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as a guy ur job as boyfriend is to give ur woman lots of money. as a lady ur job is to give ur guy lots of sex and food to eat.

well for me it doesnt matter if a girl is a virgin or not. for certain reasons i would preffer virgins and for other reasons i would prefer a lady who wasn't. the most important this is that she knows the diffrence between her past, her present and the future and that i am her present and her future. once thats the case, it doesnt matter if she is a virgin or not.

if i really cared about him or her and felt that my significant other wasnt lazy or a dollard i think i would go on with it and see how i could contribute to making things work for us. they have to be naturally industrious people though.

well i dont think i can do such. if a woman doesnt have the initiative to make something with her life when i am not there she will only continue to be a liability to me even if i get married to her.

generally speaking, a womans love is fickle.

i think u should take time to picture u and ur intended standing before each other on your wedding day and see how you feel about it. if you feel anythig but joy and fulfilment then you may have to talk with ur partner and arrange for a postponment of the wedding till ur are sure. try to figure out the things that are making ur feel the fear and see if u can resolve the issues. if you cant resolve them then your subconscious might just be trying to stop u from making a wrong decision.

thats easy, dump her

maybe but women are the originators of deception if you ask me.

yeah definately ladies are gold diggers, because i had an experience wit someone like that once which i truly loved.initially when i met the girl,she doesnt demand from me but later on when we started going out.when we got much closer she started demanding to the extent that even she almose told me to buy her a car and am always telling her am still young graduate just out from school but she doesnt want to listen hers is just get it , so i can say and really say that ladies are gold diggers

hope you know how to deal with this kind? you dump them before they wreck you.

i don't agree that men are bigger gold diggers. at best some men might be trying to pay women back in thier own coin. not commendable but at best. women are the masters in this game.

yeah, thanks to the women who tot us such bad things

at the end of the day women just believe what they chose to believe.

their love has expiring date

and it expires the moment they get some richer sexier guy

If someone who was struggling financially but had plans and took action to make his dreams come true and worked hard for a more comfortable future, that would be enough for me, I won't lie, a man who is wealthy, creates the picture of a comfortable life and retirement for a woman, and who doesn't want that.

yes we all like that but it would be nice if the woman contributed to making that dream a reality but doing something to assist herself rather than sit by and wait for the man to slave himself for her. i think it would be a more respectful and honorable stance to take.

not at all. just depends on how she goes about it.

bad idea my friend,bad idea.

men,i can see that u niger guys re really battling wit inferiority complext,yet u want 2 date n even marry a classy chic,well my advice is that u all ur minds shld renew.

hmm\.\.\.  classy chic   hmm  \.\.\.

its not limited to male bankers alone. female bankers are also very notorious for being flirts. they have to meet up with the target.

well you just leave her cos there really is no easy way to do it. just don't insult her in the process or add insult to the injury.

hmmm, women and i am sure she put down a more serious minded fellow for this bloke

i think its a dumb ass tradition and should be abandoned

a friend indeed that is sending love messages to your wife. men it looks like this civilization thing as promoted by women has turned men into mumu.

bad idea. dont try it. might sound like fun but once its done, your bleeped.

Thank you for your "consideration", but the women you've been drilling, and you yourself can make use of the "advice, si?

wow

but u still can't do without them

Really

really? i guess men have had enough of you too.

doenst look too good to me. looks like he may be thinking of chickening out of the whole deal.

the best way to win her back in my opinion is to forget about her.

I disagree

you would. its typical for women to be in denial

yea, and see how much good its doing our society, our marriages, and our eternity with God after this life. we accept all sort of crazy things all in the name of civilization or women liberation. we may deceive ourselves but God is not fooled. God does not change. God created an order and roles for men and women. if we change it, we will pay.

yes that may be true. gone are the days of true love and all thanks to women not knowing how to place their priorities. women should stop looking for loving, committed, monogamous men. after all, they started it.