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amen.

I appreciate black guys. But what I appreciate is RESPONSIBLE black guys.

Girl, I wonder, did you personally offend all of these people? Because I don't know why they are being so unnecessarily harsh to you. Like I said play that boys II men song. Doing just fine. Great for your situation.

He needs not to be married. I mean this isn't his first incident. Hope his wifey is cheating on his ass too. He prob isn't satisfying her since hes so busy banging other women he just met. Olodo!

Men are just as guilty with that. Imagine, an I love you after having one conversation with them.

Umm, ferdiii, why did u quote me?

Looks as if you got what you deserved so quit your whining.

Bob don't start preaching to me. You have got your nerve. Parading your countless affairs here on NL.

abi ooo

Jade was that necessary?

Hey poster, glad to see you are getting over him. Listen to this song by Boys II Men- Doing just fine. ITs a good song after a break up. You will feel tons better.

Yeah, beats me, I didn't think we were ALL that way. Well what do ya know! LMAO

[quote author=conn-kg link=topic=267821.msg3811336#msg3811336 date=1241252410]In summary:
I think females on this forum have been pro-forgiveness. In all sincerity, I wonder if they'd have advised a woman to be as accepting of a man with a child outside, of whom he had a late knowledge, especially. I draw no similarities though, was just asking my favourite question "How many women would have acquitted Joseph from Potiphar's wife's claims?"

I rather he have a child outside wedlock that he knew nothing of then later come to realize it. Than an aborted child anyday.[/quote]

Bob James you are an ingrate. And i hope your wife gets a clue and leave you. You must think we are stupid. Look at what you posted back in 2007, you said the same thing last time about being born again. And you said it again on this thread. You really are something else. Now, Mr. changed man, you have another thread saying you almost did it again, after you got back from working out at the gym. I really pity your wife. Honestly, I don't believe that you have changed, and you deserve everything you get hence forth. Don't be supprised if things don't turn out well for you.

Are you not this dude that is married? You cant keep your manliness in your pants long enough to get home to wifey?

You said it all.

Its just a forum guys don't take it so seriously. No one needs to insult anyones parents.

Well like Seth said, just give it a chance. You never know. And did you all get a second opinion about her bareness? But if you love her, then love her with no conditions, see if you all cant have a surrogate carry the child for your wife. OR just don't have kids. Do you and her want kids or do you care about what society and your family thinks?

Now I'am starting to wonder if she needs someone like you? I think she will do better finding someone who will not hold this over her head for the rest of her life. Poster please give it up, you are not perfect!

Wafijoe ur halarious.

I know some twins that would like ur number.

Well said Chikito. Poster, what makes you so pure? No one and I do mean NO one is pure or above a mistake. Did she ask God to forgive her for aborting an innocent life? If so, then ask her to forgive herself and you too forgive her.

All of thoes questions you are asking right now. You need to sit down and ask her these questions, you all need to really communicate now. Work it out.

Well it wasn't your child she aborted. Although I understand where you are coming from, you need to have a serious talk with her. Its obvious you are letting this get to you and you don't feel the same way about her as you did before the news. She needs to know that, you cant build a solid relationship on air, you have to come to a compromise.

I don't get it poster, whats the problem?

Outlaws, where do you get your statistics from? You mean to tell me that you have met ALL black -American females? And no one has responded to your posts because it doesn't make any sense. I mean that's like saying ALL Nigerian men are liers, cheaters and a bunch scammers. No, that cant be true. You need to stop generalizing.

Wonder what he saw in her? Beating her inlaws? You all must be weak DEAL WITh HER.