₦airaland Forum

Ekrenji:
Don’t think that by writing long write up is enough to evade my questions!
You didn’t answer any of my questions.
Let me ask you again.
The Quran itself says it is clear:
And We did not give Prophet Muhammad, knowledge of poetry, nor is it befitting for him. It is not but a message and a clear Qur'an"
-Quran 36:69

1. So if the Quran says that it is clear, where did it ask you to use the Tafsir to understand it? Please provide the reference

2. Did Mohammed author any Tafsir?


3. Are the authors of the Tafsir with Mohammed when he received the Quranic revelation for them to know the meaning of the clear Quran?

Ekrenji:
Is there anywhere in the Quran where it is written that you need the Tafsir to understand the Quran?

Who wrote the Tafsir?


Was it Mohammed himself that received the Quran that also wrote the Tafsir? If he was not, then who were the authors of the Tafsir? Were they with Mohammed when he received Quran? Did they receive the Tafsir from Jibreel too?

Ekrenji:
The verse didn’t mention “whoever dies”. Why are you adding to what is not there?

Feldie:
religious countries have the most corrupt and wicked leaders in the world, why is that? Why are countries like Japan, Sweden, Netherlands, Canada etc where leaders are not religious more advanced and less corrupt? Because people believe that if you do evil you suffer the consequences of your crimes but religious countries like Nigeria, Pakistan, Columbia, all other African countries are backward because the leaders believe even if their crimes are as red as crimson, muttering a few words would absorb them of their crimes according to their 'holy books'. That's why they rob us blind and go to church and mosque to make donations and pray

theophorus:
You no too seriously serious.
You want to talk Bilateral trade but Na Pa OBJ wen comot over 17yrs ago you dey talk am with abeg parkwell and tell you people say una come SNAP PICTURES NI.

Feldie:
Go and repay people you scammed instead of hoping that mumbling a few words to an imaginary daddy will absorb you of your crimes.
Religion is the reason our leaders are so wicked because they believe no matter the evil they do, their God will still forgive them and absorb them of their crimes if they kneel down and mumble a few words.

Ekrenji:
We are doing evidence-based discussion here. Is that Quran reference correct or not?

Sterope:
There was no context in your initial quote, you are just providing the context.

The verse you quoted earlier on was without context and does not provide enough explanation for non Muslims or other Muslims who are seeking guidance.

Sterope:
He forgives shirk too. Half of your religion started with pagans converting to Islam for goodness sake. That verse is for those who don't seek repentance. Shirk is a major sin.

There are sins that are forgiven without seeking forgiveness because they are expiated by good deeds. For example, each of the 5 daily prayers expatiate minor sins prior to that prayer but not major sins. Shirk or disbelief do not fall under that category unless you ask for forgiveness and you stop straying.

Ezyp:
My brother, I understand you are just being sentimental.

The question is, who will a man FIRST buy a car for: his wife or his mother?

As I wrote earlier, there are many layers to this discussion.

In the right sense, it should be the wife—not because he is disrespecting or disregarding his mother, but based on real-life priorities. Leave sentimentality out of this.

Your wife should not be jumping on okada or keke just because she has to take the kids to school, to the hospital when they're sick, or for her own check-ups when pregnant. Meanwhile, the mother-in-law, who barely goes out, has a car bought by the beloved 'son'.

Your wife is not just another woman. Your wife and you are one, not separate people. (I know this part will be hard for you to comprehend).

Again, you are mixing things up, or you don’t know the meaning of words before using them.
You brought up the word "despise." I never said a man should despise his mother.

(Despise means to treat someone as worthless.)

Funny how you classified me as current generation. My brother na me and you still dey this earth o. You and I are still the current generation of this earth o.

Quick question how often will the mother need to be jumping around to keep things in order at her elderly age? The son can arrange a driver to pick her up.

Your mother’s need at her elderly age is not to be driving around in a car. She has better priorities which the son can take care of without thinking twice. One of them is building a house for her. Car is the least.

Your responsibility as a man is to raise your family right, just as your father raised you. To do so, you need support from your wife. PROVIDE THAT SUPPORT.


Only a weak man has the fear that his wife will cheat on him.

Ekrenji:
All sins including Shirk? Does Allah forgive Shirk too?

LordIsaac:
"Granted salvation"? Christ has paid the price already. And whosoever believes in him shall be saved. John 3:16!

Ezyp:
Brother you are mixing things up.

To honor means to give respect. I never wrote that the man should disrespect his mother over his wife. Prioritizing your immediate family does not mean disrespecting your parents. His wife and kids are his main priority.

As a Christian, my Bible says : And God said, 'So a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and the two will become one body. '

Now the key words there are LEAVE and UNITING as one with his wife. (Forms an immediate family).

I understand the mother took care of the man when he was a kid and all that but my question is: What happened to the man's father not buying the car or why aren't you emphasizing on the man buying car for his father?

Also haven't you noticed these kind of argument are within certain kind of people? You will never see a wealthy family making these kind of arguments or talks.

Buying a car for your wife could mean your wife will be helping the kids to school or to hospital without the man doing that. There are so many layers to this. Your wife and kids are the man's main priority and responsibilities. The man's father responsibilities are to his wife. Let him buy the car.

Ezyp:
Why the father no buy car for he wife? Why must it be the son?

As a married man, your parents and siblings becomes your extended family. Your wife and kids are your immediate family. This statement is even biblical.

judatech:
She's A Chosen!

Mayflowa:
She hasn't said anything bad. What do men really do? They always get everything for their wives before their moms. It is mostly women that think of their family when they are married. Men want to do but never get around to actually do until their folks get old

doggedfighter:
This is not a competition.


You wouldn't want your wife backing a child and holding one while walking while you buy a car for your mother first.


Common sense already says who needs a car .

It's hardship that brings all these questions.

IfnobeGod20:
Who is Pandōra Obi? In all your comments you always try to malign with all your level of education.

andycom:
Coming from a dullard like you? He doesn't need your vote

Riskymarvelous:
so that tinubu can continue to destroy Nigeria ba Continue

haconjy:
PO Keep your money. These people doesn't deserve a kobo from you. They won't still vote you. They are cows.

crossbreedwears:
What's my business with who attempting to assassinate him? I gave you a point while he has no business with politics.