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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by OlufemiWhit(m): 10:29pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
tunapius:That's the best option for the family..... depends on the wife's behaviour, if things have been going well when she's earning four times more...It shouldn't be a problem |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Ndukings92(m): 10:32pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
menix:u have already draw conclusion on d man resigning cos d woman earn more and d salary is vital in d family up keep |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by HerJahSir(m): 10:33pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
What if the man resigns and after a while the woman lost her job? Where will the finance come from? Back to square1. They can open a small business and finance it together. The woman should face the business and the man should continue wt his job. Parental care is very important especially at a very tender age. |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by tabisegroup(m): 10:34pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
menix:) They should swap jobs after few months, the wife should resign |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by IGBAACHI: 10:37pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Negodu ihe ina aju? Oya let the man resign now, if he doesnt know simple maths. |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by menix(m): 10:37pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Bluffly: U must b a prayer warrior... Ndukings92: Don't know were u got that observation from.. |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by adedayourt(m): 10:41pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
fake story |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 10:41pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
ojeota:AND YOU THINK YOU JUST MAKE SENSE way more DUMB |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Owliver(m): 10:41pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Precious91:no black monkied woman will be matured in such situation. trust me. see them girls saying he should resign to take care of kids, soon the wife will expect the man to cook, clean, wash plate since she's always busy. i die if i resign |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by jornie(m): 10:42pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by shut(f): 10:43pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
menix: Seriously, are you guys for real This shouldn't be an issue at all let alone be a cause of dilemma or dispute. The guy should sure quit for the time being so long they need the finances but if the man's earnings can foot all the bills independently,the lady can consider quitting. 2 kids isn't much enough to disturb their work,they Can enroll them in a day care and pick them up whenever they close from work. It's no big deal at all,maturity is all they need to make decisions. |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by shut(f): 10:47pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Owliver: |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Owliver(m): 10:48pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
OlufemiWhit:my dear brother in the lord. no woman, i repeat. no woman with black skin will put on a good behaviour in such situation. abi no be this same Nigeria wey be say broke girl go dey call okada man broke azs? . now imagine wen such a girl earns more. loooooool never enter such trap oh. no say i no warn you oo |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by shut(f): 10:48pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Ghost01: 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Owliver(m): 10:51pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
shut:looooool* see as e sweet for ur mouth. if you love me more than money you will quit that job mayb after establishing something good. money ain everything |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Owliver(m): 10:52pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
shut:be like you like laugh. ndo |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by menix(m): 10:57pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
shut: Y do people keep bring up Day care when the 1st issue is about Parental care.. How would u feel ur neigbour is been referred to Mummy by ur kids nd you become Aunty... |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 10:59pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
i don't think it would be such a good idea for the man to resign. it is not easy to have one's ego so utterly destroyed. besides, it is somehow ridiculous to have the man do the work of the woman. the most difficult part won't be the man resigning, but doing what he resigned to do. |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 11:01pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
no1madman: Who be this biko? |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by boxypane(m): 11:03pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Obviously, a bargain needs 2b struck, coz money over home grooming for d kids is foul. I suggest they find a common ground about setting up there own biz to make hay 4d kids. |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 11:04pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
mideactive:Definitely not APC... Except he wants to work and receive his normal pay due to his post |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by sweatlana: 11:06pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Bluffly: You dey crase you hear! What a stu.pid piece of advice The man should put his ego before the well being of his own kids!!! Are the children not his What wrong if he takes care of them? |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by AikayDaWrapper(m): 11:08pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
It's a no brainer really. Ego is not going to feed the family, put clothes on the children and send them to better schools. The man should jejely resign. When his children grow up in a good life and become successful he can proudly look back on the sacrifice he made. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by professore(m): 11:09pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
I think this is a kind of dilemma,but still no nanny for real because that is dangerous,the wife should not resign too,it seems the man earns a little pay,yes let the man be a house husband,when the kids grow up he will get a better job easily,unlike the wife that may not see such an offer again,hopefully the wife will be submissive to her husband. |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Chiscomax(m): 11:12pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by jornie(m): 11:19pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Chiscomax:hurt?..hurt bawo?
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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by jornie(m): 11:24pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
sweatlana:e neva reach like dat na
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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by akike: 11:25pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Owliver: I don't blame you, your comment speaks volume of he type of environment you come from. I know poverty is synonymous with your last name. Your mama na black monkied woman. Your sisters and every female members of your family na black monkied women. Marriage is a goal, it is the roles of the parties invlove to put in their best. Is cleaning, cooking and washing plates so dirty that you cannot do it for your own family? I don't blame you sha. You will marry a woman just like yourself. She will mistaken inferiority complex for submissiveness. It takes a foolish man and an arrogant fool to confidently blame his poor leadership skill on women. I don't blame women who prefer rich men, they have seen it all. Some Nigerian men have inferiority complex. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by akike: 11:27pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Teempakguy: Work of a woman? Where your children are involved? And you have failed to explain what makes a woman work derogatory? |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Macgreat(m): 11:29pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
The man should resign if and only if the woman will agree that 70% of her salary goes to the man's account. Is even an Opportunity for them to start a family business, they can't keep on working for someone... let them be their own boss then they both will have enough time with the kids. #TeamWork #Wisdom #Understanding. |
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 11:30pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
akike:i never said a woman's work is derogatory. and you know it. |
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