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like other nairalanders have told you, take your mind of her and if you really want to get even with her, make a lot of money (legally ooo!). nothing succeeds like success

if i loved the person in question i would reply "i love you too" its easy. i dont have feelings for the person then thats another kettle of fish altogether.

U 've to ask urself, Can u cope with a polygamous familly?

i guess thats where you have to start from. its a tough decision though. i would ask most people to walk away but sometimes things still work. just dont know how to tell from the start, those that will work and those that will not.

its very very possible but the chemistry has got to be right

because we pay your bride price and you answer our name plus live in our house which you quickly turn to your own house by saying things like, "my kitchen", "my sitting room" and all that

bros congratulations but i trully doubt that its possible to fall in love with two women at the same time. something is not right here,

well the stuff is a bit long so i tot it would be better for you to download it and read it offline and at your spare time but since mrblackjay insists i will copy and paste some of the stuff here but its better when you download and read it all that way you get things in the proper context. here goes:

Dating Rule 1
AVOID STARING AT MEN.

Staring at a man sends only one message to him, 'You're interested' and this isn't allowed. You must not let a man know you're interested in him or he'll expect you to say yes to him the minute he mentions the word 'date' or 'sex'. You don't stare at a man indicating interest and then say no when he asks you out for a date, he'll think you're a big joke.
On the other hand, if you say yes, he'll expect you to be eager to do whatever he suggests (including having sex on the first date) and will generally not reckon with you.
Then again, how will you ever know if your personality, beauty and charm swept him off his feet or if he only spoke to you because he felt pity for you. Do yourself a favor, and don't stare at men. Instead, let them stare at you.
You might ask, "how do I acknowledge a man's attention when he stare's at me". No matter what you do, don’t stare back. At best you can take a casual glance or two in his direction just to let him know you know that he exists. But remember, I said a casual glance, not a stare.

Dating Rule 2
LET HIM MAKE THE FIRST MOVE

The best and easiest way to ensure you spend most weekends at home alone and worse still, that you don't get any man to propose to you and as a result remain unmarried is to go about approaching men who catch your fancy. Ask men out, call at their homes and offices every day and when you eventually get to take them out, make sure you pay the bills as well and you would have effectively succeeded in putting them off.
If however, your goal is to get the

Dating Rule 3.
…AND THE NEXT.

Let's say you met this really great guy at a party or some function. You both got talking and he told you quite a bit about himself. You exchanged phone numbers and addresses. At the end of the evening, you both said your good-byes and you expected to see him again soon because you really thought he was cute. Maybe he even promised to call on Tuesday but it's now Thursday and you haven't heard from him. You're getting anxious, what do you do?
Well, for starters, whatever you do, dont dare


Dating Rule 6
DON'T RUSH INTO SEX.
To many dating couples, sex means love and many women say that the way to prove their love to a man is to sleep with him. This however couldn’t be further from the truth.
Men are easily aroused by a woman’s physical appearance and its easy for a man to be deceived by his senses or his mind to think his in love when in actual fact he’s only being carried away by his hormones. A man sees an attractive woman, walks over to her, gets acquainted and soon afterwards, he say’s he’s in love. Except a woman is well grounded in the basic dynamics of dating, chances are she’ll get carried away, lower her defenses and end up having sex with him when she shouldn’t.
No sooner does she do this than prince charming suddenly starts to notice how that she’s put on some extra pounds and he doesn’t think the relationship will work. The real problem is not her weight but the fact that she rush to the sex. The truth is she’s actually being dumped because she didn’t take time to be sure about what she was letting herself in for. Simply put, she rushed into the relationship, she rushed into sex.
When you rush into sex, you unconsciously inform the man you’re dating that you are cheap and up for grabs to any man who’s interested. He’ll most likely think you do the same thing with every other man too.
A friend of mine told me of her experience. She had been invited to a party by another close friend and while attending, had met a man she found rather attractive. They had got to talk, danced and eventually spent the rest of the evening together. After the party, they had gone over to his apartment and I guess I need not tell you one thing led to another and they had sex. That was the last time she ever laid eyes on him. He’s never bothered to call or even visit despite the fact that he’s got her number and her address.

Dating Rule 12
LOVE ONLY MEN WHO
LOVE YOU.

Don't waste your precious time and effort on men who don't love you. It's an absolute waste, instead work on men who love you and who you love.
A number of women spend their time and effort trying to get the attention and commitment of men who they're crazy about despite the fact that these men really have no wish or desire to be with them. Because these men do not love these women the way these women love them, they have no regard, consideration or respect for these unfortunate women.
When you date or fall in love with a man who doesn't love you simply because you feel he's the best thing in pants, you put yourself


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i keep hearing one story after another of women getting their hearts broken by one guy after another. i keep observation relationship around me and watching the women involved in the said relationships struggle to fix a relationship that was going nowhere from the beginning and that should either never have been initiated in the first place or should have long been abandoned because of the turn on event. one question that i tend to ask myself when i see women pressing on and trying to sustain a going nowhere relationship is, "don't these women get it? cant they see that they are wasting their time on a guy who doesn't send them?". finally i got to realize that too many women really don't get it. if you would like to know how to attract the right sort of men and to get yourself in the sort of relationship you want to be in (and i am assuming you want to be in a healthy happy relationship) just click on the link below and download the free e-book.

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men should make the first move boldly and directly while women can also make the first move stylishly and tactfully but a woman has to be careful with regard to the sort of men she makes a move on

i really dont think there's anything wrong with women being rich just wish they kept their pride and overacting in check as they achieve success.

its all about packaging

because the world is full of a lot of crazy girls like those on nairaland.  

well let me see, one dumped me on time, another slept with this guy who she said was just a friend and denied it until one day, the other had my engagement ring on while she was banging her school boyfriend, the, well what can i say, its hard to say which of my experiences was the worst

cos i'm the best thing that could ever happen to a girl really

well i have come to find that women make up their mind about the sort of guy they are interested in and the sort they are not. you cant chose for ladies, you just have to know the sort of girl you want and pray you find that sort

for wetin? i think its a very bad idea

Dude, this so daft of you ok? how d heck do you expect your girlfriend, That is (if you have got any) to be clean and smell fresh all the time like my GF when yourself you smell like Skunk.

You better learn how to respect woman morally, verbally and otherwise,

bros wetin now! na fight? wetin i talk now wey bad? abi your girlfriend own get odor too thats why you dey support dirtiness? please lets be frank, some women have this problem and it has cost some of them their relationship cos the brother they were dating could not complain about the bad odor but at the same time he could not continue to bear it so he broke up with her. i'm just trying to bring it to the notice of women that they need to be conscious of these things and as many as have not been taking better care should start doing so now. for all you might know, thats why some sister are not yet married; because of vaginal odor

Really i dont see anything wrong with the posters views, all he is saying is ladies should remain clean and tidy, anything wrong with that,

abi o my brother. or is it a bad thing for a lady to keep herself clean

i really don't know how to say this but there's is something that  i have noticed with too many of our ladies these days and that is the problem of womanly odor. i have even heard other guys complain about the same thing which makes me see that my experiences are not isolated. please ladies i beg you on behalf of the brothers, do your best to keep that place clean. i mean its not fair to us. how do you expect us to say it, "my dear your womanliness is smelling or sweetheart please do something about your body odor and your smelling mouth".
i doubt there is any polite way to say this so please make sure you check yourself regularly for any odors and take care of it. don't let us die in silence from the bad odor. 

ok how do you tell a girl that she smells down there without hurting her feelings

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double dating is really not a good idea. often has a way of back firing if you ask me

lie number 10 no other man will ever touch me after you

to the young men dating the older women i say "enjoy yourselves." to the older women dating the younger men i say, "get ready for heartache". well if your lucky, it just might work out but the odds are really not stacked in your favor if you ask me

for the ladies, love is finding a man with lots of money in the bank who is willing to spend it on her
for the men, love is finding a woman whose personality just blows him away and who understands him and is willing to be there for him through thick and thin.
for the ladies love is about what you have, for the men, love is about who you are

ask God to help you. i really dont know what to say

show her your dollar bank account and make sure there are a lot of dollars in it when you do

Sowee gurl it is not an insecurity thing, It is jst dat most very beautiful gurlz r not discipline, they r promiscous, lack character,

so there you have it ladies. its not all about insecurity, its the fact that most of the time fine girls dont have any else to offer but a pretty face. no manners, stupid pride, they cant cook, they are spoilt, in fact, they are usually a mess and we really don't want to add all this to the league of problems already associated with being with the average woman do we

pray my dear and God will connect you with the right person. but also work on your personality. love urself, be good to urself and believe in urself

i think if he had lots of money most women on nairaland would