₦airaland Forum

stanluiz:
Nigeria security forces should block that Nigeria Cameron boarder in cross River, akwa Ibom and benue.

There should be massive security surveillance in those states that border Cameron. Nigeria customs should search any car and truck that is going out and coming into Nigeria.

Let us see how ipob will achieve that. Foolish organization that does not know anything about diplomacy, tact and wisdom.

You forgot that Unknown Gunmen has pursued the Military out of SE roads?

If they mount surveillance, UGM would still attack them as to make way.

When police stations are being burnt to ground zero, is it custom officers that would dare to confront UGM conveying weapons?

Try and be realistic naa.

I hope this is not Ruga pro max, because no inch of land in the South would be allocated to them.

I don't want to mention South-East, because even if they wish to buy land, it won't be sold to them.

I am deeply saddened by this incident that can best be described as tragic to all Nigerians and peace-loving people because Lieutenant General Ibrahim Attahiru and those officers that died along with him were top-level officers whose records of service were meritorious. .

It's not tragic to all Nigerians.

Apparently, he's a murderer.

He's not in any way better than the people he directly or indirectly killed.

Once the South is together, Their ulterior motive of Fulanization would definitely hit the Rock.

That's why they have been uneasy about the Asaba declaration.

A Dead man doesn't attend funeral.

vickydevoka:
I can only believe you if government start employing only men, and men will take over nurses positions and all forms of feminine job for them to be at home n be giving birth

Do you want to be in competition with women?
God never created Eve to be equal with Adam.

Scientifically, Women are not equal to men both physically and Mentally.

bunto:
@Aloof I truly wonder why men complain so much about women these days. Even the older men do it too.
There is this old man in my neighborhood. He has been complaining about his wife to anyone that would listen. The wife is just doing her thing. She is progressing, changing her car every now and then, taking care of her children and so on. Whereas the man's status keeps depreciating. He keeps claiming she is the reason he is like that because she emasculates him.

Men need to stop the bitterness against women. It makes them look weak and ineffective to the women.

Honestly bro, it's very disheartening.

Emotionss:
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No sir there are more heart broken women than men.
The problem is that the weaker men are wailing more than the women.

80% of men born from the late 1990s till date are mentally and emotionally weak. The internet age has made them weak and inferior. Any small heart break you see them wailing like spainles entities.

The most worrisome thing is that when you try to man them up by showing them the ways of our fathers, they start complaining and castigating the ways of Men.

The day I knew THIS GENERATION OF MEN are weaklings, is the Day I see BOYS taking advice from Women on how real men are supposed to act, reason, talk and behave.

The moment you hear a man start saying things like.

Real men don't do this, Real men don't do that , all in an effort to please a woman, then that entity is no longer a man but a living and a functioning SIMP with a potential to further demoralized men even further.

The Redpill and Mgtow movement can only advice you but they will never force it on you.

Exactly bro. "Real Men" is a phrase for deceiving weak men. Whenever we hear Real man do this or that, then it would definitely be something that would benefit the female gender.

Infact, it is finished!

LMS1:
Bro When U Roll With Bigger Boys You Would Understand,
I Have Like 2 Friends Who Give That Amount To Their Babe As Monthly Upkeep,
I Just Dey Laugh Them Say Nor Worry Bitcoin Price Go Crash One Day Then Your Eye Go Clear

Na why the complaints no go end soon.

100k for girl wey fit just wake up one day tell you say she no do again.. nawa for guys ooh.

AlexB300:
oga thats not all women are meant for na. Haba, give em some props

I'm afraid to say it's what they are meant for primarily. Expect much from them and keep getting disappointed.

These women have nothing much to offer by default, know this and have peace of mind

PAWG:
The reverse is also the case, stop acting aloof about it

Men own don too much for here oh

womenareapes2:
we don't complain about women, we complain about Naija girls

Very useless set of entity

Naija girls are way more useless than you think!
They got nothing to offer to humanity.
Ask a black woman (especially Naija women) "what are you bringing to the table" you will see those baboons stammering

Apart from sex what can a woman offer?

NOTHING!

don't waste your time on low standard black women (Naija women to be precise) rather date a foreigner!

Let those baboons date themselves

Las Las, Naija women don cast

mattfeuter:
You were doing good until you spewed this bull-jive.

No true redpiller comes online to complain about women, only betas like you!

I said claiming to be, that is Wannabes.
of course, no true red piller comes online to complain about women.

INDUSTRIALFAN:
Evolution told you all these by itself? Wwwaaaaawwww....

I told evolution

LMS1:
Oga Charles Dawin, If Your Woman Bill You Say N100k Monthly For Comsmetics, Data Sub, Hair Dressing Etc Would You Happily Give Her Even When U Know She Does Not Use The Money In A Productive Way?

Anyway Mr Secretary Isnt Botherd,
Some Of U Do Opposite Offline.

Haaa! She dey contest for miss world?
No woman would have the courage to Bill me for something like that.
Na person wey never get your time finish dey do lovey dovey you wan bill 100k for cosmetics?

BigYash:
But world people like you will still say women are everything. No body appreciates the effort of a man in a home.. Rather you will hear mother this,mother that.. Even when everything is done by the man..

Something is wrong with the society. Men suffer most times to keep their family going. Later, the mother would pocket the love of their children.

If the future becomes female, men will be finished

womenareapes2:
who told you that the evolutionary purpose of a woman is to give birth to babies and nurse them

Did you even go to school at all?

Guy! The day you stop thinking with your penissss is the day you liberated yourself from ignorance

Okay na, dey there. It's just disappointment upon disappointment. Keep expecting much from them, nothing do you

BigBashiru:
U go see girl where dey waka on her own for 30 minutes.... By the 30th minute she would have been approached by at least 3 guys looking for her phone number.... just by walking down the road.... the future is definitely female...

In addition open any newspaper, all you will be reading is stories of violence by men (95% male violence stories and 5% female violence stories) - so the future is female on this basis as well.....

Be calming down . The Future will always be Alpha males that understands the game of Life.

ThePlainTruth:
Well said but women should remember not all men are as rich as Bill Gates and they should not expect all men to be like Rambo if they do then they should look for such men to date and marry.

funny thing is that women doesn't look for who to marry, it's men that looks for who to marry.

But some men would just over impress the lady they wants to marry, if the marriage starts, the rest would be story.

merits:
Some men of nowadays only s'uck their mama brea'st for few months.so they are not emotionally matured like we real alpha male that su'ck our mama brea'st for years.indomie generation,indomie love, indomie reasoning that's why you see them look older than their real age.

you sure say na only indomie generation dey complain so?

Oweku:
10/100...u failed woefully...

Prof

GUNITGuy:
Get ready to bail this generations women out in later future when they begin to reap the rewards of their evils towards men ....I guess you are the saviour of Nigeria ladies .
Just start your ministry for their sake

guy if you understand my stance, you will notice that I'm not even siding the ladies.

I don't like as guys dey complain pass

Akuruoulo:
Stfu there. WOMEN ARE INTO EVERY RELATIONSHIP TO STEAL, AND WHEN U ARE DONE WITH THEM , THEY WILL GO WITH THE GOODY BAG THE HAVE STOLEN. MEN TEND TO LOSE ALWAYS, AND THATS WHY THEY COMPLAIN. WOMEN ONLY COMPLAIN WHEN THE MAN DIDN'T SPEND MUCH ON HER, AND STILL KICK HER ASS OUT.

Guy you funny. Make I obey you shut up Sha.

Akuruoulo:
U ARE A WOMAN JOOR

Gee forget matter, I no like as men dey complain anyhow, e dey pain me for body. Na these girls supposed dey complain.

Originalsly:
I do not agree guys here complain too much. They be straight up bitching. Women are wired different from men.... gasoline engine... diesel engine... both engines... different fuel... different output. Men.... fueled by testosterone.... women by estrogen and a little testosterone. Same way a diesel engine is wired to make wayy more noise than a gasoline engine.... same way a woman is wired to complain wayyy more than a man. A certain level of complaint by women should expected and tolerated by men.....but when it gets too much... it's no longer complaining.... it's bitching. Maybe the result of too much estrogen. Now when a man is complaining for simple stuff... we need to wonder how he is wired.... and when he be bitching.... we can conclude he is fueled by estrogen .... the kind of men we suspect.... men ... but not really men. Is a whole lot of this kind men .....sissy men. They try dating babes... babes discover they be sissy .... dump them .... they start bitching to the world... not knowing they just be exposing themselves. Nairaland need a section for these male bitchers......they too many now.

you made a valid point .

A lot of sisi men have found their voice online, calling all girls useless. That's the height of childishness

Emotionss:
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Gone are those days women cry about heartbreaks. With the amount of mentally and emotionally weak men we have this days, it is indeed sad to say the future is Gmail.

But again the reality on ground is different than what we read on social media.

G-mail ke I don't want it to be, that's why guys need to wake up. They are more heartbroken guys nowadays than ladies.

DONFRANSKID:
shut up brother I got none in my life
they are useless

It depends on what you call uselessness.

A correct guy that wants a lady just for sex won't say she's useless, because she's being of use for him to satisfy his Sexual urge.
If he doesn't want her Money, love, affection or whatever, then she's of use to him.

It's like you are looking for too much from women that makes you say they are useless.

What I mean is that, somebody that's satisfying your sexual urge is useful enough, unless you are gay or Vaseline geng

AfroKnight:
They way she relates with you is not solely dependent on how you treat her. If so, then men would not complain cos it would be about cause and effect. The complaints arise from undeserved betrayal.

Why do you think women perpetuate the excuse that they are generally attracted to “bad boys” as an excuse for betraying the trust of guys who treat them well? Have you seen bad boys come online to complain?

Those men have every right to decry the disloyalty. They should not be stifled or mocked because they are broke. They expected honour and dignity from the women who disappointed them. Simple.

Besides, why would you expect women to come out and complain when they have multiple partners, and receive gifts, trips, money and affection from all of them?

You don’t talk when your mouth is full.

That's where the problem is, "Overtrust".

When we talk about betrayal, we talk about a breach of trust we have for someone.

Men should realize that life itself is a game, not to talk of Romance. And in every game, their would be time to win and time to lose.

Once a guy enters a relationship, he should always expect the cons of it just like he's enjoying the pros of it.

When you trust a lady so much that you forget the cons, believing it would never go south, then you are living in denial.

When you don't trust a lady overly, even when problem comes up, you will handle it without lamenting because you already know it's a possibility.

What I'm saying is that Men need to be woke, women have beaten them on this game.

If being a nice guy makes you to lament, then become a bad boy.

Wouldn't it be better to be a bad boy that to be in Lamentations.

Jman06:
Life is not a straight road. There are bends and corners here and there. So, all men cannot act alike likewise women. Talk from today till eternity, you'll continue to see threads of men and women lamentations. The world will be soooo boring if all of us act the same way!

It's men threads I see regularly that makes me wonder what's happening.
Before, it's used to be women that complains of how all men are the same, and how men are dogs.
But now, it's Nigerian ladies did this, Nigerian ladies did that.
Is it a case of the hunter being hunted or what?

As for me, I see it as a thing of shame to be complaining about women.
Men are supposed to be on top of their game with women. So if a woman beats you on it, it's just to keep calm and nurse your wounds and come out as a better gamer

AfroKnight:
Are you broke-shaming them? Are they not human? Do they not have a right to date? They have a right to complain because they are being played by girls who think they should be paid for their affection.

Soon, the complaints will turn into resentment then you will also come to tell us men are no longer affectionate but are calculative unemotional heartbreakers.

Broke shaming? If what I just said is what is considered as broke shaming, then I didn't intend to.

Bro,
I don't know for other guys, but I think it's the way you relate with a lady would determine how she relates with you too.

If a girl feels you need to pay for her affection, why no just move on.

By the way, do girls not have something to complain of? How many girls have came online to complain that their boyfriend cheated on them or that he beats them.


Why always guys complaining most of the time like sisi?

Jman06:
All I see in your post above are so much generalization with no sound logic to back up your claims. Who told you that the evolutionary responsibility of women is just to birth and nurture If that is the case, then we can as well say that the evolutionary responsibility of men is to impregnate women.

There's no assigned responsibility for any gender outside the natural reproductive roles. It is humans of old that assigned roles based on their limited knowledge at the early times. Now, we advanced humans have seen that some roles that were hitherto considered gender specific can actually be done equally by both genders. So, in order to ensure a better and more egalitarian world, we now encourage gender equality and unlimited exploration of the potentials embedded within the female gender for greater good of society.

This discussion can take a whole thread.
Gender equality or not, men should stop expecting too much from women and stop the continues Lamentations.

How can a woman one claims to be dating be giving them so much headache that they can't even think on their own. Rather, they would come online and start seeking cheap sympathy.

Bashing women doesn't make one an Alpha male, if you can't handle the heat, then leave the kitchen.

How many women are even coming online complaining like that? We should stop encouraging sisi men by following them to bash ladies.