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im guilty

yeah, even if she has done it before marriage, doesn't mean she cannot make the choice not to until she marries. Maybe she wants to do what she feels is the right thing, don't hold that against her.

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a big mouth, yet funny, and a know it all

funny topic

its not necessary, if he does cool, if not, cool too.

oh yes

nope

definately not, why should I?

lol cadet

what?

huh?

seconded

i know i pasted a comment, where is it?

No, it's not about her loving herself or her kids more, shes confused because she wants the kids to grow up in a proper family unit, which is okay, but, should she give up someone she loves and someone that loves her, just for an unstable relationship with the baby's father? what if he becomes harsh again after all of that apologising? She will loose on both ends. So you are right, she should weigh the pros and the cons of her staying or going, but don't simply go because he came out the woodwork after she got herself settled. The kids will be fine, she needs to in fact, make herself happy. Again, the decision is hers to make, just hope she can live with it.

i see no problem with it, its called keeping your options open, however, she must not sleep with them all, thats not right.

Well, hes a man, let him grow a back bone, whatever choice he makes he has to know that he can deal with it, because at the end of the day, he will have to live with whatever decision he makes, not his mom. He will have to live with this girl, not his mom. So, he needs to let her see that this is his life and he can be with whom he chooses to be with.

Dont leave her, give her a chance to explain herself, long distance relationships can be challenging, which is why people really need to know what they want before getting into them. She is probably fed up with the relationship and dosent know how to tell you. But dont let her play you for a fool, shes 19, i doubt shes ready for anything serious. Just give her time, stop sending her money, but be there for her and dont call everyday, that can get really annoying.

i concur with the poster above, pre-marital counseling should help wonders.

lol, poor guy

@ swticher, well hope your wifey/lady can enjoy as many dicks as she wants too right? Cant expect her to just be with you.

Also, no one is ever truly satisfied, men or women.

i think so, he cant be serious

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