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 Family › Re: Before You Tear Your Marriage Certificate. by Aladeintl(op): 1:54pm On Apr 26 |
Starships4u:Marriage certificates from the Federal Ministry of Interior are the same all over the land 1 Like |
| Family › Before You Tear Your Marriage Certificate. by Aladeintl(op): 1:04pm On Apr 26 |
See previous topic https://www.nairaland.com/8660227/nigerian-couple-tear-marriage-certificate#139206262 I believe you have seen the video of the couple in the attached pic tearing a purported marriage certificate. For a fact, what they're tearing in that video is not a government-issued marriage certificate. An original marriage is rectangular with black or green ink and the seal of the Federal Republic of Nigeria on top. The one they are tearing was probably gotten from their village. Two, anything carrying the seal and coat of arms of the Federal Republic of Nigeria doesn't belong to you, you are only the custodian of it. Example, Passport, Currency, Govt-issued certs, I.D cards, etc. So you can't destroy them. Destroying them is playing with fines or jail. I repeat, any thing with coat of arms on it from the govt belong exclusively to the Federal Govt. Methinks me, learned this was done to signify they will never divorce. Ignorance of the best version. Marriage transcends that paper and it is done at home with two people who are ready and willing to work for its success. Tearing a piece of paper will not prevent shi if you don't put effort into it working. Lasty, apart from the use of marriage certificate to prove marriage, what are the other uses of the certificate? 30 Likes
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| Events › Re: Nigerian Couple Tear Marriage Certificate At Their Wedding (Video) by Aladeintl: 1:00pm On Apr 26 |
What they're tearing in that video is not a government-issued marriage certificate. An original marriage is rectangular with black or green ink and the seal of the Federal Republic of Nigeria on top. The one they are tearing was probably gotten from their village. Two, anything carrying the seal and coat of arms of the Federal Republic of Nigeria doesn't belong to you, you are only the custodian of it. Example, Passport, Currency, Govt-issued certs, I.D cards, etc. So you can't destroy them. Destroying them is playing with fines or jail. I repeat, any thing with coat of arms on it from the govt belong exclusively to the Federal Govt. Methinks me, learned this was done to signify they will never divorce. Ignorance of the best version. Marriage transcends that paper and it is done at home with two people who are ready and willing to work for its success. Tearing a piece of paper will not prevent shi if you don't put effort into it working. Lasty, apart from the use of marriage certificate to prove marriage, what are the other uses of the certificate? |
| Education › If You Teach Primary/basic 4 This Is For You by Aladeintl(op): 11:44pm On Feb 21 |
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| Education › For All Public Schools Teachers - A Must Read by Aladeintl(op): 10:24pm On Feb 01 |
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| Education › Lesson Note At Your Fonget by Aladeintl(op): 11:00pm On Jan 16 |
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| Christianity Etc › Let's Pray by Aladeintl(op): 6:55pm On Jan 09 |
Let us pray with Psalm 4:8 Written by Alade Joel in YouTube Videos Psalm 4:8 | Psalm of the Day Today’s Psalm is a gentle reminder that true peace and safety come from the Lord alone. In a world full of noise and uncertainty, God invites us to lie down and rest in Him. May this verse bring calm to your heart and peace to your home today. 🙏 So, let’s pray here [url] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LyMsCVfJYBw?si=a1KiqTYfU-TIeWGy [/url] Join us on our 100 Psalms in a Year journey. 💬 Feel free to share what this Psalm means to you. |
| Family › How The New Tax Law Affect Your Family by Aladeintl(op): 7:01am On Jan 04 |
On paper, the new tax act is good; it exempts a lot of Nigerians, and it is progressive in nature, but do you know why many are sceptical of its implementation? One is misinformation engineered by a minority of people who have one grouse or another to grind with the government of the day, and a lack of trust. I will focus on the latter. Successive Nigerian Governments have not been known to be good custodians of our commonwealth. They have stolen. They have killed and they have destroyed. An average Nigerian has zero trust in his government because he has been let down repeatedly over and over again. He has been told to endure while his government and their cronies waste resources all around. Why should he now trust this one when he, the government, has not shown any iota of change from what his predecessors are known for? He is like that serial cheating husband who suddenly develops a plan of romantic activities for his wife when he hasn't shown a clear way of repenting. Dear, don't ever come to a point in your marriage where your partner can't trust you again. A point where you are just in the union just for being in it's sake. A point where every step of yours is misconstrued as an avenue to more abuses and irresponsibility. And trust me, this point of total mistrust is not from one-off mistakes, it is arrived at from repeated mistakes. Don't ever let trust go out of your marriage for it is the currency of the union. Thanks for reading. God bless Nigeria. God bless our marriage in Jesus |
| Education › Re: What My Friend Did To Me because Of Ordinary Teaching Job. by Aladeintl: 3:56pm On Sep 03, 2025 |
Yes, AI can teach physics but AI is a teaching assistant. If you don't have basic knowledge of the subject matter, AI will teach rubbish because you will prompt nonsense. Two, did the school in question have the facilities for AI-assisted learning? 3nity7: 1 Like |
| Family › For Your Own Benefits. by Aladeintl(op): 2:14am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Last year, I ran a challenge on my blog www.joelalade.home.blog titled #ReviveYourRelationship for 30 days. I will do the video version here. Out of that 30 days, I dedicated a particular week to food cos family that cook together look together namely Jollof rice, kunnu, zobo, etc and that post till date is the most liked and viewed on my website. I am still looking for a way to force her to write 50 food recipes and preparation methods before she resumes from her maternity leave for a blog I want to create for her. Guy, giving your wife, wife berth for self expression is actually for your own utmost benefits. Giving her allowance to peacefully, 'encourageously' and joyfully worship her Lord will pay in the long run for a long time. Encouraging her to make her own money can prolong your life. I say again, your wife's growth is for your own benefits directly or indirectly thru your children. Forget about if she will turncoat tomorrow. You don't know and the fact is that she may not. Even if she turns, how does that remove from you? |
| Romance › How To Make Him Misses You. by Aladeintl(op): 2:03am On Aug 13, 2023 |
| Family › Re: Re: Why I 'banned' My Wife From Early Morning Prayer. by Aladeintl(op): 5:16am On Aug 02, 2023 |
Foodqueen:Yes. Wait for part 3 of the post. You can also visit www.joelalade.home.blog for more |
| Family › Re: Re: Why I 'banned' My Wife From Early Morning Prayer. by Aladeintl(op): 7:22pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Dey play, just dey play |
| Family › Re: Why I 'banned' My Wife From Early Morning Radio Prayer. by Aladeintl(op): 7:18pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
Harrisee:We are not talking about boyfriend and girlfriend here. Number one reason being you are not responsible for her spiritual protection but a husband is to his wife. I never say he and the man from Ibadan was fake. |
| Family › Re: Why I 'banned' My Wife From Early Morning Radio Prayer. by Aladeintl(op): 7:16pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
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| Family › Re: Why I 'banned' My Wife From Early Morning Radio Prayer. by Aladeintl(op): 7:15pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
abobote:Did you read the part of I have no qualm with Pastor Jerry Eze |
| Family › Re: Why I 'banned' My Wife From Early Morning Radio Prayer. by Aladeintl(op): 7:13pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
| Family › Re: Why I 'banned' My Wife From Early Morning Prayer. by Aladeintl(op): 7:08pm On Jul 31, 2023 |
Yesterday, I wrote the first part of this story and some people tackled me courageously for using the word banned. Here is the link to the first part https://www.nairaland.com/7784556/why-banned-wife-early-morning Though I used the word banned deliberately it is not that deep. I could remember when I told my wife about my dissatisfion about the said MoG, we were in the kitchen that morning and I don't think we discussed the issue more than 2 times. What is my drift? A man's headship is not absoluteness. That a man is a head doesn't make him an absolute leader who dishes out commands at his whims and caprice (though in some cases, you have to stand your ground especially when it has to do with spiritual issues). A man as a priest of the house doesn't mean he got to the one leading all the morning devotions and that he is most spiritual but despite that, even if he is not spiritual up to his wife, he should coordinate it. My wife can pray longer hours than I do conveniently. Three, correct headship means delegation, e.g., mummy you take prayer, Kyle-XY, you read Bible for us while Gwen sings for us, etc and rotate it among yourself like that. Fourthly, a correct headship allows others in the family to be what God created them to be and each has a personal relationship with their God. Your headship should not tamper with your wife's relationship with God in prayer, fellowship, and the word nor should the little kids suffer spiritually because their dad is not forthcoming. Number five, headship is not lordship. We are not the Lord and Messiah of our house. You didn't die for anyone. Therefore, stop behaving like Jesus because you are not. Lastly, a marital headship is a headship under Christ. Any head not subject to Christ will malfunction and misbehave. Therefore, submit yourself to the Lord. Orí gbogbo wa o ni daaru oooooooo loruko Jesu. www.joelalade.home.blog. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Why I 'banned' My Wife From Early Morning Radio Prayer. by Aladeintl(op): 1:25am On Jul 31, 2023 |
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| Family › Why I 'banned' My Wife From Early Morning Radio Prayer. by Aladeintl(op): 1:08am On Jul 31, 2023 |
There was this popular MoG from Ibadan who do early morning prayer on Ajilete FM that I adamantly forbid my wife from listening to. I told her, 'I am not saying you shouldn't listen to him but not under my own roof.' I didn't banned her because the man was fake. I didn't think the MoG is fake, but I find some of his modus operandi unbiblical. Likewise, some songs like Daddy wey dey pamper is not fit my own family. While I am around, she mustn't. I will soon delete that song from her phone sef. Read tales of a Nursing Dad here www.joelalade.home.blog I once collected her purse and gave her only transport fare when she was going for a crusade organized by one prophet olororo. What is my drift? I have no qualm with Pastor Jerry Eze and his YouTube early morning prayer ministry but it is a disgrace and dishonour to you, the man of the house, if your woman can wake up to listen to other man before you. It's a disgrace to my fatherhood if my kids are doing morning devotion via internet led by another man and wife and kids aren't to be blamed. Therefore, we men, should truly man up and be the leader God made us. The likes of Pastor Jerry Eze and co come into equation because many men are not spiritual leader. He is filling the gaps created by spiritually-absent fathers. Your wife jumping from one prayer mountain to another is because you haven't ascertain your spiritual headship in the head. And for those joining Pastor Jerry from their boyfriend's room, just dey play ooo, dey play ooo. May God helps us to discharge our duties accordingly. Ire oooooooo 335 Likes 23 Shares |
| Family › Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Aladeintl: 12:52am On Jul 28, 2023 |
I don't think there are any implications for your children to bear your name as surname. You are their father and they bearing your name doesn't mean they are not pay of your family. Two, changing of name is not changing of characters, you share 50% of your father's DNA and your children will have 25% of his DNA. How are gonna change that? Therefore, change of name is not the solution to change of characters. First, pray and live intentionally. Your kids bearing your name doesn't mean you won't behave like your dad and they not bearing your father's name doesn't mean they won't behave like you. Blood is thicker than water. |
| Romance › Help! I Am A Virgin. by Aladeintl(op): 1:16am On Jul 13, 2023 |
Shaming a virgin for being vocal about her sexual status is bottom barrel. Everyday you are on the TL telling us about how wet you are or how your next sexcapade will be. If you can wear your badge of promiscuity with pride, what stops the virgin from wearing hers? Or is it a case of your conscience judging you? If a person decides to preach purity let them be. |
| Romance › While Do Christian Sisters Delay Marital Proposal? by Aladeintl(op): 4:25pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
There are many pathetic stories out there of how sisters used up to 6 months to answer proposal from brother (some even take up to one year) but why will you take an eternity to answer I want to marry you? Here are some reasons: 1. Most sisters still believe that the longer and harder the answer, the more valuable he is to a man. So even when they know that a particular bro is the one, they still want to play hard to get. Mtcheww. Lie. A brother values you based on two things; a. The value you placed on yourself. You can't enter a relationship yesterday and your gas is finished, your house is rent due, grandma swallowed cutlass, your data is finished, no food today, and expect any reasonable guy to take you seriously. Ko possible. b. His values about women and womanhood. If he has a warped mentality about women, there is nothing you can do to change it. 2. Some are waiting for another brother. They are single but they are expecting bro Moses to propose but it was brother Jude that ask them out. While they keep Brother Jude in limbo with, 'I am still praying about it,' meanwhile they are giving out red, green, and white, tomato red lights to Brother Moses. Meanwhile Brother Moses is never interested. So when they see that after 7 months of no-shows from Brother Moses, they now said yes to Brother Jude. Bro Jude was an option and peradventure after two years of dating Brother Jude and Brother Moses had broken up with sister Jane, and he came proposing, most of them will dump innocent bro Jude with the usual narrative of 'not all relationships will end in marriage.' Las las bro Moses si ma je oju won. 3. Some are just wicked: these set of sisters have well-defined relationships but instead of them to tell Brother Zach that they are engaged they will neither say yes nor no especially if Brother Zach is monetarily loaded and is a giver. They will just be leading Brother Zach on like a sheep to its slaughter. Worst still, he will not let brother Zach look into the direction of other godly sisters in the church. Na their kind dey vex if you no call dem daily whereas you are not their boyfriends oooooooo. An innocent bro will even wash their pants if he is so much in love with them. To such wicked sisters, God will judge you. 4. The Confused set : seriously these sets of sisters are confused. Some of them have too many proposals on their tables and in some cases, 99% of the proposals are from real brothers with verifiable Christian experiences . So they are genuinely confused. Korean films don make most of our sisters to start building castles in the air. You wan compare Poo Gyan Moo who grew up with constant electricity, running water, good education to Bro Emeka wey be that the last time wey he see light be like last December before their transformer blow. Dey play ooo just get play ooo. Some of these sisters are out of reality. Know this, no purposeful man in this era will run after you for six months this day so stop delaying unnecessarily. Sister, Enoch Adeboye with Davido vibe no dey for this kingdom. Some of these confused sisters need 6 months to pray. If not confusion, why will you need six months to receive answer from your heavenly Father. For this set, counseling and discipleship will do. 5. Long and devasting breakfast: this group doesn't don't want to repeat the mistake of the past so they hold on longer than necessary to be double sure this time around. Well, we can't blame them save to pray for them for divine healing for their heart. 6. Lastly, some brothers too, are mumu. They no dey hear words. Sister Jane has repeatedly told you no but you are still disturbing her. Bro, fear God If she said no, respect her no, and if she wasn't forthcoming with any answer after two months, take her silence as no. If not, you are about to be used. May you not jam time wasters in Jesus name. Ire oooooooo #dadkylexy #christiancourtship #christiancourtshipanddatingadvices Thanks |
| Romance › Why Does Those Telling You Not To Involve A Third Party In Your Marriage Is evil by Aladeintl(op): 2:36am On Apr 20, 2023 |
THOUGHTS OF A GENTLEMAN. MENU APR 19, 2023 One of the sacrosanct pieces of advice you will hear from people when you are preparing for marriage is, ‘do not involve a third party in your marital affair.’ in a bid to protect your home. Thank God Rev. Adewole didn’t give me such advice and I am not buying into that advice because we have family mentors who guide us on things that have to do with marriage. The number one reason, although marriage is a personal and private affair but it is not a secret society where secrecy is the order of the day. Dear reader, there is nothing you are doing in courtship and marriage that nobody shouldn’t hear. By hearing, I didn’t mean social media broadcasting of everything happening inside your home or washing your clean and dirty linen in front of every Tom, Dick, and Harry. I mean your spouse and you have a senior accountability partner you reported to. Furthermore, the reason why most nuptials pack up as a result of trivial issues is that most of such crises are beyond repair before they reach the marriage counselor’s office. If they have godly oversight over their home, such oversight could have guided them in handling crises. Two, you haven’t married before. You probably haven’t given birth before. You haven’t lived up close with a pregnant woman before. You don’t probably know how to satisfy your partner sexually and we have godly couples who have successfully scaled all these stages and seasons of marriage. Why not make use of their lessons and mistakes? Why the trial and error approach? If not for the guidance of our mentors, my family may have given way. If not for the teaching of a third party we reported to, I would have hated my wife during the first trimester. Thirdly, why live a life of irresponsibility? In conclusion, a third party should not be an immature believer, young couple, or unmarried individual but rather a godly, mature, and old couple with verifiable evidence of a Christian family. May God gives us a happy home in Jesus’ name. https://joelalade.home.blog/2023/04/19/third-party-involvement/ |
| Family › Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Aladeintl: 1:36am On Feb 01, 2023 |
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| Family › Make Him/her Regret Leaving You. by Aladeintl(op): 4:44pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
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| Family › Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Like Violent Boyfriends? by Aladeintl(op): 3:21pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Rechargeam247:Many cool calm guy are ambitious but average Nigerian ladies just want someone who is crazy. If not totally crazed but at least crazy. If you don't bring drama, you are no for them. |
| Family › Why Do Nigerian Ladies Like Violent Boyfriends? by Aladeintl(op): 2:41pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Now, Give about 100 Nigerian ladies, an option to choose between a cool calm guy and a rash playboy, 80% will probably choose the latter with the belief that relationship with the former will be boring. Why? It will not involve beating, gbas gbos cheating, quarrels or fightings. See, something must be faulty about your parentage, mentality and brain if you believed that vawulence (even if it a touch of it), beatings, cheating and premarital sex are hallmarks of relationship. Pathetically, some Christian ladies too believe such rubbish. Dear, you need MFM standard deliverance, if you believe that a relationship without all those vices will be boring. Because with all the katakata going on in this country, why will a reasonable person add relationship problems to it? Why will a reasonable person think there is progress and joy in calamities? Why will someone with a functioning brain think true love/relationship is fight today, quarrel tomorrow, suspect one another the day after and fake love is tranquility and peace of mind? In fact the manifestation of those vice should be testimonial enough that so called fake true relationship is abusive and ungodly. Lakotan ara, K'Olorun le wa pelu èmí re, jeki ori re kope. True love/relationship is not done in chaos. |
| Family › How To Create A Good Marriage For Your Children by Aladeintl(op): 5:23pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
Thank God it's a good resemblance. I remembered my dad waking up early with his old stereo radio as early as 5 am. I swear that I will never do so when I am out of his roof. Well, I'm out of his roof but guess, Boomplay said no, I resembled him (see pic 1) ��� and not just on time just preferred genre (pic 2) �� We thank God it was a good thing. Now, I will divide the lessons in this short story into two; To the singles: know this and know peace, you can't divorce your future partner from his/her family background. He/she is coming from nowhere. That person that makes your heart beats gbim gbim is coming from a family, a principle, a belief, a culture, and a system. The famed Emeka Nobis is talking about never using abusive and body-shaming words, e.g., big head, fish leg, etc though jokingly in his house. I bet his kids will grow up banning such words in their vicinity. url]www.joelalade.home.blog[/url] Therefore, ask, research, check and pray if she/he is properly loved from where LOML is coming from. Ask, research, and check if the system, the principle, family, and culture the man is coming from, allow his wife to be another Ngozi Ikonjo oweala. Research if the system, the principle, the family, and the culture she is coming from allows a man to be God's creation or beast of burden. And perhaps, you notice a trendy, principle or belief you noticed in your family, and seek both spiritual and therapeutic solutions. While I was waking up to play music, I don't ever remember my dad but unconsciously I was inching towards how he too behaves. Now, to the parents; please, by all means, create a godly family, a godly principle, godly belief, and a godly culture in your home. A family and a system that your future son/daughter-in-law can thrive, develop and grow in, effortlessly, and called you blessed. Lastly, what resemblance/traits did you notice you got unconsciously from your parents? For more visit www.joelalade.home.blog
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| Christianity Etc › Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by Aladeintl: 2:06am On Dec 19, 2022 |
ebubeson:No sex before marriage means no sex with anybody before marriage. It also means no pre-intimacy before marriage with anybody. When you marry, you can now do anything you want. |
| Politics › Re: Why Is Kwankwaso Not Holding Rallies? by Aladeintl: 3:34am On Dec 17, 2022 |
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| Education › 2022/2023 Second Term Agricultural Science Examination Questions. by Aladeintl(op): 12:14am On Dec 17, 2022 |
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