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Go for the one that loves you more and more devoted to you. Like someone stated earlier, dont build a castle on air. That is a very dofficult sitation that you are in, I will just advise you to ask God for the right one, study them both, observe them both then make your decision. Do not be hasty in your decsion just becasue you want to get married. Remember marriage is for life so make sure you choose the right person.
Good luck.

Tell your boyfriend before the story gets twisted and he will say that you came on to him. Nip it in the bud while its early. Just my 2 cents.

Tell your boy friend that he is making passes at you, and that you don't feel comfortable around him which is why you are moving out, not to cause any friction between you all.

No he wouldn't he would condemn her and call her a LovePeddler. Men sef

Wait for what? Kick her out, shes grown.

wtf?

Well she needs to get her act together, at 29 why does she not have her own place? WTF nonsense.

Not that it matters because everyone should help out but how old is she? And why is her father wanting her to be lazy?

Very good article.

Personally, I dont think that it is right but then again, to each his own. Everyones situation is diffrent. But dont think that should be a pre requisite for marriage, just seems odd to me.

Wow girl, sorry. I really don't know what to tell you. Experienced married people, please help her.

This is some dumb shiz, if you want a virgin, stay a virgin yourself.

I say help out the kids because they are innocent. Help them out directly but don't give your uncles a penny. Let them know what it feels like to be abandoned.

Oh yeah and don't sleep with him again until you all resolved your issue.

That happens more often than not. Or you might find that you all cannot live with each other for the rest of you life. But you all still got love for one another. Yeah its possible.

Like I said, seems the issue has gone far beyond the weight. You all might want to try marriage counseling. But why are you trying to get all skinny when you know that's not what he likes? Then expect him to touch you and like you?

Well maybe their problem goes beyond the weight. Maybe her husband just flat out dosen't like her anymore. That all i can think of.

exercise.

To be honest it doesn't look like he gives a rats ass about you. Nor do you care about him. You know what he wants and you steady trying to slim down. don't be supprised that hes finding what you lack.

Well last time i checked marriage was about compromise. You are slimming yourself down, great. But you are no longer attractive to your husband. That's a big problem. He don't like you like that obviously and he is not going to all of the sudden change and like you the way that you are. Since you are both unwilling to compromise on something. Then maybe its best if you both get a divorce. Dont let him send you to an early grave.

No, I don't think he will come to his senses. He likes what he likes. Either she leaves and keeps her health or she gains it back, where is the OP anyways?

Exactly.

Yo, na2day, you always causing wahala everywhere!

Thats bad, but do me i do you. I don't know why all the ladies are taking the gals side and calling the man an asshole. Shit the both publicly humiliated each other. So I guess they both deserve one another.

Hppay bday sistawoman, enjoy your day, Friday

It might be true. Some men just like big women period. But for real though this is your husband, he should be happy about you feeling better about yourself not giving you an ultimatum.

What a looser, why cant he be happy when his wife is happier about herself?