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lol.

This thread aint closed yet?

How do you know its not going to court? If the guy does anything stupid, she needs to have a back up plan. Honestly, thats her child the flippin idiot didnt even want the kid in the begin with.

i wish the original poster would come back.

Thank you SKILLSKILL.

what a thread.

Thank you radiant, I said that before, but he wants to keep on defending this dude.

By the way, where is the OP?? We need updates.

wait a minute jackal, how do you know that hes more fincially stable then the mother? I honestly do not think she should welcome his dumb ass back with open arms. He fkucd up!! He should have to work hard to gain trust back, as far as im concerend, the baby done well without him and will continue to do well without him in her life. I honestly think that this mans mother should have aborted his sawry ass.

This matter is between man and wife, stay out of it, you might get your feelings hurt.

I didn't say that the guy said, "i apologise." No, what i said was, when he came back for the child telling her about some dumb title was no apology, as jackal was saying. But anyways, If he is really sorry, then yes he can have another chance, but it has to be up to her to decide, as other posters mentioned, she needs her family and the courts to back her up in case this man does anything stupid.

exactly lady T

Jackal there is something you are not getting
HE DIDNT APPOLIGISE!
He said I want my child back because of a title. WHAT AN ARROGANT USELESS PIG. So, if his wife could have kids, he wouldn't even be back there, looking for his kid! Stop making excuses for idiots.

so jackal all of his possible efforts to see his child was to threaten her to police. and what kind of MAN tells his baby's mother that he wants the child only for some damn title? He aught to be ashamed of himself, that useless idiot. And the fact that he wasn't fianacially stable, which is what you keep bringing up is no excuse to abandon his baby's mother and child. That is completely irritatingly irresponsible.

Exactly, karma is a bitch

Dump his sawry ass, hes not worth your time, love or trouble.

yes, please tell us all the details, i know that you do not want us to view your wife as being a wicked monster, b./c with your unfinished post, that is what you are portraying her as.

agreed. People and this love thing, they really use it out of context. hes in lust with the girl and because of that, he cheated on his wife. Wow, he let some girl from his past come into his life and break down what he built with his wife. Some men.

I dont think that it was enjoying, think about this, this woman was locked in a cellar for 24 years, megar food and water, i doubt she had the energy to fight off this man. Seriously, this is sick, i have never heard such a thing. may God save our souls.

I still just want to know why you are now unhappy? whats up?

Thats right, he should use his mouth to communicate, not his hands. I would never marry a man that hits me.

Well, glad you saw the signs before she broke it off, now get up dust yourself off and move on.

Tell her she needs to chill, you just got the job, she cant be eating the money up faster than you can make it. Damn, and the above poster had a really valid Q, what was your girl doing before you got a job for school fees and spending money?

maybe you cant cook

Well, it dosent take rocket science to know that that man is not being honest or straight forward, his so called niece has a lot of balls, if that were me, she would be missing some teeth. This man isn't serious, i see that you broke up with him I'm glad you did, you deserve much better than his sorry excuse for a man.