check if he has done the usual.. Eyah...pele |
Celebrities › Re: Gambian President Gifts Nollywood Stars Plots Of Land by akike: 8:45am On Oct 12, 2015 |
menix: Hahahahahahaha.. Pls do... Send me his email address  |
Celebrities › Re: Gambian President Gifts Nollywood Stars Plots Of Land by akike: 8:40am On Oct 12, 2015 |
menix: Sure I am.. Buh ask my fada if humanity recognizes my family...
He told me about his suicide attempts by swallowing ice block believing he would kick bucket.. Eyah...I could google a few tips for him  You are welcome  |
Celebrities › Re: Photos From Laide Bakare’s 35th Birthday Party In The US by akike: 8:39am On Oct 12, 2015 |
tammie24: How am I a disgrace to Yoruba nation? You even had the guts to include my family What does that have to do with what we are talking about? You said someone was fat, bleached out and so on I don't even watch Yoruba movies so I don't know this person but from looking at her and reading your comment I can tell that you are just being jealous and hateful which you don't need to be unless there's something deeper going on My dear you know nothing about self worth if you do you won't put down a fellow human being the way you do Especially one that doesn't know you or give a fu*k about you! Did I struck a nerve?  You don't watch Yoruba movies yet you have the guts to call me a bastard. You are the bigger bastard here. You insulted my family first when you called me a bastard  If you know anything about self worth you won't call other people flat head or bastard. I have self-worth that is why I will not speak a lie. I am just being factual. She is INDEED fat, bleached out and trashy. |
Celebrities › Re: Gambian President Gifts Nollywood Stars Plots Of Land by akike: 8:28am On Oct 12, 2015 |
menix: Same Humanity wey no recognise ur family Lineage? And you think giving plots of lands is recognition. Like I had written, you are a disgrace to humanity. |
Celebrities › Re: Gambian President Gifts Nollywood Stars Plots Of Land by akike: 8:23am On Oct 12, 2015 |
menix: Nkita ara have b been bitten.. Idiot_ You are a disgrace to humanity. |
Celebrities › Re: Gambian President Gifts Nollywood Stars Plots Of Land by akike: 8:19am On Oct 12, 2015 |
[quote author=menix post=38897204]A prophet is not recognized in his own country - Jesus 1026...
The president knew handing over those plot to "emeka nd co." Would bring development to his country..
Congrats Nollywood, keep making Us proud...[/quote
You should be ashamed of yourself and African leaders. |
Celebrities › Re: Photos From Laide Bakare’s 35th Birthday Party In The US by akike: 8:17am On Oct 12, 2015 |
tammie24: ohhh Now it's making sense to me She snatched your husband Or ur boyfriend masturbates looking at her picture Abeg face ur studies ooo Men are not worth the stress my dear  You need to concerate on your life. If you can't make an independent judgment at your age, there is no helping you. You are a disgrace to a Yoruba nation and your family. I won't go 50m near a man that will place both of us on the same level. I am not like you, I have self-worth and I can think without sentiments. |