₦airaland Forum

LadyMercedes:

Lol. If, at this stage, you don't know how to start a simple conversation, then I'm sorry for you o. I can't help you.

simple question you couldn't answer, just to give an example of how to start a convo...

mira24:
Is it wrong for a girl to want a better life for herself,,?a guy who is a pastor comes to me telling me DAT God says am his wife DAT if I don't marry him, i might not find a lovly guy to be married to,an diz guy is very far from wat i HV in mind as my husband,,,was my decision wrong saying no to him? Will I be punished as he claimed God revealed!!!!amjust a 24 yes ND graduate from an average home, I just wanted something better for myself n my unborn kids,hope I didn't leave my husband cause of d idea of a kind of husband I want to marry,,,,I just need an advice from u nairalanders...

you can always pray too for confirmation...if truly the revelation was from God the guy would have asked you to also pray and confirm from God.

LastMumu:
Messi cannot perform without the help of Iniesta and Xavi

Without Iniesta Messi is nothing. No wonder he is underperforming both on the bed and for Argentina.



Lastmumu

this dude is crazy.... lol

Trunaijian:
There is no excuse for such.

So in fear of spoiling the family's name he committed suicide?

Well, he just damaged the family name by commiting suicide. He is a coward leaving his wife and kids to bear the brunt . he is a weakling!

so easy for you to judge him, though not the best option then again you are not him, am sure you don't know half of what he went through...it's quite unfortunate to his family

evegran:
Op I'm trying to understand the point of this topic... You're pained because some girls get a lot of toasters?

I wonder why most poor guys in Nigeria carry sex and relationship on their forehead, when you should be busy making money for yourself and your family. It is disgusting!

How can you have so much time to blab about relationships or female issues? Can't you even pretend to care about things that should bother you more? Like the economy? Business opportunities? How to reduce loss and make profits?

Yet you'd expect beautiful, sensible girls to take a guy like you serious? Not happening!

what are you saying... last time I checked this is Romance section so this should be the actual place for this thread...if you were worried about the economy or business, you wouldn't appear here..shift jawe

la click la check

MzPecs:
A virgin lady should not have being kissed, touched by a guy talk more having sexual pre-intimacy with a guy.

so you have not been touched by a guy right?

snakie86:
Dont want to make this a tribal issue. They are both from the same state and the same town

I love this response.

akintho4real@gmail.com

sweerychick:
Okay, this is my first appearance as a nairalander, I normally visit this site as a guest, but due to my pressing issue I had to do a quick registration to seek advice from mature minds only.
I've been in a relationship with this guy whom is my first love, for close to 4yrs now, I met him in university when I was a fresher, and he was in his finals then, he's tall (6ft, 3), chocolate skinned, and really good looking. Not that I was attracted to him because of his physical appearance, but he has a heart of gold, very caring, understanding and always there for me when I needed him. He was the one that deflowered me. Anyways soon after his Nysc in Oyo state 2013, by then I was in my 2nd year, he told me that he would love to marry me, that I am all that he desires, with all his sweet words, I accepted but on the condition that he allow me finish school, and do my NYSC, he agreed. Things were really moving on fine for us both until 2014 when he got a job with zenith bank, I noticed a lot had changed in him, he doesn't call me as he used to and he hardly pick up my own calls. Sometimes when I request for us to see he'll give me a thousand and one excuses for us not to see, sometimes his phones would be switched off for days, and when I finally get to reach him, he'll tell me that he's busy that I should call him later. When I call him later he will make our conversation so brief, not up to a min, sometimes 30 seconds. One day I was able to confront him at his place, and asked him why he's treating me this way he apologised to me and told me that I know that his work is very demanding, bank stress and all that coupled with his family ( he's the first child and his father is late) he's taking care of his mum and siblings. I accepted all that excuses, then later that day he told me that I should go back to school that he's expecting one of his cousin, I asked him which of his cousins he said that it's not my business, that I should just go, I insisted to stay because I'm in my boyfriends house and your cousin will understand, instead he got angry and for the first time he slapped and assaulted me, I cried and left the house, his friend saw me later that night and I explained everything to him, he said okay he'll talk to my boyfriend. My boyfriend in question didn't call me untill after 4days, he sent me a text message, telling me sorry, then afterwards he called me. I refused picking up his calls, then he sent his friend to mediate on his behalf. When I finally saw him (my boyfriend) he told me that he's so sorry about what he did, and promised for it not to happen again. I chose to forgive him under the condition that he will try and change, which he
hasn't, he still does the same thing to me till now, even worse. I'm tired of his nonsense, and I really want to move on, but one mind is telling me to stay. I really love this guy and I don't know how my world would be if I loose ... Please advice me on what to do.. I don't think I can love any other person the way I love him.

Matured advice please

the signs are boldly written, your heart refuses to accept it,....your first love doesn't mean your last love, for him to hit you cause his cousin was visiting or whatsoever the reason means alot...give thought about him less or no attention, just try to hold yourself and strong
this is time to put more energy on your studies that's when u will realise how strong you are

marvelck:
Like I said in one of my posts, there is no girl without a boyfriend. Even a Junior secondary school girl has a boyfriend. Every girl seem to be taken. Every girl you meet is in a relationship (which is a fact). So, what do you do when a girl you like is already in a relationship? Do you wait, wish and hope for her to break up with her boyfriend so that you can take over. Or create problems for her in her relationship, so that you can snatch her from her boyfriend? Which is what is happening these days. Since every girl seem to be taken, guys are simply snatching other people's girlfriends.

single ladies plenty for nairaland, find and hook up with them...lobatan

HateU2:
But where are they All dead Not yet born Or what

they are around you.....you need to look beyond the physical to see them.

Bluezy13:
Hahahaha....





The dad is unlearned, the brother is immature nd stupid, the girl is still a kid and the poor boy is a weakling. A funny scenerio

Unlearned for even thinking of beating up her child's boyfriend. Immature and stupid for going with the father. Still a kid for dating a guy dat beats her up nd reporting 2 d dad and brother instead of to end the relationship. weakling for beating a woman but unable to even try retaliating while being beaten up.

you would have beaten the man abi?...this kind person sef

oh boi...this is a very serious issue

Enahi:
40billions ko 40billions ni, please always do your research well before typing trash.

the guy u quoted proved a point, prove yours and stop attacking his facts.

Enahi:
40billions ko 40billions ni, please always do your research well before typing trash.

the guy u quoted proved a point, prove yours and stop attacking his fact.

please forward to akintho4real@yahoo.com

MadCow1:
These is no such thing as a good reason to attend any Private University in Nigeria..



Madonna University = Shiit..

Covenant University = Shiit..

UNIBEN = Shiit..

e.t.c.




If you did not attend UNILAG, OAU, UNN or ABU then I'm sorry you are not qualified to be called a Graduate.

think properly or maybe your moniker is affecting you in a way.

[quote author=Topmaike007 post=45077288]Going to school nowadays are not to get certificate but to defend what you carry. ..in this thread I shall be disscusing some major point not to go to private institutions such as poly or uni.

1) there fee are high that it takes the rich alone to be there or maybe your parents are also having some helpers such younger brothers,sisters,uncle,or any relatives..Compared to federal or state institutions some federal institutions are paying #20,000 as school fee and I trust my self if I keep up with my importation biz I can pay my school fee even without letting my Parent to know.

2)promoting them whether do test or fail a single paper no carry over nothing because they can't pay a very huge amount of money and still fail them is rubbish come and do such in OAU if you're not serious you will go back home

3)not able to defend their result, you cannot expect school that has no competition to know book because when you are busy reading hard in public institutions to maintain your slut in the department you vouch For chai if they bring their overall best from private Institution them no fit defeat you because you spending most of your time reading all ways and not to be rusticated from school private cannot match US... My guys in Angola and awo hostel can testify to it..

4)if you are going to private just know in your heart that your issue of getting employed is base on I sabi person or I go work for papa company because I have seen a situation that a girl has a certificate from one private poly in southwest I will not mention name of the school this girl was dismiss when she can't write a good application letter,i was dissapointed in me because if people are talking about school she will also be talking..and also public certificate are well recognized than private. .it is very hard for private ond student to do direct entry to public institutions even hnd in public institutions is very hard for private to be admitted.

5)they don't do post utme they buy space in the school admission and become there student, by so doing I believe they are dull if you are not dull why not go and compete with your mate In federal poly or uni because the idea of people saying that they was denied admission that was the main reason they went to private but if you know the formula you will not be denied admission and the formula is this you scored 185 in utme and you chose unn or some other mighty schools in Nigeria and still put medicine and surgery as course oga no waste your time and money na come back next year be that but if you change your institution and course plus hardwork in reading it will Surely


who is this?...You sha won create thread.

slyIsaac:
I do well to leave a "Fvck you" ... I hate shakara!!


.... The poster above me tho!! Must men do errything 4 you.. ??

. exactly

Hadez:
april fool So you want to see my sexy body

. you try for your pix.

Hadez:
april fool So you want to see my sexy body

. you try for your pix

what you are doing now is what he wants... want you to feel guilty.

this kind weather sef go make you waka without clothes sometimes

of cause whether Yoruba or not

4+3*2=10