Jeon:
Because of the mind set of the useless NIGERIAN MEN.

Maxxim:
Don't mind the typos tho
I've always been a fan of Ubunja miseducation until I started examining all his teachings and practices, I have nothing against him, I'm just trying to clear you guys on some of the things you need to consider before taking into action some of his teachings.

There is this fact that our thinking and our sense of reasoning are quite different so this teaching can't be recommended to every guys out there wanting to grow a beautiful home in the future.

The very first time I read his epistles it was an eye opener for me because it creates this awareness by telling me more about what goes on every women's mind and how complex their thoughts are.

But then I realised following his lessons deep down will only lead you into
Losing your emotion (which is the essence of entering a relationship)
You lose being Compassionate.
You become a player by trying this method on every girls you meet.

Making some research further shows that if you keep following this pyscological tricks you'll never be able to build a healthy relationship.

So i tried digging into this matter after sometimes I realised most of we men out here are weak guys.
Most guys are boys in adult body they lack self confidence.
They don't understand the woman pyscology

Majority of us have been affected by social validation, been needy in every relationship and the lack of self reliance.

What I mean in essence is that most guys haven't gotten the time to study and analyse themselves.
Instead of liking the kind of person we are knowing we are the result of the actions we take and that other people will only advise us based on who we are externally instead of internally we try to please everyone's opinion.

When we lack self reliance we make the woman make most decisions which is what most women hate because no matter their social status they'll always need a man that can lead them.

Aside from that a needy man shows a woman that something is wrong
with him, that he is trying to just “get”
something from her. In short, that he cannot add value to her life,that he can only take value.

You can safely
bet she will avoid any type of intimate relationship with such a man, at all costs.

And most importantly some men don't have any purpose.
When it comes to having purpose in life it means having a reason of living, it creates a pathway towards your future ambition.
And so when a man lacks this and women senses those absent areas they're prone to become uninterested in you.

They've got to see proof that you have the potential to be a responsible man.

So as a man you've got to be yourself, improve your social life by becoming freeman, be authentic, turn on your masculinity then you'll always win the heart of women.

These are my thought guys I stand to be corrected if there's any need for it.

faithfull18:
The writeup has said it all.

Good, faithful, responsible men are scarce.


Other categories of men are available.

How come no lady has commented?

But if it's to bash guys the thread will be flooded already

kozmokaz:



She concentrated her anger toward Nigerian politicians and lifted that lol

advanceDNA:


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She could just be hòrný and see you as an available peñìs...

Choice is yours...
Choose wisely..

Jennyclay:
Broke men everywhere!!

Ladies should learn how to stay away from broke men. Broke men are the worst species living on earth. Puke!!

Alexgman1:
In every relationship i find myself i always try my best to please & satisfy my woman even to my own detriment but it seems no matter what u can never pls a woman. Only few women out there are sincere, loyal & faithful. My recent & 4th relationship was the most tasking. I fell inlove wit this girl out of pity & compassion. She was the 1st child of 14kids. Her mum is late & her dad is based in cameroun with his other 2 wives. I vowed to love & care for her & her sibblings as if they are mine. I sacrificed all i had to make them happy & comfortable. But the issue is she wanted everynight sex but i couldnt attend to her always. My work was time & energing cosuming so i can't over stress myself. After 1year & a half she left me & went back to her ex. It took me 5 months to get over it.
Recently i called her to come celebrate my birthday wit me. I took her to a fast food we eat & drink alot & she even ordered take aways 4 her sibblings. I took excuse to go & do POS & dat was how i left her to pay #24,000 bill.

GodsOwnMan:
Zubby is a very respectful human being even though he is from the red mud region.

MrBachelor:


We can not allow this kind of people to determine our future like they did in 2015 and put us in the mess we are now.

They don't know their left and right, else, who in his right senses will campaign for a Tinubu?

Viktorinox2:
Sharing this here for insights please.
Recently, I had a misunderstanding with my girlfriend long story short, after so much display of attitude and name calling I asked her that I wanted us to reconcile.she demanded for was 5k claiming I'm too stingy and all that.
Yesterday, I told her that I had sent 1gb of data to her, to prove to me she didn't see it she had to screenshot of the service reply and sent to me.
There I saw something that surprised me .
I'll attach the screenshot here . I feel she wants to use my head.

Thonia69:
All this relationship wahala, lol. Break up and join the singles club

Ifailed22:
I greet you all.

I have this white patches on/around my testicles for some months now. Truth is, it happened to me before which a chemist told me that it was a s*xually transmitted infection which he treated it that time and everything went back to normal.

But this time when it started, i thought it was the effect of how i use klin detergent to bath for like four days and it may disappear itself. but it refuse to go, when it started spreading, i tried treating the infection from that same chemist but nothing worked, i also tried other options including herbs but nothing seems to help the condition.

Now whenever i scratch it, my skin will be peeling off(not painful tho) and it's still spreading to a point that the hair on my private part is disappearing. i met a doctor yesterday and he told me i must do some tests. the problem is i don't have money on me.

i'm pleading for help to enable me cure this, i will provide pictures of my condition if necessary and i can also visit anywhere to cure this

Pls help

Youngsenate1993:
This is wat happened, 90% of the time she spent in my place was use for videos on my phone.

I never made any advances towards her, I only try to lay my head on her laps which she didn't allow me...

Note, we are not dating but Trying to know each other better.

Solofresh2:
You must be fvcking your dad to ask me this kind of question

Arkhanmu:
Hi pals,this is not a right platform to drop this but won't mind sharing this.Just barely 2 years ago,I got married to my wife and God blessed me with beatiful twin boys of almost one year now.I have been managing life back and forth after many unsuccessful attempts to get a gainful employment ever since I finished my degree in 2015.
I have done many odd jobs like security guard, cleaners all this while just to put food on my table but it's not really enough.Just last year I joined one of this freight company in lagos as dispatch rider which have been really helpful in putting food on my table all these months. I thank God for that opportunities.
Now what really warrant this write up was that I went to deliver an order at a popular restaurants in Lekki to a customer but the client turn out to be my secodary mate whom I last saw 12 years ago.The sadest part is that the guy just ignore me.Very true,my cloth looks dusty and unkempt due to nature of my job.I guess he does not want to associate with failures amidst his friend around the restaurant.
My soul left me that moment,I don't even know how I got home.I think suicide is only for the weak but no,the brave also have a fair share.Life is really not fair out here.
Four months ago ,I lost my mum to high blood pressure. Painfully I can't take her to morgue for embalmed till she start bloating before we decide where to bury her.See ehe,this experience I just encountered with my old class mate break me totally.
I have never feel suicidal like this all my life.The only strength that keeps me alive is my two boys am seeing everyday .At 32 years,my only achievements is my children.Omo life can be funny.I know people have story to tell,but getting an interactive encouragement from you guys can do much.

proff010:
Whatever he says doesn't matter to us. He was against jagaban before so all this thrash hold no water at all. Before it was bullionvan now it is Muslim Muslim. All I know is jagaban will rule us come 2023. Vote Apc.

Scamupdates:
I helped a mad man with 1k last night . he called me back and told me not to go where am planning to go, with the date i fixed (in yoruba). yes he his mad but how did he know what am planning to do with the day i fixed for it. not the religion type doe . .if i fail to show up at that day, trust me am going to losse almost what i cant get in 6 month.

Fahdiga:
Christians keeps projecting themselves as weak people.

NwaNimo1:
Wey Odumeje?

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....is he not part of the 'naira' crew again?

kenzysmith:
You met the gym instructor and your wife like this