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CrimeRe: "We Only Kill Black People"-unseen Footage Of A White Cop Talking(photos+video) by Aliii(m): 11:04am On May 27, 2020
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CrimeRe: George Floyd: Minnesota Police Officers Fired After Death Of Unarmed Black Man by Aliii(m): 8:22am On May 27, 2020
dalass:
Those frustrated white older officers are beasts...

They believe they can get away with blue murder and they have been getting away with many..

I pray they are tried and convicted for this not just dismissed.. Wicked souls.. undecided
any where you see Chinese man there's racist among them ,this people are evil wicked and vile.
CrimeRe: George Floyd: Minnesota Police Officers Fired After Death Of Unarmed Black Man by Aliii(m): 7:17am On May 27, 2020
Proffdada:
They are jealous of the guy's big diick
You can the Chinese descent cop too was protective
I don't think its entirely the big dick or so ,they don't see us as human,and they know if he die they will go Scot free..Chinese are just bad of a breed in human ..i hate those pricks ,they are the most racist shit ever .
CrimeRe: George Floyd: Minnesota Police Officers Fired After Death Of Unarmed Black Man by Aliii(m):
I watched the video ,its evident that the police meant to kill him at all cost ,even after checking his pulse by his fellow police confirming him dead the murderer still refused to take off his leg of him till the ambulance came and took his corpse ,its a very horrible way to die .Rest in power Floyd
CelebritiesRe: “if You Have Mind Come And Break My Heart” –lady Share Picture With Her Soja Dad by Aliii(m): 3:23pm On May 26, 2020
We go break your heart remain, nothing dey sup,you go still be side chick to d main chick ,after marriage we go still bleep you on a stead, carry your papa as escort , na we Arewa boys .
RomanceRe: I Finally Quit That Relationship With Irresponsible Girl by Aliii(m): 3:15pm On May 26, 2020
The amount of foolish girls we have in this country is even way much than our corrupt leaders .no atom of sense of whatsoever ,alot of girls we be unmarried as times goes because of their stupid selfish,wicked AnD unthoughtful character,may God help this young generation of girls .
BusinessRe: Ogbogonogo Market Asaba On Fire (Video) by Aliii(m): 11:51am On May 26, 2020
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CrimeRe: Ikorodu Cult Group Kills A Rival Cult Member (Disturbing Video) by Aliii(m): 11:45am On May 26, 2020
So cold ,a cultist must be seeing this please explain to us how you people feel taking someone else's life ,cuz right now I feel chills all over my body.this is someone son ,his life his carrier his dream of becoming something is being cut short..God have mercy..moral never you patronize this cultist..
RomanceRe: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by Aliii(m): 7:28am On May 26, 2020
Guy you need slap after the whole advice we gave you ,you still went to see her ? There's something wrong with you ,them say fly weh nor dey hear word naim dey follow dead body enter grave .
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Just Confessed She Fornicated Inside The Church by Aliii(m): 1:13pm On May 25, 2020
Lifedonor:
I will have to go straight to the point. The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and i bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early may, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone . we would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting. Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When i got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.
The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.
Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.
Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day

CC:

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Finestboy
are you really asking us if you should quit ?you should flee from that relationship..its so toxic and a lot is afloat that you don't know ..first and foremost she's a sex addict,she has high sexual libido you don't want to leave with a girl like that ,she can Bleep anything AnD everything when you are away and this things has high implications to a mans life and his children ..if you continue the warth of God will surely visit you and you can't wit stand it ..how can a girl make love in the church ..it shows how irresponsible she is .abeg ooo..a girl you make love to in less than 3 hours is still not OK for that day..just imagine one week ,she go rape person .
CrimeRe: Man Arrested For Defiling 10 Year Old Girl In River State. by Aliii(m): 8:20am On May 25, 2020
Mazigabriel:
middle-aged man identified simply as Nanso has been arrested by the police in Rivers State for allegedly defiling a 10-year-old girl.

The incident happened on Ekwulobia Street, Mile 3, Diobu, Port Harcourt on Wednesday, but the suspect was handed over to the police on Friday.

A resident of the area identified only as Ben said but for the intervention of a landlord in the compound who called the police, an angry mob would have lynched the suspect.

According to Ben, the suspect was caught by a neighbour while having carnal knowledge of the girl.

Ben said, “The suspect claimed it was not done by force and that the girl consented to it. He also claimed he only robbed ‘it’ (his manhood) on the surface of the girl’s private parts and did not penetrate. He claimed he asked the girl to close her laps.’’

It was learnt that the incident was revealed on Friday when the girl’s mother identified only as Christiana discovered bloodstain on her daughter’s underwear and enquired what happened to her.

Christiana reportedly said her daughter disclosed to her that a family friend, who regularly visited their house, attacked her and raped her when there no one was around, adding that he also threatened to kill her if she told anyone about what happened.

Sunday PUNCH learnt that after learning about what transpired, Christiana alerted the youth of the community after which they apprehended the suspect and handed him over to the police.

When contacted, the state Police Public Relations Officer, Nnamdi Omoni, confirmed the incident, advising parents and guardians to always watch over their children, especially at a period when sexual harassment was on the increase.

Omoni said, “Yes, I can confirm the incident. The suspect has been arrested and taken to the state Criminal Investigation Department and is being investigated.



“Parents should be able to monitor the movements of their children, especially the vulnerable ones so that they don’t run into the hands of those who might want to take advantage of them and have carnal knowledge of them.”

The state PPRO added that the command had recorded a sharp increase in reports of domestic violence as well as sexual harassment and was tackling them accordingly to ensure a safe environment for residents.

He said, “These are strange times, such that everybody has to be cautious. In a situation where residents are locked indoors, the tendency for social problems to arise is there. Within this period, we have recorded a rise in matrimonial and domestic crises; wives quarrelling and fighting their husbands, husbands beating their wives because when they are asked to stay together indoors. Temptations will come and some may not resist them. We also recorded a case of homosexuality at Oroworokwo where a man had unlawful carnal knowledge of a 14-year-old boy. The man has been arrested and is being investigated at the state CID.’’
what thought runs in the mind of men,I don't understand how a man can get aroused for a little girl ,without empathy you did stick that rubbish into her Virg*** without having a second thought ,ashawo still full everywhere ooo,AMD there are some women out there ,wanting to give it all to you for nothing ..
CelebritiesRe: Joy Tongo, Cynthia Morgan’s Ex-Manager Blasts Her. Claims She’s Owing $30,000 by Aliii(m):
GistmeBlog:
https://epicnaija.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Cynthia-Morgan-2-1280x720-1.jpg
Cynthia Morgan has been in the news a lot lately but this time around she's been dragged by her Ex- manager Joy Tongo. Claims she’s owing over $30,000 and seeking for self-pity. Photos below. I think there's a lot of cover up here. Time will tell.

From the desk of Epicnaija
she used to be very rude AnD nasty ,she has even stronger ego than burna boy ..anyways whoever is owing who should pay please
RomanceRe: This Girl Will Make You Cum With Is Twerking Style by Aliii(m): 5:41am On May 24, 2020
Masinga930:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I_n1W6YGaxQ
yes everybody must cum because cum is good .
RomanceRe: Nigerian Men Put Cocaine On Their Penis To Make Sex Sweeter - Kenyan Lady by Aliii(m): 5:34am On May 24, 2020
CHIOMAEZEH:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Jy4-mhZj3k

Nigerian men put cocaine on their manhoods to make sex sweeter and also get our women addicted - Kenyan socialite, Shornarwa

Kenyan socialite, Shornarwa has knocked down claims that Nigerian men are sexually active as they claim to be, while alleging that they ''intentionally put cocaine on their manhoods to make sex sweeter and also get women addicted to them.''



Shornarwa during an Instagram live video with media personality, Shaffie Weru, spoke about how several Kenyan women fall for Nigerian men, thinking they are sexually strong.

Shonarwa said she recently asked her followers to share their sexual experiences with Nigerian men, and she was left shocked by some of their claims.



During the conversation, she claimed one woman confessed that the Nigerian man she has been sleeping with is very good in bed, a claim which she said four other women countered, stating that these set of men deceive ladies by using other other things to make sex sweeter.



According to her, about four women confirmed to her that Nigerian men intentionally put cocaine on their manhoods to make sex sweeter and also get women addicted to them
any Kenya news trending on nairaland is all about sex ..no innovation.smh
RomanceRe: I'm Dating Her Friend Now She's Getting Jealous by Aliii(m): 5:42pm On May 23, 2020
Millenniumlady:
You fvcked up big time sometimes we ladies love it when you woo us like 4/6times before we'll give in better tell the new girl that you're already in a relationship before she came go back to her friend for peace to rain
weytin they do this one ? 4 to 6 times ,na lotto we dey play try and error,my dear there's a lot of issh on our head to be bothering ourselves to be wooing a lady 4 to 6 times,me I give it a try if you say no bye bye .
RomanceRe: If You See Her Doing Any Of These 3 Around You – It Means She Likes You by Aliii(m): 3:42pm On May 23, 2020
NengakGodwin1:
I'm about to SHOW you 3 commonly ignored signals girls usually gives so you can take advantage of them and easily "shoot your shot". 

But then, why am I qualified to teach you?

Well, my name is Nengak Godwin. I'm a dating coach for guys. And the founder of "Dating Secrets Hub". And inside the group I've been showing over 251+ guys how to attract pretty women & girls into their lives...and have a better "Sekz" life.

So far, my posts on nairaland has gotten over 14,047+ views and still counting.

And a lot of them have been coming back with awesome testimonies.(especially in my FB group). One of them, even came surprised that "girls are now chasing him". It's crazy.

But, I need you to understand this...

I'm NOT doing this for entertainment.

I want raise an army of super-driven guys who'll soon become so damn good at getting girls.

So if you're the lazy type. Abegi, just stop reading this. Because, I want you to pick up lessons from what I'll be sharing. Then, go out there and start practicing them.

Don't just read and relax.

So, with that out of the way.

Let's begin...


Let me tell you a short story. 

Back in the days. 

When I was in J.S.S 2 in high school. I used to be a very SHY guy. I didn't used to feel free to express myself around Girls. 

As in bah... Whenever I see a "fine geh" I have a crush on. My heart will start beating fast. And then, I'll start feeling nervous like say dem ask one dummy to stand in front of class to answer a hard question. 

And he knows they'll laugh at him for giving the wrong answer. 

But, fast forward to today. 

Omo. Nengak don get mind. Lol.

I fit stand in front of babe and talk to her like say na my junior sister. 

So, how was I able to overcome that fear of approaching girls I like? 

Well, it's a long story. 

I'll tell you some other time. 

Back to our topic. 

My guy. You see, most times, when a girl likes you. She can't just start coming to toast you directly. 

WHY? 

This is because, right from history. Up till date. In the African society... It's almost always seen as a taboo for a GIRL to openly tell you she likes you first. 

So this social conditioning has made them a kind of reserved. They'll do their best to hide their true intends even if they're itching to let you know. 

So how can you tell if she LIKES you or not? 

They usually do this using cues and some non-verbal ways. 

Let me break it down for you, my guy. 

Although, there are so many signs. 

But, I'll only show you about 3 of them today. 

1.) Giggles & Laughs: this is usually when you say something that is not really comic but she still finds it funny. Or at times. She just sees you and keeps maintaining eye contact for a while, then keeps smiling at you. 

2.) Hair Touching: girls are fond of gently playing with their hair around guys they have a crush on. If you notice a girl doing this when you guys are taking then she's likely into you. 

Now, this may sound too good to be true. 

But, it's psychological and it's something they usually do subconsciously. Without even thinking about it. 

I mean, they just can't help it. 

If you think this is not real... 

Then, it means you're too logical. And we're talking of girls here. I mean, tender creatures that are largely driven by emotions. 

Okay? So, f**k logic. 

3.) Communication: this is usually in form of verbal or non-verbal ways. 

For instance; she'll try so hard to talk to you. Or maybe, just ask you a question about something so you can talk to her. 

Personally, I've had several instances where a girl will even know something but deliberately ask me questions about it. 

They do this to know more about you. Or see if you're a potential date. 

So they can get close to you, more faster. 

At times, she'll ask someone your name and keep calling you almost everytime with a sexy voice so you can notice her. 

Let's say I meet her for the first time and I press her emotional buttons correctly(topic for another day). 

And then, I collect her number. And also save it with her name. And I leave. 

Before I know it...

She'll start calling me in a sexy way with my name. Whenever she sees me. 

Omo! 

The first time it happened. I was kind of shock. Until I later realized that girls like to do that to guys they have a crush on. 

Another Way Is... 

They start tapping your shoulder. Sometimes she'll even touch you gently and say something like; "Hi, how's your bla, bla, bla..."

Then pause and expect you to say something(which is why it's good to know how to start a conversation with girls...) 

Because, that will also determine if she'll start avoiding you like most guys or see you as a badass guy she'll like to kiss, date and even sleep with.

ALSO, here's the truth...

Knowing if a Girl likes you is not ENOUGH. She may show you "green light" today, and begin to "form class" the next day for you. 

Heck, she may even snub you and start calling someone who's close to you with sweet words like;

"sweetheart", "my love" "darling", and that's if you don't even see her kissing and sleeping with someone who's not even better than you... And that's why you need to bear these 3 things in mind.

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woman are complete bag of complications ,she can still do this andd don't like you ,girls like guys with good communication skills ,if you can hold them on a conversation,that's a plus for you ..you should dress nice and smell good ,its a turn on for them
FamilyRe: I Feel Depressed! My Cousin Beat Me Because Of N100 Biscuit by Aliii(m): 7:28am On May 23, 2020
Ebus12:
My fellow nairalanders
Good afternoon

I have been a member for close to a year now.... Even though I have been a guest for about 2 years before joining.

I have sought advice here twice and your advice has really helped a lot. Please help me once more my people

I just got admitted into a school in the south East while my parents live in the North.

My parents (my mum especially) pleaded with me to stay with her eldest sister and her children for a while, at least for my first year in school

I didn't want it at first ... But I had to agree just cuz of the way my mom was now on my neck.
She worried I knew nothing about the east.... She wanted me to get a bit used to the East

With the help of my dad..... She succeeded in convincing me to stay in her sister's house.

My first weeks in the house was quiet peaceful and fun not untill my cousin brother started looking for his biscuits

Funny right huh

It seemed funny that a 23 years old dude would turn out to be a devil just cuz of an ordinary 100 naira biscuits.
Mind you ... He is the only son
He asked everyone and everyone denied taking it. He asked me and I too denied it.... Cuz I didn't take it.

He beat hell out of me... Insisting I was the thief.
We became almost enemies and didn't talk to each other for about 2 months.
Aways from that ... We reconciled tho

But he still remained a trouble to my life
Always beating me as if am an animal.... He beats his sister too.

But it seems mine is worst
He has stopped me from sitting on a particular chair in the parlour.
He bullies me ... Telling me there is nothing I, my parents, or anyone can do to him.

I received the beating of my life today because the Tv remote got spoilted and he is insisting it's me. He accuses me of virtually everything that goes wrong in the house.

I'm getting sick, depressed and it's affecting me alot.

I don't want to disturb my mum about it ... It might cause problem between she and her sister
I don't want to be the cause of anyone's quarrel with another person.

I wish to go home. And I can't go back home now ... Cuz of the Corona virus and the inter state lockdown.

Please what do I do huh?
Help me out
He gets worst by the day.
I will advice you from experience,I once stayed with my aunty in Ibadan the plan was for me to finish high school there ,not because my parents were not well to do but because the lady claimed to like me and wanted I stay with her ,it was a had decision for my mum because she wouldn't want to let go her last born but my dad insist ,getting to Ibadan I saw hell the woman turn me to house boy she has a store where she cooks ,I was literally doing everything and not going to school,while her kids was going to school I watched her kids go to school everyday ..while I am in the kitchen pounding fufu,washing dishes ,she beat nonesense out of me if I mention school to her ,she only permit I eat once ,while her kids eat like 5 times and that once is very little ,sometimes I have to eat from scrap and remains of customers ..I was so scared to tell my mother because I think I we caused problem within the family ,they may call me devil for trying to break the home ,I thought no one would belive me ,my mum had to come visiting this woman bought new clothes for me ,started treating me well and and warned me not to tell my mother or else I we see ,I was so scared ,my mom ask me if I was OK there ,I told her yes with tears in my heart ..she left ...to cut the long story short ,I suffered there for years school I didn't go till one day ,I ran out of the house I went back home told my mom everything she cried and blamed me for not telling her ..I went back to school ,I have finish my university done my nysc now gotten a good job ,her children who entered before me couldn't finish ,so destiny can be delayed but not denied ,but the onus fall on us when it comes to delayed..imagine I've stayed there still in fear ,so my dear tell your mom so they know.
HealthRe: Help! My Sister Is Seeing Her Period The Second Time This Month by Aliii(m): 12:17pm On May 21, 2020
AcuraZDX:
Help! My Sister Is Seeing Her Period The Second Time This Month

Please Doctors in the house, my younger sister is seeing her period for the second time just this May.

She confided in me so I promised to ask questions.

She's 21 years of age.

She saw her period on the 4th of this May and today being 20th, she's seeing it again.

Although before she saw her first period, she was recovering from Malaria and that means she was on drugs.

Please this is a serious issue and it's giving me concern.

She has been staying with me in my house since the lockdown started and I can verge for her.

Please your kind advice is needed.

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she must be using postinor2 so much lately,to some it sieze their misera flew ,while some the get irregular misera flew .
RomanceRe: I Accessed My Gilfriend's Phone, Now I Can't Walk. Help! by Aliii(m): 7:44am On May 19, 2020
icetrimz:
I would like to go symmetrical to the point. But before i proceed, i will like to say sorry to whom it may concern. yes people i did it, i went through her phone. I broke the rule and went against my instincts.

in fact, im writing this with pidgin so as to carry the street along. so i invite ma babe come house today, the babe too cool, silent and has this innocent look and all. As she enter house, the first thing wey she ask me be say make i go buy her pad... i swear i shock. i nearly fall sef, but as a "niggarrrr" i no tok, i just waka jeje go buy am come, i even buy fruits join sef as a beta pikin ... lol [ well, im not laughing shaa o] I later move go market buy catfish cook for her, just to make sure Jesus is happy with me, his son.

so later in the day, i went to play around with the boys as madam dey "flight mode" I came back around 9pm and met her sleeping. I waka go kitchen go take something, then i see her phone for there with 8 missed calls from the same number. As a retired agbero i sensed something was not right about the calls. So i jejely and smoothly snicked back to the room and placed her finger on her phone sensor to open it. After unlocking the phone i went straight to the rest room to settle my curiosity. omo, as i open whatsapp, enter the caller name chat, naso i collapse.......... athink say na only that one, as i enter others naso i paralyze. what i saw was UNBELIEVABLE and beyond my mental absorption. the one wey one paddy dey complain give am say she no sabi suck preeq na im wound me. I lost my breath for a moment and nearly went to join my ancestors.

please help me. this is 3am and im still in deep pains, i cant seem to walk, my sight is going blurry too and i don't know what to do about her hereafter

please how do i get my legs working again so i can at least walk back to the room and sleep first??
oga you think say na only you be dey Bleep her ,oleh,Bleep your own move make sure you snap those tthings as evidence weh you see good babe you discharge her ,if she too talk you show her prove of her disqualification
FamilyRe: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by Aliii(m): 7:37am On May 19, 2020
slyfox35:
Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population, I had one too.

We grew up as teens together, matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us. My mom was really nice to him when she was alive. He wore my clothes and never returned them. I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.

Then the worst thing in my life happened. I lost both my parents within the space of four years.
Things turned downhill for me (orphans do suffer a lot.. Too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).

My friend travelled to an African country. He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there. I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure, I decided to man up, packed my bags and travelled to meet him.

Guess what? I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!

His attitude changed by the second day, he yells at me at every given opportunity, from his best friend, I turned to his boy, the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back, I get scared just by hearing his footsteps. I virtually turned to a nonentity to him. I had no money on me because the little I had left, he collected it when I arrived. I knew no one, I felt so miserable and alone and I started regretting why I left Nigeria.

On the fifth day ,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up. I don’t know what got into me (but I am glad it did), I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave. He did not even feel bad about this, he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country. He let me go.

I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street. Mind you, I had no one to call back in Nigeria... It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it, I did not spend even a night on the streets. I was shocked that a total stranger took me in, clothed and fed me. He taught me everything he knows. I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2 million Naira. This was like a dream to me (If you get money ehn, to praise God Dey sweet o)

I came back to Nigeria, rented an apartment, furnished it and continued working from here.

This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me (I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel, I said no, I am in my apartment. He was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened. I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.

What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy, if I come, na your house I go relax first abeg”

Now my fellow Nairalanders, I am asking, how should I go about this?

I have forgiven him but should I allow him into my home?
my brother ,I can see you are a good man ,don't let your kindness kill you ..for the heart of a man is evil ,don't let him into your house to stay ..be a friend from afar.
PetsRe: My Dog Hardly Barks by Aliii(m): 7:05am On May 19, 2020
magknox:
do you think it is too late to turn things around?
not at all.
PetsRe: My Dog Hardly Barks by Aliii(m): 10:58pm On May 18, 2020
magknox:
This is my Dog cardi a gsd, rot mix. She is 8months plus. I could count the number of time she has barked. I usually take her out for a walk atleast once a week. Any suggestion to make her bark at the site of strangers will be appreciated. She is too friendly.
you spoilt the dog ,that's why he don't bark and why he's friendly,I think when the dog was growing you didnt chained it you allowed it to be touched by everyone,the dog play with everyone ..so the up bringing is so bad ,I can see you let the dog to play around too much ,my dear for your Dog to be aggressive you really need to make it angry ,you need to put him on chain and never take him off from the chain no matter how hard it cries ,if you feed it 3 times change to two times .
RomanceRe: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Aliii(m): 10:48pm On May 17, 2020
funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.
I can't see the wife material you are bragin about there ooo.she is an idiot she has no right to get angry as such ,no matter what your mom told her ,a well trained girl would we keep her cool and call you aside if she can't wait till you get home and tell you her anger..you better run now this kind girl with anger issue one day will kill you with excuse of she's angry .
RomanceRe: What Happened Between My Girlfriend And My Mother by Aliii(m): 10:45pm On May 17, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Ehya,
That statement is very painful. It can make someone even commit suicide.


Now that you can't break up with the girl, kuku break up with your mama
ahahaahahahah mad ooo
RomanceRe: How I Discovered My Girlfriend Has Been Cheating: Pics Included by Aliii(m): 9:25am On May 16, 2020
Nonsoboy4life:
I will be straight to the point ...
My girlfriend of 3 years came to stay with me during this period of lockdown. She's been here for almost 2 months and I noticed she had changed completely from whom she used to be. She came all the way from Awka to Lagos because their work place is closed because of the pandemic.
These are the changes that made me to start suspecting her:
(1)we usually have intimacy as soon as we meet because we always stay for sometime before seeing each other, but this time around she vehemently refused and said later, someone who used to bump on me for that
(2) she started answering strange calls and even video calls
(3) she cared less about me and what happens in the house..she kept burning my food and infuriating me, something that never happened before
(4)She now said she has lossed the zeal for intimacy and we could stay up to two weeks before intimacy

Because of all these I was finding out how I can spy her phone because it is passworded...so I luckily saw when she imputed her password and noted it.She sleeps late normally and wakes late too.So I had to wake up one early morning before her and what I saw shocked me..My gal has been having sex with one guy like that severally and even receiving head from him(lol)..I don't even know whether I'm now the side niggar or not..I took screenshot of the whole thing but I have not shown it to her yet...I don't want to tell her anything, but she suspected I might have found out and has started talking nicely lately..How she might have guessed I have found out was because she wanted to go much later while I now encourage her to leave earlier, she's surprised at that...is been three days since I found out but I'm just tolerating her and waiting for her to go..This is a gal I looked up to getting married to but is all over. I will wait for her to get back to her location safely and sound before revealing it to her.
Thanks for reading embarassed
you need to tell her to go ,give her whatever excuse ,so she leave ,and secondly make her feel pain of thinking like she made you think,don't disclose it to her after she must have gone,start giving her attitude after she must have gone,don't pick her calls don't reply her chat ,and when you do give her lame excuse that you busy ..after a while she might ask what the issue is ,tell her you tired of the relationship ,and when she start to act up like being there for you AnD all that,then show her that ,tell her you can't be with such a LovePeddler
Technology MarketRe: Uk Used Iphone 6s 32gb by Aliii(m): 8:41am On May 16, 2020
Robjer:
iPhone 6s 60k
oga you go too hawk that phone .when you din hawk am tire,then you go know how much to sell ..nonesense .
CrimeRe: How UBA And Customer Defrauded Me by Aliii(m): 5:24pm On May 14, 2020
Why are you calling UBA here ,is it UBA that defrauded you ?stop spoiling the name of the bank,you were defrauded out of your own stupidity and foolishness.
FamilyRe: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Aliii(m):
etrange:
OP, I guess this is what you want to hear. Lads hating and bashing Nigerian women for the actions of some. As if we all hate Nigerian men for the rape stories we read everyday.
bros come Yankee make you know weytin dey sup..have you ever asked why they marry in Nigeria AnD never think of taking their wife along with them ,they will cuz you unnecessary problem..oga should have married someone else there, continued his life and send them money for up keep ,life continues..even his guys warned him ooo,he nor hear .
FamilyRe: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by Aliii(m):
I am already angry for matter weh nor be my own..bro seriously she's your end,you better leave now ,go to somewhere where she can't see you again ..then she knows what abroad is all about ,I hate Nigerian women they are a mess of themselves when they get abroad.

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