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cummando:
What?
Truth be said she sabi talk
But that's because she is a woman
And a journalist!!!
But why report her to the law?
I'm a christian but I am beginning to rethink my stance.Maybe I should just serve Jesus my way because these pastors are really contradicting what Jesus taught.
1. What happened to forgive your brother 70 x 7 times everyday?
2. If Jesus vex for those wey wan crucify am then shebi he will send better thunder wey dey twerk in the presence of the most high to fire Pilate and the pharisees so them go free am.....and by doing that no salvation for us.
3. What happened to being Christ like?
4. Since na devil Una tell us say e dey use them why don't Mr pastor just pray and let the devil be ashamed?
5. They told us trials will come....but we should stand fast....pastor this na trial....why not stand fast and look unto the most high as you've been teaching us?

Olunloyo deserves nuclear bomb from any body but coming from a so called man of God..... I give up!




Seun.....come teach me how to be an atheist! E be like say na lie these people don dey lie give me all these years.

if you where really a christian and u know that much to know he did wrong why then are you letting his actions drive you out? why are you concluding now that it's been all a lie? are they above mistakes? or are they the God your serving? will they not answer to God on the last day like every other person?

This brings me to Ur last statement, it's either Ur already an atheist or u just wanted to sound sarcastic to be relevant.

even Pope does many things I see wrong biblically but i won't say am leaving Christianity cos of him, when I know he's just human like me

Mimienudles:

Smiles. ...and Ur happy ryt

khiaa:
How do I give you my number?

already replied Ur mail

Mimienudles:
what's that nau

surprise looks* following that much?? no time for me sef

khiaa:
How do I give it to you?

okay

khiaa:
What does this mean? +

Absolutely nothing. lemme have yours then. lost it

khiaa:
I tried to call you but the message said that the number is a invalid number.

hnmmmm

bejeria101:
Our customer care president? We have peace let his body odour not change it.

lolz

Specialist900:
Let him come so we can save money he's been spending on phone calls

lolz. ..bros take am easy

Beamborla:
I think the best thing to do is to wait till both are calm then sit them down and settle whatever it is between them and should never ever forget to make it known that he's not pleased with his mother's action.

However, things like this don't just happen. There must have been signs of disagreement between them... An observant and wise husband would nip it in the bud before it matures into slapping. Where both are constantly at war, it would be unwise to leave them under the same roof alone.

your final sentence is golden in such situations but when it's meant to happen, will just happen even without your knowledge. These are some of the neglected areas that breaks homes everyday, you can see some comments up there.

I want to ask u personally, if Ur mother in law slaps u in front of Ur husband and he did nothing on the spot, probably waiting for both of you to calm down as u said up there, would you be totally okay with it?

Alero3Arubi:
I am not the husband kwanu. I am the wife nau.

ur opinion as a wife?

Alero3Arubi Ur opinion is needed here

HRHQueenPhil:
my mum slaps my husband, d way I will scream she would tink aM possessed. den again, my mother is not mannerless and my man would be too huge & thick to slap. His face wld be d type u tink 10 times before trying such.lol

many guys up there attached reasons to why their mum might slap their wife but you just talked about Ur mum not been mannerless (if there is any word like that)

so what you trying to say is a mannered mum won't slap no matter her reasons? ryt

HRHQueenPhil:
good question because all I see is men answering and dey sound like mummy wrappers, if my mother in law slaps me and my husband does nothing,I will simply walk away and never see her again unless she apologises cos I know my mouth. For my husband, if he scolds his mum and show his anger, I will make sure to be d best wife Eva but if he doesn't do anything, my respect for him will diminish dere. there is nothing worse in a marriage than realising you married a mummy boy and someone that cant defend u,its pain is unfathomable

lolz, seriously? mummy wrapper?

cindybaby22:
Lmao

clears throat

LadyB1195:
Lolz..... How old are you?

lolz, almost asked same

CaroLyner:
Take down that meme. Its disturbing.

disturbing? ?? you??

sabama007:
GBAM!!!

wonderful signature

khiaa:

still waiting for the call

BreezyRita:
Firstly, your mother has no right whatsoever to hit your wife. For what na? And as what? Even the husband shouldn't hit his wife na the mama go get dat kain power? She can't even slap my kid sef!

I cannot tell you what you should do but here's how I'll feel:
If my husband refuses to speak up there and then, I'll be led to believe he condones(even encourages) the act and that it was a plan between them.

So I'll expect hubby to tell his mother that slapping me was an extreme and unnecessary move. No matter the issue at hand, try not to take sides but make it abundantly clear that your wife isn't a child she can spank anyhow.

If a mother is still having such power in her son's marriage, it goes to show his level of maturity.

way to go. your last statement is hnmmmm.



don't know any mod would have loved to get more views on this.

lalasticlala (hope I got the spelling right) and oga seun please come take this to fp. Thanks

2kaybiel:
if she comes visiting, the following day she will leave for her husband house

lolz.....honest enough


but that doesn't solve the problem o

Ikem11:
My mom can slap me and I won't say a word.. So if my wife does same thing that result my mom slapping me and she slaps her I won't Stil say a word. After all na her daughter in law... Same as her daughter

guy has Ur mum slapped u before thinking u were guilty or a misunderstanding? tell me u av not wished if she wasn't Ur mum, what u would av done? Then think now that such happens with your wife and you think all women will just take it??

ybalogs:
Bro,the greatest rivalry is between your wife and your mum. Dealing with the two requires a lot of wisdom. In fact,it requires a lot of lies. Just utter what each if them wants to hear and move on. Trying to please one in the presence of the other may backfire so bro, God's guidance.

Am in love with this comment

BreezyRita:
Is a female's opinion needed?

yes please.

cobadit:
Though my mom can't do such(not an handicap) but if she does then I will do nothing because my wife must have done something very stupid to deserve that from my mom

A hot tempered mum meets a hot tempered wife? We all human and will do some not too cool stuffs sometimes.

You think rasing a hand on your wife(mum or not) is justified by what she did??

ybalogs:
Depends on the cause. But still, my wife won't be there when I'm taking my actions.

Smiles. ...well, how do you expect her to know what you have done or said behind her?? and what are the actions u will take??

xstry:
I'll scold her, but not in front of my wife.

hnmmmm. ...and your wife??

xstry:
Let it go

Smiles.....without saying anything to mum?

okay I need honest and matured answers please.


Edited: I /we need female opinion please

everywhere you go, pants down story.

Alero3Arubi:
No I am not my heart bleeds for only you eghosa. My ring awaits your lovely fingers.

Whoops