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However,my point is,when a man REALL falls in love,and when a lady really falls in love,the man`s more intense and by far!

thank you my friend. that proves my point doesnt it.

kufreabasi i think you've giving some really useful tips for us guys and on behalf of the guys on niaraland who appreciate you advice i would like to say a bit THANK YOU! for the females who are trying to make light of your tips i would say take no notice of them. they are just being the typical female; always in denial. then again women really never know what they want so if all those women are hating on you and dissing you cos of your tips and you should be proud of yourself cos that most likely means your right keep up the good work men. if you ask me, you know what your talking about.

ok Ruby_Pearl, you answer that question now so we can all go home and get some rest, "are women gold diggers?"

they don't consider the fact that 4 d ladies to accept them, it is a great sacrifice.

is that so please tell me more. in that case i think women should stop accepting to date or marry men so that we can have some peace and then we would know who is doing who a favor. women act like they are doing you a favor by dating you but in my opinion no one is doing anyone a favor. she has something i want and i have something she want so if there are favors its both parties doing each other a favor

cos they are so bad!!!!!!!!!!

higher status, in order words, make a lot of money, buy a jeep and live large right?

really dont know about that, some are very cheap, some are just cheap and some play hard to get

i'll call her babygirl or sweetheart , whichever is more fitting then

if she is someone i love i feel terrible if its my fault and want to do my best to make it ok. if i dont love her on the other hand i cant wait for her to get up and leave so i can stop feeling guilty.

NOPE!! dont think there's anything wrong with you at all. in fact i think your very perfect. if you were married and were asking this question then i would be worried

yesssooooooooo!!!! especially when your a man. dont get me wrong though. i think at the end of the day some women love but its easier for a man to love than it is for a woman

They fall in love quicker and men fall in love harder. I guess women do fall in love. They are the ones that stay to take care of children. They are the ones that sacrifice for their family most times.

staying with the children in my opinion is not as a result of love. its usual as a result of a well calculated attempt to not lose out completely.

sorry debosky, didnt know you had already seen what i saw and addressed the issue

Nah, it must be fair both ways, I have heard though that women seem to get over their guys quicker because they let all their emotions out after the break up, whilst guys want to look big infront of their friends and keep it all inside, they don't talk to their guy friends and so it's all bottled up inside. They have to put up a front and that doesn't help in the long run. Women, let it out, cry, scream, diss the guy until they start healing. I mean it's 2 months after my breakup and I'm still on this forum!!! LOL! It's not true that women are unloving, neither is it for men also. It is totally dependent on the type of relationship, and the maturity of the person. A mature person will express their emotions and get over them, whilst someone else will put up a front (girls do this too!) I feel sorry for men, who cannot be seen crying over some girl, they have to bottle it up, and that can haunt and hurt them more over a longer period of time. Man, I wish my ex is still hurting (how bad is that), this is his doing and I don't want to be the only one.

lady i dont usually say this but you make very good sense and you just may be correct

Are women not human?. . . . . .

. , . . . . . . . . Shocked Do we not have blood flowing through our veins?

i think you should answer that question cos your a woman

The one who gets over you in 2 weeks, didnt love you that deeply (and no, i don't mean you, you)

thats what i am saying. women are the ones who forget you after 2 weeks. dont really think they love too deeply if at all. i think its all about what she wants or can get from you and not love.

i read a piece sometime ago that said when a man breaks up with a woman she cries for a week or two and forgets the naughty person (cos thats what he now conveniently becomes ) on the other hand when a woman breaks up with a man the guy is so heart broken that he's still thinking about her a year from the break up. my point is that the ease with which women forget the person they claimed to love makes you wonder if they ever really loved they guy in the first place or just loved the comfort or convenience they provided at the time.

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well i guess that's the way the cookie crumbles. girls like bad boys and ignore the nice, polite gentlemen (that's off course until they are ready to get married)

none. i think the personality matters most.

that depends on what you call a big deal. coming and going from time has its own cycle but i guess is still ok. moving in and not going again (or staying too long like a wife) is bad if you ask me. sort of takes something important out of the chase so if your not careful you will end up killing his intrest in you.

Cut off his manhood and feed it to a dog like him!then pack my bags,he wont call the cops,he'll b too embarassed!after al sit n try to c whea i went wrong, i mean, am too hot what would make him go to the househelp?

hmm that sounds like murder to me. the fact that your hot doesnt make everything ok. what if your hot and too busy building a career to have sex with him even once in a week or a month? it takes more than being hot to satisfy your partner. it takes knowledge, understanding and sacrifice

women are a lost cause so forget them

arent you taking this women thing too far?

ill hire some girls who'll give him sex so te when e hear wo, before woman e go take off!!!

thats a tempting offer if you ask me

cos you understand me, get along with me, have a flow with me, share laughs with me, have fun with me, do things for me, allow me to do things for you and love me like i want, need and long to be loved and like no one else can

they believe it part of the privileges of them being women. i think its dumb but i guess thats why they do it.

some are, some are not

i understand how you feel. it can be really tough getting over someone you really loved or love. however its achieveable and attainable. it often takes time but you will get there. not sure you ever stop loving someone you loved before. but i think you get to a place where its no more all that romantic mushi stuff with sexual undertones but it just becomes a plain love and appreciation of the person almost like that which you have for a brother or sister just a little diffrent.

its a tough call if you ask me and i think you have to think well before you decide.

seriously u would think that some women would learn from their mistakes but the truth is that it is not so. many women are so blinded by love that they do not read or see between the line believe me it is stupid. who in love could u be with e man that u can't read the red lights. in my own opinion i would say that women deceive them selves i would welcome a contrary view.

i think i generally agree with you

No housegirls in my house. Houseboys, houseboys, and more houseboys!

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